Gerald E. Burkley Jr.
Gerald E. Burkley Jr.
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Gerald Burkley Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.
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Lisa Rivera
April 24, 2019
Happy birthday Jerry boy save a set for me in heaven love you very much miss u so much
Lisa RIVERA
August 24, 2016
I was just thinking about you and realize how much I truly miss you. time has gone by jerry and it getting harder now to hear your voice but I thank god he still has you in my memory.the good times and the bad times. Im getting older and time is passing by so fast my eyes are open and my minded is clear and my heart is pure and I can see now how important it is to cherish life, family, to love and not hate time is to short. You alway had a smile and alway made people laugh if anyone was having a bad day you alway had that spirit to lift that person up.i thank god for my life and I thank god that the little time you were in my life before god came and took you home. There is just something we cannot comprehend here on earth when a loved one was taken so young.i ask god for a long time why my brother... they say the good die young .but the bible say whoever believes in the son has eternal life ..... In my memory and heart for my special brother jerry brother today is full of memories of a brother laid to rest and every single one of them is filled with happiness for you were someone special always such a joy to know and there was so much pain when it was time to let you go that's why this special message is sent to hevean above for the angels to take care of you and give you all my love..
April 24, 2016
Happy birthday to you happy birthday to you happy birthday to jerry happy birthday to you we love you and miss you very much love you brother
Geraid Burkley
April 24, 2016
Mom and I have just returned from your grave..I hope you like the birthday items we put there for your big 50th birthday.We miss you son,I can't believe that time has passed so quickly. We love you Mom and Dad
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arlene itterley
April 24, 2016
Remembering you once again on this your birthday,miss you and love you.Aunt Arlene
lisa rivera
November 17, 2015
I was just thinking of you brother we miss you very much me and the kids were just talking about you I know your around you left me a dime in my jerlery box last week wish you were here to give a hug and a kiss and I wish you could have meet my triplets but I know u are with them all the time all ny kids you are there guardian Angel love you very much jerry and I miss you
Arlene Itterley
September 22, 2015
Jerry It's so hard to know you are gone 8 years already I miss you more than any words could ever say.Ilove you forever! Aunt Arlene
Sean Okeefe
April 24, 2015
Glad to have some time and a beer with you today brother. Left one for you and dad. Happy birthday my friend. We will see each other again. Till then keep a watchful eye on me. Love ya bro
lisa rivera
April 24, 2015
AND NOW DEAR BROTHER'S AND SISTER'S ,WE WANT YOU TO KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THE BELIEVERS WHO HAVE DIED SO YOU WILL NOT GRIEVE LIKE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO HOPE, FOR SINCE WE BELIEVERS THAT JESUS DIED AND WAS RAISED TO LIFE AGAIN ,WE ALSO BELIEVE THAT WHEN JESUS RETURNS, GOD WILL BRING BACK WITH HIM THE BELIEVERS WHO HAVE DIED amen 1 Thessalonians 4:14 hello jerry it your sister lisa just want to say happy birthday brother and im celebrating today to for that i know your having the best birthday in heaven with our father and angels love you very much
lisa rivera
April 24, 2015
AND NOW DEAR BROTHER'S AND SISTER'S ,WE WANT YOU TO KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THE BELIEVERS WHO HAVE DIED SO YOU WILL NOT GRIEVE LIKE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO HOPE, FOR SINCE WE BELIEVERS THAT JESUS DIED AND WAS RAISED TO LIFE AGAIN ,WE ALSO BELIEVE THAT WHEN JESUS RETURNS, GOD WILL BRING BACK WITH HIM THE BELIEVERS WHO HAVE DIED amen 1 Thessalonians 4:14 hello jerry it your sister lisa just want to say happy birthday brother and im celebrating today to for that i know your having the best birthday in heaven with our father and angels love you very much
lisa burkley (rivera)
February 23, 2015
Jerry it your sister lisa it February 23 2015 i was just sitting here at my house with the kids and antonio was looking you up on when u was a NASCAR racer and this sight came up and i started to read every one poems and prayers . Jerry u have so many people who love you very much and misses u especially me i know i don't go to your grave as much as i should but there not a day or night jerry that your sister dont think of u i miss u and i love u very much i wish u was here to meet your new nieces and nephews i had triplets jerry lol:) what a blessing from the lord it hard but im doing good im sure you know cause i believe u can see and are here as my family guardian angel jordan misses u very much jerry he a young man now and annalisa is a young lady and antonio is growing up to jordan lol time go so fast . i know in my heart you are with Jesus Christ and jerry i found Jesus Christ my saviour i was so mad at the lord are father when he took u from us i could not unerstand why but i know now why he took u . I understand im a believer and u where alway telling me to go to church and im sorry jerry i never listen to u im sorry about that last phone call i had with u before the lord to u to heaven rhe lord know im sorry and i would do anything to be ablento tell u this but only in my prayers to u jerry ... i love u very much and me and my family will see u again we are going to live in faith and make are way to heaven jerry we love u vey much and we love Jesus Christ to god bless my brother of Christ and my brother forever and ever
Tod Cislo - friend
September 23, 2013
It has been 6 years since we lost a great Dad & Friend in you Jerry. It is just not fair that we are not sitting back and enjoying the kids as they become such great young adults. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts. Rest in peace my friend. Someday we will meet again. At that time it will my honor to remember the good times and bring you up to date on all of the things that went on since you left.
