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Donna Heitzhaus
August 22, 2008
Camille,
These words describe Tommy; Compassionate, Humble, Sensitive,Affectionate,Generous, Unselfish,Strong yet gentle just to name a few. I was blessed by Tommy's Love. Footprints in my heart always and forever. You taught him to have a pure heart, and to answer to God first. Tommy won the battle. You are the best Camille; you are a great Mom and friend. This is just a moment in time. Keep your eyes on the Lord at all times and He will direct your path. you know He will.
Donna Heitzhaus
August 22, 2008
Dear Tammy: I sit here in shock and disbelief at this tragedy. Almost 20 years have gone by since that day at Travelers! I met Tommy on the bench at the hatch with Zak & was never the same since! That was a beautiful moment. I cherish him always and forever I Love u Tambo
Barb Barnes
August 21, 2008
Dearest Tommy,
Your leaving us so suddenly has been very difficult for all.
Your handsome face and warm smile will always be in my memory.
You have left behind a thousand moments that will live in our hearts forever.
With each memory we meet again with those we love for the heart never forgets.
Until we meet again my dear Tommy, may God bless you and please watch over us and pray for us.
You will always be loved and missed more than you'll ever know.
Love You Cousin,
Barb
Colleen Bogumil(Waterfield)
August 21, 2008
I only found out about Tom's tragic death about 2 weeks ago and was so shocked and saddened. What a doll he was with those baby blue eyes. I have to say I can remember when he hung around with my brother, Dicky, and all the good times and laughter they shared. I remember seeing Tom at the Fair in December 2007 and thinking how he hadn't changed in years.
I told my brother, Dicky, the news(he lives in Pennsylvania and did not know). He was shocked and saddened as well. He even cried on the phone saying "Why...I just hope he watches over me" cause God knows Dicky can use all the guardian angels that are out there!!
I cannot imagine what his dear family and friends are going thru, but only hope that the thoughts and prayers of A LOT of friends will give you some peace in the days ahead. Dicky did ask that I write a note in Tom's Guest Book for him as he doesn't have a computer and asked if Tammy would call him to just "chat" about the old days. If you want to, he'd love to hear from you....717-253-0615.
May your Faith and knowing that God does have a plan keep you strong. In friendship.
tammy finnegan
August 21, 2008
My Dearest Brother and best friend,
It's been 1 month since I have last seen you, however, it feels like a lifetime. You will be in my heart forever and I will talk to and share with you my daily life as we always did with each other. We were a team, it was you and me against the world. When times were tough for the two of us, we became an army of one. I love you with my heart and soul. And, remember this is not goodbye my brother, its a message to you of how you were a very important part of my life and I know you being my "big brother" when my times comes to see you again, I can only imagine how happy I will be when I see you extending your hand out to me and we will walk through the gates of heaven together as brother and sister once again. I love you, your sister, "Tambo" xxoo
Ken Gegenfurtner
August 19, 2008
Tom,
I can only remember the good times ... weekends at grandma's, washing the big red
Cadilac convertible, teaching you how to ski at Kissing Bridge and trips to Florida with the camper truck.
I know you are at peace ... meeting your grandfather, his one and only grandson.
It's got to be a great feeling to walk through the bellowing clouds with the Lord's hand on your shoulder.
Enjoy your journey with the ones you love.
Uncle Ken
Rose Sperduti
August 8, 2008
To my beloved Nephew. We all shared our good times together looking in the kitchen for the goodies on Ontario sT getting my mail but tom you are in heaven with gram and grandpa Finnegan I was allways there for u tom uncle bob and I. the door was allways open for u. may u rest in peace tom . love aunt rose,bobo and uncle bob.
sean carroll
August 4, 2008
May god be with all of you through this difficult time.My thoughts and prayers go out the entire family.Tommy was a great friend and person.
Mary Cerrillo
August 2, 2008
Dear Cuz,
I can't believe your gone but you will always be in my heart and I will remember all the fun times we had on Ontario street (Scranton), me, you and Bob having our late night snacks when you slept over, our Carnival days, our trip to NYC, Treasure island in Florida and all our laughs. My mom loved you like a Son, which I know you knew it, because her door was always open to you. There was nothing my Mom and Dad wouldn't do for you.
May you rest in peace with God and all the Angels and Saints, and may God take you in his arms and surround you with his Love.
Love Cousins, Mary, Bobby, and your Aunt Rose and Uncle Bob.
matthew cerrillo
August 2, 2008
Dear Tommy,
may u rest in peace And be present in every mass/ and be remebered.my mom cried so much when she read thease messages and she loves you to. love matthew cerrillo.
Marky Martinez
July 30, 2008
Uncle Tommy,
I know you weren't really my uncle but you were always there for me, for my family. i love you and i miss you. we had a lot of good times. i love you. You became an uncle to me for everything you have done i love you and miss you =(
Mark & Kelly Palmer
July 29, 2008
Zach, we are so sorry to hear about your loss, keep your chin up kid...you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers...if you need anything do not hesitate to call.
