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Edward Hamby Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Valerie Hamby
March 30, 2010
Dear Dad,
Well it's spring again and boy have you missed a lot in the past year. I wish you were here for me to lean on and talk to. I wish you were here when I needed to vent or to lean on someone. I still listen to you singing to me on my voice mail. It's still not the same. I guess the truth is you don't know what you've got until it's gone. I miss your kind words and your strength. I miss you saying to me "Do you want Me to come up there and take care of it". I miss so many, many things about you and who you were. I do believe there is a lot of you in me. I think you'd be proud of me and the things I've accomplished this year. I just wish I could hug you again and to have you say you'll get through this or to hear you call me your buschski again. Someday Dad, some day I'll hear you again. Until then I have all of the wonderful memories that you gave to me and the things that you taught me. I Love you Daddy and will always Miss You. Val
Valerie Hamby
July 10, 2009
Dear Dad,
It's taken a while for me to write on here. I never realized how much I needed you in my life, like I do right now. You were always there with that great big smile, with a hand to hold, and a laugh that would make anyone smile. I had my surgery, and God did I miss you through all of this. You would have been there every step of the way, holding my hand and letting me know that it was all going to be ok. I know you were watching over me, but it's just not the same without you here. I talk to you a lot now, and I truly hope that you can hear me and wish like heck that you could answer me. It's funny how things work, you know? I still listen to you sing to me on my voicemail, just so I can hear you, and read your text message to me telling me that I am the best butchsky a Dad could ask for, and yet it just doesn't ever seem like enough. I often find myself asking why, why us? Why our family? But most of all why you? I know that I have to get on with my life, and I know that everyone is pretty tired of hearing me go on about how much I miss you, but yet, I don't know when the pain will go away. You see, you were more than my Dad, you were my friend, and part of what made me who I am, and without you, I don't feel complete. You use to tell me I can do anything, and be whatever I wanted, and I hope that will be, because when all is said and done, I want to be just like you. Thought you'd never hear me say that huh? Yes sir, I want to have your heart and your strength, and be everything that Mom and You were and still are. I'll write again soon, but please know that not a day goes by that I don't wish you were here or wish that things were different. I love you Dad always!
Nancy Braunstein
May 28, 2009
My brother was loved by his parents whom he is with now. To everyone else we all grow old, but not to your brothers and sisters. We look at each other as if we are still in our youth. We know each others hearts. We share private jokes. We remember family feuds and secrets. Family grief’s and joys. And in doing this these moments will never be lost to his brothers and sisters. They will live forever in each one of us. If you just met Eddie for the first time, you instantly had a friend. Eddie could talk to anyone at anytime about anything. And as most of you know the party didn’t get started until Eddie showed up. Whether it was playing bocce ball in his backyard. Wearing his reggae dread lock hat drinking bahama mamas. Or him getting out in the middle of the dance floor showing us all his moves. The last time I spoke to Ed not wanting to see anyone cry and always trying to keep things light, what does he say when he sees me in classic Ed‘s Voice he says “Oh, man!” I think that if Ed were here today he would tell us all to live life to its fullest and to have fun. Eddie will always be in our hearts.
Valerie Hamby
April 26, 2009
Dear Dad,
Well last night we celebrated you in style. You would have loved it. Mom and I shared a limo. Nothing but the best, right? I stood in the center of the party, and I swear I heard you laughing with everyone. I know that you were there, watching and laughing with everyone. I still miss you so much. Every day I listen to you on my voicemail, and still talk to you. I wonder if you hear me, and hope that you do. You were an amazing father, husband, but much more. You were an amazing friend. I saw last night just a sample of how many people you touched. There was not an empty seat in the room Dad. You were so loved. You really did touch everyone who met you. I hope that one day I will have touched as many people as you had. I love you Dad,always your bushski and will always keep you in my heart.
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Lee Lypka
March 22, 2009
Dear Kass, Val and Ed, We are so sorry to hear of Ed's passing. He was such a great guy. We loved his humor and looked forward to our visits here in Cape Coral.Stay strong and remember he is watching over you. Love Alice Pace & Lee Lypka
Missy
March 18, 2009
Kass, Eddie and Val,
As I am writing this I can hear Ed's hardy laugh. He always had a story to tell me especially when it came to hunting. After 23+ years Ed and I continued to keep our friendship going thru the years. We didn't have to talk frequently because when we did it was if we just spoke the day before. Ed's life was his family. I am going to miss my buddy terribly. May you rest in peace Ed.
