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Memories and Condolences
for John Kilgore
Craig, Leslie, Spencer, & Schyler Jones
March 13, 2008
Dear Marilyn & family,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about John. You guys were so wonderful to us, as a young, newly married couple, making the transistion to Tulsa. We were blessed to have such wonderful neighbors as the Kilgores. Craig especially enjoyed his time with John, running and landscaping together. Craig has always considered him one of his greatest friends and most positive influences in his life. John had so many gifts and talents. Heaven gets to enjoy all of them now. Please know that although we lost touch when we moved back to Texas, we've never forgotten you all and love you dearly. You're in our prayers. May God bless you during this difficult time.
Jessica Kilgore
March 6, 2008
To inspire means to affect and guide by divine influence. When do you know that someone has inspired you? Is it their motivational way of speaking, their hope-filled wishes for you for the future, or is it what prompts you to move or change? I think it is all of the above and one person that is and will continue to be an inspiration to me and so many others is John Wayne Kilgore. He was my father-in-law and he has blessed me in so many ways. Not until recently did I really share with him how much he and his family has meant to me. I thank God that I did share these feelings with him and that all of the Kilgore family was together this Christmas for an amazing week. During that time dad challenged all of his family to be healthy and whole people. Not only did he encourage us but he let us know that he would lead us in this direction. I believe that he is still inspiring us to make these changes and to live to the full potential that the Lord has for each one of us. I, like so many others, are so deeply saddened by his sudden death. I can say with great certainty that he is not sad and that his wish for all of us would be to share the light and hope of Christ with others and to join him one day in that heavenly choir. He has and will continue to be an inspiration to me and I love him so very much. I will miss him as will my little son who only had such a short but precious time to get to spend with his wonderful grandfather.
Scott Bassett
February 27, 2008
Ben,
I'm so sorry man. Beth just let me know. When I think back to my years at Liberty Church, your dad was a huge part of my fond memories there. He, Eric Hill, and Andy Mullins taught me what sincere worship of our Lord is and I will always remember him for that awesome gift. I will also remember him for his affectionate strong shoulder rubs that came out of nowhere as I stood talking to someone in the hallway. He was and is awesome.
Gene and Geneva Hobbs
February 25, 2008
Dear Marilyn and children,
We are at a loss for words to express how much we care for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayer. We have many sweet memories of the "Kilgore family"while your were in Borger.
We love you and are praying for God's riches blessing on you during these difficult days. Much love, Gene and Geneva Hobbs Fritch, Texas
Pam (McKey) Leimer
February 22, 2008
John was "one in a million." Many people have come into my life, but few with John's sincerity, enthusiasm, and dedication. He was such a godly example to me when I was a young Christian at FBC Borger. The power of his smile was surpassed only by the power of his hugs. I was blessed to have him as part of my life. I'm praying that "the God of all comfort" (2 Cor. 2:3) makes his peace (2 Thes. 3:16) abound to your family. I know that God will be glorified in John's "heavenly promotion" as he was in John's life.
Nan and Dave Warren
February 21, 2008
A Smile always comes when I think of John...how he impacted all of us while in Borger...he had old people like me even DANCING on the stage...we love him and will look forward to continuing this wonderful relationship one day..Nan and Dave Warren
Kim Mizar-Stem
February 21, 2008
Dear Kilgore Family:
As I read through the other entries, I couldn't help but shed tears of joy as so many people were touched by John. His smile lit up every room he entered and his hugs were so filled with love no matter who he was hugging! Heaven is a brighter place, but his presence will be missed. All of us shine a little brighter for having known him. My prayers are with all of you.
Bryan Bomar
February 20, 2008
Dearest Marilyn and Kids,
We are so sorry for you loss and pray that God's angels are around you all as you go through this difficult time. Take comfort in the fact that John, you and your family touched so many people through your music and love of God.