Lisa Sullivan
July 28, 2008
Karen, Maggie, Conor, Zack
Our family sends our love and thoughts to you during this difficult time. Please know that you have many people praying for you and supporting you.
Love, Dan, Lisa, Erin, Kathryn Sullivan
Kara Kelly
July 26, 2008
-Maggie,
I am so sorry about your lost. I know exactly how you feel so we can get through this together. If you ever need anything or need to talk about anything no matter what time of day it is just know i will always be here for you.
Love,
Kara
Carolyn Gardina
July 26, 2008
To Staci and Mrs. Hatch,
I'm so sorry about Tom's death. When I read Staci's away message and myspace, I was absolutely shocked. I remember those couple days working the fair. Tom was so nice and dedicated to everything he was involved in, especially you and your mom, Stac. He really loved you guys and he still does, forever.
Just know that I'm thinking of you guys and I'm here if you need me Staci.
Camille (Kim) Finnegan
July 26, 2008
To my only son,
Through God's love he gave me you for a little while. I watched you grow into a man that took on life with all you had, your enthusiasm, strenght and love. You gave me 3 beautiful grandchildren that carry with them all zest for life you had. Now it is time for you to go home once again, back to the Father Almighty that gave me you. I will see you soon my little prince.
Love, Mom
karen henfling
July 25, 2008
To all,
words can not express the pain we all feel. But they say the Lord only takes the best roses from the garden of life, to be in his garden. Tommy was one of the best!A GENTLE GIANT. In Toms memory may we each tell the people in our lives that are special that we Love them!I am sure Tommy would Love that to be his legacy! May the Lord bless you all
Many prayers to you all
Thank you for sharing Tommy with us !!!!!!!!! Karen Henfling
Miss Sue
July 25, 2008
Maggie,
I just heard that you lost your dad and I am so sorry! I have heard that he was a wonderful person, and it will hurt deeply for a long time. When my dad died there was such a hole left in my heart and life, but honestly time will heal the pain, even though you will always miss him. Love you hunny, Miss Sue
Stefanie Furlani
July 25, 2008
Conor, Maggie & Zack-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Words cannot erase the pain you are feeling now but the support and love from everyone will help you get through this. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you out. Your dad will always be looking down on you and helping you out... and just remember that "you just have to accept that people are gonna stay in our hearts, even when they don't stay in our lives". You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Keep those chins up as you remember all the memories.
TIA DOLEGALA (BEMILLER)
July 25, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to the Finnegan family. May we find peace in our fond memories of Tommy. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all. God bless.
With Love,
The Bemiller Family
Penny Janus
July 25, 2008
Karen, We are both so sorry. We send our sympathy and prayers to you, Tom's family and friends. We are here if you need us. Love, Penny and Len
Don Collins
July 25, 2008
To Finnegan Family:
First of all my deepest sympathy to everyone for your tragic loss. Tom or "finny" is such a wonderful and caring person he will surely be missed. He will always be part of me and i will call on him now more than ever for a guiding hand. I will always cheerish the special times we shared together and will always remain grateful for having him in my life. Finny i will never forget our hunting trip to the andirondacks and all of God's miracles we witnessed. I will rest peacefully knowing you reserved my place in God's country.
To Zack, Conner & Maggie
First of all your Dad has arrived okay, and God has welcomed him home with open arms. He is in a special place where there are no more tears of sadness, only eternal love. Do not be sad because he is out of sight, your dad is with you now every moment of every day. God asked him for a wish list of things to do and the priority on the list was to watch over the three of you. He is your guardian angel and is closer to you now than he has ever been. Your Dad is and will always be so Proud of you guys..The next time you go for a walk and are thinking of him, just look around cause he will only be a few steps behind. Best wishes & God Bless.
Scott Minton
July 25, 2008
Dear Conor, & Maggie
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Bob Yoerg
July 25, 2008
To Tammy, please accept my condolences on the loss of your brother. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenny Styles (Gegenfurtner)
July 25, 2008
Aunt Kim and Tammy,
I love you both very much. I am so very sorry about Tommy. I remember he always made me feel included even though I was the youngest cousin. Whenever I saw him later in life, he always greeted me with a big hug and a big smile! He was always so friendly and TALL! I remember him as so very tall, and handsome. I want you to know you are all in our prayers. Love you and God Bless.
Mary Anastasia
July 25, 2008
Dear Finnegan family..I was so sorry to hear of your loss you are in my prayers.
