Pamela J. Long

Pamela J. Long

Pamela Long Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Aug. 30 to Aug. 31, 2009.
LONG, Pamela J. Long, 40, departed this life August 27, 2009. She was a native of Newark, N.J. and Nyack, N.Y. After relocating to Richmond, she worked for Anthem, the City of Richmond Department of Utilities and Social Services Department. She leaves to cherish her memory, her beloved son, Ashton Amir Anderson; devoted companion, Marshall Anderson Jr.; devoted mother, Ruth Long of Richmond; father, Lloyd Long of Roanoke; goddaughter, D'Ajha Winstead; extended family, Patricia, Marshall Sr., Roxy and Marquise Anderson; and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, other relatives and friends. Funeral services will be held 12 noon Wednesday, September 2, at Community Independent Methodist Church, 12033 River Rd., Chesterfield, the Rev. Pate Pearson officiating. Interment in the Brown Family Cemetery. Family members and friends are invited to pay final tribute to Ms. Long online at www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com or at the establishment. Funeral arrangements entrusted to the staff of the J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment Inc., 102 South Ave., Petersburg, (804) 732-8911.


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September 4, 2009

Desiree Hollingsworth posted to the memorial.

September 3, 2009

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September 2, 2009

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Desiree Hollingsworth

September 4, 2009

I would like to send my deepest condolences to the Long family and her son. Ms Long was a very sweet and funny person and she will truly be missed. We love you Ms Long.

Mews Family

September 3, 2009

My Deepest Sympathy to the Long family.

Andrea Toogood

September 2, 2009

My condolences goes out to Pam's family and her son Ashton. Although she's no longer with us in body, she will always remain in our hearts. This is a time to celebrate her life. I am thankful the lord gave me the opportunity to meet such a genuine, caring, funny, and determined person. Pam you are certainly admired and no secret you are my hero. I truly feel blessed to say Pam was one of my good friends. I met her when I came down here from NY about 8 yrs ago. I will truly miss you. I love you!

Hope Redd

September 2, 2009

Family,

My deepest condolences are extended. I had the pleasure of meeting Pam through a mutual friend when I resided in NY. During those occassional outings, I remember Pam's smile. She was a sweet person and I know she will be truly missed. I'm so sorry for your lost...

Joyce Sanford-Taylor

September 1, 2009

May our GOD of peace and love bring you comfort in your time of sorrow. We may not understand why GOD decided to take her at such a young age but just remember that GOD doesn't make any mistakes. Take comfort in his word. He promised never to leave you nor forsake you.

Keisha Kearney

September 1, 2009

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Long and Anderson Family. Pam will be missed but never forgotten as she is and forever will be an Angel. Family find strength in knowing that Pam is in Heaven and that she is watching over you all. I could always count on Pam to lend a listening ear no matter how much time elasped between our talks she always made sure that I knew I had a true friend and for that I am thankful. My prayers are with you all. May God Bless you and keep you!

Doris Charity

September 1, 2009

To the Long family and Ashton ,

My deepest sympathy during this diffucult time. I got to meet Pam through my cousin Pam , She was a wonderful person to be around , always kept a smile on her face and was full of laughter. My thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of grief. May god continue to strenghten you.

Jean Austin

September 1, 2009

My Deepest Sympathy to the Long family and Ashton.

I had the pleasure of meeting Pam when I worked for the Department of Public Utilities. God brings people into your life for a season and a reason. I admired Pam strength and determination during her illness. Through Pam I was taught that nothing is impossible to achieve or attain as long as you have the love of the Heavenly Father in your life. She truly showed me what being a Christian is all about.

Remember: Pam is only a prayer away.

Miriam Owens

August 31, 2009

To the Long/Anderson Family,

May God continue to strenghten and keep you during this time. Pam was a wonderful person and a great friend. I will miss her, but look forward to seeing her again in Heaven. She was both incredibly funny and amazingly stubborn! I will always remember her that way. May the peace of God that passes all understanding be yours, now and forever.

Charlotte Georges

August 31, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Pamela Jones

August 31, 2009

To the Long/Anderson Family,
I had the honor of working with Pam at Anthem BCBS. She was BEAUTIFUL person inside and out. Her humor and friendliness was extraordinary! My heart aches right along with yours but know that there is no pain that God can't heal.Let God who is the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, comfort you at this time. She may be gone but NEVER to be FORGOTTEN! May God bless, restore and be with you all!

Danielle Dailey

August 31, 2009

To the Long Family and All Who Knew and Loved Pam,

My very deepest sympathy and condolences. I hadn't seen Pam in years but I have fond memories of her being fun and giggly and that's how I will always remember her.