heidi fletcher
September 22, 2013
As the years go by, we all think it is going to get easier....but sometimes it doesn't. Miss you Jerryboy, more than ever!
April 24, 2013
Happy Birthday Jerry, you're still missed very much!
Debbie & Bill Rogers
April 24, 2013
Happy Birthday Jer, Gosh it's been so very long, miss you my friend!!
jeffrey weixlmann
September 28, 2012
Jerry we miss you.wow 5year already . I think of you and I smile ,Think of the fun time . I will always remember you god bliss sadly miss
September 24, 2012
scary to think that this past saturday I lost you 5 years ago, you meant the world to me and not a day goes by where I don't think about you. You weren't only a great dad,but a great person. You're truly one of a kind and never again will we cross paths with someone as truly magnificent as you. I love you so much dad and I miss you more and more with each passing day. Every time the sun shines I think of you, since I was little you called me your sunshine and now I have the pleasure of knowing that you're now my sunshine looking down on me and keeping me safe. Rest in peace dad and know that you are greatly missed.
Tod Cislo
September 24, 2012
This past weekend was tough in many ways, we lost you 5 years ago and it was not fair. I wish we could have all the fun times back. Best friend's are never replaceable. I miss you friend!!
Tod Cislo
April 23, 2012
Jerry, Happy Birthday (4/24) my friend. It is hard to believe that it is coming up on 5 years since you graced us with your great personality and smile that would brighten anyone's day. Since you have left we have lost some great people, most recently my Dad. I am sure you guys are up there enjoying some great conversations and getting up to date on what has occurred since we were all together. You are never far from my thoughts and I wish you were here my friend. Your influence on me was profound and I thank you for our friendship. Once again Happy Birthday
April 24, 2011
Jerry Boy, Happy Birthday..not only are we thinking about the resurection of Jesus today being Easter Sunday but you are there with him,how awesome..We miss you more and more every day...Dad and Mom
November 13, 2010
Unlce Jerry,
Everyday goes by and I always think of you. It just seems like yesterday you were here, all happy and loving life. I truly miss you and some days are harder than others. Knowing that your gone is hard for me to comprehend, and it all hasn't truly set in yet. I wish I could hear your voice just one last time. I wish I could see a smile come upon your face. I miss seeing you, and being able to talk. Everyday goes by and all I can think is why? why you? why so young? I may never get that answer. I want you to know that I love you and miss and always will.
Always in my thoughts...
Rest easy and watch over us*
August 3, 2010
I was lucky enough to know Gerry at WS East HS as a classmate and I was shocked when I found out he had passed on. I don't reside in the Buffalo NY area any longer, but all I can say is that I remember him as a gentle and a great person.
Marie
April 24, 2010
April 24, 2010
Happy Birthday JERRY... Another birthday in Heaven. I miss you so much, every single day. You are my Angel. LOVE,MARIE
September 22, 2009
Two years today,I miss you even more Love Mom
April 24, 2009
There He Stood, Six Foot Two
Six foot two, slim, yet very strong
hands filled with cuts and scars
Dirty blonde heair, occasionally wore a goatee
was always in Levi's and his blue
#6 Mark Martin hat
I couldn't tell you what
He looks like now
for I don't know for sure
It has been a year
and six months since I last saw him,
he went out for a ride
with the rest of his life in his hands
not knowing what destiny
had in store for him, he looked
down for just a minute and then
within a blink of an eye he was
high above in the sky were
eagles soar and hawks fly
his jeans disappeared, his hat flew away
the scars on his hands diminshed
and there he stood six foot two
no scars, no jeans, no hat
just an angel in all white
with big gold and white feathery wings
that shined as bright as the stars
~Annalee Burkley
I wrote this poem in my poetry workshop class, its for my dad. Not a single day goes by were I don't think about you, I love you and miss you with all my heart.