Sarah Quinn
July 24, 2008
Kim, Tom, & Tammy - Words cannot express the sadness I felt when I heard of Tom's passing. Bruce, Andrea, and Jennifer certainly began reminiscing about the "old" days and feeling the loss even though they hadn't seen Tommy in some years. You are in our thoughts and prayers each day. Take comfort in knowing that he is with God and without pain or suffering of any kind. He will be missed by many.
Love Ya, Tommy!
Aunt Angel
Sarah Quinn
July 24, 2008
Kim, Tom, & Tammy - Words cannot express the sadness I felt when I heard of Tom's passing. Bruce, Andrea, and Jennifer certainly began reminiscing about the "old" days and feeling the loss even though they hadn't seen Tom in some years. You are in our thoughts and prayers each day. Take comfort in knowing that he is with God and without pain or suffering of any kind. He will be missed by many.
Love Ya Tom!
Aunt Angel
Nancy Dudek
July 24, 2008
To the Finnegan Family..I am so sorry for your loss..Tom was a sweet boy who grew up to be a wonderful man & father..he never failed to be my friend.even when we didnt see each other alot...he is with God now & heaven is where he will look down on his family...deepest condolences..& God bless all...Nancy (Lapp) Dudek,
Doris Purves
July 24, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Hannah Gervase
July 24, 2008
Mr. Finnegan,
Everytime i saw you, you always told me to take care of your zachary, and I promise you that I will always do that. These last few days have really been hard on everyone, we all miss you so much!! Maggie was telling me how she can't wait to have a dream about you so you can tell us your ok now. We're all waiting for that dream to come. I know your up there looking over us right now, but i still miss you and wish this was a bad dream. I love you Mr. Finnegan. I'll see you one day.
Love,
Hannah
Mark Laidlaw
July 24, 2008
To all who loved Tom- I Am truely sad to hear about your loss. May you take solace in knowing he is in a place where he is at peace with himself. Continue to accept the love and support of your friends and family and may god bless you.
Karen Herr
July 24, 2008
To the Family and Friends of Tom,
I am so sorry to have heard of Tom's passing. Take comfort in knowing Tom is at peace and is now a guardian angel to all who loved and cared for him. Always remember all the special times he had with each of you and treasure just having had him in your life. God bless you all.
Chuck & Sandy Burrows
July 24, 2008
To Kim, Tammy and Family. We are deeply sorrowed by your loss of Tommy. We enjoyed seeing you during our recent visit to Hamburg but are sorry we couldn't be there longer to support you during your time of need. We so much enjoyed seeing Tommy at Christmas and listening to him talk about his life, family, and many friends. We will always hold fond memories of Tommy with us forever. May God bless you by helping you through these tough times and knowing that Tommy is at peace with him. Our Love goes out to you and your family now, and we hope to see you again soon in the future. Friends of Kim, Tammy and Tommy forever.
Staci Hatch
July 24, 2008
"Padre"-
Even though you weren't my "real" father, I treated you as if you were. From our trips all of us used to take, to just hanging out around the house, you always knew how to make me have the biggest smile on my face. I already miss you, and just wish i got the chance to say good-bye. I know your up in heaven looking down on everyone. You our angel. You were the most awesome person, and in my eyes you STILL are! You left me with some of the best memories anybody could ever ask for, and I will never forget them. I LOVE YOU.
R.I.P-7-20-2008
You will NEVER be forgotten.
P.S. You ALWAYS told me to never give up; so i'm singing in memory of you. I'm following my dreams, just like you told me to.
Wendy Karickhoff
July 24, 2008
Dear Zach, Conor, & Maggie
I am sorry to hear about your father.
Please accept my deepest sympathy during this difficult time.
Wendy Davis-Karickhoff Willoughby, OH.
Wendy Karickhoff
July 24, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Patrick Donohue
July 24, 2008
Uncle Tommy,
I will really miss you! You would always give me money to go up to wilsons and when i went to visit you at your store you would always give us candy. You would always help me out! Thank You I will truely miss you! Love You!
Moe, Billy, Alyssa, & Maddie Pye
July 24, 2008
Zack and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Your dad is now a guardian angel that will always watch over and protect you.
Joanna Setlock
July 24, 2008
Uncle Tommy,
I miss you so much. I cant beleive your gone. It doesn't seem real at all, it feels like im gonna wake up from a dream. I'm gonna miss going to the fair and seeing you working. :( Im going to miss your hugs. I love you. Rest In Peace Uncle Tommy.
Kathy Augello
July 23, 2008
To Tammy and your parents,
Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your brother and son. We will always remember him fondly and will pray for you during this time of grief.
July 23, 2008
Dear Zack, Conor and Maggie,
I wish there were words to take away the pain but since there are not hold close to your heart that you have a big family of grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins who love you and are here for you whenever you need us. We all have alot of fond memories of your Dad but the thing that stands out the most is how much he loved you guys. Remember the good times you had with him and take comfort knowing now he has peace. We love you. Aunt Kathy, Uncle Paul, Elizabeth, Alex and Gianna
Lisa Stanford
July 23, 2008
Tammy, My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Joey Finnegan
July 23, 2008
Dear Cuz,
You were more than a cousin, you were our brother. I will miss our "talks", your isatiable thirst for knowledge, your exhubarant pride over your childrens accomplishments, your constant concern and Love for your family. You are Truly Loved and greatly missed.
