Michelle Perrin

Michelle Perrin

Michelle Perrin Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Nov. 9, 2008.
PERRIN, Michelle, S., 43, of Quinton, passed away Friday, November 7, 2008, after a long battle with pancreatic cancer. She was preceded in death by her father, Robert Lewis Stivers. She is survived by her husband of 20 years, Todd Orlando Perrin; daughter, Selena Blair Perrin; mother, Dawn Burnell; four sisters, Dawn, Belinda, Donna and Wendy; one brother, Robert Jr.; a host of sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, nieces and nephews; and a devoted friend, Missy Peters. The family will receive friends 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Sunday, November 9, 2008 at the Nelsen Funeral Home, 4650 S. Laburnum Ave., Richmond. A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Monday, November 10, 2008 at Highland Springs United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Virginia Cancer Institute.


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November 5, 2009

Diane and Randy Rock posted to the memorial.

November 20, 2008

Judy Knight (Former Co-worker at Hauni) posted to the memorial.

November 17, 2008

Cherie Ferrell posted to the memorial.

Diane and Randy Rock

November 5, 2009

Todd: When I saw you at Rockahock this past weekend, my heart just broke. I had no idea that Michelle was taken away from this nasty disease. I know she loved you and Selena so much and you were her life. May you and Selina always have each other and remember the good times that Michele brought into your lives. If you ever need anything, please let me and Randy know. I remember the first time I met you, Michelle and Selena. My granddaughter was visiting from Texas. Haley and Selena became friends and you and Michelle invited Haley into your camper to watch movies. I will always treasure that friendship. The girls were about 5 years old.

Judy Knight (Former Co-worker at Hauni)

November 20, 2008

Todd,
I just found out about your recent loss and I am so sorry to hear about you wife. My deepest sympathy and prayer are with you and your family. May God Bless You All.

Cherie Ferrell

November 17, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Jimmy Barrett

November 14, 2008

Todd,
I was very sorry to hear about Michelle. Please accept my deepest sympathy and know that you are in my prayers. Let me know if there's anything I can do.
Jimmy

Cherie Marston

November 11, 2008

I have not seen Michelle in years, about a month ago she came into where I work she told me she has been fighting cancer, but her smile remain the same. My heart goes out to the family. I lost my dad last year to blood cancer, it ripped y heart out. So I can only imagine how the family feels.
I went to Highland Springs High School with her, she was a fun person to be with.
Wendy if you need to talk, I'm here!

Cherie Ferrell

Vicki, Rusty, Sarah and Justin Bostic

November 11, 2008

Todd- I am so sorry for your loss. I know this is a difficult time but you and Selena will get through it. You have eachother and the support of so many friends and family. We will never forget Michelle. I have such fond memories of her.

Selena- You have a special place in my heart. I have watched you grow from the little girl who I coached in Falcon Flags cheering to the beautiful young lady you are today. You know that if you ever need anything I am are only a phone call away.

Crystal Saunders

November 11, 2008

Michelle i am so going to miss you at the pool some of the best times we ever had, other than Skateland, You were always the caring and loving one who could understand me and had time to talk no matter what. I love you and your family so much. God bless you Michelle Rest in peace my best firend. Love you Crystal Saunders.

VA.PREMIER HEALTH PLAN TRANSPORTATION DEPT.

November 11, 2008

TO THE PERRIN FAMILY WE WERE SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS.OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU AND FAMILY AT THIS TIME AND THE DAYS AHEAD.....MICHELLE WAS A BEAUTIFUL PERSON ALWAYS SMILING AND SPOKE ABOUT HER ONE AND ONLY DAUGHTER (SELENA)ALWAYS...LOVE HER VA.PREMIER FAMILY....SHE WILL BE MISS...

Jack Barrett

November 10, 2008

Dear Todd,

Very sorry to hear about your loss. Although I haven't seen you in a while, I remember you and what was then a new young family. Much time has passed and God blessed you with Michelle's presence for 20 years. Take care of yourself and your daughter. I'm sorry I could not make it to the memorial service. Your friend Jack Barrett

Mark and Lisa Wright

November 10, 2008

Todd and Selena,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Michelle was a great friend, a true tooper. I will miss her deeply. If there is anything I can do let me know. I will stay in touch with you.

Shelby DeShazo McGuire

November 10, 2008

To Michelle's Family,

I went to school with both Todd and Michelle and have had the pleasure to run into them and their family from time to time mostly at the cheering competitions. I will greatly miss seeing her and talking about old times from high school. She was a really great person and I wish I could have stayed in touch with her even more. I will think of her and the family are in my thoughts and prays. Sorry I couldn't make it to the funeral.

Judy Rowles

November 10, 2008

Todd and Selena,
There will never be another like Michelle. We had the pleasure of knowing her and your family through Claudia Martin(Dale and Kenny from the Roc) what fun and pleasure to have had the times with you all. Todd, our thoughts are with you and Selena- God Bless you both.

