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Christian Showers Obituary

SHOWERS-Christian W. March 23, 2008, age 4, beloved son of Darren and Amy Showers; dearest brother of Carter Showers; also survived by 2 aunts, 5 grandparents, 2 great grandparents and 2 great-great grandparents. Friends may call Tuesday from 2-4 & 7-9 PM at the STEPHAN-BURNS FUNERAL HOME INC, 266 East St. at Austin. Services will be held on Wednesday at 11 AM at The University United Methodist Church, 410 Minnesota Ave, Buffalo, NY. In lieu of or in addition to flowers donations may be made to The Christian Showers Memorial Garden Fund.

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Published by Buffalo News on Mar. 25, 2008.

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April 23, 2008

eating a cake he was not suppose to be eating

April 23, 2008

April 23, 2008

the wall he painted

April 23, 2008

after trach was taken out, he was so happy to have it out

April 23, 2008

with trach

April 23, 2008

April 23, 2008

christian with his teddy bear carter made for him

April 23, 2008

April 23, 2008

always loved his make up

April 23, 2008

we love you to our little angel

April 19, 2008

brothers forever

April 19, 2008

He was a happy boy

April 19, 2008

mr cool christian

April 19, 2008

Our sweet boys

April 19, 2008

family vacation 1-2008

April 19, 2008

Marta Gerrity

April 5, 2008

Hi Amy and Darren, I just wanted to come by Christians website and let you know I am thinking of you, Carter and Christian. I have followed Christian's story for quite some time now. He has become an important person to our family. His infections smile instantly made me smile. His strength and courage was amazing. He showed the rest of us how to live. Quite remarkable considering he was 4 years old. You are in our thoughts and in our hearts. You are in our prayers and will always remain there. I am so happy you like the poem I wrote. Sincerely,
Marta Gerrity

Jesica Jones

April 4, 2008

Amy and Darren,
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you in your time of need. May God bless you and give you the strength you need to get through this time. I'm glad I had the chance to meet both your boys they're great kids.

Patricia Bankston

April 4, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Ashley Phillips

April 3, 2008

Amy I am sorry I am now hearing this for the first time Kelli told me, if there is anything u need email me god speed and be with you hun

Lu Ann Lancaster

April 2, 2008

Amy, my heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers and thoughts. God bless you . I am Valerie and Miranda's mom. They have told me alot about you.

rosemary taylor

March 31, 2008

To the Showers family:

You have been on our Church's prayer list since we first learned of Christian's health concerns. We surely sorrow with you. But we know that NOTHING can separate us from the love of God. And Christian is joyfully safe with Him.

We too, lost our daughter on February 5th of this year. Every day has been so hard even though we know that she is with the Lord. Trust in the Lord with all of your hearts. Like the lyrics of a hymn that was sent to us..."Cheer up my brothers, live in the sunshine. We'll understand it all by and by".

Love from Williston United Methodist Church

March 28, 2008

Christine Kwiecinski

March 28, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Naomi Pusey

March 27, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you all at this time.My heart goes out to you all.

Shawn and Faye Mann

March 27, 2008

For the Showers Family,
I am soo sorry about your loss, you are all in our thoughts and prayers!! May God bless you and keep you all! Love and Prayers with our Deepest Sympathy,

SharAla Kendall (Morgan)

March 27, 2008

Amy, you and your family are in my prayers.I am here if you need to talk. He is now your guardian angel watch you and make sure that you are keep safe.

rhonda morgan

March 27, 2008

you are is in our thoughts. iwish anything that i could take the pain away. he was a cutie.. i ll keep in touch...

Shelley Storey

March 27, 2008

Amy and Darren, God Bless you for sharing Christian with all of us. He was a ray of sunshine sent to brighten all our lives. He will live on in our hearts. I am sorry he was here such a short time. But he has had an affect on many lives. Take Care.

Shelley (Aspire)

THE STRAUSSERS

March 26, 2008

MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH HIS MERCIFUL LOVE AS YOU TRAVEL THE ROAD AHEAD OF YOU. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY

VICKY'S MOM, DIANNE AND BROTHER JOHN STRAUSSER

Miranda Brown

March 26, 2008

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers...if you need anything just let me know...