I still remember the Christmas's in Garland and at my Aunt Sharon's house where John, you and the kids would come in join around the piano and sing with such beautiful voices the hymns of Christmas. One could not help but look on with amazement at the talent that was in your family. Even though we were just distant cousins I have memories that go back for years of our get together's at Aunt Deveda's and Aunt Sharon's. I am sure Dwight and John are rejoicing in celebration and would want us to as well.
Love from the Bomar's (Bryan, Jan and Chris)
Matt Dietz
February 20, 2008
Kilgore Family -
John had very special qualities from his enormous smile to his enveloping bear hugs. He always made me feel as if I were the only person in a room full of people. I will always remember him fondly. What a tremendous example of how God would have us love!
Mike & Jamie Green
February 19, 2008
Dear Marilyn & family,
We grieve with you in your loss of precious John, but rejoice with you in the celebration of his life. What an impact you two have had on more people than you can imagine! We have thought of you often & thank God for your years of ministry. Marilyn, we will continue to hold you up in prayer in the days ahead. You are dear to our hearts. From some more former FBC Borger friends:
John & Sharan Neerman
February 19, 2008
Marilyn and "kids," we were so sorry to hear about John's death, but we rejoice that he is now singing for his Savior up close and personally. The morning we turned into the Liberty Church parking lot years ago, we had been searching for a church home during a very trying time in our family's life. When we entered the sanctuary and heard the music that filled it, we knew we were in the place God wanted us to be. Your whole family was a blessing to ours, beginning with John, his spirit, and his big bear hugs. God bless you with comfort and sweet memories. Johny/Sharan/Bridget/JJ/Charlie Neerman
Blessed
February 19, 2008
Dear Kilgore Family,
I am praying that God will continue to hold you close to him at this time. I am so sorry for your loss. John was a great man of God and had such a wonderful impact on so many lives! Thank you Marilyn for being an example for women around you. Thank you Blake, Collyn, Carrie, and Ben for being such great kids and carrying on your father's legacy! Your a wonderful family and God will be with you closely at this time!
Cyndee Hickman
February 19, 2008
Dear Kilgore Family,
My heart pours out to you all. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Marilyn I will call you soon. I love you all!!! I have a vision of John singing to all the angels and that gives me so much peace. Love ya,
Cyndee Hickman
Carolyn Watson
February 18, 2008
Hi Marilyn, and family. It is so hard to know what to say except one thing. You were all tremendously loved by all of our family. Marilyn, you were the perfect completer for John. Those years were some of the best in our lives. Come back to see us. There are a lot of us left who would love to see you. We would love to bless you with our love. I will be praying God will let me share in the burden, when it just becomes too great. Love you Carolyn Watson
Gayla Edwards Kelley
February 18, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for your family and remembering how sweet the times in Borger were.
Carl and Kerry Lorey
February 18, 2008
Der Kilgores,
You are in our hearts and prayers as you work through the grief and timing of John's death. When we first heard I felt a rush of incredible joy, thinking, "Oh my, John is getting his well deserved reward, He is in HEAVEN"!!!! Then I felt a tumultous sense of grief..we've lost a great man of God. John was a huge slice of our life. He had such a great impact on our new found Christian life at 1st Baptist Borger, especially in teaching us how to enter the throne room of God in true worship. John was a friend, a mentor, an inspiration and a great worshiper. His impact on our lives, and yours, will carry on because he left his mark and legacy of love on many. We love you.
Karen Mizar
February 18, 2008
Dear Marilyn and Family,
Our prayers are with your precious family that God will contiue to hold you tightly in His arms. Just wanted you to know, that when I think of John, I can only smile and imagine how he is turning heaven inside out. He brought such joy, encouragement, and enthusiasm to all those his life touched. He will be greatly missed here, but heaven is sweeter now that he is home. Thank you for all the wonderful memories of your entire family while in Borger. We love you!
Larry and Karen Mizar
Dick & Cherry Shaw
February 18, 2008
Kilgore Family, We wish to express our sincere sympathy and love. Our time in Borger was enriched by knowing the Kilgores. John blessed us in so many ways, and for that we praise the Lord! May God comfort and sustain you and give you precious memories to get you through the difficult days.
