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Elaine Hughes Obituary

HUGHES - Elaine J. (nee Bernas) October 23, 2008 of Lackawanna, NY; beloved wife of the late John P. Jack; dearest mother of Mary Ellen (Fred) Palumbo and Carol A. Fronczak; grandmother of John A. and Matthew D. Palumbo, Brenda M. Persico and David R. Fronczak; daughter of the late Martin and Frances (nee Glab) Bernas; sister of the late Charlotte, Frances (late Anthony) Iafallo, Margaret, Henry (late Alice), Adam, Benedict (late Sally), Thaddeus Ted and Thomas Dave (late Laura); also survived by nieces and nephews. Services from THE COLONIAL MEMORIAL CHAPELS, INC., 3003 South Park Ave., Lackawanna, NY Monday morning at 10 oclock and from Our Lady of Victory Basilica at 10:30. Flowers gratefully declined. Donations may be made to O.L.V. Infant Home in Elaines name. Visitation Saturday and Sunday from 4-8 PM.

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Published by Buffalo News from Oct. 25 to Oct. 26, 2008.

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CARRIE STEVENS

October 27, 2008

TO MARYELLEN AND YOUR FAMILY- I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER, I WENT TO VISIT HER THIS MORNING, TO FIND OUT SHE HAD MOVED ON WITH GOD. SHE WAS SUCH A LOVE, I WILL MISS HER SMILE! MAY YOU BE AT PEACE DURING THESE HARD TIMES, I AM THINKING OF YOU!

Missy Jankowski

October 26, 2008

Dear Mary Ellen & Family:Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of your mother. I will always remember her strong will and determination.

Rachael & James Kegler

October 25, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Rachael & James Kegler

October 25, 2008

Dearest Mary Ellen & Family,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this very painful time of grief. May your tears of sadness soon turn to glorious smiles as you recall beautiful and fond memories of such a wonderful woman. Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the difficult days ahead. God Bless you all.
Love,

Donna (Bernas) Rouselle

October 25, 2008

Dear Mary Ellen & family,

I'm so sorry about Aunt Elaine. We all loved her, she was always so much fun. I'm glad her suffering is over, but sorry for the heaviness of your hearts. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Cathy and Woody

October 25, 2008

Dearest MaryEllen,

I am so very sorry to hear of Aunt Elaine's passing. Her smile and contagious laugh will always be remembered. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of the family.

Much love,

David (Nancy) Bernas

October 25, 2008

Mary Ellen and Carol:
Our deepest sympathy to you and your families for the loss of Aunt Elaine. I have many fond memories of her and Uncle Jack. God Bless you all in this time of sorrow.

Kathe Ventura

October 25, 2008

Mary Ellen and family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. I am soo sorry for your loss. Your mother was a wonderful person who brought joy to so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and the days ahead.

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