April 24, 2009
Jerry,
Today is your birthday Angel. You will get to celebrate in Heaven.
Today is 19 months and 2 days closer to seeing you again.
I am thinking of you today, the beautiful treasured memories of time spent with you. Take care of my heart!
I miss you,
LOVE, Marie
April 24, 2009
Jerry Boy on his 43rd Birthday
1966-2007
I welcomed you in '66, a bundle to behold.
I wish that I could hold you now, Till
both of us grow old.
I miss you so very much.
Love, Mom
Mom Burkley
December 24, 2008
MERRY CHRISTMAS to my Jerry Boy I miss you more and more every day We love you. Love Mom + Dad
Heidi Burkley
October 25, 2008
Jerry Boy,
As I read through the pages of this beautiful book, I am in awe of just how many lives you have touched with your grace and love. Memories of such friendship and joy...
I know in my heart that angels walk this earth. They come in all shapes and sizes. For all of us that had the honor of knowing you, we have been truly Blessed, for your life here on earth, was lived...as one of God's Special Angels. You lived your life as Jesus did with Faith, Hope, Love and Charity. You will remain in our hearts and our precious memories forever. I believe you were called home so soon, not only to be a Guardian Angel for us all, but because God needed a General for his army, when "Jesus returns"... Until we meet again.
Auntie Heidi Joan
Jim Rogers
October 25, 2008
I never expected not to be able to call you, stop over, or hang out with you. Out of the blue you are not here. You were always a great friend & brother to me. I was lucky to have you in my life as long as I did. I could not have picked a better best friend. I am lucky. I miss you all the time. I will hang out with you again!
Tod Cislo
October 24, 2008
Jerry Boy(JB),
As stated by a few others over the past weeks it has been hard for me to put in words on how I feel since we lost you so tragically. There are so many memories that I don't no where to start. When we were at the funeral mass I wanted to speak on the Jerry that the countless friends and I got to know as the fun loving guy who loved to live life to its fullest and have a great time doing it. Unfortunately, I didn't have that chance and I regret not speaking up at that time. It was great to hear of that portion of your life but they missed so much more. So know I want to let you know what I would have said.
I first got to know you when were so young and trying to take on the world. We used to go to Uncle Sam's Teen night were I introduced you to Kathy. I remember you fell head over heals and then there was the constant back and forth to Ferdonia because you loved Kathy so much that you wanted to spend as much time with her as possible. The memories of you and I getting a little crazy and driving your Mom nuts. Both of us getting married and us being there for each other. The story of you coming to my house to drop the paper off in the middle of the night, as you did so many times before, only to finding that Tina was in labor with Jacob. Even with this in mind we just talked until Tina said " Hey you know I am in labor here."
Your Annalee has grown to a beautiful young lady and we continue to keep her in our thoughts and most of all in our lives. I thank you Jerry for choosing me as your best man at your wedding to Jill it was a great honor.
I know that things were hectic prior to you leaving us. I will miss our long conversations that tried to make sense out of chaos. Even when things were tough we always seemed to get through it together.
It was great those few months before you left us. We finally seemed to find time to do more together. We had so much fun at Bill's games, Fouth of July Party and The Labor Day Party at my sisters where we played Paint Ball and we both acted like kids again. Annalee had such a great time.
I had the privilege to call you my best friend. I have only through loss really comprehended that in life there are only those few that we can truly say that they were the real deal your Best Friend. That was you Jerry and I miss that every single day. I only hope that when we meet again that the pain of your loss will be erased by all of these great memories. I have conected with Jimmy Rodgers, your parents and many others and we love to remember the good times. You made me a better person by knowing you and as I promised I will make sure that things down here will be taken care of.
Thanks for the message that you OK all of us need that to get through this.
I loved you as a brother. You will always be in my heart. Rest In Peace my Friend.
Kathleen Vicenzotti
October 24, 2008
Jerry,
I have prolonged writing an entry in this book because words cannot express my sadness and feelings of loss. Having grown up with you, shared a life with you and parented a daughter with you, there is not a day that passes without thoughts of you and the memories we made and thoughts of the many things left undone. This past year your daughter has matured into a beautiful young lady. She misses you so very much but bravely faces the world as if she feels no pain. Her strength is inspiring and you would be proud of the person she is becoming. She resembles you and your spirit in so many ways. Although you are not here in the flesh you are present in our lives in all we do. As time passes we take comfort in knowing that you know the secrets of our heart and that you watch over us until we meet again. They say that only the good die young and your life embodied that statement. Be good Jerry. Rest in peace and know that the love you have shared with so many continues to grow and deepen. We miss you and love you.