Becky O'Steen
February 17, 2008
Hello Family
I am praying for your comfort. I was at a service a weekago and they played the song Press On,I always think of John. I pray God will give you strength to press on. What fun we had in choir in Borger.
Love Earl & Becky O'Steen
Deanna and Duane Hunt
February 17, 2008
Marilyn and Family, How sad we are for the passing of that wonderful, loving friend. We can only imagine that he is shouting "GLORY" louder than ever in heaven right now and probably worshipping in a way he only dreamed while on this earth. He impacted our lives by his exuberant smile and sincere hugs, but most of all we appreciated his godly influence upon our three children while they were teenagers. We especially remember the youth choir trips and his steadfast walk with the Lord even in difficult trials. We pray the Lord will give you courage to continue on with the legacy John so bravely set before us all. Our prayers will continue to be with you all.
Dwight & George Ann Neas
February 17, 2008
Dear Kilgore Family,
Dwight and I were saddened to hear of John's death. We have such sweet memories of your time in Borger and how John taught us to worship. He never did anything halfway, and we will never forget his ministry. We are also indebted to him for being such a good influence on Robin. Love, George Ann and Dwight Neas, Lubbock, Texas
Kelly and Robin Anderson
February 17, 2008
I am greatly saddened by the passing of John, but look forward to the day when we shall once again sing side by side in God's choir (I wonder if he'll still sing second tenor next to my first tenor part?).
Heather Flournoy Bowling
February 17, 2008
Kilgore Family,
So sorry to hear about your tremendous loss. Praying that our Great Comforter will provide you with strength during this difficult time.
Stan, Becky, and Cameron Maxwell
February 17, 2008
Words can't express our sorrow at the loss of John. While in Borger, your family lived out your love for Christ unashamedly. We're praying for you during this time of numbness and adjustment.
Judi Hill
February 17, 2008
John embodied the Spirit of Christ so beautifully. He walked out what he believed. Of course his smiles and hugs will always be remembered. He was gifted in so many areas. I will always treasure the landscape drawing he did for me and look forward to enjoying it in the days ahead.
To Marilyn and the kids, we can only stand on God's Word. He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3
David Dietz
February 16, 2008
Kilgore Family,
I will anxiously wait to meet John in Heaven with those MIGHTY hugs he gave to me as a kid. I always loved that about him. You guys are OFTEN on my mind, and I follow Ben's music closely. I praise God that our families were able to cross paths in this life, and I know the legacy that John left will remain etched on earth for years to come! Praying for you, David Dietz.
Andy & Becky Dietz
February 16, 2008
It's so hard to believe that John beat us to heaven!! Boy! The memories we have of John....remember the trip to Washington D.C.? "Don't look over there!" We know that God is holding each of you so closely. We love you and we'll keep praying.
George and Rossetta Hanna
February 16, 2008
Kilgores, we love all of you so very deeply. We are stunned that the Lord has taken John from this world. He was one of those "bigger than life" people that left a huge positive impact on everyone he met. Please know that we would have been there had it not been for unpreventable circumstances. You are all in our prayers. May the Lord bless you as you face the coming days. You have our deepest sympathy.
Jane Leffel
February 16, 2008
We are very sorry to hear of John's death. We have never forgotten the time ya'll were with us at Liberty. It was such a special time for our church and for our family. Please know we will be praying for you all.
Love Marvin & Jane Leffel
Gregory Davis
February 16, 2008
John was one of the most genuine and loving people I have ever met. I was so disappointed I was not in town to express my respects in person. I will always remember him for his generosity, kindness and gentle spirit. I will greatly miss him.
Susan Eveland
February 15, 2008
Marilyn & family- I'm so sad for your loss.
May the God of All Comfort wrap you all in His everlasting arms.
My prayers are with you. We will see John again.
Love, Susan Rogers Eveland
Missy Mitchell
February 15, 2008
Dear Kilgore family,
I learned almost everything I know about directing a choir and about worship in general from John. He will be sorely missed. I will never forget directing a combined church choir that he helped me put together and looking up in the loft and seeing John and thinking, "Wow! What an opportunity, to get to direct a choir with my mentor in it!"
