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Justine Trainor Obituary

Of Walpole, by accident, September 17, 2007, age 13. Beloved daughter of Robert C. Trainor of Walpole and Karen A. Howard of Attleboro. Loving sister of Sacha Trainor of Walpole and Crystal Howard of Attleboro. Cherished granddaughter of Colleen Trainor of Walpole, and the late Thomas M. Trainor. Also survived by 2 aunts, 4 uncles, and many cousins. Funeral from the James H. Delaney & Son Funeral Home, 48 Common St., WALPOLE on Saturday at 9AM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Saint Timothy's Church, Norwood at 10AM. Relatives and friends are kindly invited. Visiting hours are Friday from 2-4 and 7-9. Interment in Rural Cemetery, Walpole, MA. Memorial donations may be made to: The Justine E. Trainor Memorial Scholarship Fund c/o Norfolk County Agricultural School, 400 Main Street, Walpole, MA 02081

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 19 to Sep. 21, 2007.

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Ruth St.Marie

October 5, 2007

Bob and Sacha,
Although we didn't know each other very well, you have been in my family for the past 11 years, through the friendship of our girls. I don't have the words (still) to express how sorry I am, but please know that you are in our prayers. Justine was, and is, very loved, and will be sorely missed.
I wish you peace
Christine's mom,

Glennon Christine

October 4, 2007

JUSTINE

why did you leave so suddenly?

we didn't even say goodbye.

you were a friend to me,

you were a friend to all of us.

we remember the good

and forget the bad

take kind in knowing you are

with all of us,in all of us

and will never be forgotten

what happened to you is horrible,

how you left us makes us weep.

you lived breifly. but lived fully.

you weren't afraid of anything.

we remember you!



ALWAYS REMEMBER

9.17.07

Alex Nannicelli

October 2, 2007

She left the world to soon it seems
Never even got to finish her dreams
I cried allot and I wanted to scream
why must she leave at the age of 13
she left this world, without saying a word
but with this fate there’s a message to be heard
this young girls death, is what brought us together
knowing that our love for her will go on forever
Knowing she is flying with angels high above
leaving us her memory, her pictures, and her love
She was an amazing person, what a spirit to take
But the love we all shared, is a bond never to brake
now I will tell you all, Justine's friends and family
she's not gone, she lives in your hearts and memory
She is talking to us now, if you listen real close
and this is her parting gift, what she wants the most
She loved us all, and held us dear
so stop your crying and wipe off your tears
she lived a life of giving and rarely a gainer
Rest in Peace my now passed friend Justine Trainor

~ Yours Truly,

Alex Nannicelli


we will never forget you Justine. Me and Pooh will miss you


Family and friends stay strong

emily Maloney

October 2, 2007

Justine I miss you! I will always remember the good times we had at the Y. You always and still do make me smile.. I hope to see you again someday.. RIP

deidre coyne

October 2, 2007

im going to miss justine so much. she was always so fun and never really cared what people thought about her. i could talk to her about anything. i going to miss her so much <333

October 2, 2007

Dear Trainor Family,

My heart goes out to all of you. I am a Mother of a 14 year old - I will give my child an extra hug and kiss in memory of Justine. May you take comfort in knowing that you are not alone in your grief. Justine's young life touched many people and continues to do so. Know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers - for always.

Plymouth, Ma

Justine at the Cape with the girls, Summer 2007

September 27, 2007

Denise Shanning

September 26, 2007

Dear Bob,
I recently heard of your terrible
loss. I can't express how sorry I was to hear of your daughter's accident. May each passing day bring you the strenth and faith to endure your pain. I am so sorry.
Denise Shanning
Classmate, WHS 1979

Trainor Family

September 25, 2007

A Message To:

Fisher Elementary and Eleanor N. Johnson Middle Schools: Students, Teachers, and Staff
Walpole High School: Students, Teachers, and Staff
Blessed Sacrament School: Students, Teachers, and Staff
Town of Walpole
Walpole Police and Fire Departments
Caritas Norwood Hospital
Walpole School Committee
Walpole Parks and Cemeteries
James H Delaney Funeral Home
St. Timothy’s Church
Greater Downtown Business Association of Walpole
Walpole Lions Club
Swan Pond Homeowners Association
Norfolk County Agricultural High School
Walpole Friends, Neighbors, and Residents

From: The Family of Justine Elisabeth Trainor

Dear Walpole Community,

We would like to thank you all very much for the many, many acts of kindest you have shown to the entire Trainor family since the tragic death of our Justine on September 17 2007.

