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Roland Burphy Jr.

Roland Burphy Obituary

BURPHY, ROLAND, JR.

On Monday, January 23, 2006, Beloved son of Nancy Burphy; loving brother of Letrice, Taloh, Jarsea and Thomas II Burphy. Also survived by grandmother, aunts, uncles, cousins, other relatives and friends. On Saturday, February 4, friends may visit with the family from 8:30 a.m. until time of funeral service at 10 a.m. at Grace Brethren Church, 8400 Good Luck Rd, Lanham, MD. Interment Fort Lincoln Cemetery. Arrangements by CAPITOL MORTUARY.

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 3, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Roland Burphy

26 Entries

Taneh Love

November 23, 2006

On this Thanksgiving day I can't help but think of you my dear cousin/little brother. I miss you so much words cannot express how much. Man you would've had a big plate of food today and went back for seconds and more. We will never forget you and will always keep your memory alive. Your death will not be in vain.

The Joofs as we remember Shagari's 23rd birthday

April 17, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Jemah Freeman

March 16, 2006

Aunty Nan, Whi-Whi and TK, only God knows all the answers to our questions right now. My prayers go out to the entire family. Shagari, you are gone but your 22 years of life will never be forgotten. May your soul rest in eternal peace.

Lanham Boys & Girls Club Basketball star (10th grade)

March 5, 2006

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Monsio Love Joof

March 5, 2006

One month and a day ago, we laid Shagari to rest. Our family continues to mourn this incredible loss but we also cherish his moments with us and celebrate his wonderful life. Shagari was more like my baby brother than my cousin and I feel blessed to have enjoyed almost 23 years with him. I will always miss him but I rest assured that his life was not in vain and that we will meet again in heaven. May the same true God who welcomed Shagari home comfort each of our hearts!!

Roland F.T. Burphy, Jr. Gone too soon...

March 3, 2006

Whi, TK and Shagari at TK's HS graduation (June 2005)

March 3, 2006

Roland's high school graduation from Eleanor Roosevelt HS Greenbelt, MD(June 2001)

March 3, 2006

Shagari chilling at the airport

March 3, 2006

Shagari posing at his baptism at Grace Brethen Church (Lanham, MD)

March 3, 2006

Whi & "Puttee" showing off for African Day

March 3, 2006

"Puttee" with Mommy all decked out

March 3, 2006

"Puttee" w/big sis Whi & baby sis TK at home in Liberia (1987)

March 3, 2006

Dominique Dotson

February 28, 2006

Roland, I can't even believe that I am writing this. Its so crazy how this world works, I swear that the day you passed I saw your face everytime I closed my eyes. I told myself that I would call you and before I could I recieved the horrible news. I will never forget the impact you had on my life, from high school to college. I will miss your smile, I pray for you and your family everyday. I will miss you... Dominique

"I hate this world (not the people in it) where love is temporary and death lasts forever"

Stephanie (Stephie)

February 28, 2006

Shagari, will miss the pranks and the laughter! Was amazing to see how you had grown up so much the last time I saw you. I just remember DC, you and Uncle Roland being the only boys surrounded by all the girls but most of all the laughter was never-ending. I will treasure that forever. To Aunty Hne, when the enemy comes in, like a flood the Lord will raise a standard. You have been a standard-bearer for so many of us, God has used you to stay the hand of the enemy from consuming us, so stay strong, Jehovah Nissi is fighting your battle. He will strengthen and keep you and Whi and TK and the rest of the family, His Joy is your strength and the final victory is indeed that Shagari's name cannot be wiped out of the Lamb's book of life and when our Savior returns we will meet Uncle Roland and Shagari in the air. Love you guys. Stephie

Taneh Love

February 28, 2006

Aunty Nan,Whi and TK,

I don't even know what to say to you guys. This is still so hard and fresh and it hurts so much. I can't even imagine how you all feel but I know God is taking you through one day at a time. Shagari I miss you so much. I love you forever and always. Rest in peace little cousin.

Marion Foley

February 10, 2006

Tap . . .Words are inadequate at this time. I missed you around the campus and wondered why you have not stopped by the office; why I had not heard from you since the beginning of school. I have been thinking about you and praying that all was going well. (It's so unlike to stay away). Now I know. To you and youur family . . . Be encouraged. GOD IS FAITHFUL. He has promised never to leave us or forsake us. During this time when you feel alone or just don't understand, trust Him, talk to Him, listen to Him. He loves, He cares. Remember . . . I love you and I am praying for you and the family. Ms. Foley (Come and see me or call me when you can).

sasha mcclain

February 8, 2006

shagari...rest in peace...you will truly be missed by me and by all. you were like another brother to me...well, until we see eachother again...goodbye

Tahplah Nah

February 7, 2006

Shagari,

Man, I feel so guilty that I couldn't do anything to keep this from happening to you. I have so many questions, but the biggest one is, Who stole you from us? I love you, and will do anything in my power to be there for your sisters and mother. On our last conversation, we both agreed that we would focus on taking care of our goals and taking care of the future of our family. I'm going to stick to our plan, man. Gone but never forgotten. Me, Biz, and Sar miss our other "grona" crew member. I love you man.

Your cousin,

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Major Lewis

February 6, 2006

Nan,

I cannot possibly know the grief that you and your family are experiencing. However, I know that you know that GOD always has a plan for us and for those that we love. With that knowledge, we can rejoice that your beloved son is now "dancing with the angels."

Bismark Cole

February 6, 2006

I miss Shagari. He was like my little brother. Nobody will ever take his place. Always will remain in our hearts. I'll see you someday.

Taloh (TK) Burphy

February 6, 2006

Shagari,

I cant believe I am writing this. I never once thought that I would be telling you to Rest in Peace...well atleast not at this time. Well, nobody can question GOD but I can def. reassure you that I will always miss you and you will always live in my heart. I love you soo much and nothing will ever separate our bond that we have. You were the best brother any little sister could ever want!! I cant wait until I reunite with you one fine day!! Rest in perfect Peace Shagari......I LOVE YOU ALWAYS BRO!!!

Your little sister always and forever,

TK

Charwin Nah

February 5, 2006

Nan, Whi & TK, know that I hurt with you. God's heart aches when our hearts ache. But God also knows how to heal the hurt. So we rest in knowing that He is an Ephesians 3:20 God who seals each deal, no matter how difficult, with Romans 8:28. Know that you're loved and we're in this together.

~Your brother and uncle, Charwin

Taneh, Titi and Ahmad

February 5, 2006

Shagari we miss you so much Our family will never be the same without you. Rest in perfect eternal peace. We love you

Monsio Love

February 4, 2006

Shagari, we miss you! RIP!

~THE JOOFS

Camille Murphy

February 3, 2006

Whiyata,

You and your family are in my prayers. May God Bless You.

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