Thomas P. "Tommy" HARWOOD Jr.

Thomas P. "Tommy" HARWOOD Jr.

Thomas HARWOOD Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Oct. 1, 2009.
HARWOOD, Thomas P. Jr. "Tommy", age 80, of Fort Lauderdale, Fla., formerly of Richmond, Va., died on September 27. He was a retired judge of the Virginia State Corporation Commission (SCC), where he served actively for 19 years from 1973 to 1992. Prior to his election to the SCC, Judge Harwood served nine years as a member of the Industrial Commission (now the Workers Compensation Commission) of Virginia. Tommy was born in Green Bank, West Va., and grew up in Crewe and Saluda, Va. He graduated in 1950 from the Virginia Military Institute, where he was a member of the Class of 1950B. He was a Distinguished Military Graduate, recipient of the Algernon Sydney Sullivan Award, and four-year monogram winner in baseball as a pitcher. He entered the Army in June 1950 and served on active duty through August 1953. An infantry platoon leader in the 7th Cavalry Regiment, he was wounded in October 1951 and hospitalized until May 1952. Judge Harwood entered the University of Virginia School of Law in 1953. He was a member of the Editorial Board of the Virginia Law Review, Chairman of the University Judiciary Committee, and Chancellor of Sigma Nu Phi Legal Fraternity. His fraternities include Kappa Alpha Order, ODK, and Sigma Nu Phi. Tommy was an elder in the Presbyterian Church for 49 years, a former moderator of the Hanover Presbytery, and a former member of the Richmond Salvation Army Advisory Board. A judicial member of the Bar Association of the City of Richmond, Virginia State Bar, and Virginia Bar Association, Judge Harwood served as president of two regulatory conferences and as a member of the Board of Directors of the National Regulatory Institute at Ohio State University, which he chaired from 1990 to 1992. He and his wife, Mary Virginia, were married for 53 years, and Tommy said each one got better. He is survived by Mary Virginia; daughter, Sally; son Thomas and his wife, Elizabeth, son, Hunter and his wife, Susan; five grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. Services will be held at Crestwood Presbyterian Church, 6627 Jahnke Road, Saturday October 3 at 2:30 p.m. Tommy requested in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to The VMI Foundation, Neikirk Hall, Lexington, Va. 24450; First Presbyterian Church, 401 SE 15th Ave., Fort Lauderdale, Fla. 33301-2397 or Crestwood Presbyterian Church, 6627 Jahnke Road, Richmond, Virginia 23225-4118.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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October 2, 2009

Mary Virginia, I can't believe Tommy is no longer with us. It was only two short years ago that we joined up again through Classmates.
As you know Tommy and I grew up together. Back in those days we did everything together - scouts, camp, sports,just name it. I spent as much time at his home as I did mine. His dad was my principal for the whole
time I was in the Crewe school. I even went to VMI because of Tommy and James Howard.
I knew early in life that he would do very well, and he proved me correct. The first great thing he did was to Marry you.

Tommy was a brother to me and I am honored to have been a friend of his for more than 75 years. He is truly going to be missed by all the many friends that he had.

I offer my condolences to you and your family as you go through this sad period in your life.

Jimmy Thompson
Spartanburg, SC.

October 1, 2009

Dear Mary Virginia and family -
I am so sadden to hear of Tommy's passing. I hope you will remember me and my family Mary Virginia as we lived on the same street in Saluda as did Mr. and Mrs. Harwood.

My parents Emma and Ray Davis lived there for 56 years. Their failing health finds mama in the Riverside Convalencent Home, Saluda. Daddy passed away in March.

I know that you and family will have a large void in your lives. Tommy was a wonderful person.

With Condolences,
Barbara Davis Hodges
21334 E.Via Del Rancho
Queen Creek, AZ 85142

Greg Lane

October 1, 2009

To Mary Virginia, Sally, Tommy and the whole family
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Virginia has lost one of the finest men I have ever known. I always had the greatest affection for Tommy though I have not seen him in quite a while. He will forever be linked with my family and growing up, and it is extraordinary to hear of his loss just after the loss of my Father (Ed Lane). My guess is they are consulting each other and enjoying each others company once again. God Bless, Greg Lane

October 1, 2009

To Mary Virginia, Sally, Thomas,Hunter and Joan, Jimmy and I send you our deepest sympathy.
Tommy was a wonderful person, as well as the best husband, father and mentor a family could have.
Keep the memories alive, and know that he will live on forever in your heart.

We love you and will miss seeing you at the service, but know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Debbie and Jim Ankeney

Barbara Atkinson

October 1, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy in the death of such a wonderful man. Mr. Harwood was a great inspiration to me as a young child growing up at Crestwood Presbyterian and I have fond memories of his wit and personality. I know my Mom and Dad welcomed him with open arms as he entered the gates of heaven.

Jim & Barb Sabin

September 30, 2009

We are so saddened by Tommy's passing. Yet, smiling at all the memories we have of his wit and wisdom. There was no one we enjoyed being with more and are grateful for the chance to have known him. Our deepest sympathy to Mary Virginia and the family on your loss.

September 30, 2009

My prayers and sympathy go out to you all. Tommy will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him.
Love, Betty Wingfield

September 29, 2009

Tommy brought joy, laughter, wisdom and plain ole common sense wherever he went--even in church board meetings. His love for God was contagious, his dedication to his family, his church, his fellowman was inspiring, and his love for Mary Virginia was a treasure beyond compare. (I can picture him right now carrying her huge purse up the stairs to class when her back was out). I can't imagine there will ever be another quite like Tommy Harwood and I just thank the Lord, we got to know him! He will be so missed--but his work for God's kingdom has planted a crop that will grow beyond measure. Love & prayers for all the Harwoods as we join you in grieving this great man of God, Roz and Arnold Davis.

Beverley Monroe

September 29, 2009

We have returned one of the Lord's Best to the Lord.

Love and prayers to Tommy's family.

Nancy Nichols

September 29, 2009

I share your sadness today. My deepest sympathy to you, Mary Virginia, and family.

Suzi Craft

September 29, 2009

Judge Harwood was one of those wonderful persons you never forget and wish you could clone. I am only one of many at the SCC who loved and respected this great man. My love and prayers are with you all.

Denise Martin

September 29, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

June and Bill Tice

September 29, 2009

What a wonderful life Tommy had--a loving family, an accomplished career, plus a person of great character and compassion. He will be sorely missed.

May God bless the family during this time of great loss.

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