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CLEAL STEPHEN R. CLEAL Passed away on July 20, 2009, after a three year couregeous battle with cancer. Steve leaves behind his cherished wife, Dotte; two beloved children,daughter, Christie (husband,Michael); son, Scott, (wife, Didi); six beautiful grandchildren, Vincent, Scotty, Shelby, WiIlie, Lilly and Stevie; his sister, Cathy Johnston (husband, Carroll); his brother, Peter, (wife, Betty); along with his nephews, Greg (Lisa), Andrew (Karen), Michael (Kerri) and David (Julie); and his niece, Liz. Born in Buffalo, NY on July 18, 1939, Steve moved to Richmond, VA as a young child, where he grew up on Janke Road. He attended Elizabeth Redd Elementary School and in 7th grade, moved to Martinsville, VA, when his father transferred jobs from Richmond to Dupont. Steve attended Martinsville High School and has enjoyed a sustaining connection with many special life-long friends. Upon graduation, Steve attended Virginia Tech, majoring in Forestry. At the end of his sophomore year he decided to join the Navy, was sent to Great Lakes, II and following his basic training was assigned to submarine duty. Steve found the career he truly loved and after initial duty assignments to Dam Neck, VA; Pearl Harbor, Hawaii and Holy Loch, Scotland, he was selected for the Navy Enlisted Science Education Program (NESEP). The Navy sent him to the deep South to attend Auburn University (War eagle) for a four year college degree where he graduated with a BS degree in Electrical Engineering. Following graduation, Steve attended Officers Candidate School at Newport, RI and was commissioned as an Ensign in the Navy. Steve proudly served on multiple submarines and ships including the USS Tunny, USS Boston, USS Alexander Hamilton, USS Lewis and Clark, USS Ortolan; and ultimately assumed Command assignments of the USS Pidgeon, USS Vulcan and USS Jason, where he and his shipmates began a long and beautiful legacy of sharing sea stories that continue to this day. In 1994, Steve retired from the Navy after 35 years on active duty. He and his wife, Dottie returned to Richmond in 2005 to enjoy retirement, Richmond''s southern charm and their home on the James River. Steve will be forever remembered for his integrity, his passion for living life to the fullest, his love of NASCAR, trains, nature, running, gardening and his deep and enduring friendship. A Memorial Service will be held at St. Luke''s Lutheran Church on July 25, 2009 at 11 a.m. Burial will be at Arlington National Cemetery at a future date. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the MCV Palliative Care Unit or St. Luke''s Lutheran Church are requested. The Cleal family extends a special and heartfelt thanks to Dr. Nadir (MCV) and his amazing team of doctors; and the entire Palliative Care Team for all their many super human efforts throughout Steve''s illness.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 22, 2009.

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Thomas A. Stallone Sr. YN1(SS), USN, Retired

June 19, 2024

I did not know Captain Cleal had passed away. I worked under him at NMPC 42 the Submarine assignment shop in Arlington, VA/Washington DC. I was the senior NCO in that office and was working on completing my degree (which I was able to do). He wrote one of my recommendations both for college and for a Commissioning program. I had the deepest respect for him as a General Submarine Officer (Non Nuke) and for his achievements. May God grant him eternal rest & peace.

Frank Reno

August 5, 2019

I proudly served with Stephen back in the mid 1970's on board the Nuclear Submarine USS Lewis & Clark SSBN-644 Blue. Stephen was a Lieutenant at the time and was the Weapons Officer. What a great guy & a wonderful inspiration to us younger guys. He was always up and never without a kind word and a smile. It was the best of times. He is greatly missed by his shipmates. Rest in Peace my friend.

John E Carson

August 11, 2009

Dottie

My deepest sympathy. I knew Steve when he and I were on the Hamilton. We also past in various other commands. As always he had that big smile the time we meet in about 92.

John E Carson

Kathleen Smith

August 4, 2009

Dottie
I am here for you if you need me.
Warm thoughts and prayers as you move through this turbulent time.

Meg Carter

August 3, 2009

Dottie,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sally Bryan-Prell

July 31, 2009

Dottie,

May the good memories of love shared with Steve comfort You and your Family now and in the days ahead.

