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Ed Lambert
December 10, 2008
Dear Eleanor;
All of us were saddened to learn of Jay's passing. He was such an integral part of our Chapter of the Military Officers Association - we will miss him greatly.
You and Jay brought so much laughter and expertise especially for our Scholarship Fund raising and Jay's experience, knowledge and insight cannot be replaced. It just won't be the same.
Please feel free to contact us and maybe join us for one of our monthly luncheons or dinners.
He will be in our prayers,
Sincerely,
Ed Lambert, Capt., USN Retired
Sunny Breed
December 1, 2008
Dear Eleanor and all of Jay's family,
Getting to know Jay was one of the highlights of my recent term with TUAA and TAC. His dedication to Tufts was much admired and set a great example for all of us. He will be missed greatly but his contributions to our alma mater live on.
Alan MacDougall
November 26, 2008
Dear family, I am saddend to learn of he death of such a vibrant and lively man as Jay. He loved his countr and he loved his alma mater and so do I. I was always moved by his enthusiasm for his causes, particulary ROTC. He was such a splendid example to the young officers trained at Tufts. I valued his advice and counsel.
Alan M. MacDougall A'65
Past President
Tufts University Alumni Association
Betty Hinkley
November 26, 2008
Eleanor,
I always enjoyed my conversations with Jay - his wit and straightforwardness were always refreshing. I will always remember his "mid-stream" contributions to the Raffle, designed to give him the "best chance to win." The Cape Cod Tufts Club will miss him; and you are always welcome to attend our events - we'd love to see you.
Stephen Viegas
November 26, 2008
Dear Eleanor,
I met Jay at the time of our respective class reunions in 2000. At the Alumni Luncheon, President Di Biaggio noted that the class of 1945 and 1970 were defined by World War II and the Vietnam War respectively. Jay and I decided that this was an important connection. We forged a very nice friendship. Despite our differences we found much common ground. Jay was very proud of his experience with the Navy program at Tufts. I was equally proud of my peaceful activities at Tufts, opposing the Vietnam War.
Jay and I served on several committees together. I was proud to witness his receipt of the Tufts Distinguished Service Award. Jay was a very important friend. I last saw Jay at the Fall meeting of the Alumni Council when he was struggling with his illness. I will miss him greatly.
Steve Viegas, Tufts Class of 1970
Sol Gittleman
November 13, 2008
Dear
Eleanor,
Jay played a very important role in my life over the last twenty years,
and helped teach me the meaning of service, love of country, and
friendship. I will miss him.
Sol Gittleman
Justin Wheeler
November 10, 2008
November 10, 2008
Dear Eleanor and family, For a lad coming from Belfast, Northern Ireland and landing in Wellesley, the hospitality of Howard and the Samuels family was immense, and no one could make us Babson students laugh like Jay. The World will be a sadder place without him, but the memories will endure for a very long time (and maybe there's a little bit of him in little Max and Tessa)
Love,
Justin & Betsy Wheeler
James Kaplan
November 10, 2008
Dear Eleanor and family - from all of us we wish to express our deepest and sincere condolences. Jay had a full and wonderful life and shared his love and experiences with his extended family from which we all benefited. In many ways, my family will all carry on with life's journey with a little bit of Jay's humor and ubiquitous stock tips ingrained in our personalities.
With all our love,
James, Nita, Anastasia, Alexander and Sheldon Kaplan
rebecca braun
November 10, 2008
Dear Eleanor,
It is hard to believe Jay is gone--he is so vibrant and alive in my mind. Our thoughts are with you and with James, Howard, Elizabeth, Max and Tessa. I'm sorry we can't be there to share hugs and memories with you.
Love,
Becca
paula kirkeby
November 9, 2008
Dearest Eleanor and family, Not having Jay around to give us advice, will be a real loss.
Sometimes I know he didn't listen to me,but I surely listened to him.
We have great memories of our trips together and wild conversations.
We will miss Jay
Love,
Paula and Phillip
Fran, Haim, Gloria & Mark
November 9, 2008
El, Jay provided all of us with a heck of a ride. His constant smiles, genuine interest and unconditional love for all of us will forever be a wonderful memory and aspiration we should all live by. Jay was one who put family first, then Country and certainly service. We are here for your family in whatever capacity you need. Our love to James, Howard, Elizabeth, handsome Max and beautiful Tess, the newest lights of his life. See you soon "on-line" AND at the Hannukah party. Much Love from your Vegas cousins.
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