Bryan Parnitzke
October 24, 2008
Uncle Jerry,
I am so happy that you were my Godfather. You were a great Godfather. I will always remember all the fun we had and time we spent together. We went to church together almost every Sunday and I always sat next to you. You even were my Sunday school teacher. I loved coming to the bonfires and will always remember playing the games with you and the hamburgers you made us and burned beans! I had fun with you playing with water balloons and going to the fair and the races, you even carried me all the way to the car! You were so strong! I miss you so much. I will take care of the bible you gave to me, and read it a lot. I Love You, and Im proud to be your Godson too.
Love, Bryan
Sharon Rogers
October 23, 2008
I can't believe a whole year has gone by already. I never got to see your house because I always thought I would have tomorrow. You were like a son to me. When you and Jim and Billy were growing up we spent so much time togehter. I remember making you p&j sandwiches. I have so many picturers of you from childhood and right through last year helping Jim on his house. Thank you for all the great memories and always greeting me with a kiss and Hi Mom!
Marie Parnitzke
October 14, 2008
Beautiful Angel. My Friend.
It has been more than a year since I've seen your beautiful smile.
The memory of you is everywhere.
Your blue eyes, your smile, the sound of your laughter and your heart, they are here with me, etched forever on my heart.
You are there in the sun, wind and rain, and especially in those wished upon, promised under stars.
You are there at the lake, the park, at church and bible study, when I see fast cars, those flowers... and you are there in that music.
When there are cherries, marshmallows, children, laughter, and fun, and all the rest... you are there.
You have shown those who loved you the very essence of love...friendship...and how to give.
You will continue to live in my heart.
Until we meet again in Heaven.
We miss you so much.
LOVE, Marie
Arlene Itterley
October 11, 2008
To our Dearest Jerry; Keep an eye on those pearly gates, many of us are prepared to meet you there someday in the future. My love to you forever.Aunt Arlene
Jill Pocobello-Burkley
September 22, 2008
G, it's been a year now since you've been gone & though they say time heals, the emptiness left has yet to stop hurting. The outside world continues to turn while those who loved you still have days we wake up & have to remind ourselves how & why to breathe. You were the light inside of the darkness, the silent strength that exemplified human kindness & unconditional love. There's not a day that goes by without missing you still. My love is with you always, in this life and the next, forever..
September 22, 2008
Brian with his Godparents on his dedication day
September 22, 2008
September 22, 2008
Barb Billittier
September 22, 2008
Now a year later and a day doesn't go by without a thought, a smile, the tears or a wish for Jerry to be near again. My memories are vivid of his laugh (especially the way his words would get caught up in laughter as he told a story), his hugs that he easily gave to all and those deep, caring blue eyes that reflected the love he carried in his big heart. I pray my memory will never dim of all the precious things that made my brother who he was.
Arlene Itterley
September 19, 2008
Always in my mind forever in my heart,luv ya ''little Jerry"" love Aunt Arlene
Gerald Burkley
September 17, 2008
Jerryboy it's almost been one year since you left us and went to be with the Lord. I still find this task a difficult one but somehow I'll get thru this. I miss you my son, every day I think how that morning cup of coffee and your beautiful smile made my day. I will never forget how you always came out the door of your house asking if I'd like a hot cup of coffee whenever I would pull up in the company truck.Now when I drive by I feel an emptyness knowing your not there anymore.Your friendly voice saying " Hi dad" whenever you came home to see us,your willingness to help any one that needed hand and the love you had for people are just a few of the things I miss.I'm a proud father just having you for my Son,and I know that when my time comes and I climb those stairs to Heaven you'll be the first one greeting me with " Dad how about a hot cup of coffee" I love you my Son...
July 4, 2007
Tina Cislo
July 30, 2008
10 months have gone by and I still struggle finding the right thing to say. I can say the loss of Jerry has left a hole in my heart and a crater in Tod's. Jerry had always been a great friend. He accepted everyone for who they were. Tod loved to have Jerry (JB) over for a few beers and a Sabres game and I loved to have Jerry over for his beautiful blue eyes, calming personality, & his crazy stories. Jerry was truly a great guy and will be terribly missed!
My heart continues to go out to the Burkley family and especially Annalee.
Marie Parnitzke
April 24, 2008
Happy Birthday JERRY,
Thank you for being a great friend and for all the happiness and joy that you brought to your family and friends. You continue to be an inspiration.