I'll remember the precious contribution he made to my life every time I look out into my backyard and see his creativity displayed there in the handy work of his landscaping.
My prayers are with you all as you grieve, heal, and remember.
Donnie & Margaret Thomas
February 15, 2008
Marilyn and family,
How very sorry we were to hear of John's home going. We will always cherish the wonderful memories we have of John at Liberty Baptist. John had a very special gift of leading people into worship. Since we heard the news, I can see him leading the congregation in "When The Deer Pants For Water". Praise God for the work that John did.
We count it a privilege to have known & loved John. He always had a smile & was ready to encourage everyone he met.
When you don't understand, when you don't see his plan, when you can't trace His hand, trust His heart.
We pray that God will give you the peace that only He can give.
Love,
February 15, 2008
MARILYN,
WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. OUR HEARTS ARE HURTING FOR YOU, YOUR FAMILY, AND YOUR GOOD FRIENDS.
LOVE AND PRAYERS, JACK AND MARYLIN COULTER (Rene' and Ed's parents)
Robin Neas Fowler
February 15, 2008
Dear, dear Kilgore family, I am so sorry for your loss. John is beloved of so many people. You all are beloved of so many. John taught us to worship God and to love each other at First Baptist Church, Borger, TX. His years there were good years for making music. I send my prayers for healing, for comfort, for confidence, for hope, and for joy. What a life! What a man!
Kurt and Jaxie Ochsner
February 15, 2008
Marilyn, Blake, Collyn, Carrie, and Ben,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this challenging time. Just this morning while reading, God encouraged me with Psalm 116:15. "The death of his saints is precious in the sight of God," John was truely a saint and a blessing to our lives and those that had the privilege of knowing him. We have been blessed richly! Praying for each of you today and in the days to come! We love you!!
Murfy and Pam Vance
February 15, 2008
Dear Marilyn and family,
We were so very sorry to hear of John's death. He was an amazing man, used by God in so many ways. He touched many lives through music as well as through his very life. He will be greatly missed. You remain in our hearts and prayers.
Bob and Laura Baxter
February 15, 2008
Dear Marilyn and family,
We have been lifting you up in prayer ever since our son Nathan Baxter called with the shocking news of John's unexpected passing.
When John smiled at you and hugged you, you felt touched by the love of Jesus. He had such a servants's heart and will be greatly missed by all the lives he touched.
Our hearts ache for your loss,
Stephanie Farquhar
February 15, 2008
To Marilyn and all of John's family.
We are so very sorry in the loss of John. It just doesnt seem real that he will not be among us here.
We appreciated all that John was to our family. The encourager, the exuder of joy and his desire to always lead us in choir to worship and praise the Lord. Having the opportunity to serve in the music ministry with you all was such a blessing. I know there is no bigger smile than John's today in heaven and no stronger hug! John was a very sincere, genuine caring person. We all felt the Lord's love extended through him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you especially today as we gather to praise and worship the Lord and honor John.
Mark and Stephanie Farquhar
Larry Guerrera
February 15, 2008
I knew of John through a friend in the Tulsa area. What a great loss to all of us, no matter where we are. He was surely one of a kind. Blessings to his family and friends.
Tara Appling-Crisp
February 15, 2008
Words cannot express how shocked and devastated I was to hear of John's passing. I know that he is in heaven hugging everyone he meets and directing God's choir. John was a true blessing in my life, and I will never forget the impact he had on it. He will forever be missed, but he will forever be remembered.
James Myers
February 15, 2008
Marilyn and Family,
I have said this before but words cannot express the love and admiration I have for my brother, my friend, my counselor, my encourager, my inspiration, my comforter, my mentor...John Kilgore.
The Man of God.
Since I have known John...at times I would ask myself "what would John Kilgore do in this situation?" to help make decisions. I have never done this with anyone else in my life.
Oh man if I could only be a part of the man my brother was I would count it gain.
