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CONROY, Robert F. "Bobby" 49, of Needham, passed away on Monday, October 27th, 2008 at home with his family after fighting a long courageous battle with colon cancer. He is survived by his wife Sindia L. (Visco) Conroy of 23 years. School sweethearts since 1975, they were together for 33 years. Bobby is survived by his loving sons, Mark, Steven and Matthew, his mother, Ann (Lundegren) Conroy of Brighton & son of the late Thomas F. Conroy, and his brothers and their families: Attorney Thomas J. Conroy and his life partner, Betty Simpkins of Canton, Frank and his wife, Susan Conroy of Billerica, Michael Conroy of Waltham, Jim and his wife, Cheryl Conroy of Canton, and John and his wife, Diana Conroy also of Canton. Bobby will also be greatly missed by Sindi's parents, Domenico and Cesidia Visco of Brighton, MA and Sindi's brother, Bruno and his wife, Tullia Visco, Sindi's brother Davide and his wife, Jen Visco, all of Newton, MA and Sindi's sister Rita and her husband, Rich Crowley of Canton, MA. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held in St. Joseph Church, 1382 Highland Ave., Needham on Friday, Oct 31 at 10 AM. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. Visiting hours will be held in the Eaton Funeral Home, 1351 Highland Ave, (Exit 19B off Rte 128) NEEDHAM on Thursday from 4-8 PM. Interment at Newton Cemetery. A talented athlete, Bobby played quarterback for both Boston College High School and Columbia University. Bobby was a long-time standing member of The Boston Traders' Association, where he enjoyed a distinguished career as a sales trader in the financial industry. He began his profession with Woody Gundy in 1986. He went on to Alex Brown, a trading firm that was bought by Bankers Trust in 1997, which in turn was acquired by Deutsche Bank in 1999. Bobby retired from Deutsche Bank in Boston as its Managing Director in 2004. Bobby's bright light shines unwaveringly and eternally within the hearts of all who knew and loved him. His family and friends will continue to be inspired by his life, his love and his faith. He will always be our hero. A scholarship fund for underprivileged children has been established in Bobby's name. In lieu of flowers, donations should be made to Bobby Conroy Memorial Fund and mailed to Bank of America, Attention Andrew Duffy, 1455 Highland Ave., Needham MA 02492. For obituary, directions or to send a note of condolence: www.eatonfuneralhomes.com. Eaton Funeral Home 1-781-444-0201

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 28 to Oct. 30, 2008.

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Marna Bate

January 31, 2009

I met Bob on a plane trip. I knew him for about three hours but his amazing spirit touched me very deeply. We talked the entire trip! I have never enjoyed a plane ride like that before! He was very happy to be going to visit his son in college and also touched me with how warmly he spoke about his "high school sweetheart". I am old enough to have been his mother but we spoke in an ageless way. I was impressed with his spiritual path/reading to try to find some answers and solve some of these unimaginable mysteries in life; the whys that we just can't seem to answer. I had hoped so much to see you all walk into the Port in Harwichport so I could meet the family that meant so much to him. I still hope to meet you all some day, here in Harwichport. Feel free to call (508-432-2448) and I will meet you there and be your hostess! I did call once and left that number in the hopes of making contact with Bob and his family. I wanted him to know I was thinking of him but I didn't want to be intrusive. Anyway, I just now found this information on the internet and am so sorry! You all were blessed to have had such a wonderful man in your lives! My heart goes out to you!
Fondly, Marna Bate

Sheila Gallagher

December 26, 2008

Dear Sindi and Conroy family

How sorry I am to hear of Bobby's passing.
I knew Bobby in the '70's when a group of us "hung out" in Faneuil Square. Bobby was a great kid then and from all I've read, he grew to be a great man.