I wrote your name in the clouds,
but the wind blew it away.
I wrote your name in the sand,
but the rain washed it away.
I wrote your name on my heart,
and forever, and ever,
it will stay.
I miss you. LOVE, MARIE
Barb Billittier
April 24, 2008
Today's your 42nd birthday, Jerry and I am flooded with memories every day of growing up together. I so wish to be able to send you a goofy card like you always managed to find for my birthdays. I miss you so much...the conversations, your smile and your truck pulling into my driveway. You be happy this birthday in heaven and remember to reserve many rooms in the mansion for so many of us await to see you again.
I love and miss you, Barb
Dale and Bev Spencer
April 24, 2008
In Loving Memory of Jerry, My Nephew (originally written as eulogy by Dale Spencer - September 2007)
Little Jerry as a child was as cute as a button with his blonde hair and perky personality. He and his sister made a great pair. As they grew up and became individuals, I remember Jerry picking on his sister just like all brothers do as part of God's plan. Jerry and his dad would work on projects together the way a son learns from his dad. I have always loved the way Big Jerry would drop everything for his children. This lesson little Jerry learned very well; Annalee was the center of his life.
I had the privilege of spending many quiet hours with Jerry sitting in a boat in Quebec or just catching bass from our pond. He loved to bring Annalee to the pond to fish or play with our granddaughter, Samantha. He spent time with her every chance he could and if what he was doing was not interesting to her, he would change what he was doing so that she could be included and enjoy herself.
Jerry was always honest, kind, caring and empathetic to everyone; especially children. His love for his sister Barbie was always present as was her love for him. He loved his mom and dad and sister Lisa and was always concerned about their welfare.
Jerry attended church and believed in God and Christ's provided salvation. We can take His promise and hold onto it during this time of excruciating pain of loss.
We must now celebrate his life and how much richer he made our lives through kindness, love and his example. These God given gifts Jerry demonstrated so well through out his life. We need to thank God for providing us with one of His own special people.
We love you Jerry.
Uncle Dale and Aunt Bev
A little girl and her daddy, a few years back
April 24, 2008
Jerry Boy - will always miss that smile
April 24, 2008
Shirley Burkley
April 24, 2008
To my Jerry Boy, Today is your birthday and I miss you very much, NO FAREWELL WORDS WERE SPOKEN ,NO TIME TO SAY GOODBYE YOU WERE GONE BEFORE WE KNEW IT AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY. I Love you Love Mom.
Arlene Itterley
April 24, 2008
Dear Jerry Happy 1st birthday in heaven. Wow what a day for you!When I think of you and those beautiful blue eyes and that smile, I think how beautiful heaven must be. will see you again someday. miss you and love ya. Aunt Arlene
Jay and Rosalie (Egner) Brumbaugh
October 18, 2007
Gerry and Shirley,
We just heard of your loss and want to let you know that we are praying for you at this time of grief. When we saw you out at Earl's last Summer, a lot of memories came back to me. (Of course, Jay just met you that night). I do remember Ebenezer Church though, our boys were probably in Sunday School class together there (when they gave away goldfish for an attendance contest). How quickly the years go by. Also, how quickly time will go by before your family will be united again in Heaven. We are sure this is your comfort.
God bless you all.
Sarah Acker
October 18, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
PAT andBILL BREDDY
October 8, 2007
SHIRLEY IT WAS NICE TO TALK TO YOU TODAY.WHEN I TOLD PAT WHAT YOU AND I SAID,WE STOPPED,SAT ON THE PORCH AND THOUGHT ABOUT JERRY.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU,JERRY AND YOUR FAMILY PAT&BILL
Melissa Cromeenes
October 7, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your difficult times.
Karen Jenkins
October 6, 2007
Lisa, Shirley and Jerry
I just found out today about your loss. I am so sorry. I cant even find words to say to you. My heart goes out to your family.
All my love
Karen (McKillen) Jenkins
Brittany Colton
October 3, 2007
Dear Annalee and family,
I'm sorry for your loss just know your Dad is always with you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love your cousin
Brittany Colton
Annemarie Bryant (Stewart)
October 1, 2007
Dear Jerry, Shirley and family:
Words cannot express our shock and our grief when we heard of Jerry's horrible accident. For days following, I could not wrap my mind around the idea that someone so loved and so wonderful and so close to so many people could possibly be gone. I will forever be grateful to have known Jerry. I remember him from a few CYC/Teen nights when we were kids and he and George Hopkins used to pick on me. I also remember being at Gospel Express practice at your home on more than one occassion when he would drop in "just to say hello" to you guys. If only more people had the kind of loving, trusting and open relationships like your family does. Maybe the world would be a kinder, gentler place. Like Jerry...he was kind and gentle, honest and hard-working...someone worth knowing. Your family has always treated me like family and I feel as if I lost a member of my own family. I consider it an honor to have been a part of his service, thank you for allowing me to remember Jerry that way. We love you all, and you are in our every prayer.
