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Robert Castor Obituary

Of Everett, formerly of Somerville, November 2, 2007, suddenly, at 42 years. Beloved son of Constance M. Castor of Medford and the late Ronald E. Castor. Loving stepson of Paula Castor of Wilmington. Loving and devoted husband of Elizabeth C. (Azzolino) Castor. Loving stepfather of Jason Doucette of Wakefield and Justine and Vincent Doucette of Everett. Loving brother of Steven Chittenden of Chelsea, Dawn Thomas of Malden, and Scott Stone of Wilmington. He is also survived by many dear aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and friends. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a Funeral from the J. F. Ward Funeral Home, 772 Broadway, EVERETT on Wednesday, Nov. 7th at 9 AM, followed by a Funeral Mass in Our Lady of Grace Church, Nichols St. EVERETT/CHELSEA line, at 10 AM. Visiting hours Tuesday from 4-8 PM. Mr. Castor was a longtime manager at Kappy's Liquors, Medford. In his memory, donations may be made to American Diabetes Association, 330 Congress St., Boston, MA 02210 or to the MSPCA, 350 So. Huntington Ave., Boston, MA 02130. J. F. Ward Funeral Home (617) 387-3367

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Published by Boston Globe on Nov. 5, 2007.

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November 3, 2018

Dear Bob,
Another year has come and gone.
We will never stop loving you and missing you.

Love, Uncle Rich

April 23, 2017

Dear Bob,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you.
We love you and miss you every day.

Love, Uncle Rich

Raymond Allday

February 12, 2017

To my family Connie, Debbie Dawn and Richard Josh and Kaitlyn: So sorry that I wasn't there for the funeral back in 2007, I think about bob all the time and I miss his smile, conversations when I came to visit. Bob was going to take me to show me his new home but unfortunately I never got back to see his home this he was so proud of. Miss you Bob and say hi to Aunt Mary who is there in heaven with you watching over you and the rest of us.
you are all in my thoughts and prayers
Raymond & Leon Dartmouth & Halifax, Nova Scotia

July 20, 2016

Missing you more every day, love you to the moon.

April 23, 2016

Hello Bob ....
HAPPY BIRTHDAY dear Bob. We love you and miss you so much every day.
GOD bless you.




Lots of Love, Uncle Rich

April 23, 2015

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BOB
We miss you and love you every day.

Love, Uncle Rich

November 3, 2014

Missing you Bob, Love you!
Dawn

November 2, 2014

Dearest Bob,
We love you and miss you so very much.

Love, Uncle Rich

Jim Utterback

June 15, 2014

Having moved to Tennessee in 2006, I was out of touch with a lot of people/things and only recently learned of Bobby's passing. We were in the band together, but also the freshmen football team. My two biggest memories: football practice, and Bobby was considering quiting, thinking it too tough. I convinced him it was worth it and talked him out of it. Years later he thanked me for that day. The other memory...he once told me he didnt care for the nickname Bubba. I called him Bobby ever since.
Godspeed, my friend.

April 23, 2014

Happy Birthday to you, Bob. We love you and miss you so very much.
Love, Uncle Rich

November 3, 2013

Dear Bob,
You will never be forgotten. You are missed and loved every day.
Love, Uncle Rich

November 3, 2013

April 23, 2013

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Bob .....
The good Lord took you from us much too early. Whatever His plan is for you ....you will always be loved and missed deeply.
Love, Uncle Rich

February 19, 2013

Bubba, I miss you and I love you and you are in my heart every day. Your mother and I could not believe the balloon episode. We laughed and cried remembering you. I hope you have something funny for us this year. Love you Bubba. Auntie Deb

Dawn Thomas

November 2, 2012

Can not believe it has been five years. I miss your smile, your laugh, your kindness, you always have a piece of my heart, I love you forever.... Dawn

December 25, 2011

Dearest Bob,
Another Christmas has passed without you. We love you and miss you every day. May the Good Lord bless and keep you close to Him.
Love, Uncle Rich

Dawn Thomas

November 3, 2011

Love and miss you Bob. There is not a day that goes buy that I don't think of you.