We have been overwhelmed by the generous community concern and support, which has been most comforting during the past week. Flowers, food, and notes of condolence and prayer were left at our doors; hundreds paid their respects at the services, including friends and classmates of Justine’s and Sacha’s, too young to be faced with such profound grief. It was particularly touching that people who did not know our family came to offer words of comfort.

We are a large and loving family who will surround Bob and Sacha and help them cope with the profound loss we are all experiencing. We now know that they can also count on their Walpole family for comfort and support. Justine was very happy growing up in this wonderful town. Our memories of her spirit and love of life will help to carry us all through our future journeys.

Sincerely,

The Trainor Family

Georgellen (Braun)Patten

September 25, 2007

Although most of Justines family do not know me very well,the news of this tradgy has struck me very hard and even made me more grateful of my childrens flawless childhood. I could NEVER have survived this. I am sorry sorry and WILL pray,in my way, for the healing of her surving family.

Kristen Scoville

September 24, 2007

Sacha and her entire family,

Justine was an amazing little girl who always brought a smile to my face. Althugh I did not see her as often as I would have liked, she always was someone I looked forward to seeing.The last time I saw her was at our dance rectial. We sat and talked while we waited to go on. I am so happy that I saw her at the place where she got so much joy....dancing. Sacha, you helped me get through the rough time following my mom's death and I am always just a phone call away if you need anything. This is a pain I would not wish on anyone and I am so sorry that it has happened to such a wonderful family.


But just remember, her spirt, smile and laugh will live on in the memories you have shared. She will never truly be gone as long as she is in our hearts.

Brian Donohue

September 23, 2007

WORDS OF REMEMBRANCE
AT THE FUNERAL OF JUSTINE ELISABETH TRAINOR, age 13 years
September 22, 2007

The death of a child is so very hard to experience. For a child represents life, not death. Her eyes show hope for the future. Her smiling face beams happiness and love. Her young body virtually flies through the air and makes us believe we too can dance.

But with death – we cannot see the hope. We miss the love and the happiness. We forget how to dance. And so we mourn and pray for the peace and understanding only God our Creator can give to us. Inside we are torn apart. We miss Justine dearly.

As adults it is incomprehensible to accept the death of a child. As adults we are mature, knowledgeable and wise. We may understand what happened, but we will never know why. It doesn’t follow the order and logic. How many of us prayed, “Dear God, If only we could take her place; if only our voices were loud enough to stop the truck; if only our arms were long enough to pull her to safety!”

Justine is in the arms of her grandfather now. And the two of them, along with Gram, are safe in the embracing arms of our Lord. It may be hard for us to see them now. Our eyes are clouded in the veil of tears we shed this week. But we will experience her again soon. You see, as much as a piece of our hearts died with Justine, a precious piece of Justine lives in our hearts too.

Let me tell you a story. I was 12 years old when my teenage brother died of leukemia. I knew he was sick, but did not know he was going to die. And it was a time when children could not visit in the hospital. So I never got to say goodbye to him. We never got to say goodbye to Justine either. Perhaps that is the hardest part. But because she lives on in us- like my brother in me – Justine will never be completely gone from our lives.


Don’t be afraid to talk about Justine. It is one way to always keep her present to us. After my brother died, I did not know how to talk about him and no one else did either. Years later, Hank, a childhood friend told me a story about how my brother John had been a lifeguard and jumped in the water to save Hank’s life. That story gave me the courage to talk freely about him and learn other stories about his short life.