Annemarie, Genny, Travis and Tyler
JoAnn Kuzina
October 1, 2007
My Sweet Annalee, You were the center of your Dad's universe. He loved you so much and was so proud of you. Remember the good memories that you shared and the wonderful times you had together. Your relationship was so very special. Have a strong faith and know that he will be watching over you. You have all of my support and love.
God Bless you, your Mommy and Joe.
Love, Grammy
joann Kuzina
October 1, 2007
My heart is broken. Jerry called me Mom, I called him Son. My children called him Brother, he called them Family. My Grand-daughter called him Daddy. I was so fortunate to have had Jerry in my life. He was beautiful inside and out. He will be watching over Annalee and I know some day we will see eachother again. My love & prayers to all who loved Jerry, especailly my little sweetheart Annalee. God Bless you always.
Love, MOM K.
Lorraine and Mil Downing
September 30, 2007
Shirley, Jerry and family,
Words will fail, so we won't say anything but how sorry we are.
Love,
Lorraine and Mil
Ken, Amy, Braden, Kalyn & Cameron Kwasniewski
September 30, 2007
As we drive home to Illinois we are reflecting on the past week. It has been a whirlwind of emotions. I am struggling to write of Jerry in the past tense. Jerry was one of the best people we have known. He was genuine, caring and always quick with a smile. Whenever you saw Jerry, Annalee was almost always with him, which shows what kind of love they share for each other. What child wouldn't be jealous of such a relationship. I know he is proud of what a beautiful person she has become. Brady always enjoyed bible study on Wednesdays when he was at Aunt Barbs because fun Uncle Jerry was going to be there. He didn't like riding in Uncle Jerry's grey pickup truck too much in the summer time though(no airconditioning)! Get togethers are going to be hard, I no longer have someone to blame for eating all the dark chocolate M & M's out of the trail mix! Jerry will be deeply missed and we all look forward to seeing that warm, friendly smile in heaven someday!
Mark & Debbie Belote (Pustulka)
September 30, 2007
Burkley Family, Annalee and Jill,
We have been trying to write something about Jerry for days. But couldn't find the right words. My husband and I have know Jerry since we were kids. We have grown with him, spent alot of great time out together and had some wonderful, fun nights at the Cislos. What we will remember most about Jerry is how much fun he was. He just loved to hang with people, he loved seeing how you been, catching up on high school stories or picking on Tod about all the old stories (which usually brought us to tears, laughing so hard). Life won't be the same without him here, but we are so glad we were apart of his life while he was here. Jerry, thanks for the memories that we will always carry in our hearts.
Jessica & Joe Stack
September 29, 2007
Annalee-
We are sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. The sadness you feel now will be re-placed with all of the happy memories you have of him. Time will heal your pain. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Shelly Lalos
September 29, 2007
Dear Annalee,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss of your dad. I know that many of the messages that you are receiving do not cure the hurt you have inside, however, please remember that we all love you and care about you now and in the future. Just try to "never forget" all the good times with Dad and you will always have him right there with you. I truly understand how you are feeling (I lost my mom and dad when I was young like you) and the one thing that helped me was to never forget and to always talk about my parents with anyone whom wanted to listen. Believe me, there are a lot out there that want to hear what a great dad you have!
Keep Smiling,
Jill Pocobello-Burkley
September 29, 2007
There are not enough words that exist to describe how incredible a man my husband is. He is truly the greatest man that we'll ever know & we can only aspire to hope to be half the person he is by nature. Jerry is the most giving, loving, charasmatic, and unconditional father, husband, son, brother, and friend that we were all blessed to love and be loved by. Thank you to all for your support, we are deeply moved by the continued outpouring of love. To my beautiful G, my husband, soul mate, and best friend-it is only time that separates us now and our love has no boundaries. Until we meet again, know that I'm with you, still by your side, and love you forever...always
lisa honeck
September 28, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Burkley, Barbara and Lisa,
I was so sorry to hear the news. I wish I had the words to comfort you, but I hope that in time, you will be comforted by your wonderful memories of Jerry. My memories go back several years to a young Jerry, but I will always remember how kind he was the weekend Barb and Tony got married. He even let me drive his car! My thoughts are with each of you.