My deepest sympathies

John Heim

November 26, 2008

Dear Conroy Family,

I was very saddened to learn of Bobby's passing. It was my pleasure to have worked with him from Alex. Brown's position trading desk in Baltimore for most of the 1990's. Bobby's enthusiasm and wit was something all of the traders could count on regardless of the situation in the marketplace. I know he will be missed by many. Please take comfort in knowing he is now in our Lord's care for eternity. God Bless you, Bobby !

Your Friend,

Susan Lemire

November 3, 2008

Dear Sindi and Family,

I was so very saddened to hear about the passing of Bobby. Though it's been 20-25 years since I have seen him, I can't help but remember his charming personality and the great love he shared with you Sindi.

Please know that I am thinking of you and your family at this most difficult time.

My deepest sympathy,
Susan Lemire

Joel Goldberg

November 2, 2008

Dear Sindia,

I was terribly sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. During the entire time that I cared for him I was impressed with his dignity, grace, equanimity and perseverance. I can only hope that your fond memories of the time that you, Bobby and the boys had together will help soften the anguish of his loss and untimely death. My thoughts and prayers are with him and your family always.

Warmest regards,

Joel Goldberg

Steve Cemate

November 1, 2008

Dear Sindi & Family:My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you.I knew Bobby from St. Col's and youth football and baseball.Although he went to rival BC High and I to Don Bosco he will always remain in my memory as one of the most genuine and loving people I have ever known,and will always bring a smile to my face when I think of him.May God be with you at this difficult time and know that he touched the lives of every person he met in a positive and caring way.

Ishige Family

November 1, 2008

To the Conroy family,
We were hearbroken to hear about Bobby's passing. Bobby was our son Andy's coach in the St. Joseph basketball league when he was in 8th grade, along with Matt. We will never forget how kind Bobby was to Andy and went out of his way to always encourage him to do his best on the court. When Andy was accepted at BC High, we will always remember how Bobby's face lit up when Andy told him, and how he came over to congratulate us. It is unselfish men like Bobby who will always give hope and encouragement to others through example and sincerity. I only knew Bobby through that one short winter season but he showed me he was truly a "man for others". He will always be in our hearts and prayers.

Jim Fitzpatrick

November 1, 2008

To the entire Conroy Family:

I was a senior at BCH when I first met this young freshmen with the great personality. I played QB for Coach Cotter and he asked me to work with Bobby on his fundamentals. Well it took no more than a few minutes to see that his fundamentals were better than my fundamentals! The rest is history. What a great young man. May he rest in peace.

PJ Callahan

November 1, 2008

To the Conroy family, We send our deeppest sympathy to each of you. Bobby was such a great friend and teamate at BC High. After not seeing him for many years and then running into him getting a cup of coffee just last year it seemed that time had passed to quickly. Bobby was a bright light among all who knew him with his smile and spirit. May God bless him and you with his love. Bobby will always be with you and us and his spirit lives on.
PJ Callahan, BC High '76 and family

Patricia Ciccone

October 31, 2008

dear Sindi & Family:
We were so sorry to hear of the great loss of Bob,We missed you so much after you moved from next door to us to Needham,Margie and her family are still there on Fair Oaks ave Jay lives on west st ,as well as Shannon and here Family. Allan and I live in Naples FL. what a shock when Margie call and told us of your great loss !WE all missed you so much our prayers are with you and your wonderful Family
All our love to you !!

The Ciccone Family

Brian Buckley

October 31, 2008

My first basketball coaching job was when I first met Bobby at BC High. Although our paths have not crossed since that time, his impression has been with me ever since. Whenever I coach a player with great leadership skills, I think of Bobby. Whenever I coach a player with magnitisum, I think of Bobby. And now whenever I step on the basketball court, Bobby's memory will be with me. He was a coach's dream and I am sure that he as had a tremendous impact on anyone with whom he met. I am saddened greatly by his loss and my thoughts and prayers are with his family.

John Mac Donald

October 30, 2008

To the Conroy families ,relatives,friends, My deepest sympathies on your loss. I went through St Cols and little league with Bobby and I want to tell his boys that he was the best baseball and football player to ever come out of Brighton !I admired him greatly not only for his great athletic ability but for his humility and leadership.My thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time.