Morgan Ames

July 28, 2009

Dottie,

Nancy and I send our love and wish you strength and peace in the days ahead. Steve's battle is over and he has earned his Eternal Reward. You will cherish the memories you shared -- all the drives with "your chauffer" -- all the days of your life. You were a great couple! You are in our thoughts and prayers!

Janet Golden

July 26, 2009

Dottie, my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. You and Steve were favorite people, and are missed every day. I think of you often, and am so grateful for the years we shared at SRA. Those are wonderful memories. With love and hugs to you, Janet Golden

John Byron

July 25, 2009

Steve was a splendid officer and a fine shipmate. Fair winds and a following sea.

Bernard Parker

July 24, 2009

My heart goes out to the family. Memories are special of the period 1974-76 when I served on the submarine USS Lewis and Clark (SSBN644 Blue).

Ina and Tom Berkey

July 24, 2009

Dottie, Tom joins me in saying how sad we are to hear of Steve's death. He was a fine Christian and a gentle soul. I cherish our recent meeting in the commissary, a chance to exchange greetings. Most of all I will remember his untiring advocacy for me and for many projects at St. Marks, especially the organ.
May God surround you with comfort and peace in the days ahead.
With much love, Ina and Tom Berkey

Jim Greco

July 24, 2009

Dottie,

My heartfealt condolences on your loss. You are in my thoughts.

Sandy Gross

July 24, 2009

Dottie, may you find comfort and strength in being with your family and many friends during this time of great loss. You have been in my prayers since learning of your loss. While only briefly talking with Steve at company functions, it was apparent that he was a special person – one that will be missed.

Trudy Stellar

July 24, 2009

Dottie,
Our prayers are with you. Steve lived a very full life and will be missed. Our love to all the family. Frank & Trudy

Susan Wease

July 23, 2009

Dottie, I am so saddene to hear this. You are in my prayers and have my deepest smypathies.

Jane Weber

July 23, 2009

Dottie, my deepest sypathies and prayers go out to you and your family during your time of loss.

(co-worker at SRA)

Phyllis Meador

July 23, 2009

Dottie and family,
We enjoyed the time we had with you and Steve as short as it was. You all have been in our thoughts these many months; Christie has kept us informed and we feel for your loss.

Best Wishes,

Tricia Chandler

July 23, 2009

Dottie, my deepest sympathies during your time of loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.

Phyllis Liscum

July 23, 2009

I am saddened to learn of Steve's passing and express sincere sympathies to his family. He was a very nice person.
Phyllis Liscum
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Elizabeth Johns

July 22, 2009

We mourn the lost of our dear friend. However, we were blessed that he and Rusty ran our way.
John and Beth Johns

Dwight Carter

July 22, 2009

Praying that the peace that passes all understanding will cover you and your family.

Stacy Ramirez

July 22, 2009

I was never prouder to serve than under Cpt. Cleal. He made the ship and crew sing. I am very sorry to hear about his passing. I was just doing a internet search looking for a fellow Jason crew member who's phone number I had lost and saw this. I was looking for the person to let them know my son wil be graduating boot camp from great lakes on Sep 3. Cpt Cleal's legacy continues to this day for our family. The picture I sent my son last night to cheer his way though boot camp was one when he was 9 years old on a family cruse on the USS Jason, his father and Cpt Cleal holding him up so he could "stear" the ship. HT2 Peterson, USS Jason AR8 1991-1994

Terry and Gloria Roop

July 22, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jim & Lucy Lancaster

July 22, 2009

Heartfelt sympathy from Jim and Lucy Lancaster, Winston-Salem, NC

Renee Priore

July 22, 2009

Dotte et al- I know well Steve's integrity and honesty. He will be missed in a hundred ways. Renee

Gail Warren

July 22, 2009

Dottie:

You are certainly in our prayers and thoughts. We will forever remember Steve and his kindness to our nephew, Lee. We will certainly miss him at the races and hope that you can come back when you feel you can manage it. Please try and remember all the good times and not dwell on the painful last three years. If you are ever in South Boston or Raleigh, NC and need anything our cell is 919-306-7806.
We will continue to pray for you.

Best Wishes,

Leonard and Gail Warren

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