Erica Goldblatt

March 26, 2008

God bless you sweet angel Christian, and I hope you are soaring high and free, away from the pain. To your amazing family: I am so very sorry for the death of your beautiful son. Please be good to yourselves. You are in my thoughts

Ruth Ruley

March 26, 2008

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful little boy! You have our deepest sympathy!

Tanya Hudson

March 26, 2008

This is all part of God's design, how beautiful is it that he called his Angel home on Easter Sunday... He will suffer no more, he fought the fight and will wear a golden crown. My thoughts and prayers are with you to find peace.

Carolyn

March 26, 2008

Sondra my thoughts are with and your family, remember when you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight

Valerie Ash

March 26, 2008

Amy, you are in my thoughts and prayers!!

Niki Miracle

March 26, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family just know that I love you and are keeping you close to my heart.

Tiffany Ash

March 26, 2008

Amy, Darren, & Carter,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Tiffany, Mark, & Andrew Ash

Erica Streets

March 26, 2008

I am so sorry my heart breaks for you, just remember you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.. Erica Streets

Hope Foley

March 26, 2008

Christian is walking streets of gold and he is physically whole. Jesus is holding his hand, and he is safe and free of pain. Though your hearts will ache for him for the rest of your life, he will await the day you are to join him surrounded by those who have gone before. Trust in the promises of God. He is faithful.

tammy jackson

March 26, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Amy, my thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. Christian was such an inspiration to all of us in Stone's buddies. He has touched so many hearts!What an amazing little boy!!!!!

Darren, Amy, Christian and Carter

March 26, 2008

Andraa Tennant

March 26, 2008

Sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Celebrating Love December2007

Judy and Tom Melton

March 26, 2008

There really aren't any words I could say to ease the pain you are feeling. Know that my thougts and prayers are with you. Christian will always be with you in your heart.

Jessica Wright

March 26, 2008

Amy, You and your family are in my prayers. God will help you get through it. My deepest sympathy, Jessica

Doug DeMille

March 26, 2008

We all share your loss, as we are commanded to, "Bear each other's burdens." You fought the good fight, never giving up. Christian was blessed to have such a wonderful family.

Jacob McLeod-Steinmetz

March 26, 2008

Dear ^i^ Christian's family
my heart breaks for you all in the loss of your Little Christian
may he fly high in heaven Happy Healthy and pain free sending Angel kisses down to you always
with Love ^i^ Jacob's Mum
www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob

Amanda Beckman

March 26, 2008

To know is to love
To love is to lose
To grieve is to wish for
What God must refuse.

You're in our hearts and prayers.

Andrea Sivertson

March 25, 2008

God Bless you all.

Kimberly Shroades

March 25, 2008

We are very sorry for your beautiful loss. Our daughter has an ependymoma also. We have followed your journey for a year now. Your family, especially Christian, has been an overwhelming inspiration to all of us. He is now an even greater light to us all. Remember that our time here is only a blink of an eye and that Heaven is coming soon. How wonderful it will be to see Christian again with our Lord. That day will be here. Our love and prayers are with you all.

Love,
Kim, Andy, Maddie, and Olivia Shroades

www.caringbridge.org/visit/oliviabelle

Connie Gutowski

March 25, 2008

My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. May God bless.

Ashley in New Britain Ct

Ashley Rodriguez

March 25, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the family! God has recieved another angel!

Ashton Farrell

March 25, 2008

Christian you were such a inspiration to all of us! i will miss you greatly, but you are in a better place! lots of love! Rest In Peace!

Ron & Tracy Holody

March 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless ~

Douglas Goston

March 25, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Phyllis Ramos

March 25, 2008

No words can bring back Christian, but thinking of him always keeps his memory alive. My heart breaks with you during this time and right now he is playing in his meadow......he feels no more pain.

angie twigg

March 25, 2008

my prayers are with you an your family,god bless you all

Brittany W

March 25, 2008

Sorry about your loss.

Me & Christian Fishing

Heather Vass

March 25, 2008

I was so sorry to hear about Christian. But I know that we all wish he was here with us, but he is watching over us right now playing just as a little kid should play. He was so special to everyone. I looked at him as my own nephew.