I am sorry for our loss but I feel even more for you because I know he was an awesome leader for your family.
There will never be another brother for me like my Bro. John.
I praise God that He placed John and his family in my life and my family's life.
I love you guys and my family loves you more than you will ever know.
Amanda Blackwell
February 14, 2008
John, you will be missed dearly. Thank you for teaching me and leading me through the years. Your passion for music and worship ministry has ignited a passion within me. Thank you for believing in me and what God has blessed me with in music. Thank you for being passionate about the Lord. you changed my life and the way I view worship. Thank you. From the depths of my soul. Thank you.
"Miss Ellie" Jordan <><
February 14, 2008
Beloved Ones...
This Grief is grief we cannot bear...
Except, Dear Comforter, that You are there
To lift our hearts from depths of dark despair,
And let us know, amidst our pain, You care.
This Grief, in passion, would our minds ensnare...
Consuming, stalking, lurking everywhere...
Penetrating wounds laid stripped and bare--
Devouring all the hope that it would dare.
This Grief, alone, could gnash and crush and tear;
But through the Cross, we know that You will share...
Receiving anguished cries of fervent prayer--
Removing masks that broken hearts can't wear.
This Grief, You welcomed--never unaware
That suffering meant for us, You must forebear...
To demonstrate a Love beyond compare...
That now, in us, This Grief can now declare!
~~ "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, Who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." ~~
~~ "A Man of Sorrows and acquainted with Grief..." ~~
~~ "Surely He has borne our Griefs and carried our Sorrows..." ~~
May our precious Lord Jesus minister to all of us in the shock and pain of this hard, hard loss. John was the Heart of Liberty Church and every where he ministered, and it is fitting that on Valentine's Day (and every day) we remember the LOVE of GOD that always shone out from him. John epitomized LOVE!!!
We are thankful for his beautiful family who who so tenderly carry out his rich legacy with highest honor. I cherish you all and know that we must hold to the promises of God, but my heart breaks with yours, nonetheless.
I always envisioned "Brother John" taking care of MY Homegoing Celebration service...I'm sure that his Graduation Praise service will be all and more of what I imagined mine to be under his special care.
Forever and ever, we shall rejoice in the music of John's heart and soul! I close for now, smiling with the memories of his hard warm hugs and wide, welcoming smile. Thanks, John....I needed that!
Holy Hugs, "me" <>< Phil. 1:2-6
~~~
Jerry & Becky Evans
February 14, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you His peace and comfort. Sorry we are not going to be able to make it to the funeral, we just heard tonight. We love you all. John was the best! We will always treasure the years we spent together on staff at FBC, Borger.
Kathy Mercer
February 14, 2008
Dear Marilyn and family --
The picture that John kept in his office of someone coming home to Heaven came true on Tuesday afternoon, much, much sooner than any of us would have preferred. I believe that Jesus holds John lovingly in His strong arms, and He will hold each one of you in His arms of love as you walk through this sad time.
I am so very, very grateful to have had the privilege of being mentored by John during my final semester at ORU in 1998, and I have wonderful memories of learning about the art and skill of being a worship pastor. I can't honestly think of anyone else in Tulsa that I'd rather have had as my mentor, because he made it interesting and fun to learn. He was really an encourager, something that is rare these days, and he helped me not take myself so seriously (at least some of the time).
I pray God's blessings of comfort and peace upon all of you. We WILL see John again!
Until the "Midnight Cry" -- Kathy
CT and Denise Moore
February 14, 2008
We can't tell you how much that John always meant to us. He was such an encourager to everyone he met. We met John in 1989 when he became the Minister of Music at Liberty Baptist Church in Hampton Virginia. I loved serving under him as church pianist during his ministry with us. He loved, cared, encouraged, and touched our lives through his life and ministry. We loved his great BIG hugs.
Marilyn, you are in our hearts. We are praying for you and the rest of your dear, sweet family for your great loss.
May He wrap His loving arms around you.