Let us remember Justine, not for that tragic moment on Monday, but for the thirteen great years of her living to the fullest, playing and laughing with her friends, her sisters, her Dad and Mom, her grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, classmates and teachers. Remember Justine as she would tell jokes and make us all laugh. Picture Justine as she would dance through a room and tumble across the grass, and make us proud. Watch Justine as she would care for animals because she learned how to love from her family.

I will always miss my brother, as we will miss Justine, but they will remain alive to us in these memories shared.

Life is truly a gift, no matter how long or short. Justine knew that. She lived everyday fully and gave thanks as only a child can, with laughter and love, enthusiasm and joy. Justine’s soul is alive, her very essence is alive. And her memory is alive too, in each of us.

See how God’s grace works? Justine is like an angel now. Through our family’s love for each other and the memories we share, Justine is with us as much here as she is in heaven. And as the tears fade and dry, we will again see her hope; we will again experience her happiness and love; we will again remember to dance.

By Brian Donohue, an uncle and friend

Kristen Kuznezov

September 22, 2007

Sacha & the Trainor Family,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened Walpole Dance Center is over the loss of our friend Justine. Her bright personality, her enthusiam & her beautiful smile will be missed at each and every class.

Justine will dance in our hearts forever.

Love from all of us at Walpole Dance Center...
You are in our thoughts & prayers.

Peggy Grant

September 22, 2007

Bob: Glenn & I were so sorry to hear about Justine. Let your faith in God and your wonderful memories get you through this trying time. God will see you and Sacha through this. Justine will be your Guardian Angel through your lives. Our prayers are with you always. Peggy & Glenn Grant, Norwood, MA

Alison Campbell

September 21, 2007

The wings of heaven
have opened its doors
your an angel
flying high above
you will hover
around us
keeping us strong
for that smile you
imprinted with in our minds
will stay with us always
in this lifetime...
The wings of heaven
have opened its doors
and now we know
Justine
you will be safe and warm
"IN LOVING MEMORY"

September 21, 2007

I do know your family and did not know Justine. However, I do have a fourteen year old sister which is why this hits so close to home! I sit here at work and have tears in my eyes hearing of this story, thinking how hard this will be for you! I can not imagine! Even though I did not know her, I am sure she knew how loved she was as she loved you!

Keep her with you always for she will always a part of you!

My deepest sympathy to your family!
A MA resident!

Rachel Sperry

September 21, 2007

To The Trainor Family & Maddy,
Although I never met Justine, I was very sad to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.

Cindy & Kristen Barenthaler

September 21, 2007

Our deepest sympathy to Bob, Sacha, & family. We had the pleasure of knowing Justine in her Jolly Farms days. We have many fond memories of Justine (& Sacha) at daycare, on the playground, and at the birthday parties their little group of friends shared. Justine always made us laugh. She will be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Desi Langmead

September 20, 2007

r.i.p justine you will be truly missed.

McKendry

September 20, 2007

My family wishes to offer our deepest condolances to your family.

We are a family of 8 In the Pocono Mountains of Pa. but are originally from the Boston area.

We wish for you strentgh and love at this most tragic time. Keep fond memories of Justine close to your heart and you will heal.

All God's Blessings to you

Justine Birthday 2007

September 20, 2007

Rami El-Zeini

September 20, 2007

Dear Bob, Sacha, and family,
I was so saddened to hear about the loss of Justine. I can't imagine what each of you are feeling, but I want you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Rami

Diane Leary

September 20, 2007

i didnt know justine, i think she and her sister were on my bus last year, but when something like this hits close to home, it hits all of us in the heart. i hope that you cherish the memories you had with her forever.
rest in peace justine

September 20, 2007

To The Trainor Family, I know you only through the news. I was so saddened to hear of the fatal accident that took your daughters life. I could'nt even imagine the pain and suffering you all must be having. God has her now and she will be your guardian angel. You have people you don't know personally praying for you. With Sincerest Sympathy...