Judy Rowles
Donna White

David Summers

November 10, 2008

Perrin Family,
Please accept my most heart felt condolence. Michelle was such a beautiful soul. I will, as well as, the VA Premier Family will truly miss her dedication, smile and laughter. The beauty of Michelle is what you see is what you get. Michelle was as real as they come, no guessing about her position or take on any situation. Truly a class act and definitely one of a kind. May God Bless each and everyone of you and may peace find its way to your hearts.

Sincerely,
David

Donna Moore

November 10, 2008

Todd & family,
I will miss Michelle. Her humor & smile were contagious. Her time on this earth was much too short; I believe she is in heaven dancing with the angels. I hope you are comforted in knowing we are all grieving with you and lifting you up in our prayers.

Fostina Allen

November 10, 2008

To the Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Michelle's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you and Keep you, during your time of bereavement.

Sue Buck

November 10, 2008

Dawn,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

Kecia, Kayla, Christian and Cameryn Norrell

November 10, 2008

To the Perrin Family,

I had the pleasure of having Michelle in my life for nearly six years. Working under her direct supervision for 4+. Michelle's spirit was like no other as well as her compassion. I will always cherish the relationship I had with her especially outside of work. I keep with me the many talks of solace I received from her always presenting things in a different light :)

Todd and Selena, Michelle fought a good fight and has gone home. I will continue to keep you and your family uplifted in prayer always.

Many blessings to you and my sincerest condolences.

Wade, Lisa, Jessica & Megan Evans

November 10, 2008

May God, Family, Friends and beautiful memories give you strength at this difficult time. May beauty live on in your memories and bring you peace. Please let us know if you need anything.

Kristy Lawson Shaffer

November 10, 2008

To Michelle's family; I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Michelle and i were friends in high school and i had not seen her in so many years and it makes you wish that you would have stayed more in touch. I remember her as such a sweet and wondreful person. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Kim and Maureen

November 10, 2008

To the family of Michelle,
We are so sorry for your lost. This has been a difficult journey these past months for all of you.Michelle is free of her pain now. Though this time is rough, know that she loved you all and she will be with you always. She knew how much you all loved her. Wendy, we are only a call away, and we love you.

Sedonna Stevenson

November 10, 2008

To the Perrin Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at your time of sorrow. Michelle was not only a Great Boss, but my friend as well. I will always remember her smiling face.

Blake Turner

November 10, 2008

Selena,
Thinking of you and keeping you and your dad in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Love,
Blake Turner

Denise Manzelli

November 10, 2008

To all Michelle's loved ones,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that all of you are in my prayers.

Shannon Capehart

November 10, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Ronda Ray-Smith

November 10, 2008

Wendy my prayers are with you and your family.

Ronda

Nancy Davis

November 10, 2008

Todd and family, I am Larry (Gene) Davis' mother. You have my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May GOD give you the strength and courage to help you through this sad time. May GOD bless each of you.

Joyce Franck

November 10, 2008

Todd and Selena,
My heart goes out to you both. I am sooo sorry for your loss. Heaven is brighter now with a new angel. Michelle is now watching over you and is no longer suffering. May god be with you and your family in this difficult time. Todd I grew up with you and Debbie and I will keep you in my prayers. I Knew Michelle for long time as well. She worked with me at MCVP and her mom Dawn also. Dawn I am keeping you in my prayers as well. May God be with you.

Joyce

Gene Davis

November 10, 2008

Todd and family. I am so sorry to here about Michelle i know this will be a tough time to get through but you have plenty of friends to help you get through this difficult time.If u need anything at all or just need to talk to someone get in touch anytime.

Laura Penwell

November 10, 2008

To the Perrin Family and WeeWeeSue.

Michelle entered my life more than 15 years ago. I was finally able to meet her when I started working with her sister Wendy.

She always went out of her way to help when a problem came about.

Her smiles and laughter will always be remembered. She will be dearly missed.

I was very blessed to have had her in my life.

Steve Rocha

November 10, 2008

Todd & Selena,
Our deepest condolences on your loss. Michelle was a bright spot on this world. She will be sorely missed. Our memories of her are her smiles and sense of humor. God bless her soul and God bless you. The Rocha Family

Sharon Clarke

November 10, 2008

To: The Family, do know that Michelle is free of pain and may she now rest in peace. She will truely be missed by her family at home and also by her family at VA Premier Health Plan. RIP

David & Deanna Gray

November 9, 2008

To Todd, Selena and Family,

Michelle has touched alot of peoples lives over the years and she will dearly be missed. If we can do anything for anyone please contact us. When our father passed away in May, Michelle was there to help us with our grief and so we offer the same. We share with you our saying:

Your family chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same,
but as God calls you one by one,
the chain will link again.

Jimmy, Shelby & Emily Minor

November 9, 2008

Todd & Selena,

We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Michelle was such a wonderful and loving person. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you both.