Brett Bower
February 14, 2008
I have many wonderful memories at Liberty Church with John Kilgore joyously leading in worship and directing the youth choir and adult choir. I can't even count how many churches we traveled to over the years with John conducting us in wonderful songs. He had such a passion for creating joyful music for our Lord.
From a placed of shared experience, my heart goes out to the Kilgore family. I have a feeling my late father helped welcome Mr. Kilgore into Heaven's gates, and I know there is an amazing musical celebration happening right now.
Mike and Wendy McDaniel
February 14, 2008
Dear Kilgores,
We are so sorry for your tremendous loss. Heaven is definitely a brighter place now. We are constantly remembering you all in our prayers.
Prov. 3:5,6
Pat, Patti and Richard Lester
February 14, 2008
To the entire Kilgore family,
Each one of you have impacted our lives in so many ways over the years. Our hearts have been touched by kindness, love, laughter, beauty and joy. John demonstrated the value of relationships and frienship and never failed to let everyone know that he loved his family. We will miss John's smile that lit up the room and how he hugged Richard so amazingly sweet. Each day as we look out we will always be reminded of John's creativity and the display of God's work through John's hands in our garden and yard. Thank you all for sharing John with us. Our prayers are with each of you and we love you.
Chuck Farmer
February 14, 2008
For every moment I stop and think that John is not with us I just look up and know in my heart he is looking down on all of us with that wonderful smile and un-conditional love. Dear friend I will miss you.
Bennie Edwards
February 14, 2008
May God's unfailing love surround your family. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you. We value your friendship.
Roger, Bennie, Gayla, Stephen, Braxton and Erin Edwards
DJ Riner
February 14, 2008
Marilyn and family,
Words are few to express the heartache I have. Just know that you are all in our prayers. We love each one of you and will truly miss John.
Love, DJ Riner
Bill Gordon
February 14, 2008
Ben,
My name is Bill Gordon and I attend Liberty Church. I first met you when you worked at Zio's and I was coaching tennis at ORU. I have also attended one of your concerts. My daughter's name is Molly and my wife's name is Deanna. I want you to know that I lost my father just three weeks ago. I am praying for you and your family. When I had the opportunity, I watched your dad's face every time that you performed in church or with your band. Your dad was so incredibly proud of you and I am also proud of the awesome man that you have become. It will be difficult not having your "support system" there for you, however I know that God will comfort you when you need Him most. Your dad was just an unbelievably sincere and giving man. If you live your life even just a fraction like your father lived, you will be blessed and successful. Ben, may God richly bless you, your mother, brother, and sister and comfort you at this time of both grief and celebration in knowing that John is celebrating in Heaven. I have no idea why God needed your father at this time, however I do know that they received a mighty man of God deserving of his heavenly reward! God bless,
Bill
Jay Eshelman
February 14, 2008
John-
I will always miss your strong "shoulder grabs" while you look me in the eye and make me feel like you truly care about how I am doing. You were a man of God and a shining example of God's joy to those around you.
You will be sorely missed, but we rejoice that you are with God in all his glory.
In Christ,
Louise Whitley
February 14, 2008
Thank you for that beautiful tribute to a true man after God's own heart. We will miss him so much. WE have great memories of choir/orchestra trips and programs and every Sunday we all got to worship with him.
May God comfort you as only He can. Love, Louise Whitley
Ty and Karen Frederick
February 14, 2008
Marilyn, Blake, Collyn, Carrie, Ben,
Our love is certainly with you during this difficult time. All of you have touched the Frederick family in ways that will never be forgotten. John will always live in our hearts and in our memories. We love each one of you so much!
Ty and Karen Frederick
Bob Cole
February 14, 2008
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Mr. Kilgore's passing. I immediately began reflecting on what a special man of God he was. John was one of the most caring and genuine people I have ever met. His smile was contagious and brightened anyone’s mood. He truly exuded the aroma of Christ. We will miss you dearly, but I can only imagine how Heaven rejoiced as you entered His kingdom!