Nikki Bonino
March 15, 2009
Mrs. Hamby, Val and Eddie,
I don't even know where to start. Saying sorry just doesn't seem to be enough. Mr. Hamby was such a great man and he definitely left his mark on everyone he met. Everyone is better for knowing him and he will be remembered by so many. The great memories can hopefully help you through this painful time.
Love,
Nikki
Ed Hamby
March 14, 2009
Dad, Thank you for being the best father a son could want or ever need. You were my best friend and I thank you for that. But more importantly you taught me the importance of things. Without you I would not be the man I am today. I miss you terribly, but you are forever with me. Love Eddie
Valerie Hamby
March 14, 2009
Today has been a week Dad, and I still can't believe that you're gone. Right now, you'd be rushing Mom and I to hurry up and get dressed so that we could go to breakfast. I plan on writing you a note on here, but haven't built up the strength yet to let you know just how much you meant to me. Just know how very important You and Mom are to me, and that there will never be a day that I won't miss hearing your voice or being able to give you a hug. I Love You Dad and will always be your buschki
Amy Brumgard
March 13, 2009
Dear Kathy, Valarie and Little Eddie,
I remember sitting on the steps at your house in Philly one time talking with Big Eddie and you Kathy. I think it was shortly after Valarie was born. I don't remember where Little Eddie was. Everyone was having such a great time. I pray that those happy memories are with all of you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Wayne Scarborough
March 13, 2009
Val,
You have my deepest sympathy. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
Rbs
March 12, 2009
You are one in a million and your so loved. I will miss you everyday. Love,RBS
Don Hargenrader
March 12, 2009
Val,
I was very sorry to here about your father. You and your family are in my thought and prayers.
Richard Furniss
March 12, 2009
Val,
Deepest condulances to you and your family. I know this is not an easy time for you, but we are all here to help you if you need support.
Rich
Rennae Sweda
March 12, 2009
Eddie & Coleen,
Thank God your little treasure Jake has come to know his pop-pop.
He loved him dearly ..... Bless you forever
Joy Donovan
March 12, 2009
Val,
I wish I could be there to hold your hand and give you the biggest hug. Your Father was an incredible man with a heart of gold and had the power to make anyone smile. I will miss him dearly and I hope that one day you and your family's tears will turn into smiles with all the memories of your Dad. May God be with you and your family.
wendy harper
March 12, 2009
Your joy in everything and positive attitude were infectious to all around you. What a gift to have had our paths cross in Warminster and again in Florida. Although sad beyond belief at our loss of you, I know you are with God and looking down at all of us. Offered the Mass this morning for you and peace to your loving family
Sandi Elliott
March 12, 2009
Val,
Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Thom Mignella
March 12, 2009
Val,
I'm here for you, let me know if you need anything. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
March 11, 2009
Mrs. Hamby,
You are in our prayers and we will always be here for you. God Bless this wonderful family
Doctors Clinic - Medteam 1
Tammy & Danny Lopez
March 11, 2009
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. I will always remember the happy times looking at gators and taking lots of pics on Lake Okeechobee .
Stephen Neafsey
March 11, 2009
When we moved to Warminster they lived next door to Mom-mom. I remember only so clearly l5 years ago I just loved the family and spent time with my brothers enjoying learning to make bow and arrows ,learning to fish and knowing love thy neighbor. Ed was very special in our lives and as we grew he kept up with us .Ed ,you will always be part of our lives. Thanks for looking after our mom-mom. Paul,Stephen,,Jonathan and Marcus
Jane Dillehay LPN
March 11, 2009
We are so terribly saddened ,it's devastating for all of us. I only can think God needed him more than we. Rest in peace. May the Lord Be with you.
Bill & Dorothy Barber
March 11, 2009
God be with you. Ed will be missed by all who knew him.
Marcus Neafsey
March 11, 2009
My heart goes out to you and your family at this sad time. It was a gift to see him over the summer and he was truely a man of high spirits who brought joy to everyone.
Sandy Gap Retreat Mountain
March 11, 2009
Thank the Lord we were welcome to enjoy Ed on the mountain. All the Sandy Gap Retreat will play Boccee Ball and Barbeque for you.
Jack Hackney
March 11, 2009
Kass and family,
God Bless You and Keep You in His Prayers
Millie and Jack Hackney
Joe Donato
March 11, 2009
Val-
With deepest sympathy to you and your family. Friends are here to help, just let us know.
Taylor Creek Condo.