Sharion and Tommy Binns

November 9, 2008

Dawn, I am very sorry to hear of the loss of Michelle,I know how very much you loved her , If there is anything I can do call me .

Gray

November 9, 2008

Todd, Selena and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time..God Bless Michelle for her love and courage in life, She is now home...safe in the Lords arms....


. . GOD'S GENTLE TOUCH . . .

We all have our dreams,
We all have our prayers;
But God has the answers,
If we trust that He’s there.

In the grand scheme of life,
In the wondering why;
There isn’t a thing,
That God won’t supply.

When heartache is constant,
And tears fall like rain;
Our Father knows always,
The depth of our pain.

Reach out to Him,
When all seems too much;
Be healed by the love,
Of God’s gentle touch.


The Gray Family

Lisa Marshall

November 9, 2008

Todd and Selena,
There are no words that I can say that will make it any better. Michelle was a great friend and Brooke and I are going to miss her so much. We still find it so hard to believe that someone so full of life and young can be taken away by such a cruel disease. We will keep you all close in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all Lisa, Jimmy and Brooke Marshall

Nicole Gilliam

November 9, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family
Nicole and Candace Gilliam

Laurie A. Cunningham

November 9, 2008

I worked with Michelle at MCV Physicians many years ago. She always had a smile and remained positive when the rest of us were stressed out. It was an honor to know Michelle. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mike, Michelle, Dylan, Taylor & Dalton Valentino

November 9, 2008

We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Michelle was one of the most sweetest people and always had a smile. Todd you and I have known each other for years. If there is anything that we can do for you or Selena, please let us know. Our prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

judy hamilton

November 9, 2008

There just are not any words to make it all feel better, but know what a gift she really is, I have known her just about my whole life, she's a good wife, mother and friend, her laugh will always be with me and I will miss her deeply,
if there is anything that I can do please call any day or night

God speed michelle

Wendy

November 9, 2008

Shelly, I'm missing you deeply, but, I know that you are finally at peace. Todd and Selena I love you both very much.
Love you,
Wendy and Robbie

Michele Wills-Shumaker

November 9, 2008

Todd & Selena:
I met Michelle when Selena started school in the same (K) class with my son. Michelle seemed to be super Mom she was ALWAYS there for Selena and loving every second of it. As the years have passed and our kids have grown Michelle has always been by Selena's side loving and supporting her. I will remember Michelle as a wonderful Mom that adored her daughter and loved her husband. May God bless you and help you at this difficult time.

Wendy Seay

November 9, 2008

Warm Summer Sun

Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.

By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation

Wendy Seay

November 9, 2008

God speed Shelly, may peace finally be with you. I'm going to miss you my friend. Todd and Selena God bless you both. I love you both.
Wendy and Robbie

Kathy Wood

November 9, 2008

My prayers and thoughts are with you...Todd,Selena and family... Michelle was certainly a true loving friend as she was a wife, mother, Daughter and sister. She is now resting in Gods loving arms and I know that she is finally free....I am here for you at anytime..

Love always,
Kathy Wood (Gray)

GARY & KATHY WYNN

November 9, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Mary Anne, Tom, & Megan Barnes

November 9, 2008

To the family,
You have my deepest sympathy. Michelle was a very good friend to so many people and was so easy to get along with. She was always willing to help others. She loved Selena and Todd with all of her heart. Now she is up in heaven, but she will always be here with you. Always remember the good times you shared with her. She really fought as hard as she could to stay strong! Please let me know if there is anything you need. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. You took excellent care of her over the past year as she went through way too much suffering...she was definitely too youg to go, but she is in a better place with no more pain! Michelle was surrounded by so many family members and people that loved her here on earth. Now, she will be your guardian angel shining down on you from heaven! May God be with you in the difficult days ahead. Love,

Amy Radford

November 9, 2008

Michelle - we are going to miss you so much! You will always be in our hearts. It has been an honor to have been your friend. You are the most caring, strongest, and bravest person I know. When it is our time to go, it is comforting to know you will be there waiting for us. May God provide comfort to your family and friends in their time of sorrow and grief.

Love Always,
Joey, Amy, Tiff, Crystal, & TJ

Donna Marshall

November 9, 2008

Todd & Selena,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you both in your time of sorrow. Michelle was a beautiful person inside and out, a loving mother and devoted wife. I always loved seeing Michelle smile down at the river and enjoyed our conversations. She sure did love you guys very much. She will be missed by all!! Please let us know you if all need anything!!

Donna, Kayla & Alyssa Marshall

Gina (Hale) Peterson

November 9, 2008

To Michelle's Family;
I am so sorry for your loss & what you all are going through, it just doesn't seem real. Michelle was an old friend of mine. I know this goes without saying, but she was absolutely one of the most sweet & uplifting people I've ever known....never down when I would see her & always smiling! God Bless you all & the whole community of New Kent & Quinton are here for you!!!

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