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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Nov. 11, 2008.

PAYNE, Thomas Wray, age 85, of Kents Store, Va., was called home by the Lord on Monday, November 10, 2008. He was born October 26, 1923 in Goochland County, son of the late Lynwood Thomas Payne and Annie Melton Payne of Kents Store. He was preceded in death by his son, Garland Wray Payne; and his brother, Russell James Payne. He leaves to cherish his memory his wife and best friend of 43 years, Marian Rosson Payne; two very special grandchildren, whom he greatly loved, Matthew Garland Payne and his wife, Sandra, of Mineral, Va., and Susan Payne Chaney and her husband, Philip, of Louisa; three great-grandchildren, Matthew Christopher Chaney, Joshua Wray Chaney and Katelyn Marie Hicks; one daughter-in -law, Laura Newton Payne of Kents Store, Va.; and one sister-in-law, Gretalee Leonard Payne of Hyattsville, Md. Mr. Payne was a lifelong member of Mount Gilead Baptist Church and a past Master of Cabell Masonic Lodge #328, AF&AM of Kents Store, having served as a secretary for 31 years. He retired from the U.S. Department of Agriculture with 35 years service in the Fluvanna ASCA office at Palmyra. He was a charter member with the Fluvanna Fire Department and served 28 years and gave eight years of service to the Fluvanna Rescue Squad. He was a charter member and past president of the Three Chopt Ruritan Club and held perfect attendance for 46 years. Mr. Payne also served as trustee, director and past president of A.R.C. Community Club at Kents Store. The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at the Sheridan Funeral Home, 4626 Cedar Lane Rd., Kents Store, Va. Funeral services will held 11 a.m. on Thursday, November 13, 2008 at Mount Gilead Baptist Church, 4768 Shannon Hill Rd., Columbia, Va., with the Reverend James Jetton and the Reverend Rick Wolfe officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery with full Masonic Rites. Sheridan Funeral Home, Kents Store, Va., is in charge of arrangements.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Rebecca Jetton - Robertson

November 13, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Rebecca Robertson

November 13, 2008

Marian and Family,

Very sorry to hear of your loss. I have always thought so much of you and Tom both. The both of you have meant so much to our family. He will be greatly missed by many. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Billy and Rebecca Robertson and Kids (Jetton)

Sheilah Payne Melton

November 12, 2008

Marian,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will never forget everything you and Tom did for me after my mother passed away and helped me through my teenage years. Both of you were there for me at anytime and took me into your home. I always felt welcome and like a member of your family. May God Bless and comfort you through this difficult time.

Judie Sacra

November 12, 2008

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Mae DeLong

November 12, 2008

Marian,

I was so sorry and surprised to hear of Tom's death. We had a lot of fun times years ago while we were running on the rescue squad(#49) ouf of Palmyra. Many days Tom would come to Ruth and my rescue on a call when we needed a driver.

I do hope the good memories will help you in the days ahead.

Lisa Perkins

November 12, 2008

Marion -

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will miss Thomas dearly, he was such a wonderful man.
We love you,
Chuck & Lisa Perkins

Bobby/Sue Loving

November 12, 2008

Marion please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

Betty Shifflett (Parrish)

November 11, 2008

Marion I'm sorry for the loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I didnt know Thomas but I knew you from working at Super Fresh. My name was Betty Parrish.

Mikel Johnson

November 11, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. I will cherish the memories forever. Brother Tom was a outstanding member in his community, church and Masonic Lodge. He was always willing to assist. His forever present smile, huge laugh, and strong handshake will be surely missed.

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