Josh Bishop

September 20, 2007

Bob and Sascha, I'm so sorry to hear about Justine. I remember the week at the Cape and how much fun it was to have all of you guys come. I think back to the last time I saw Justine, which was around the time I left for college. Justine was truly a pleasure to be around, and we all miss her. Hope you guys will be able to stay strong through all of this grief.

Mari

September 20, 2007

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. I send my deepest sympathies and you will be in my prayers.

Elzeini's

September 20, 2007

Dear family, All of you have been in our constant thoughts and prayers since last Monday. We know there are few words that can comfort you. Please know that our memories of Justine as a happy,
vivacious little girl who enlivened many of our get togethers will be with us the rest of our lives. She will be remembered forever in our hearts. We wish we could be with you. Love, Aunt Margo and Uncle Mohamed

Brian & Tamara

September 20, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Keryn Campbell

September 20, 2007

Short lived, Long loved.
Justine, we love and miss you.
always in our hearts, forever remembered 9.17.07.
see you again someday. <3

September 20, 2007

Dear Trainor Family, Our thoughts are with you during this horrible time. You are not alone in your grief.Time will heal and your angel will hear you. keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. The Sullivans

The Dugdale's

September 20, 2007

To the Trainor Family and everyone that loved Justine,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. She was such a beautiful girl, full of joy.. and spirit. We will all remember her forever.
Corey Dugdale and Family..

Cindy Bootier

September 20, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

September 20, 2007

As a parent of a 13 year old I can't even imagine what you are going through. God bless you and I will pray for your strength during this very difficult time.

September 20, 2007

colleen and family| are thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. NEW JERUSALEM PRAYER COMMUNITY

September 20, 2007

My deepest sympathies to Justines
Family, friends, and teachers.
My heart goes out to you all!
May the God of mercy touch all your heart's and provide strength during
this most difficult time.

Jon, Norfolk,Ma

Unknown by name

September 20, 2007

My thoughts and prayers to Justine's family during this difficult time.....Gone to soon....

natalie macphee

September 20, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Justine E. Trainor

September 20, 2007

David, Heather, Brooke and Corey Waite

September 19, 2007

Bob, Sacha and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jim and Donna Pinciaro

September 19, 2007

Bob,we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Dorothy Donlan

September 19, 2007

Please know all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers in the difficult days ahead. Justine was a lovely girl and will be sadly missed. Sincerely, Dorothy Donlan, Teacher Aide, Fisher School

Leah Hawkins

September 19, 2007

I never met you or your daughter, but as a parent myself, I cannot begin to imagine the pain you must be feeling right now. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. May you receive the comfort from God who truly cares for us especially when we are experiencing such heartache and tribulation (2 Corinthians 1:3,4).

September 19, 2007

Please except the deepest of sympathies at this tragic time in your lives. There is a new angel watching over you. A member of Justine's JMS family. God Bless

Krissy Eno

September 19, 2007

Dear Justine's Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Justine was a wonderful girl. I had the great pleasure of knowing Justine through the Daycare center she attended in walpole. I will greatly miss her.

Jessica M.

September 19, 2007

Sacha & Bob, I cannot tell you how sorry I am for the loss of Justine. I taught her (and Sacha) at Walpole Gymnastics (Paradise) for many years and they were such fun kids! Having lost a sibling myself, I can assure you time does heal. Justine is an angel now and she's watching over you all. My thoughts are with your entire familiy. Sincerely,

Catherine Morgan

September 19, 2007

Dear Trainor Family,
I have never met any of you but the news of your daughter has brought tears to my eyes and a pain in my heart for all of you. Please know that there are people out here praying for all of you and hoping you can find the strenth to go on. You now have an angel watching over you. God Bless you all.