Much love,
Lisa Honeck (Falk)
Kim Cassavino
September 28, 2007
I knew Gerry when we were both much younger, as teenagers really-
I must say he was one of the cutest guys around the neighborhood.
His huge, pearly white grin was stunning and immediately endearing but even more remarkable was just how sweet & "real" he was as a person.
Time passed and we saw each other again at a wedding. He was the same as I had remembered, only now a man. What a loss his leaving is for all of us!
- To his daughter especially: I want to say I too suddenly lost my Dad when I was in high school and being Gerry's daughter I am sure you will make your mark in this world just like he did. Never forget that your are his legacy. He will be there to guide you... have faith in that. I know it's hard now and really it doesn't get easier living without him but talk about him often, he was special to many of us, some of us people you will never know. You'll manage to cope with the help of friends, family and faith. You will make him proud. Love and peace to you always...
david dissette
September 28, 2007
Jerry,Shirley and Barb,
Jr has finished the race. Now he is truly Home,face to face with our precious JESUS.I trust his "Welcome Home" will be ever so much more grande than the beautiful good bye service we had for him.I can only imagine what his eyes are beholding at this very moment!!I dought if he would even look back. JESUS IS ALIVE...and so is Jerry. AMEN
DUKE
Gail Reynolds
September 28, 2007
Dear Shirley, Jerry, Barb, and Lisa,
I was deeply saddened when I read of Little Jerry's death in today's West Seneca Bee. Please know that you are all in my prayers and that Jerry is in a better place and waiting to see all of you again some day.
Love, Gail and Family
Goodridge Family
September 27, 2007
Hi Annalee,
I'm really sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm really sad. I wish I knew what to say to make you feel better.
love,
Sean
Hi Annalee,
I heard about your Dad's accident. I'm feeling very sorry. I'm very sad that this accident had to happen.
love,
Meagan
Dear Annalee,
I'm really sorry about what happened to your Dad. I know that you and your Dad were very close so it must be really hard to lose him. I liked the picture of you and your Dad. My Mom and I are sending you something and I hope you like it. I hope to see you again soon.
Love,
Kaity
Dear Annalee,
We were all so saddened by the loss of your Dad. You are such a very special young lady and my heart broke when I heard the news of the accident. Although I had not met your Dad it was very easy to see how special he was to you for each time you spoke of him I could always see you sparkle. I'm certain his love for you was great and that he was very proud of his beautiful daughter. We all love you Annalee and know that a lot of love is being sent your way. You're in our thoughts and prayers each day and I'm looking forward to seeing you soon.
lots of love and a big hug,
Deb, Craig, Sean, Kaitlyn, Meagan, and Erin
Beth (Thurn) Atwood
September 27, 2007
Dear Burkely family - My brother and I knew Gerry all the way back from the days at Ebenezer elementary through graduation at WS East. Last time I saw him was at the 20 yr reunion - with a smile on his face. I will always remember as an honest and genuine person. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and sympathy. May you feel the warm embrace of the loving Father as you walk through this difficult time.
Gloria & Vic Orsini
September 27, 2007
Just sending our Love to the family and our sincere sympathy. We will always remember him as wonderful person.He is loved by all. Love The Orsini Family
Jason Hodgson
September 27, 2007
To the Burkley family,
It has been over 20 years since I first met Jerry, and he became a close family friend. Over the years we saw less of each other, but when we did, it was as if no time had passed. He will be missed.
Ronnie & Patti Lussier
September 27, 2007
To the Burkley family:
We are so sorry to hear about the tradegy of Gerry. Our thoughts & prayers are with you!
God Bless all of you!
Honey Frazier
September 27, 2007
Kathleen and Annalee,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you.
Kenneth Streicher
September 27, 2007
To a good friend and a great father. You are going to be missed by many. I will miss the rides we have taken, and times we have shared.
September 27, 2007
We cry out for complete answers and God offers Himself for us instead.
JOANNE PLATZ
September 27, 2007
ANNALEE AND FAMILY I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS, WHILE I DID NOT KNOW YOUR DAD, READING THESE LOVING MEMORIALS CERTAINLY MADE IT EASY TO SEE THE KIND OF MAN HE WAS AND WHAT WONDERFUL MEMORIES AND HOW LUCKY YOU WERE TO CALL HIM "DAD" HE IS NOW YOUR ANGEL AND WILL FOREVER LOOK OUT FOR YOU AND BE THERE WHENEVER YOU CALL TO HIM IN PRAYER. YOU REMAIN IN MY PRAYERS JOANNE PLATZ.