Louise Oconnell

October 30, 2008

To the Conroy Family-

May Bobby rest in peace.
Deepest Sympathy,

Louise & Ken O'Connell and Family

Jeff Aliber

October 30, 2008

Sindi, Mark, Steven, Matthew and the rest of the Conroy Family,

The Aliber crew has many fond memories from years of standing on the sidelines rooting our kids on in soccer -- including club trips to Virginia Beach.

Bobby was one of my absolute favorites. Even when he was struggling he could always put a smile on my face.

He was one of the truly "good guys" and he will be greatly missed both personally and by the community at large.

Our hearts and prayers go out to you.

Ben, Josh, Matt, Joanne, and Jeff Aliber

Bruno Leone

October 30, 2008

Dear Sindi, Mark, Steven, Matthew, and the Conroy family

I want to express my deepest sympathy and condolences. The Bobby i knew was always happy and knew how keep everyone smiling. Never will forget his infectious laughter. He was always very humble and a generous person. A loving husband and a loving father, wonderful to his family and friends; hard to see a great gentleman leave us so soon. Bobby's spirit will always remain with us. As we go on with our daily lives, Bobby will always be there looking down watching us. My prayers are with you.

With sincere and respect

Amy Ronkin

October 30, 2008

Jim Conroy:

I am sooo sorry to hear of your brother's passing, at last he is at peace!

Although I never met your brother, I can tell by all the lovely sentiments posted in this guest book that he was a true gentleman!

Always remember that those we lose are not gone, as they live in our hearts forever.

My sincerest sympathies to you and your sister-in-law and nephews as well as your Mom (I can only imagine how difficult this is on her).

Amy M. Ronkin
Wollaston Wine & Spirits

Frank Colpoys

October 30, 2008

Dear Conroy Family,
My condolences on your loss. Bobby was a classmate of mine at B.C. High and I have great memories of him as a friend and classmate during our days on Morrissey Boulevard. Although I only saw him a few times since our graduation, I always very much enjoyed our visits.
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Frank Colpoys
B.C. High '77

Paul and Mary Quin

October 30, 2008

To the Conroy Family:
Bobby was a friend from grade school at St. Col's and a football rival in high school. He was always fun, with quick witt and a laugh--a true talent and good guy! He shall be missed by all whose lives he touched!

Bob and Mike Ferrrini and Fragale

October 30, 2008

with love
Robert Ferrarini and Mike Fragale

Kristine Nardelli & Family

October 30, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Brian Tullos

October 30, 2008

Dear Conroy Family,
I'm very sorry for your lose and please accept my condolences. Bobby was my classmate at St. Columbkilles (8th grade) and I remember him a winner, with all the atributes we all wished for. Bobby was a special person who will always give me positive thoughs when I think of him. Your family will be in my though & Prayers during this difficult time.

Carolyn Ng

October 30, 2008

Sindi, Mark, Steven, Matthew and the rest of the Conroy Family,

A genuine Hall of Fame human... that twinkle in his eyes, the "Bobby" smile, the kind words and the unconditional love he gave and recieved!

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Rest in Peace Bobby... You had done such such great work in the all too short time you were with us!

Love,
Paul, Carolyn and Family

Norma Caloiero(Tempesta)

October 30, 2008

Sindi,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.My prayers are with you and your sons.

Michael Sullivan

October 30, 2008

I offer you my deepest sympathies and prayers at this time of tremendous loss.

Just the thought of Bobby still brings a smile even after these many years since BC High. Over these many years I would be driving through Brighton and would fondly remember him. He was one of those unique people – a genuine nice guy.

Again, my deepest sympathies and prayers for the days, weeks and years to come.