November 3, 2011

Steve

November 2, 2011

It's so hard to believe that you've been gone from us for 4 years already. I think of you at least once a day and my memory of you is as clear as the last time I saw you. I miss you buddy, more than you ever knew.

November 2, 2011

Hi Bob,
You are loved and missed so much. We have many memories of you that will last forever. You were taken away from us too early. This picture of Dad is for you. I hope you are with him.
Love, Uncle Rich

Dawn Thomas

April 24, 2011

Happy Birthday Bob, Miss you!! Love, Dawn

Debbie

April 24, 2011

Happy Birthday Bubba, I love you and I miss you, Love Auntie Deb

April 23, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Bob
You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I miss you ....terrible !! You will never be forgotten.
Love, Uncle Rich

December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas to a "Very Special Nephew" ...... You are loved and missed so very much.

love, Uncle Rich

November 2, 2010

Hi Bob,
Another year has passed. We miss you so very much. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
love, Uncle Rich

April 23, 2010

Happy Birthday Bob, not a day goes by that I don't think of you!! Love you, Dawn

April 23, 2010

Happy Birthday Uncle Bob. I miss you so much and love you with all my heart.
love Kaitlyn <3

April 23, 2010

Happy Birthday bubba. I know tomorrow would mean so much to you, wish we could have been there for you. May 25 Joe will be giving out your trophy to somebody that Joe feels is just like you. Miss you, Love you
Ma <3

April 23, 2010

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ....Bob
We miss you so much. You left us much too soon. May the good Lord bless you and keep you close to HIM.
Love, Uncle Rich

April 4, 2010

Hi Bub,
Happy Easter. I felt you at Dawn's today. I could see you smiling down at us. I love you and miss you more every day Bubba. Love, Auntie Deb

December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas, Bob

You are loved and missed so very much. Holidays and any days are empty without you.

Love, Uncle Rich

November 2, 2009

Bub, It's hard to believe that two years have gone since you left us. I sing for you everytime I go out. I miss you always. Love You Forever...Linda

Steve Chittenden

November 2, 2009

Bob, two years ago today my whole world changed when you were taken from us. Too young, for sure, but we were not ready for you to go. I miss you a little more every day. I hear a song from the 80's and I smile thinking of how loud you'd play it in the car or someone says something and it reminds me of you. My life is definitely more empty without you in it.

Steve

November 2, 2009

Bob,

The unthinkable happened two years ago. The good Lord took you away from us. You are loved and missed so very much. May the good Lord keep you close to him and Dad.

All my LOVE, Uncle Rich

October 30, 2009

October 30, 2009

Hi Bubba,

It's Auntie Deb. I still cannot believe that you are gone. It will be 2 years but it seems like just yesterday. Say "hi" to Nana for me tell her me and Drew send our love. And all our love to you to Bubba. I hope you are at peace and you are definetly an angel.

Love, Auntie Deb

Mom

August 20, 2009

I cant believe its almost two years, i think about you EVERY day, EVERY night, and i miss you more then you could imagine. Please be at peace.. and remember your my guardian angel. i love you SO much. My life will never be the same again, there is a BIG part that is missing.

Love you forever,
Mom <3

Uncle Russ

August 12, 2009

Bob, it seems impossible that it has been almost 2 years since you left us. I don't think a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts at some point. I want you to know I could not have loved you more if were you my own son. You are still missed and will forever be missed by all that you have touched. Watch over Dad please. I wanted you to know we have a young member of the Castor crunch looming in the wings. Kim's son Shawn reminds me so much of you and young Russ when you were playing and he is almost as big. I could have watched you and Russ play football everyday of my life and not get sick of it. I miss and love you, Uncle Russ

Uncle Rich

August 2, 2009

Hi Bob ..... It has been one of those days .... of many .... that you are on my mind. I need to tell you how much I love you and miss you. May the good Lord bless you and keep you close to Him.

