Barrett Joseph "Barry" Hayes

Barrett Joseph "Barry" Hayes

Barrett Hayes Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Dec. 6 to Dec. 7, 2008.
HAYES, Barrett "Barry" Joseph, 42, of Henrico, Virginia. The gates of heaven opened and Barry took the Lord's Hand on Thursday, December 4, 2008. He loved his family, his fiancee, and her daughter, as well as his many loyal friends. He also loved fishing, music, the Dallas Cowboys, and a good party. Barry was a 21-and-a-half-year heart transplant survivor and courageously fought the good fight. He was a kind and gentle man who never met a stranger. He could make anyone laugh during the worst of times, even in his own. He was a longtime employee of Lippy's Auto Service. He will be missed by everyone who knew and loved him. He was preceded in death by his father, James L. Hayes; brother, J. Lee Hayes Jr.; his maternal grandparents, Barrett Joseph Trainham and Cassie Trainham Hairfield; paternal grandparents, Albert Lee Hayes and Louise Hayes Cardwell. He leaves to mourn his passing his beloved fiancee, Sherri Lynne Hudkins and her daughter, Hannah Mae Hudkins; his mother, Josephine "Jo" Hayes; two sisters, Beth Hayes Traylor and husband, Randy, and Margaret Hayes-Shrewsbury and husband, Kenny; one nephew, R. Lee Traylor Jr.; two nieces, Iris Traylor and Rachel J. Shrewsbury. The family will receive friends 6 to 8 p.m. Saturday, December 6, and 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Sunday, December 7, at the Mechanicsville Chapel, Bennett Funeral Home, 8014 Lee-Davis Road, and where funeral services will be held 1 p.m. Monday. Interment Signal Hill Memorial Park.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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December 12, 2008

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December 11, 2008

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December 8, 2008

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Michael maxey

December 12, 2008

Mrs. Hayes, I am sorry to hear about Barry I just found out today I usually do not miss these things. I would love to see you if you are up to it, please be strong and god bless. Tell everyone I sayed hello and would like Beth's number have not seen her for ever. with all my love Mike Maxey. My number is 543-8353

Jerry and Mary Fones

December 11, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Carol Satterwhite

December 8, 2008

Dear Jo,
Bill and I are so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. We can't imagine how your heart must ache in missing him. Losing a child must be the hardest thing to ever endure and you have had to do it twice. No mother should have this much pain. I know that there is a special place in God's Kingdom for you.

We love you,
Carol and Bill Satterwhite

Priscilla Slaughter

December 8, 2008

I am sorry to here of lose. Your family will always be in my prays.

December 8, 2008

Mrs. Hayes, Beth, Margaret, Sherry & Hannah,
Our prayers go out to you all at this time and for much time to come. Only God can heal and comfort you. Seek Jesus for he said, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” God will comfort all of you through each and every minute. We love you all so and cherish every moment together.

Love the Timberlakes

Linda (Roger) Dennison

December 8, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Kathy Williams

December 8, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss.My brother was Barry's best friend and I know Barry helped him a lot when he got down here. My brother Harold is going to miss him very much. He was always talking about his friend "BARRY". I met Barry a couple of times and he was a sweet man.
All of his family is in my prayers.
Harold's Sister.

Sheri (Toney) Millikin

December 8, 2008

My thoughts & prayers go out to Barry's family and many friends. He was a great person to have grown up & gone to school with and though I lost touch with him after school, I knew he was a tough guy with an absolute heart & soul of gold. He really & truly never did meet a stranger, could make anyone smile &/or laugh and was just an overall wonderful guy to have known. My very sincerest condolences. He will truly be missed.

Missy Daubers Inc.

December 8, 2008

Sorry for you lost. He was a wonderful person. Always enjoyed seeing him when he was at at Lippys

Lacey Kemp

December 7, 2008

I've known Barry for a long time and he was one of the neatest/jaming people I knew. I remember riding in his honda civic and tearing up the trails at the dump. I also remember bringing him donuts after his transplant. Barry was a great person and will be missed.

J Vitale

December 7, 2008

Barry you will me missed. Rest in Peace.

Carlene Wiseman

December 6, 2008

Jo my heart breaks for you. I only wish I could take some of the pain you are having . I will keep you and the girls and their families in my thoughts and in my prayers. Knowning our Heavenly Father will keep you in his loving arms. Love you.

Juanita Brooks

December 6, 2008

Jo,
We are so sorry for your loss. We know your heart is breaking right now but know we are here to do anything we can for you. We are praying the Lord will wrap you in His loving arms and give you the strength you need to get through the next several days. You are so very precious to our family. We will see you soon.
Love Kevin, Juanita, Mindy, Michelle & Jack Brooks

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