Michael Sullivan
BC High 78

Fedele and Ivana Cacia

October 29, 2008

Dear Sindi, Ann and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Bobby was a wondedrful person that gave so much and yet had so much more to offer. We are sadden that he was taken from you so prematurely, but take comfort in knowing that he has taken his rightful place next to the lord.

Nancy Camilli

October 29, 2008

Dear Sindi,
I am so sorry to hear such sad news. I know Bobby will be in a good place because he was such a wonderful person. Always will I remember his great smile. I am sorry.
Nancy, Lindsey and Adam Camilli

Cheryl and Keith Bailey

October 29, 2008

Dear Sindi and family,
We were very sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences. We will always remember Bobby at the beach with his boys, having fun, being a great Dad. May all your happy memories help get you through this difficult time.

Mary Duffy

October 29, 2008

Sindi, what a beautiful, bright light has gone out in this world. Bob was the rarest of men. I will never forget how kind he was to me when Duff died. My heart aches for you and the boys because I can imagine what you're enduring. Be assured that God will give you the courage to get through this just as he helped you through the last few years. Much love and many prayers.

Mary Duffy

October 29, 2008

Sindi, what a beautiful, bright light has gone out in this world. Bob was the rarest of men. My heart aches for you and the boys because I know what you're enduring. Be assured that God will give you the courage to get through this just as he helped you through the last few years. Much love and many prayers.

st cols classmate 3rd grade 3rd grade classmate

October 29, 2008

Another angel earning his wings while he watches over his wife and children. A very special person. Remember him well from grammar school. Infectious laugh and smile. Rest in peace Bobby,

classmate from st cols

jessica seminara

October 29, 2008

Our deepest condolences to the Conroy family. We are so saddened to hear of your loss. We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and in our prayers. What a wonderfull man to know. He will be missed.......... You are in our hearts forever... Jay, Jessica, and Drew Seminara.

Maria Costanzo

October 29, 2008

Dear Sindia and the Conroy Family:

I was so sad to hear of the loss of your husband. I haven't seen you and the boys since the days of Jimmy and Patrick's birthday parties. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. You have a lovely family to help you get through this. My sincerest sympathies to all.
Maria Costanzo

Torigian Family

October 29, 2008

Dear Conroy Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. As neighbors we watched Bobby grow into a fine young man, marry and have a family. During today and always may you think of happier times spent with Bobby to help get you through your sad days.
God Bless,
The Torigian Family

Geri DeSario (All About Nails)

October 29, 2008

Sindi, I was so sad to hear about the loss of your wonderful husband. You and the boys are in my prayers.

Patty Healey (All About Nails)

October 29, 2008

Sindi, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rich "Eagle" Evans

October 29, 2008

Dear Conroy Family,

It has been way too many years since I last saw Bobby (31 years ago) at BC High. I will always remember his infectious smile and good nature. Like Bobby and his wife we have three boys and I try always to teach them the BC High motto of "being a man for others!"

Bobby was a great "city kid" who always went out of his way to put his best foot forward to lead by example. Thanks for the great memories Bobby and may he rest in peace! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.

Maureen (Cahill) Magane

October 29, 2008

Dear Cindy and Family,
I was saddened to hear that Bobby was so sick. I remember when you first started dating him and how happy you both were. My heart goes out to you and your family. May his smile and laughter and the great years you had together help you through these trying times.

David Bernard

October 29, 2008

I haven't seen Bobby in over 30 years but a smile comes across my face when I think of those days of BC High football, his infectious smile and loyalty to his school and his friends. God bless his wife and family, and rest in peace my friend.
Dave Bernard

Richard & Donna McMahon

October 29, 2008

Sindi and boys as Bobby so fondly said. All the way to the end he still was more concerned with all of you instead of himself. This is going to be a hard road but his spirit will keep you all going. He will be so truly missed along with that courageous smile.