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April 24, 2009

Bubba, I miss you sooo much. I hear a song on the radio and it reminds me of you. This world will never be the same without you. Happy Birthday! I Love and Miss Lots.

Linda

Uncle Rich

April 23, 2009

Happy Birthday, Bob. You are always in my thoughts. You and Dad have left a giant hole in my heart. I miss you both !
All my Love, Uncle Rich

Bob and Fred, Best Friends Forever!!

April 23, 2009

Dawn Thomas

April 23, 2009

Bob,
Today is your birthday, I miss you so much brother. You will always be in my heart, I love you!! Not a day goes by when I don't think of you.
Dawn

Kaitlyn

April 23, 2009

Hello Uncle bob. I love you so much. I also miss you more then you would know. i think about you everyday. Happy Birthday.

Linda

April 23, 2009

Happy Birthday Bob. You are missed and loved by everyone.

Mom

April 23, 2009

Happy Birthday. I love and miss you so much. Everday i think about you. You are very special to me.

-My angel

Steve

April 23, 2009

Today would have been your 44th birthday. Sometimes I feel like it has been an eternity that you've been gone. Other times it feels like it was just yesterday we were laughing and enjoying good times together. Brother, I miss you everyday.

Dawn

March 9, 2009

Thinking about you today, just wanted to say it in some way.
We love you and miss you every second of every day. You are very special....

Auntie Deb DiPasquale

February 8, 2009

Bubba....I Love You and I Miss You! The lights were a little dimmer on the Christmas Tree the past 2 years because the gentle giant "Santa," now lives with the Angels and God up above. God Bless You and May You Always be at Peace. Love, Auntie Deb XXOO

Leah Stuart

February 8, 2009

Bobby you are remembered always in my thoughts and prayers, may you be at peace. Love, Leah

Dawn Castor-Thomas

January 17, 2009

Bob, we miss you lots, think of you always, love ya!!!
Sis and Rich

mom

January 16, 2009

hi bubba. i miss you very much. Hope you are happy and at peace. your My angel!

Love mom <3

Mom

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas to my Angel. I miss you! Love Mom

Dawn

December 25, 2008

I just wanted to take a moment to say Merry Christmas!! I miss you so much!! Love you always, Dawn

Linda Kolonovich

November 2, 2008

Bob, It's been a year now and I still cannot believe you are gone. I miss you sooo much. Your hugs always made me feel better. You will never be forgotten. Know you are in my heart every day. Until we meet again. I Love you Always.

Darlene M

October 31, 2008

Bob,
As your first year comes close, your family still remembers you and speaks of you often. You should know how much you are loved and missed every day. Maybe another time I'll have the honor of meeting you until then send strength to those who need it most this coming weekend and through the upcoming years. God bless.

Connie Castor

October 21, 2008

Hi Sweetie,
I think about you all the time and I miss you so much, I hope you are at peace. You are my Angel.
Love Forever, Mom

Steve Chittenden

October 16, 2008

Bob, I think about you every day. It breaks my heart to realize you're gone. You'll always be in my heart.

Dawn Thomas

October 15, 2008

Bob,
I really miss you, I still can not believe you are gone. I hope you are happy. You will forever be in my heart and in my soul!!
I love you, Dawn

Deborah Di Pasquale

February 23, 2008

Hi Bubba I love you and miss you so much ever day you are in my prayers and in my heart rest in peace love auntie deb xxoo

Kaitlyn

December 25, 2007

Dear Uncle Bob,
I love you and miss you so so much.I wanted to wish you a merry Christmas. I miss your big hugs.
Love Kaitlyn

Dawn

December 24, 2007

Bob, I hope you know how much we miss you and love you. The holidays have been very difficult without you here to share them with us. I did not say it much to you, but I love you and the world will not be the same without you in it.

Peter Casparriello

December 24, 2007

I am very sorry to hear Robert "Bubba" Castor has passed away. He will always be remembered as a great friend and teammate to everone who knew him at Somerville High School. My prayers will be for Bubba and his family this Christmas.

