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Eleanor Alter Obituary

ALTER, Eleanor Reed 100, of Victory Highway, died late Tuesday afternoon, November 4, 2008, with her youngest son, Ernest by her side in St. Antoine Residence, No Smithfield. She was the wife of the late Nicholas M. Alter, M.D., who died in 1970. Born May 4, 1908 in Montgomery, AL, the daughter of the late Eleanor Fray Cochran and Prentiss Bishop Reed, she had lived in No. Smithfield since 1956. She was a 1926 graduate of the Scarborough School in Tarrytown, NY. She was a 1930 graduate of Smith College, where she had served as President of the Press Corps, and obtained a M.A. in British Literature in 1961 from Syracuse University. Mrs. Alter taught English and French at King Philip Regional High School in Wrentham, MA for 25 years until she retired in 1987, at age 79. Mrs. Alter and her family moved to Rhode Island when Dr. Alter was appointed Director of Medical Education at Woonsocket Hospital in 1956. She is survived by a daughter, Eleanor Haas of New York City, NY, two sons, Nicholas A. Alter of Arroyo Grande, CA and Ernest H. Alter of Slatersville and two grandchildren, Nina Eleanor Alter of San Francisco, CA and Prentiss Alter of Jersey City, NJ. She was predeceased by a daughter, Katherine Cree, who died in 1987, a brother, Lt. Col. Prentiss B. Reed, who died in 1999 and her younger sister, Dolly Wageman, who died in 2006. A Funeral Service will be held Saturday, Nov. 8 at 10 AM in St. James' Episcopal Church, 24 Hamlet Ave., Woonsocket, RI 02895. Burial will follow in Union Cemetery, North Smithfield. Calling hours are omitted. Arrangements under the direction of the Holt Funeral Home, 510 South Main St., WOONSOCKET, RI. Memorial contributions may be made to St. James' Episcopal Church. www.holtfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Boston Globe on Nov. 6, 2008.

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Barbara Larsen

November 27, 2008

To the family of Eleanor Alter:
I, too, was one of many of her students who will never forget her (Class of '65). I often wondered where she was. I am so sorry she was so close - I would have enjoyed going to see her. She was one of my favorite teachers. She went with me to one of her student's funeral and she was so very kind and loving with the family. A truly remarkable woman that I will never forget. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

D. Ann Nadeau (Smith)

November 26, 2008

I graduated from KP High in 1965. As my English teacher, Mrs. Alter encouraged me to write. After all these years, I have finally taken her advice and am just finishing my second novel.
I feel her presence when I write and am grateful to have known such and kind and colorful person.

Erven Samsel

November 14, 2008

To the family of Mrs. Alter,

Mrs. Alter was a truly unique and gifted teacher. As one of her students in the class 0f 1964 at King Philip Regional HS, I found her to be warm, enthusiastic and caring. The example of dedication and caring she showed toward her students and all young people was exceptional. I am very sorry for your loss.

Catherine Flaherty

November 10, 2008

Mrs. Alter was my Creative Writing teacher back in 1981 at King Philip. She was patient, understanding and just great teacher...

In all the years which have so quickly passed by, she will always be one of the few teachers that I fondly remember from my school days at King Philip.

Brenda Boucher Demourelle

November 9, 2008

Ernest,
I am very sorry for your loss. My sister and I used to love to go with my father, Richard Boucher, to cut your Moms grass. She was a wonderful woman...may she rest in peace and our prayers are with you as you go through this very difficult time.

MaryAnn Pasquantonio

November 8, 2008

Both my sister and I had the pleasure of being in Mrs. Alter's English class. She taught me lessons that I carry with me today. I was always amazed by her jewelry collection especially the red beaded necklace that resembled freshly ground beef. Two years ago I aquired a similar necklace and refer to it as my "Mrs. Alter" necklace. Good, very good memories from this truly Graundam.

Sr. Joyce Gardella

November 8, 2008

Dear Ernie,

What a wonderful person your dear mother was and what a long life lived with God! You are a great example of a most devoted son and edified all with your example. May your dear mother rest in the eternal peace and love of Christ, forever.
With deep condolences and prayers,
Srs. Joyce, Therese and Emilie, fmm
and the Sisters at St. Antoine

Pamela Ross-Fearn

November 8, 2008

I will never forget Mrs. Alter. She was my english teacher in 1983. To this day, my friend Jill and I recall endless moments in her class that were truly unforgettable. If you never had her as your teacher, you really missed out on an incredible experience. She was a legend.

JoAnne Main

November 8, 2008

Mrs. Alter touched many lives, encouraging young minds through her steadfast beliefs and strong sense of self. Her memory is one I treasure, my classmates and I were blessed to have her influence. Our sympathies on your loss. With affection,
JoAnne Bruneau Main Class of '87

Matthew Lazzara

November 7, 2008

It is with saddened heart to hear of the passing of Mrs. Alter. She opened a window into the world of poetry and free style writing that I never thought would become a love of mine. It was an honor to take her Creative Writing class, and be the editor-in-chief of Sachem, the literary magazine that she founded at King Philip, in her final year there. She will always be remembered and beloved.

Lisa Vaphiades-Ethier

November 7, 2008

To Mrs. Alter's family,
Oh my goodness, we have lost a legend. Mrs. Alter was one of my favorite teachers ever. She always made sure that each and every student understood what she was teaching. Boy, I needed that at times. God bless you all and I will keep you in my prayers. I was class of 83.

Denise Daigneault

November 6, 2008

Ernie,
We extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family on Mother's passing. It was a privilege to care for her and we shall think of her often enjoying your music. Your devotion to Mother was exceptional and we will miss your daily visits here.
Sincerely,
Sue of Evercare, Marianne of VNS, Denise and all the staff on 2B

Celeste Ring / Gorman

November 6, 2008

To Mrs Alters' family...Our thoughts and prayers are with you...She was truely a dedicated teacher...Class of KP 88...We will have a moment of silence for her at our Class Reunion

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