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Delfina Vredenburg Obituary

Vredenburg, Delfina MECHANICVILLE Delfina B. (Vega) Vredenburg died peacefully just before midnight on October 9, 2008 in the care of the Community Hospice of Rensselaer County in Seton Health St. Mary's Hospital in Troy, after suffering a leg injury in a fall at home on September 9, followed by a massive stroke on September 25. Born October 15, 1921 in Mechanicville at the home of her late parents, Joseph (Jose) Rodriguez Vega, an immigrant from Asturias, Spain (who died at 37 when Delfina was four) and Ora Isles Vega (who died at 51 the week of Delfina's marriage at 19). A lifelong resident of Mechanicville, faithful communicant of its United Methodist Church, where for many years, she coordinated flowers for the altar and was a member of the Adult Fellowship Club. A devoted homemaker and mother, after raising her children, she worked briefly for the Mechanicville school system, volunteered at the public library and was a member of the Dorothy Welch Choral Society. Mother, mentor, teacher, confidante, guide and example, a model of charity and devotion, a thoughtful and compassionate friend. Also predeceased by her sister Geraldine, who died at age four, the year before Delfina was born, and by most of her many relatives and countless friends. Survived by Hayden Vredenburg, her devoted husband of 68 years; her grateful sons, Jeffrey Lance Vredenburg and David Arthur Vredenburg, both of Mechanicville, and Hayden Joseph Vredenburg (Joanne) of East Greenbush; her loving grandchildren, Kirsten Leslie Butterfield (Hayden Todd) of East Greenbush, and Myles Austin Vredenburg (Asli Binal) of Manhattan. Adoring great-grand-mother of Hayden Pierce Butterfield and Roan Larkin Butterfield; dear cousin of Juanita Isles Coon of Ballston Spa and Isabel Vega Hayner of Mechanicville. The family express its profound thanks to the physicians, nurses and other staff of the Seton Health Family Health Center in Mechanicville, Maplewood Manor in Ballston Spa, the visiting nurse service of Saratoga County Department of Health, the staff in the Emergency Room, 5 South and stroke units of St. Mary's Hospital and at the Springs Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Troy, and her many other physicians, nurses and caregivers for the quality and compassion of their care. Calling hours in the Cummings Chapel of the United Methodist Church, 7 North Main Street, Mechanicville (parking and ramp access in the rear), Monday, October 13 from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. and 9-11 a. m., Tuesday, October 14, concluded by sacred music and a service of death and resurrection. Private committal and burial in the Vega family plot in Stillwater Union Cemetery, Stillwater, N.Y. The family welcomes donations in her memory to the United Methodist Church in Mechanicville (12118). Arrangements by W. J. Lyons, Jr. Funeral Home, Inc., Rensselaer, N.Y. Condolence page at www.wjlyonsfuneralhome.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Oct. 11 to Oct. 12, 2008.

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Paula Vredenburg-Roman

October 14, 2008

Uncle Hayden, David, Jeff, Denny and Joanne, Kirsten and Myles,
Daniel and Tara and I were sorry to hear about Aunt Del's passing. She was a very loving and giving woman and we were all lucky to have her in our lives. I know how difficult this time is for all of you and you have been in our thoughts and prayers. Mom and all of us wish we could be there with you, but know we are there in our hearts. If there is anything at all you need, please let us know. Mom sends all her love. We love you all very much.

Joe Perkins

October 14, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Anne Cronin

October 12, 2008

David,

I'm so sorry about the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

Anne Cronin

Dale Turner-Sommerman

October 12, 2008

David & Family
Thinking of you @ this sad time; my love & prayers are with you. I will always have fond memories of your Mom.
Love Dale

Helen Turner

October 12, 2008

To Hayden
My thought & prayers are there with you
To Del.........goodbye my dearest friend; I will remember you fondly and miss you greatly.
Love, Sister

Larry Jones

October 12, 2008

Hayden (the younger),
So sorry for your loss.

peggy delprete

October 11, 2008

dear jeff,
so sorry for your loss!
peg delprete

BOB GRANT

October 11, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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