Louise Russell

October 29, 2008

To the Conroy family,

I am very sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. My heart is with you in this time of such terrible loss and sorrow. May he rest in peace.
***************
"Perhaps, they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy."
--- Eskimo legend

THOMAS AND LYDIA SEBastyn

October 29, 2008

TO BOB'S LOVING FAMILY
BOB WAS A WONDERFUL, CARING NEIGHBOR.
A VERY SPECIAL PERSON WITH A GREAT HEART AND UPBEAT PERSONALITY. WE WILL
ALWAYS REMEMBER HIS SPARKLING SMILE.
SINCERELY, LYDIA AND TOM

JULIE STAFFIERI

October 29, 2008

Dear Cindy and Family,
I know it's been a long time.I'm truely sorry for your loss. Bobby was such a good guy with a contagious laugh. At least I have the good memories of the old days. I will pray for you and your family. Take one day at a time and keep strong.
All my prayers ,
Julie Staffieri-Rossetti

David Pothier

October 28, 2008

Sindi&family, Mrs. Conroy&family,
Deeply saddened by your loss, my condolences.
Bobby was a great guy, a great athlete, and always had a happy and helping word for everyone around him, with his bright smile. I remember back when he met you Sindi, and he was quite happy and in love. I'm sure Bobby had many wonderful times with his sons, teaching them to enjoy life as he did. Like many people, I have many wonderful memories of Bobby.
Prayers for your comfort in this difficult time.

edmund lizotte

October 28, 2008

Dear Sindi,Mark,Steven and Matthew, We were so very very sorry to hear of Bobbys passing.He will be greatly missed.God bless you. sincerely Ed and Betty

Dorothy McCarthy Gill

October 28, 2008

To the Conroy Family,

I was saddened to hear of your loss of Bobby. I looked earlier today and saw a picture of the young boy I knew and loved. I know he was as wonderful a man as he was a boy. He always has a smile on his face and in his eyes.

After his long and valiant struggle, may he now rest peacefully in the arms of God, until you meet again.

With deep sympathy and affection,

Janice Slavin

October 28, 2008

Syndi and Family,
Our condolences to all of you. We heard Bobby was sick and was in our prayers. It's been a real long time, but it was fun days back in Brighton with you and Bobby. He'll always be in our memories.

Billy and Janice (Staffieri) Slavin

Brian Sullivan

October 28, 2008

Sindia,Mark,Steven and Matthew,
I am very sorry for your loss. Bobby was a great guy who loved his family deeply. Growing up he was a true prankster who was always up for some fun. He was a great athlete and a smart guy. I will always remember his laugh. You couldn't help but to laugh along with him. Bobby will be greatly missed.
May he rest in peace.

Brian Sullivan

brian gillis

October 28, 2008

Many fond memories from BCH included Bobby and his smile. We will all miss him. May God Bless and keep him and may you take comfort in Gods words in this difficult time

John Busch

October 28, 2008

We are so sorry to learn of your loss, and we share your grief. Steven and Ryan have been friends since they were tiny, and Bobby was always extra kind and thoughtful to our son. Bobby was generous, enthusiastic, funny, and a true source of inspiration. He will be missed.

Gerry Mahoney

October 28, 2008

I haven't seen Bobby since BC High, 31 years ago. I always enjoyed his company. He was always very nice to me. My condolences to his family on this horrible loss.
Requiescant in pace!

Laura and Brian FitzPatrick

October 28, 2008

Sindi, Mark, Steven and Matt, we are saddened by your loss. Bobby was a gentle kind man who always had a smile and a kind word to share with others. We will miss him greatly. I pray you all find comfort in your memories of him to help you get through this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Bobby- we will see you in heaven!

Fr. Donald MacMillan, SJ

October 28, 2008

Sindi and family, I am so sorry to learn of Bobby's death. I know this is very hard for you as it was for him. He was bright and fun with a huge personality. Classes at BC High were always interesting with him. I enjoyed him very much. He's out of pain and in the house God prepared for him. I pray that God comfort you and bring peace to your hearts. God bless.
Fr. Don MacMillan, SJ

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