Glynn Walker
February 14, 2008
Our loss is heaven's gain. John was an amazing guy and I am truly blessed to have called him a friend. There is (and always will be) just one John Kilgore and anyone that knew him knows how special he was. Marilyn and kids, we are praying for you and know that God will be faithful in comforting you.
Pam Powell
February 14, 2008
Your kind spirit will live in our front yard forever. We will miss your infectious smile, creative designs and beauty throughout the neighborhood. You were truly an inspiration and will be missed.
Kristy Farmer
February 14, 2008
I can't begin to think of the world without John...but I know without a doubt what Heaven is like with him there! What a worship celebration they are having! He will live in our hearts forever...such a precious man!
Jim & Janell Sinclair
February 14, 2008
Marilyn and family,
I am in total shock to learn of John's passing. The article in the Tulsa paper described John perfectly. He was all of those things and more. I was fortunate to know John, I enjoyed the times that we had lunch together, or I'd just drop by the office and we'd chat for a bit. I don't remember ever seeing him, or being around him when he didn't have that great smile of his and always a hug, what a great guy.
At a time like this, it is comforting to know that we'll all be reunited someday and that reunion will never, never end.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Barbie Estes (Mizar)
February 14, 2008
Dear Marilyn and Kids. Words cannot really express how dear John and your whole family were to me. I always planned to get to Broken Arrow to see you, but you know how that goes. John was one of the kindest, sweetest, Godliest men I have ever known. His hugs and smiles will truly be missed. I am very sorry for your loss.
Steven Shield
February 14, 2008
i use to go to liberty when i was a kid and young teen. suday morning worship was one of the most memerable thing about my time there. i have yet to go to a church worship survice that moved me to sing out like john's did. he was a good man an a wonderfull music director. he will be missed here, but welcomed home
Jacquelyn & Randy Bradley
February 14, 2008
With our love and many fond memories, and our deepest condolences to Marilyn and family.
Jacquelyn & Randy Bradley
Dale Osborne
February 14, 2008
my dearest and best friend you left suddenly and we didnt get to say goodbye i miss you terribly, you have made my life and familys life richer by having you in it,your memory will live forever in the music you taught us to worship in and creations you created thru landsaping, i guess God needed a little KLD touch in heaven, if you find my mansion will you put a little KLD touch on it , i will forever love and remember you, until i get to see you in heaven, love and big john kilgore hugs love you Dale
Sheryl Kay Smith-Knutson
February 14, 2008
I am saddened by the news of John's passing. I have been reminded of his kindness, laughter and passion for life through many memories that have crossed my mind over the past couple of days. I am blessed to have known him and look forward to seeing him again some day dancing at the feet of Jesus! Love to Marilyn and family.
Susan Tyler
February 14, 2008
My condolences and prayers go out to you at this time. What a loss for us but gain in heaven. I will miss his tender heart for the Lord and big, big smile. He had a way of making you feel special whether he had known you 10 minutes or 10 years. He was a true man of God.
Elaine Martindale
February 14, 2008
Carrie and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. His hugs and his choir were the reasons I started coming to Liberty in 93'. Though it has been years since I have seen you guys, I have often thought of you all when I occasionally drive by the church. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my dad in August and can sympathize with the feelings this unexpected loss have brought.
I am sorry I will not be able to attend the service tomorrow. I am sure it will be a wonderful celebration of an amazing husband, father, and man of God.
Love,
Elaine Lehmer-Martindale
Tara Appling-Crisp
February 14, 2008
Much love and many prayers,
Tara
Nancy & Richard Appling
February 14, 2008
Our love and prayers of comfort are continually with all of you.
We know Jesus is holding with His Righteus Right Hand.
Kerry Jones
February 14, 2008
Dear Kilgore Family, I can only imagine the shock and sadness at the loss of Brother John. He was such a light to everyone and everything around him. I am having a hard time letting the Lord have him this early. His wonderful legacy is his beautiful family and all the lives he touched. You all have touched my life in more ways than you know and I am blessed because of it. Marilyn, I am glad Bentley is there to love on you through this. Thinking of you all during this incredibly difficult time, Kerry Jones
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