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Steven Athoe Obituary

ATHOE - Steven James After a lengthy and courageous struggle Steven passed away at the Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester, NY on May 31, 2008 at the age of 45. Beloved husband of Maureen (nee Kraus) Athoe; proud and loving father of Jacob; cherished son of James and Carol Athoe of Ridgeway, Ontario and son-in-law of Edward M. and Shirley Kraus of S. Yarmouth, MA; dear brother of Gary (Cheryl) Athoe and Lisa (Kelly) Shoniker and brother-in-law of Kathleen Frascella, Edward G. (Suzanne) Kraus, William (Marsha) Kraus, Richard Kraus and David Kraus; sadly missed uncle of Nicholas, Kyle, Drew, Rachel, Lindsay, Michael, Brian, Matthew and Jonathan. Steven will be fondly remembered by his coworkers at General Motors in St. Catharines, his extended family and his many friends. BENNER FUNERAL SERVICES, 1105 Benner Ave., Fort Erie, Ontario, entrusted with arrangements. The family will receive friends on Thursday from 4-8 PM. Funeral services will be held in the Benner Funeral Chapel on Friday morning at 10 AM. If so desired, donations to the Canadian Liver Foundation would be appreciated by the family.

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Published by Buffalo News from Jun. 3 to Jun. 4, 2008.

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Gail Wiatr

June 19, 2008

Mo,
I'm sorry that I just heard about your husband this week, my heart breaks for you and your family. My deepest sympathies go to you and your family, and all who whose lives were touched by Steve. You will be in my prayers, and I hope that all the wonderful memories of your life together will help you find some comfort during this difficult time.

Mary Chambers

June 10, 2008

Maureen and Jake,
My husband Dave and I want to express our heartfelt sympathy to you on the loss of someone who I understand was a wonderful husband and amazing father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both as well as the rest of your extended family. We didn't have the privilege of meeting Steve and count that as our loss as well. Please know that we send wishes for comfort and peace during this time of grief.
Sincerely,
Dave & Mary Chambers (Moog HSV)

Lynn, Kevin & Alex Kelly

June 9, 2008

Maureen & Jake,
Kevin, Alex and I were deeply saddened when we heard about Steve's passing. Even though we have known you since the boy's were infants, we were unaware that he was ill. Please accept our deepest sympathies and and our prayers. Our thoughts are with you both during this difficult time.

Ralph Vastola

June 6, 2008

Maureen, my sincere sympathy on your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Gary & Joyce Patton

June 6, 2008

Dear Maureen & Jacob,
Please accept our condolences on the loss of Steve. You both will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Diane Janiak

June 5, 2008

Dear Maureen and son,
Please accept my condolences on the passing of your husband. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Diane Janiak (retired Mooger 2008)

Colleen Drajem

June 5, 2008

Maureen and the Athoe Family.
My heartfelt thoughts and deepest sympathies to you and your family. May the comfort of family and friends be your strength for today and the days ahead. May God hold you all in the palm of His hand and comfort you with His everlasting love.

Richard Kraus

June 5, 2008

Family and Strength

On Saturday afternoon May 31 I lay down to take a nap. The sun and warmth of the day had built up a level of Washington, DC humidity that could only signal one thing—the dog days of summer would soon be here. Nonetheless, I put my head down and closed my eyes and reviewed that all to familiar pre-sleep checklist of life's priority items beginning with thoughts of family and the daily dosage of strength our loved ones provide to us all.

My rest did not last long that afternoon. A thunderstorm came up quickly and rolled through my neighborhood in Washington and I remember stopping to note this exclamation point of nature which had punctuated an otherwise ordinary last day of May. Later that day, I fully understood the message of that afternoon's storm. From many miles away, my dear beloved brother-in-law Steven James was completing his own checklist of family and strength and was saying his goodbyes to me.

Sue Hartfield-PA at Strong Hosp

June 5, 2008

Dear Maureen and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Steven's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Andrew Woods

June 5, 2008

I used to drive Steve to school in High School. Those were good times at RCBHS. I'm absolutely shocked. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends at this very difficult time. May the good memories last forever.
Steve was a good friend.

E Thompson

June 4, 2008

I am a neighbor to your property on Whitehaven Road and had met Steve (and Jim) on occasion while the property was being cleared out. I am very sorry for your loss and will keep you and your family in my prayers.

June 4, 2008

Mrs. Athoe & Jacob

We live down the street from you on Stony Point (3568). I only knew Steve to say hi to him at school/town events and when he would walk the dog. I was always impressed at how he would be involved in the things that involved his son especially at the schools over the years. It was nice to see other fathers getting involved and interested in their kids. My daughter Natalie is the same age as Jacob and they ride the bus together. She is very upset at the news and has been praying for you and Jacob every nite since and even before Steve passed. I hope she can be a compassionate friend for your son in the days to come. If you find yourself needing anything from someone to keep an eye on Jacob or help around the house with something please consider us available to help at a moments notice. Though we have never met my family will make ourselves available. We will continue to pray for a peace that passes understanding for your family.
Best regards,
Tom, Linda, Natalie, Maggie Schultz

Jerry Robbins

June 4, 2008

A moment in prayor will be spent for my High School Friend and his family.
Steve will be thought of fondly as he was always a friend during my days in school.

Bill Hurst

June 4, 2008

Maureen

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband Steve. I will be praying for you and your family.

Frances Levinson (Marinaro)

June 3, 2008

Dear Athoe Family,

I am deeply saddened to learn of your loss. Fond memories of Steve from Ridgeway High's Class of 1980 will never be forgotten. May your memories bring you comfort.
Love, Frances Levinson (Marinaro)

Ed Kraus

June 3, 2008

One the last times I spoke with Steve, I thanked him for the Fly fishing pole and kit he bought for me. We talked about how we would both learn how to fly fish, and then he would come to Virginia and see who was better at it. I am going to miss Steve for I knew he had a special place in his heart for me, and I had one for him.

Chris Cauley

June 3, 2008

Maureen,

My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family. I can fully appreciate your loss and have found that after you mourn, celebrating Steve's life as best you can will help you get through the difficult times ahead.

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