Inez May

September 19, 2007

Dear Bob, Sacha and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Justine. She was always a joy to have in my class and I always loved her willingness to learn. I will cherish the times I had with her and feel grateful to have known her. I wish you and your family the best and hope that your faith will help you all get through this terrible tragedy.
Respectfully yours,
Inez May and all Justine's friends at Paradise Gymnastics

Albert Morteo

September 19, 2007

Bob and family,

We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

With our deepest sympathy,

Lisa, Al, Alyssa and Albert Morteo

Janice McCabe

September 19, 2007

Dear Justine's Family,
Words can not express how sad I feel at your loss. I remember Justine fondly during her days at Fisher School. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. God Bless.

Linda Warjenski

September 19, 2007

To The Trainor Family & My Dear Friend Madeline,
Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time. May your beautiful memories of Justine bring you comfort in the days ahead. May God Bless you & your family in this time of sorrow.

Andrea Pierce & Casey Kamer

September 19, 2007

Dear Bob, Sacha & Karen - I cannot express in words how deeply sorry I am. Justine's artistic flair, sense of humor and inquisitiveness were but small description of her as a whole. She brought so much love and laughter to everyone she met. We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers.

Julie Knapp

September 19, 2007

Dear Kathy Trainor and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and my prayers are with you in this difficult time. I am a neighbor to Justine's Aunt Kathy in Chicago and all of us here are deeply sorry for your loss.

Sue Bouffard

September 19, 2007

To The Trainor Family,
As a friend of Madeline's my husband and I wish to express our heartfelt condolences in the loss of Justine. Please extend our deepest sympathy to your family.
Sue & Paul Bouffard

Gina

September 19, 2007

I did not know your daughter
or your family but feel compelled
to offer my condolences.the story
on the news brought a tear to my
eye your daughter was a beautiful
girl and i'm so very sorry for you
loss, i have a 13 month old daughter and cannot begin to fathom how your feeling. you are in my prayers

September 19, 2007

People whom you do not even know are praying for you and sincerely hoping for God's peace and healing to be upon you in this most significant loss.

DOLORES GARCIA

September 19, 2007

I am so sorry about the loss of your baby,cant imagine losing a child,my niece was in a car crash in April she was in a coma for 3 months and still very sick but Thank GOD we have her...my heart hurts when i think of the pain you are going through.May God give you and your family the strength you need to go on.Dolores

September 19, 2007

To The Trainor Family & Justine:

May you spread your wings Justine and embrace your family within them, for they will need it in the days set forth....

To her family, continue to hold each other close and reminisce about the MEMORIES Justine has left behind they will have you laugh and cry but they will remain with you forever.

I send you all my condolences in your loss.

I Have An Angel Too

Carol & Joe Perkins

September 19, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this terrible time. We can truly say we understand the pain of your loss.
God bless you with strength and love. Take comfort from those who offer it.

Kim Graves

September 19, 2007

Bob and Sacha,
Colleen and I have so many fond memories of the good times we shared together with you and Justine. She will be forever missed. Words simplify the true nature of Justine, her free spirit, sense of humor, beauty and grace. We are here if you need us.

Love,
Kim and Colleen Graves

September 19, 2007

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers with you. May God watch over you and your Family during this difficult time. A Walpole Resident

September 19, 2007

To the Trainor Family:

I do not know you, but wanted to let you know that this is such a terrible accident. I my self have a 12 year old boy and cannot imagine the pain you are feeling. Remember what a great girl Justine was and carry that with you forever. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Amy Jones-O'Brien

September 19, 2007

I send my thoughts and prayers to Bob, Sacha and family. I was Justine's preschool teacher here in Walpole many years ago. She was always so full of energy and always smiling!

Lynda Stedman

September 19, 2007

Bob, words can not express the sorrow I feel for you and your family. My heart grieves for you and with you. I pray that you find peace and comfort in the love of family and friends and joy in your memories of your beautiful Justine.

Michele McCullough

September 19, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Justine was a beautiful girl and will be missed by all. We hope you can find comfort in the many special memories and in the thought of the happy years you shared.
The McCullough Family

Janet and Bill Albert-(Flanagan)

September 19, 2007

Bob and Sacha, No words can express how any of us feel for you. May you find strength and comfort knowing that so many people care and are here for you any time and for any reason. Janet and Bill

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