Bob & Colleen Demma
July 23, 2008
To all that loved Tom - We are truly sorry for your loss and all of you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May you be comforted by your memories of the time you spent together and God bless you with peace.
Hillary Raub-Ruh
July 23, 2008
Dear Zachary, Conor & Maggie,
How sorry I am to hear that your father has passed away. May the comfort of friends and family be your strenght now & in the days ahead. Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt thoughts during this difficult time.
Patty Covert
July 23, 2008
Dear, Maggie, Zach and Finnegan Family:
Maggie, I wish I could be there for you. Please know that you are in my prayers. Having you and Zach in third grade, I remember your Dad as a loving father. I am leaving my e-mail so that you can contact me and please do. Zach, Patrick is a great listener. As your roommate, lean on him. I am so so very sorry for your loss! My prayers will be with you and your family.
With love,
Mrs. Covert (Patty)
glenn rozwood
July 23, 2008
I am so very sorry for our loss.
Jodee Doyle
July 23, 2008
To My Sister Karen:
I want you to know that I will be here for you, as I have always been in the past. I know that you loved Tom very much and that he is at peace now with Our Lord. Keep those special memories close to your heart and never, ever forget them.
Paul Hare
July 23, 2008
To The Family of Tommy Finnegan
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I met Tommy back in High School. He was always friendly, and outgoing. His friendship will be greatly missed. May your heart mend and your memories stay strong. God Bless.
KATHY FINNEGAN
July 23, 2008
Tommy, you r going to be missed,you were more than just a cousin you were like a brother and a uncle to my kids we had a lot of good times with our kids the memories will last forever. LOVE, KATHY FINNEGAN
Maggie Finnegan
July 23, 2008
Dear Dad,
You were always here for me and did everything for us kids. now to think that you are gone is impossible i just wanna wake up tommarrow and run into your arms and hug u and hear your voice again but now i have to wait but untill then your are always and forever in my heart i already miss u and its been 3 days and to think i have to live then rest of my life without you is unbearable I LOVE YOU!!
forever and always,
Daddy little princess
Char Darling
July 23, 2008
Tammy and family; My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you.Tommy always had a special place in my heart. Jesus said: blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted. Matt. 5:4 Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. James l:l2 Feel free to come visit me anytime.If there is anything I can do for you call me. Love In Jesus, Char X& O
Holly Darling
July 23, 2008
My Friend Tommy,You'll Always be in my heart.My you rest peacefully With Jesus.
The Darling Family
July 23, 2008
Camille,Tom and Tammy,
In good times and in bad, are friendship was always there. Our prayers are with you all. God bless.
Madison Darling
July 23, 2008
Dear Tommy,
I will always remember the nice talks we have had together. I remember when you cared and loved my mom. You were a very nice person to have around. May you rest in peace with Jesus.
Holly Darling
July 23, 2008
My Friend Tom,
MAY you rest in peace, with Jesus. Ill always remember the good times we have had together. You will always be in my heart. I love you dearest Tom.
Peggy Gervase
July 23, 2008
To Zack, son of Thomas, and to his entire family,
Nick and I have never met your father but have listened to you tell a few stories of him. Remember them Zack, hold them close and don't let them go. Make his memory a happy one, remember the happy times and laughing times.
God bless you and your family. Our prayers are with you all.
Peggy, Nick and Hannah Gervase
Karen Hatch
July 23, 2008
My dear Tom,
You were the love of my life. I will cherish our special time together for the rest of my life, but I know that you are at peace which makes your being gone a little easier to bear. I will miss you with ALL of my heart. Love, your KareBear
Jerry Collins
July 23, 2008
Kim,Tammy&Tom
I am so saddened as I sit her and think of the wonderful childhood memories Donnie and I shared with Tom and also in to adulthood. My heart aches and grieves knowing that I will no longer be able to share time with my loving friend. Tears roll as I search for answers, all I can do is pray to my mother and ask her to take him under her wing and comfort him until we see each other again. I love you "finny" and miss you . Let us remember that it's not the breaths we take but the moments that take our breath away that matter. Let us all remember those wonderful moments we shared with Tom that took our breath away! Like you used to say I love you buddie! your like a brother to me.
Your Friend Forever,
Jerry Collins & Family
Tammy Finnegan
July 23, 2008
My brother and best friend,
Words cannot express how I will miss your presence in my life. You were an Angel whom God called home. Rest in peace. I love you.
Your sister,
Tammy xxoo
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