Ill play for you tonight

Scott Aruda

November 18, 2007

I got a message today that truly shocked me, Bubba had passed away!He was so young, a didnt want to believe it, so I went search throught e Globe Obituaries, and there was his name! I am very sad that I got the news so late I didnt get a chance to pay last respects to him, so Bubba if youre listening ...
thank you for touching all of our lives. See you soon...

Steven Abbis

November 11, 2007

Justine I'm really sorry for your loss

Shawn O'Neill

November 10, 2007

Liz and family
Our thoughts and hearts are with you. Hold on tight to all the special memories. Although we lost touch over the years, our fond memories remain. We had a lot of great times with Bob, while opening and working at the club in Auburn. We shared many laughs. I can't think of one memory that doesn't bring a smile to my face. He will be missed greatly.
Shawn and Dawn O'Neill

Kevin Fitzgerald

November 10, 2007

Bubba,

From roaming the halls of the Western Jr High to the aisles of Kappy’s we've been friends for a long time. My heart goes out to Liz and your family. Knowing you and your family has made me a better person. I have so many memories between band, living together with Dawn & Spike, and the Castor parties. I will never listen to "You Dropped a Bomb on Me" Destroyer or anything by Sly & the Family Stone without thinking of you. You will be missed more than you know!

Cindy and Allen Lord

November 9, 2007

Dear Liz:

I was just in BJ's and heard the terrible news. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this terrible time.

Keith Barry

November 8, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I met and played football with Bob at AIC. He was and will always be remembered as a good person, it is a honor to say he was a friend.

Tim Brandon

November 8, 2007

I just wanted to convey my deepest condolences to Bobby's family. Bobby and I played together at AIC and worked together during the summer's with a company called Earthscape. I have so many fond memories of those days and the people Jerry, Shawn, Paul, Curt, and of course Bobby. Bobby had a special impact on everyone that knew him, i'm very fortunate to have been one of those people.
I am truly sorry for your loss.
Tim Brandon Dedham, Ma

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November 7, 2007

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November 7, 2007

Stacey Sullivan

November 7, 2007

Life will never be the same without Bob around. The most gentle hard working angel you could ever meet. I will miss him dearly and my heart goes out to the family...god bless you all.

Susan Richards

November 7, 2007

Jason/Liz/Justine/Vincent:

I am so very sorry for the loss of Bob. I think of him every year on our mutual birthday. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

May the fond memories of Bob help ease your pain through these difficult times.

With deepest condolences,
Susan ("Q")

Kathy / Tim Luongo

November 7, 2007

May the fond memories you have of Bobby, help you thru this difficult time.

Steven MacEachern

November 7, 2007

Bubba was a great guy everybody that met him like him.I was in the band with Bobby,football and we all ran around Somerville together.Bubba you are going to be missed.My thoughts and prayers to your family.

Diane P. & Mike S.

November 7, 2007

Dear Liz & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I can not express how sorry I am for your loss.

Carmela (Tringali) Higgins

November 7, 2007

To the Castor and Eastman families
Donna and I grew up on the same street and have known each other since we were “kids in strollers”, and still keep in touch. I was saddened (and surprised) to learn of Bobby’s passing. Although we did not graduate together, we were in the High School band together. My prayers are with all of you.

Gloria Gagnon

November 6, 2007

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family Liz I have just met your husband at BJ's a couple of weeks when he came in I just connot believe he is gone .Liz I will keep you in my prayers
Love Gloria Gagnon

Ellen (Welch) Berthiaume

November 6, 2007

My heartfelt condolences to the Castor's and Eastman's. I went to school and was in the band with Bob. He was a great guy with an easy laugh. Bubba, you will be missed.

Linda Powers

November 6, 2007

Words cannot convey my deepest sorrow for your loss.

Bob Harris

November 6, 2007

Whether he was wailing on the tuba or an opposing lineman, Bubba put his heart into everything he did in life and I will remember him as a big dude with a big heart who will be missed by many. Our prayers go out to his family and loved ones. Somerville Leads The Way!