March 11, 2009
We will miss you at Taylor Creek Condo. You are in our prayers.
Smile upon us,buddy......the fish are jumpin.
Taylor Creek Residence
Doctors Clinic Sweda/Stottlemyer
March 11, 2009
How difficult to write this.....
Only God knows why.......
I wish someday for answers to a dreadful disease. CJD we will conquer
Rennae Sweda
March 11, 2009
Val,
You will always be a spark in his beautiful eyes. I love you
Nora Pangborns
March 11, 2009
Kass and family,
May God Bless You
Patricia and Charles Blaser
March 11, 2009
Kathleen, Valerie and Ed,
So sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
Stan Sweda
March 11, 2009
With deepest sympathy our hearts go out to all of you.
Stanley Sweda, M.D.
and the entire Med-team 1
Okeechobee, Fl.
Helen Belsky
March 11, 2009
Kass,Val,Eddie,Coleen and Baby Jake,
You are in our prayers at this difficult time. I thank God for our friendship and love we shared .The most compassionate,generous,fun,loving ,wonderful man. To my BEST FRIEND ,you are a treasure and inspiration in our life.
"Don't look back, look ahead" "Life is way to short" "Enjoy paradise" I'm Florida bound.
Love, Helen and Rennae
Doctors Clinic Staff
March 11, 2009
You will be greatly missed. You brought so much joy to peoples lives and know one will forget that. You are forever in our hearts, with us forever in spirit.
Rennae & Stan Sweda
March 11, 2009
Oh man........ We can hear your happy heart,see your big smile and your bright blue eyes. You will always be with us. We love you and will be saddly missed. Dr.Stan & Rennae Sweda, Okeechobee, Fl.
Bill Jones
March 11, 2009
Val I just want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have been where you are, not so long ago. I know how you feeling. I know right now it doesn't seem like it but time will help ease the heartache you are feeling now. My prayers are with you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Bill Jones
Siemens
Mariah Drenth
March 11, 2009
He was the best work out partner a person could have. It was about 7 years ago that our paths crossed at that darn LA Fitness. I consider myself blessed that I was able to get to know him and stay connected. He was a wonderful man, husband, father and friend. He also knew how to live the retired life..something I admired greatly in him. He lived with no regrets and that should be a lessen to us all..he lived life to the fullest (even with 2 titanium knees)*smile*. He will be greatly missed.
Jim Harper
March 11, 2009
Ed was such a nice guy - always willing to give a helping hand. He will be remembered in our thoughts and prayers - may his family find solice in all his good works
Doris Schornstein
March 11, 2009
My most heartfelt condolences to your family. He will always live on in your heart and your memories.
Robert Staszewski
March 11, 2009
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
SHERYLE (SAM) IRBY
March 11, 2009
Just know at this most difficult time that the Lord is with you and your family. May you hold the memories that you share close to your heart. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts an prayers.
Respectively yours,
SAM
Robert DeCristofor
March 11, 2009
Val, I am very sorry for the loss of your father.
Jeff Martell
March 11, 2009
Val, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bob Lewis
March 11, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Linda Johnson
March 11, 2009
Dear Val, I was so sorry to hear about your dad. I lost mine 10 years ago and I still miss him. Keep all those good memories in your heart and stay strong. Linda J.
Stefan Roberts
March 11, 2009
Our prayers are with you and your family.
Stefan
Cindie Beans
March 11, 2009
Valerie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Nancy & Frank Homolka
March 11, 2009
He was a man, who could make friends any and everywhere. He was the person who made everyone feel included at family gatherings. He was the life of the family. We will always have him in our hearts...by each happy memory of him- from bbq's,bocce ball, horseshoes, bahama mama's, - with him in his bohemian hat with dreds..him downloading his music, singing and dancing around. He made us all have fond memories together as a family. It has been a very sad/difficult time and it will be very different with out him. He was loved by his sisters,brothers,nieces and nephews. He will be missed very much by his family and friends.
Dwight Jones
March 10, 2009
Our Prayers are with you and your family.
Nikki Bland
March 10, 2009
Wishing you strength and peace during this most difficult time, from a fellow CJD survivor. May God bless your family and may your memories bring you comfort.
Eileen Tell
March 10, 2009
Dear Kathy, sending love and support at this difficult and sad time for you. Our hearts go out to you and hope that your loving family, adoring friends and many happy memories can help sustain and support you. You are a strong lady with a heart of gold. Love,
Eileen Tell
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