Neal Nancy and Kara Olszowy
September 27, 2007
Annalee and family,
Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time and our thoughts and prayers are with you in the days ahead.As part of the Sem family know we are there for you if you need us .
Pat, Ann, Patrick Burke
September 27, 2007
Annalee,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tamara & John Grosso
September 27, 2007
Dear Annalee,
My Family and I are so saddened by your loss. You and Your Family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God help you all through this difficult time.
Capt. Jack Daley
September 27, 2007
To Jill and the entire Burkley family: Any words conveyed at such a time of devastating loss as this always seems inadequate. Be assured however, that my heartfelt Condolences and Prayers go out to your entire family. I pray the Good Lord touches each of you with His Devine, Comforting and Healing Spirit. A comfort unlike that which any of us surrounding you here on earth could ever come close to providing. God Bless each of you at this time of extreme loss and sadness.
Lesley Toops
September 27, 2007
Kathleen, Joe, and Annalee,
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Lots of Love,
Lesley Toops
Karen Anten
September 27, 2007
Kathleen and Annalee,
We have all been blessed to have been able to have Gerry touch our lives. Our memories of his warm smile and laughter will be with us always and he will live in our hearts forever. May God Bless you both and may you find comfort in knowing that you have a special angel watching over you always.
Tracy Ball
September 27, 2007
Jill,
On behalf of everyone here at West Middle School we want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so very sad to hear of your husband Gerry's death.
Juiet Wnek
September 27, 2007
Deepest sympathy to Jerry's family. My thoughts and prays are with you. I had meet Jerry in his Holland speedway racing days. He always had a smile on his face.
PJ,Maggie&Tyler Burkley
September 26, 2007
Uncle Jerry, Aunt Shirley & Family
I was deeply saddened to here the news on little Jerry. Please know we are praying for you, and send our love and deepest sympathies.
Cindy Thomas
September 26, 2007
Dearest Kathleen and family, I am so saddened to hear of your loss. Surely I can understand this very difficult time you are going through and will keep you in my prayers. Cindy Thomas NH
Patti and Chris Montano
September 26, 2007
Aunt Shirley, Uncle Jerry and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about this tradegy. Please know that all of you are in our hearts and prayers.
Love,
Patti (Kalgren) Montano
Delinda Doyle
September 26, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Cindy Wojtowicz
September 26, 2007
Dear Anna, I once heard that an angel's house in Heaven is only as rich as the loved ones he left on earth. You, Anna, are a beautiful and vibrant person and this surely means your father's house in Heaven is indeed beautiful, rich and full of life because it's a reflection of you. I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. May the love of God, your friends & loved ones reach out and comfort you and your family.
Debbie Streicher
September 26, 2007
To the Burkley family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you.
Mary & Megan Hubbard
September 26, 2007
Dear Annalee and family,
Just wanted you to know we are thinking of you all and as part of the Sem family we are here for you 24/7.
Connie Hyde
September 26, 2007
Dear AnnaLee
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. Please remember that your dad is in heaven with Jesus and is waiting for you to come and be with him some day again. Trust in the Lord and allow Him to heal your broken heart. Always remember the awesome times that you had with your dad because no one can ever take them away from you.When you feel lonely and sad just think back and remember his gentle touch and loving smile! You will always be your daddy's little girl.
You are in my prayers.
Gen & Sal Gaglione
September 26, 2007
Dear Kathleen & AnnaLee,
Please know that Sal and I send our sincere sympathy, to all your dear family. We were so shocked and sorry to hear of your loss of one so dear.
I've been reading your "Guest Book" on the internet and truly wish we had known Jerry better. He was so loved by all who knew him. Both Sal and I feel cheated by his friendship. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. May God grant you his peace. Gen & Sal Gaglione
Dawn Ruggiero
September 26, 2007
Annalee,
We met you in Florida and you and Melinda were nice enough to hang out with my daughter Ally too. We are all very sorry for the loss of your dad. You will love & keep him in your heart forever.
Jacquelyn Glasbergen
September 26, 2007
Dear Annalee and Kathleen. My deepest sympathies to you both.May God help through this hard time. Your are in my prayers. Jacquelyn Glasbergen
Sara
September 26, 2007
Dear Annalee and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Although words don't seem to be enough at a time like this, please know you are in my prayers.
Sharon (Bridgman) Struebel
September 26, 2007
Sorry to hear of the loss of your son
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