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James Joseph "Jay" McCullough
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This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Carol Bundy-Black
October 29, 2009
Don and McCullough Family--I hadn't seen Jay for over 40 years but kept up with him through his sister, Stephanie. I know his life was filled with wonderful events and very loving people. I know he had wonderful children and had found happiness with Don. I've never met Don, but know he must be special. May God bring all of you peace and may Jay's smile light up the heavens!
Bob Monica
October 16, 2009
Jay McCullough was my friend. We first met in 1967 when we became room mates for three years at Boston Conservatory. The times were remarkable, and we helped one another through them as we grew from boys to men. Jay introduced me to a beautiful actress who would later become my wife and the mother of our three sons. Thirty-eight years. Jay was so special. Sweet, sincere, stubborn, and amazingly optimistic and hopeful through a lifetime of powerful challanges. I will miss Jay. I can't even begin to imagine the world with him. There will forever be a whole in my heart where Jay used to be because... Jay McCullough was my friend.
Holly Dunbar
October 15, 2009
It has been a few days since Jay;s passing and you can notice a difference with out Jay's wonderful additude at Cap One. It is not the same place without him. We miss you!
Carolyn Debnar Rexroad
October 11, 2009
To Don and his families: So very sorry about Jay; he was always such an outstanding and talented person. So glad you, Don, and Jay got to the last Madonna reunion. We loved seeing him again, dancing with him and getting to meet you. Hope you will come to the next reunion to represent him. Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
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Sharon Davis Green
October 10, 2009
Dear Don and the McCullough Family,
I've known Jay since grade school and he has always been the bright and shining light of our Class of '66. My keepsake memory will be of our last reunion - he brought Don and was the happiest I think I'd ever seen him. His smile was as large as the heavens and just as beautiful. Don, the Class sends their love and prayers to you and Jay's family and 'family'.
Barbara Brock
October 9, 2009
We were all privileged to have worked with Jay at Dogwood Dell and all of the many other venues who experienced this wonderful light and energy. On behalf of the Dogwood Dell staff and volunteers, our thoughts and prayers go out to Don and all the rest of Jay's family and friends.
Jack W
October 8, 2009
Don,
So sorry to hear about Jay. It's nice to read all the great things that have been said about him. He surely was a loved person. Take care.
Larry Gard
October 8, 2009
So sorry to hear of Jay McCullough's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Kimberly Ellis
October 8, 2009
To Don and Family,
My heart is with you at this difficult time. Words can not express my sadness. I pray that you will be comforted by the memories of your loved one. May God grant you Peace that surpasses ALL understanding.
~~Letitia "Tish" Gaines~~
October 8, 2009
Allow me to extend my deepest condolences,
“In Your Pocket”
Don, you have memories in your pocket.
They rattle among the change.
Your memories of Jay are treasures you will carry wherever you go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole.
They will give you comfort when you think you are alone.
Yes, you will have memories in your pocket, like so much other stuff you keep there.
But of all the treasures you have, it’s the memories of Jay that are the most precious.
~~~~~~
Duey Ralston
October 7, 2009
Jay, may you find peace in a place that a wise man once told me "Colors can be heard and music can be seen..."...a fitting eternal playground for one so filled with an exuberance for life and the ability to share it.
To my old friend Don,Joe,Christian, and your entire family...may your find some comfort in knowing there is no more pain for Jay; just incredible memories of a truly remarkable man, friend, and father. He who is not forgotten never truly dies...Believe in that and Jay will live forever.
You are in my prayers....Duey
Daryl Scruggs
October 7, 2009
It was such a blessing and an honor to have performed with Jay in "Breakfast with Les and Bess"! The conversations and lessons learned were just fantastic! The cast party at his home was such a delight and beautifully furnished!! I'll treasure my memories of him always!!
Donna Pendarvis
October 7, 2009
Such a bright light, our Jay! In time, there will come to mind countless wonderful memories to comfort Don and Jay's family and their very wide circle of friends. “When he shall die, take him and cut him out in little stars and he will make the face of heaven so fine that all the world will be in love with night and pay no worship to the garish sun.”
Your loss reverberates throughout the entire theatre arts community. We are filled with gratitude for Jay's energy and presence among us.
October 7, 2009
Was very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Don, may you be surrounded and uplifted by the ones who love you. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.....take the time to truly grieve as this is a vital part of the healing process. Alisa & Jeff Erway (trumpets)
Debbie Wagner
October 7, 2009
Don, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time, I know you feel this is something you cannot handle, be strong and believe in God, he will get you through. I was so shocked to read about Jay's passing. He surely made his mark in this world. You were blessed.
Linda Redmond
October 6, 2009
I will miss Jay's joi de vivre and passion for the theatre. He brought such enthusiasm and energy to our discussions at RTP. Also a wonderful actor - I saw him last in a performance in Urinetown.
A wonderful mensch and joyful spirit. I will miss his presence and cherish his memory.
For Don ... God bless you. How wonderful that Jay found someone like you.
With deep sadness and fond memories,
Linda Redmond
M Brigid Bell Waszczak
October 6, 2009
So sorry to hear of Jay's death. I really enjoyed our time at Madonna... the plays, the shows, the singing... He was a favorite of my mother's as well.
M. Brigid Bell Waszczak
October 6, 2009
Thanks for being my pal at Triangle meetings and for the great talks about plays. Much love to Don. Noreen Barnes
T. Ross Aikten
October 6, 2009
I will miss you Jay. All my love to Don and your family.
October 6, 2009
The Dogwood Dell days, Henrico Theater...You both are in my heart, Don, and that's something time can't change. Much sadness and fond remembrance. Lynne Evans, Chesterfield, VA.
Rick, Toni & Chelsea Jaeger
October 6, 2009
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Linda Wilmoth
October 6, 2009
My sincere condolences to Don and all of Jay's family.
kathy parker
October 6, 2009
I shall miss you my dear friend of oh so many years..the memories will stay forever. All my love to Don and to the rest of the family...~kathy parker
Julie Katepalli
October 6, 2009
Thank you Jay for the mentorship, friendship and compassion for life that you taught me through the many years of being your friend. I will continue to carry those lessons forever.
I have never forgotten the most important lesson you taught me many many years ago... "Julie, I look at life challenges with this in mind..is this going to affect my life in 5 years, 10 years or 10 minutes... if not, let it go."
Losing you will affect my life and I will always keep you close to my heart.
Brian Vaughan
October 6, 2009
Thank you Jay for your many years of undying friedship. Your expertise in directing and dedication to the stage, helped me as a performer, and you will be missed so terriblly.
October 6, 2009
Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted - Matthew 5:4
With deepest sympathy and regard..
Brandy Johnson
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