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William Oehler Obituary

OEHLER - William A., Sr. October 6, 2008. Beloved husband of the late Dorene (Piechowiak) Oehler; dear father of William Jr. (Stephanie) and Robert (Janice) Oehler; grandfather of Zachary, Matthew and Terrance; brother of Sarah (James) Luce; also survived by six nephews. Friends may call Thursday from 4-8 PM at the LESTER H. WEDEKINDT INC., FUNERAL HOME, 3290 Delaware Ave., where Funeral Services will follow at 8:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, memorials to Buffalo Hospice or the SPCA.

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Published by Buffalo News on Oct. 8, 2008.

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Lynne & George Paufler

November 5, 2008

Bill Jr., Stephanie, Robert, Janice,& Children: I really do not know to put into words how sorry I am for your loss. Your Dad was a good father to you and grandfather to your boys. This was a very untimely departure from our lives. you know that in your hearts that he is much happier now. God be with all of you forever.

terrance oehler

November 1, 2008

Grandpa,
This is the day after Halloween, so we wanted to say happy Halloween. We love you and miss you grandpa. I had fun and i was spiderman. Good night grandpa. I love you.I miss you

Terrance

October 25, 2008

Daddy and Uncle Rob,

I am sorry about grandpa, I do miss him, so very much. Grandpa is in heaven and a star in the sky. We look up at him all the time and talk to him. You will be missed but I love you grandpa.

Stephanie Oehler

October 25, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Pat Murphy

October 25, 2008

Bill, Stephanie, Rob, Jancie, grandchildren;

Sorry about your loss of your father. You are all in my prayers. Your dad was a nice guy. Call me if you need anything.

Phyllis& Bob Wagner (and family)

October 25, 2008

Bill, Stephanie, Terrance, Oehler Family

We are sorry about your loss of your dad and grandfather. May he be in pace, no more sickness, all happy times. He is now with his wife Dorene. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all

June & John Murphy

October 23, 2008

Bill & Stephanie, & Oehler Family

I am sorry for your loss of your father. I am gad that we got to meet him, he was a great guy. He will be missed. You did a great job caring for him. You are in our prayers and thoughts. IF you need anything please let us know.

robert (bobby) oehler

October 11, 2008

i would like to say thank you to all of you who have taken the time to sign my dads guest book bill jr. and i will miss our dad very much

Mrs. Joseph Savage, Sr.

October 10, 2008

Sorry for the loss of your father. You can take comfort knowing that he is in a better place. and all the kindness you showed him during his illnes

nicole savage

October 10, 2008

Sorry to hear of your dad's passing. You were great with him in his time of need

Bill & Barbara Sandor & Family

October 10, 2008

Bill, Stephanie, Terrance, and Family,

We are very sorry about your loss of your father. He was a very nice guy, funny and friendly. If you need anything please let us know. You are in my prayers and thoughts. May god be with each and everyone of you. God bless you all. He is now an angle above us, he is their to talk to you and list to you if you need him. Take Care we love you.

Deborah

October 9, 2008

Hi Bill and Stephanie,
Sorry to hear about Uncle Bill. I know it's been a long since I seen him, but I wanted to pay my respects to him, he was my uncle for many years, sorry I couldn't him before he passed.

Kris Reynolds

October 9, 2008

To the Oehler Family,

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. You were wonderful to him and now he is at peace. He will always be looking down at you guiding you. If you need anything, please call me.

Paul Kotas

October 8, 2008

Bill was a kind, good-hearted man who cared deeply for my aunt and his late wife, Dorene. I know that he had been in poor health for a few years, but I was saddened and surprised to hear of his death; I just spoke to him over the phone last week. My sincere condolences to his family.

October 8, 2008

I AM SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR LOVE ONE. MAY WE ALL CONTINUE TO RELY ON GOD FOR SUPPORT. PROVERBS 3:5

Michael Kotas

October 8, 2008

Dear Stephanie and Bill, Jr.,

Bill was a good man, always positive and looked on the bright side even in bad times.

Dorene and Bill had a lot of good times together and for their happy lives, we can take solace.

Carol westmiller-Muck

October 8, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Now your Dad can be together again with Dorene. If you need anything, please feel free to call me. Carol

Louie Yeostros

October 8, 2008

To the Oehler Family please accept my deepest sympathy. Sarah I am sorry to read about your brother William's passing. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Louie Yeostros

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