Debbie Tompkins

March 25, 2008

Rest in peace sweet baby Christian.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, God bless you, Debi

Bertie Gregg

March 25, 2008

Loving you was never a question. Mytears are now for you, Darren and Amy. I will always remember my visit with you. Love and prayers always. Grand Auntie Bertie

Minnie Bell

March 25, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Diane Bluestein

March 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Kat Velten

March 25, 2008

I am sorry that I did not know this little angel but he is at peace now and where he can sing with the others in heaven. He is in God's embrace and is in a wonderful place. Peace and comfort be with you in this difficult time.

Larry lippert

March 25, 2008

I am so sorry for the loss, I to am with cancer and the fight goes on. Your loss is sad but know there is a better place, and one day you will see each other again. God bless you and your family,,,Bonner

Mike Dusch

March 25, 2008

Darren,
I cannot express how sorry i am to hear of your loss. Please know he is in my family's thoughts and prayers, as well as your whole family at this time of need. Celebrate his life as short as it was and remember all the good times you had together. Take care friend.

Beth Cadenhead

March 25, 2008

Your family is in my thoughts. *Hugs* to everyone.

TERA LAWSON

March 25, 2008

ALL MY LOV AND PRAYERS SWEETIE

Top Of Ohio Wings

March 25, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

This is a wonderfule photo of Christian and Carter.

March 25, 2008

Kathy Straughn

March 25, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Christian was such a brave little warrior. May you find some comfort in knowing he was loved by so many people from all over the world. God Bless you.

Barb R.N

March 25, 2008

Dearest Amy,and Darren

You gave him life,he taught you love. As you walk on,my hope is that the peace of his spirit remain with your family forever.Please know he will never be forgotten.

christy pack

March 25, 2008

Brenda,
Even though I never had the chance to know Christian, I know he was a great little boy who had a great aunt....when I saw your My Space today, I cried.....my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know we have one more special angel watching over us now.

Mary Boyer

March 25, 2008

I know of Christian and his family through the Johnny Sileno family. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and know that Christian is in a glorious, happy place. From there he will watch over you all; I hope there is peace in that knowledge.

Vicky Leader

March 25, 2008

Our hearts and prayers are with your whole family. It is an honor to know you and to have that beautiful baby in my life. We're here whenever you need us. We love you.

Lindsay Hartman

March 25, 2008

Sondra,
I know how much you loved and adored your nephew. Know now that he is in a place with no pain. I am so sorry for your loss.

Noreen Cronin

March 25, 2008

Dear Amy, Darrin & Carter,
You were the best possible family for Christian and he will be so missed. He could not have had more loving parents. My prayers are with you.

Grace Norton

March 25, 2008

The undersigned friends of Christian's Grandpa Ralph Hixenbaugh want to express their condolences to your family:
Grace Norton
Gary Norton
Joan Hooker

Tim Phelan

March 25, 2008

Words Fail.

If there is anything at all that we can do to help you in this extreame time of sorrow, you have only to ask.

Our love goes out to you all

Michelle Young

March 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Goldie Higgins

March 25, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Goldie, Brian, Little Brian, and Annie Higgins

National Seating & Mobility

March 25, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Amy Radford

March 25, 2008

Thinking of your family at this time.
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5-4
Praying for strength and guidance, for you to be comforted by The Lord!

Amy Radford... PBT mom of Kasey

Wallace Lindstrom

March 25, 2008

Sandy and I lost our first born son Darryl in January of 1971,and sometimes its seems as yesterday.
He lives on in our hearts and memories and in the faces of our daughter Heather and son Dana.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jessica Rini

March 25, 2008

My son Andrew has astrocytoma II and I came across Christian's blog through another BT child's CB a few weeks ago and have been keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers since. I'm so terriblely sorry for your loss, I hope you are able to find peace.

Julie Comella Higgins

March 25, 2008

Your in my thoughts and prayers. Christian was a remarkable young man. Clicky pens and chapstick will always bring a smile to my face!

Michelle Slattery

March 25, 2008

Sondra I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Michele Kuehn (Bridge) and Family

March 25, 2008

Amy, Darren and Carter our thoughts and prayers are with you. Christians smile and laughter will live in our memmories.

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