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Fletcher DuBois
April 11, 2009
CYCLING THRU
Copper gold the color of the sun
The racing bike with all those gears
You had to learn to change
Years and years ago and all the same
You still know what you saved up for
And how it was the joy and pride
Of a boy who sometimes wanted nothing more
Than just to ride and ride and ride
And now how good it feels
The wind upon your face
Carried by the turning of those wheels
From Place to Place
With all that’s there to view
Cycling thru cycling thru
And thank heaven for the tandem too
Where you and your love can ride as one
Taking the road together just as it comes
Each willing to share the load
Through the valleys up the hills
Going from where both of you've begun
To the ending of your day
Sharing in the colors of the sun
These were planned song lyrics that then somehow, of their own accord, transformed themselves into a poem to be spoken. I wrote this for Carl and for Carl and Barb in 2007. I'd asked Carl about his early memories of riding a bike I buildt some of what he told me into this. A lovely serendipitous moment was when Carl and Barb and I got to see each other again several years ago in Heidelberg where I live...what did we see on an ordinary street at no special event- a tandem with a couple cycling through.
I am writing this now right around the time of the memorial event today. I met Carl when we were freshmen at Kenyon. What teachers he and Barb have become for me regarding what it means to be brave and to live compassionatly and well.
All the best to all those who are missing Carl but also feeling deep gratitude for his life and what he has given us.
Fletcher Ranney DuBois
Karen Bryant
March 11, 2009
I had the pleasure of meeting Carl in 2004 when residents from the VCU Preventive Medicine Residency Program were assigned to work under his guidance. He was a kind and inspiring MAN who will be missed. Know he is with our Father: "My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me. 28 And I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand. 29 My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand." John 10:27-29
Barbara McKee
March 11, 2009
Barb, I am so pleased I had the opportunity to meet you and Carl. You both have been an inspiration and have made me realize how precious life is. I thoroughly enjoyed the bike rides we shared and Barb, know that there are 3 cyclists in Newport News that are ready to ride whenever you are up for it.
Sending you and your family love and prayers.
Phyllis B-Griffith
March 9, 2009
My condolences to the family of Mr. Carl Armstrong. I have had the privilege of working with his daughter, Charis, who is simply wonderful! My prayers are for peace and comfort to the family.
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Tom Ryan, MD
March 9, 2009
Dear Armstrong family members, Just as you will miss your son, husband and Dad, I, like so many of his colleagues, will miss a friend and collaborator. I had the good fortune to work with Carl, primarily in his role at VHHA....determining the best ways to engage physician leaders around the important work to be done in health systems. We also enjoyed talking about running and mission trips to Haiti. Nothing can equal the void left in each of your lives, but this Commonwealth and its inhabitants, its medical professionals and hospitals, are all better places because of the life that Carl Armstrong MD lived! Tom Ryan, MD
David Jenkins
March 9, 2009
As a fellow VHHA co-worker, I had the pleasure of working with Carl on a limited basis, but enought to know he was an extrodinary human being in many ways. We often spoke about his bike riding trips as this was a hobby we shared and always brought a smile to his face.
Patrick Haggerty, MD
March 9, 2009
We will greatly miss Carl in the field of Infectious Diseases and Epidemiology.. I have memories of Carl (in 1984) coming over with his computer that fit in a small suicase, the screen 5 x 5 teaching me statistical analysis of epidemiologic data. I was a 2nd year fellow in ID at MCV and was quite grateful to him for taking the time out to share his expertise.. Now as CME director at our hospital in Newport News, I have had him speak at our Grand Rounds and everyone greatly enjoyed his presentations. I will miss Carl on a personal and professional level, my deepest sympathies to his family.
Lee Peebles Bereavement Counselor
March 9, 2009
On behalf of all the staff at Bon Secours Hospice and Palliative Care we wish to extend to the friends and family our deepest sympathy and ongoing support. We hope and pray you will find peace with time. Please feel free to contact me anytime if I can be of help.
Katharine Webb
March 8, 2009
Dear Armstrong Family, Words are inadequate for telling you all how much your kind, thoughtful, gentle, funny, strong , inspirational father meant to all his colleagues throughout the years we had the privilege of knowing and a double bonus working with him. He was a very special man and will hold always a profound memory for me in my head and in my heart.
Keith and Brenda Ring
March 8, 2009
Barb, Amelia, Charis and Matt.
Brenda and I share our unequivocal love for Carl with each of you. We will miss him deeply. He will forever be in our hearts. Our cherished memories of times spent with all of you will be his everlasting legacy. God Bless.
Dan Dickinson
March 7, 2009
Most people, most of all Carl, will probably never know the magnitude of persons he touched in such a kind and respectful way. I knew Carl well at VDH and have not seen him in years. I always associated him with the highest level of integrity, professionalism, and warmth that every public official should aspire to. His legacy will long outlive his watch.
Cathy Lyon
March 7, 2009
Because of our son Carl Keith, we met Charis. Because of Charis, we met Carl. And because we met Carl, we got to know, for such a brief time, what a wonderful person he was. His courage and strength through hard times are inspiring, and remembering that will carry me though anything I might have to bear. Everytime I hear a Kingston Trio song or a Smothers Brothers sketch, I will be reminded of him.
Peace and love to all the Armstrongs.
Ed Dunn
March 7, 2009
I will always remember Dr. Armstrong with reverence and respect. He was an outstanding Medical Director when he was here in Piedmont and an exceptional man in all respects. He will be greatly missed.
Donna and Fred Newman
March 7, 2009
Barbara--Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you face the significant loss of Carl.
Peace be with you.
Your neighbors
Donna and Fred Newman
Randy Lyon
March 7, 2009
It was an honor and pleasure to know this wonderful, caring and dedicated man, as well as to be a part of his extended family.From the very first, we felt that in Carl and Barb, we had new best friends. In addition to the obvious and numerous contributions that Carl made to this world, he has left a lasting legacy - a man's true legacy is his family and by that measure, Carl has left the most wonderful legacy possible. Thank you Carl and Barb for your gift of Charis.
Chris and Sandee Bailey
March 7, 2009
Carl was a cherished colleague and an inspiration -- a generous, kind and wise soul who will be greatly missed.
Ed & Laraine Gallagher
March 7, 2009
We truly are sorry to hear of Carl's passing. What a joy it was to have known him. He was one of the good guys and he will be missed by all.
In sympathy and love, Laraine and Ed
M. Jones
March 7, 2009
A message of comfort to the family,
May Our Heavenly Father comfort you and grant you peace to help you to cope during these difficult days. I offer my sincere condolences to you all. Psalms 34:18.
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