God Bless and keep her beloved son Ashton.

August 31, 2009

god bless you and keep you in his care and watch over your son

oscar j. butler

Beverly Gibson

August 31, 2009

I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother and your daughter, Pamela Long. I enjoyed her every day while she was employed with the Depatment of Public Utilities. She had me laughing every day with a customer or something she had done. She was very positive in everything that she said. Her wish was to see Ashton graduate from high school. I am glad God sent her Ashton to keep her strong and to make her a great mom in such a short period of time. Keep her memories with you. May God keep each of you in His loving arms to heal the hurt and the pain that will subdue only with His love and trust. God bless you.

Lisa Bourdeau

August 31, 2009

We are deeply saddened to here of your loss.We are also saddened.Pam was a welcomed friend/sister in our home,She would suprise us on occassion @ Thanskgiving with her wonderful son Ashton.We will always have her in our hearts.She will be deeply missed.

Michael Rozzell

August 31, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Long Family. Pam was a dear friend who i will miss dearly. I think of our days working together and Anthem and all i can do is smile. I know she''s in a better place now. She will always be in my thoughts.

Siobhan Branch

August 31, 2009

To: Ashton, Ms. Ruth & Mr. Long, my thougths & prayers are with you during this time of bereavement.I knew Ms. Pam from she & my mom working together for the city. Ms. Pam always had a smile on her face when I saw her & I knew I could always count on her coming to a party for my son w/Ashton in route behind he.r Ms. Pam used to always say that our sons favored each other & alot of people thought they were brothers! I will miss seeing her smiling face!

Dominique Bourdeau-Oscar

August 31, 2009

To the Long Family,

May God give you peace and be a comfort during this sorrowful time. My deepest condolences.

Pam, my oldest and dearest friend, my little sister, my girl, my shopping marathon partner, an inspiring friend, who made you feel like you could achieve anything. God's gift to all who had the pleasure to know her, a picture of His love and Almighty power. She will be forever in our hearts.

Sheila Medley

August 31, 2009

To: Ashton,Ms.Ruth,Mr.Long & Marty, My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. We all have our special memories of Pam and I will miss talking to Pam everyday at 6pm just to see how our days went. I will miss her always.

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal.
But love leaves a memory no one can steal.

Wilma Marsh

August 31, 2009

The Long Family,

It is always difficult to loose a loved one, especially when it is your child. My deepest sympathy and condolences to the lost of your child and Ashton mom. She will be missed by all whose life she has touched.

Rose Haboush

August 31, 2009

My Deepest Sympathy to the Long Family, her son, Ashton and her devoted companion, Marty!

I had the pleasure of knowing Pam when she worked at the Department of Public Utilities. I learned so much from her. She had such positive faith, humor, determination and a sense of fun in everything that she did. I loved being around her. God Bless all of you and I will keep you in my prayers.

Kim Yancey

August 31, 2009

The Long/Anderson Family,
I had the honor of meeting Pam whenever she would come to Johnston Willis for her test. She always had a smile on her face and was always positive. I didn't get to know her like some others but I could tell by her smile that Pam had alot of faith and she was a fighter. Pam rest in peace,Ashton your angel will be taken care of.
May God's love and peace substain you.

Peace love and blessings.

Gale Davis

August 31, 2009

To the Long Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I worked with Pam for a brief time at Hielig Meyers and still would see her from time to time. She was a sweet person and a wonderful mother. May your memories of her give you comfort.

Derek & Bridgette Parham

August 30, 2009

We are so sorry to hear the loss of your dear love one. Our hearts and prayers goes out to the entire family.

Glenda Kennedy

August 30, 2009

The Long Family,
May the love and peace of God sustain you during this time and forever more. I had the joy and pleasure of working with Pam at the City of Richmond, Public Utilities. She always displayed a positive attitude in spite of her illness. She was an amazing mother to her God sent blessing, Ashton. She will be missed.

Takeda Woodson

August 30, 2009

Words could never express the pain I feel in my heart at a time like this. I ache for you and the loss you are feeling. My condolences.

Pamela D. Jackson

August 30, 2009

Mr. & Mrs. Long ,

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
We all know that Pam fought her fight to the very end .. she amazed me how she lived each day to the fullest in spite of her illness. Even when she really didn't feel like doing some of the things that she did she ALWAYS made sure that Ashton was well taken care of and had the happiest childhood that ANY child could ever wish for .
Pam will be missed so much .

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