Debra Hamson (Eastman)

November 6, 2007

Liz, Auntie Connie, Auntie Paula, Dawn, Steve and Scott

I don't think there is anything to say - out hearts and tears say it all. I can hardly believe Bob is gone but I know that he has joined some other very loved family members in Heaven, especially Uncle Ron. There are so many memories that are precious and these cannot be taken away. Please remember how much Bob loved you all and love never ends. I love you all too.
Debbie, Dennis, Jake and Sara

Eddie Abate

November 6, 2007

Just this past weekend, looking over some mementos that my wife who passed away in January, had put away. I came across a Certificate
awarded to us. Bubba was one of the Band officers who had signed it. I then thought of Bubba and all the wonderful good times all the kids had in the Band. We were Band parents always with them, and my wife always loved Bubba, a big wonderful kid.
My condolences to the Castor/Eastman
families. God bless you all and will remember you all in my prayers.

God speed Bubba.

David Eastman

November 6, 2007

Liz & Family, Auntie Connie, Auntie Paula, Dawn, Steve, Scott;

I find it hard to express how sad I am in knowing that Bobby is gone from all of our lives. While growing up, some of the best memories I have were times spent with my cousins. I wish I had found/made the time to keep those ties fresh as the years went by. I'll forever miss Bobby, as we all will.

Love,
David, Roberta, Ryan & Erica

Mike Buccieri

November 6, 2007

I worked with Bob for almost four years at Kappy's and this definitely came as a huge shock. He was a great guy. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Bernie Baker

November 6, 2007

My deepest condolences to all. Bubba and I where friends in High School but lost touch over the years. I'll always remember Bubba as a good friend. I think often of the times we had on Powder House Boulevard with family and Tufts field. We had many good times together.

November 6, 2007

Dear Steve - We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you. Take care.
luv, your FitCorp friends

David Sampson

November 6, 2007

Without a doubt one of the most sincere, giving, and hard working gentle souls that I will ever miss. My heartfelt LOVE and PRAYERS to you, Liz, Ma, and the entire family.
~David

Bobby DiPersio

November 5, 2007

I went to school with Bubba and we were in the band together. Bubba you will be missed.

Donna & Tom Silva

November 5, 2007

Liz and family, I am extremely sorry for your loss. Know that our thoughts are with you and the kids. Be strong. We love you.

Nelson Lapham

November 5, 2007

I want to express my since condolences to the family & friends of Robert Castor (Bubba). In the short 2 years of knowing & playing football with him at AIC, I always thought highly of Bob. He had a great sense of humor & loved life and that is how I will remember him. It’s at these times I wish I had kept in touch with Bob and others I was fortunate to have met, spent time & played football with.

God Speed Bob

Nelson Lapham

Kristin Costa

November 5, 2007

Liz + Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bubba will be in all of our hearts, always...
Kristin, Jim + Megan

Carol Price

November 5, 2007

Words can not express my sadness for Bob's family. He was a great guy. I knew Bob from him working at Kappy's. He and I just had a conversation about our taxes going up in Everett. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Bob's family...So sorry for your loss!

Russell Castor

November 5, 2007

Liz,Connie,Paula,Dawn,Steven & Scott;
No words can describe how I feel right now, but, it must pale in comparison to your own.
I loved Bubba as if he were my own son. I will forever feel bad for not seeing him as often as I would have liked to.
Life is sometimes unfair and cruel, this is one of them. He will be in mine and Aunt Betty's heart forever.
Bobby you will be missed,until we meet again please be at peace and give my love to Dad.
Your Loving Godfather, Uncle and Aunt.
Russ and Betty Castor

Luci (Tringali) Connell

November 5, 2007

I grew up on Prichard Ave with the Eastman family and graduated from Somerville High with Linda Castor. I remember "Bubba" from the band and as being just a really nice guy. My sincerest condolences to the entire Castor/Eastman families. You are all in my prayers.

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