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Harry Caldwell Obituary

Of Sagamore, MA, died on July 8, 2008 at St. Elizabeth's Hospital, Brighton, MA, of complications following recent heart surgery. He was 86 years of age. Born in Hempstead, NY, he grew up in New York City entering the U.S. Naval Academy in 1940. Due to the war, he graduated in 1943 with the accelerated class of 1944. In 1948, he married Mary Deane Hilliker of NY. Harry was strongly influenced by both of his parents. His father pioneered the USN Submarine fleet through command of the first commissioned US Naval submarine (Holland), and his mother was a writer working on newspapers and in the Hollywood film industry. Harry spent most of his first twenty years of commissioned service in submarine billets. Sea duty included war-time service in DACE (SS 247) eventually taking command of SPIKEFISH (SS 404). In 1961, he became the Commander of SUBMARINE DIVISION 22. In 1964, he was assigned command of MARIAS (A0 57), a fleet oiler. Later, he was stationed in London as C.O. Fleet Operations Control Center, US Naval Forces, Europe; followed by a twilight tour as C.O. Fleet Training Center, Newport, RI. He was awarded his Master's Degree from George Washington University. After retirement from the Navy, he settled in CT where he worked for General Dynamics Corp., Groton, until 1978. He served the town of East Lyme as Selectman and Water and Sewer Commissioner. In retirement, he researched and published articles for "Submarine Review" and US Naval Institute's "Proceedings". He worked as an editor and contributing author of the coffee-table book, "United States Submarines". Harry enjoyed playing tennis throughout his Naval career and after. He hiked with friends as member and group leader in the Appalachian Mountain Club, leading trips in Europe, Canada and Hawaii, as well as eastern Connecticut. Harry is survived by his wife Mary Deane of 60 years, three children: Barbara Caldwell Siegel of Wawarsing, NY, Katharine C. Parsons of Bourne, MA and Douglas R. Caldwell of West Roxbury, MA, and seven grandchildren. A Memorial Service will be held at the U.S. Navy Submarine Force Museum, Groton, CT on Sept. 13th. Burial is at sea. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Submarine Force Library & Museum Assoc.

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Published by Boston Globe on Jul. 20, 2008.

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Karl Cozad

September 28, 2008

Dear Mrs. Caldwell (Deane): Janet and I express our deepest condolences and regards to you and your family on the passing of Captain Caldwell. I was your husband's lead yeoman in 1970-71 at London. Because of him, I completed college;obtained my Navy commission; flew jets; became a lawyer; retired from the U.S. Navy and later civilian government service. We have many fond memories of our earlier Navy days and of you and your husband. May God bless you, now and always. Karl "Vin" and Janet Cozad.

Richard Chalifoux

August 8, 2008

To the Caldwell Family,
Doug, our sincerest sympathies on the loss of your dad. I remember enjoying conversation with Harry, when we were guests at your cabin. One would never have guessed the extent of this man's achievements based on his humble and friendly demeanor. It was our pleasure to have met such a man. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you all.
Richard & Caroline

Joanna Connolly

August 6, 2008

Dear Doug and Family,
Please accept our sincere condolence for the loss of your Father.It is a very sad and profound loss for all the loved ones that mean so much to him. When hearts are full of love for a father and a husband it is with graditude that knowing how much he loved his family may help comfort some of the pain and sorrow of such a devasting loss.
With thoughts and Prayers to you, Your Mom, Kenny, Robby, Tricia, and many family members, may your many memories of your Dad bring you much peace and solace through these trying times.

Love to you Doug,
Joanna & David Connolly & Family

Paul Hurley

July 30, 2008

Dear Doug, Trish and Caldwell family, Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss. I will miss having wonderful chats with Harry about his Navel career and his love of trains. He will be truly missed by many. Paul Hurley and family

Bill & Shari Randall

July 27, 2008

To Mrs. Deannie Caldwell,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. My mom told me of Harry's passing and she just wanted to talk about the good times - all of the hikes and trips to Europe. Harry is fondly remembered by our family.

Nick Nichols

July 23, 2008

To the Caldwell Family,

On behalf of the Charleston Base SUBVETS, I offer you our sincere condolences on the passing of Captain Caldwell. We grieve with you on the loss of your loved one. In this time of grief please know all SUBVETS and their families have your family in our thoughts and prayers. There is no expiration date on the back of our dolphins and Captain Caldwell will always be remembered as a “Brother of the Phin”.

Charleston Base Submarine Veterans
Nick Nichols, Base Chaplain

Claire and Jeffrey Campbell

July 20, 2008

Dear Doug and Patricia and the entire Caldwell Family,

We are sorry to hear of the loss of Doug's Dad. We never had the privilege of meeting him, but, had heard so many wonderful stories about him and the moments shared amongst the Caldwell family. Please know that thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Love, The Campbell Family

Pamela McClung

July 18, 2008

To the Caldwell Familly

My deepest condolences to your family. May your memories of him and your faith in God carry you through this difficult time.

John Carcioppolo

July 17, 2008

To the Caldwell Family,

My sincerest condolences on your loss. Although I never new Captain Caldwell personally, he was a member of U.S. SUBMARINE VETERANS Groton Base when I was the Base Commander. He was a Life Member of our organization and a member of the prestigious HOLLAND CLUB recognizing over 50 years of being Qualified in Submarines.

He was a Brother of the Phin and no doubt a proud American who served his country in the U.S. Navy.

We share your loss.

There is a port of no return where ships may ride at anchor for a little space. And then some starless night a cable slips leaving only an eddy at the mooring place. Gulls vear no longer, Sailor rest your oar. No tangled wreckage shall be washed ashore.

HAND SALUTE!
Captain Harry Caldwell. . . .
REST YOUR OAR!
READY TWO

John J. Carcioppolo
Past USSVI Groton Base Commander
USSVI Eastern Region Director

Dudley Dahlquist ETCS(SS)

July 16, 2008

I am so sorry to here of Capt Caldwell passing.
He was my first skipper 1956 to 1959 on my first sub. He was the best skipper I ever had.

Fred and Penny Young

July 16, 2008

To My friends and the Caldwell Family,
It is with deepest regret to learn of Captain Caldwell passing. The Caldwell’s have the most sincere condolences of the Young’s Family, Fred and Penny Young. It was my pleasure to have served on the USS Spikefish (SS404) during Captain Caldwell's command. Our most sincere sympathy goes out to his beloved wife, Deannie, of 60 years which we had the pleasure of knowing and for her advice while serving under Captain Caldwell. He was a gentleman’s gentleman and his advice, guidance and leadership will be sorely missed by all of us who knew, prospered and respected his guidance. May he find everlasting peace on his eternal patrol. Smooth sailing Captain! Fred and Penny Young

Al McGuire

July 16, 2008

To my friends, the Caldwell family.
I served with several good skippers, but Capt. Caldwell was not only a fine C.O. but also among the finest gentlemen in my life. My most sincery sorrow in your behalf.

Suzanne Rathbun

July 16, 2008

To the Caldwell Family,
My deapest condolences on the passing of Captain Caldwell. He was a genuine person, who cared for his crew members even after he retired. He was there when my father passed away, and gave comfort to the family. May he find lasting peace on his eternal patrol.

Sincerely,
Suzanne Rathbun (Smith)
Daughter of Charles H. Smith TMC Ret.

Ted Parsons

July 16, 2008

As with many individuals who have placed a sincere and profound influence upon the world and those around them, Harry was a humble man. He was kind and wise, and ever a gentleman's gentleman. I thank Heaven for his wonderful life. We will miss being with him.

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