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Mitchell Van Yahres Obituary

Mitchell Van Yahres, a former member of the Virginia House of Delegates, who died Friday, February 8, 2008, in Charlottesville, aged 81, tended trees for a living and people for a lifetime. His abiding interest in the welfare of his community led him, successfully, to seek election in 1968 as a member of Charlottesville City Council and he so remained until 1976.

From 1970 to 1972, he was Mayor of Charlottesville. Subsequently, after receiving the Democratic Party nomination for election to the House of Delegates, he prevailed in a special election in early January 1981, and steadily rose in seniority, at one point serving as chairman of the Agriculture Committee. He retired from active political involvement in 2005.

In short, Van Yahres completed a notable political career, if only measured merely by electoral success. More distinguishing, his public life was informed by an impulse to stand up for the underdog and draw attention to social and economic injustice.

In the traditional course of Virginia politics, this tendency - always consistent, but never dogmatic - immediately set him apart and identified him as a "liberal." That was okay by Van Yahres, whose reliable constituency provided him enduring political security.

Although aspects of Van Yahres political career sometimes veered toward the legislatively undoable, his disposition, diligence and native intelligence convinced others of his sincerity, a characteristic in public office-holders not always encountered by citizenry. A proud left-leaning Democrat, Van Yahres counted Republican moderates (no, not right-wingers, he didn't go that far) among his close friends. You might disagree with Van Yahres, but it was next-near-to-impossible to dislike him.

Seldom in public life does an individual so completely meld with a community. Van Yahres loved Charlottesville and the residents of the city, in the main, requited. There were some tricky moments. His commitment to open housing, a stance taken early in his political career, conflicted with less than openminded thinking on racial arrangements. Perhaps more problematic, at least within the Democratic Party, Van Yahres' Catholic affiliation joined his broad-minded attitudes toward abortion rights in a opaque blur that even his closest associates were challenged to explain. Van Yahres could be politically adroit if he had to be.

Van Yahres also loved things that grew, literally. A certified arborist, his longtime tree surgery business established when he moved to Charlottesville in 1949 endures under the ownership of his son, Mike Van Yahres.

It didn't take much to inspire Mitch to commentary on the proper techniques of tree preservation. His public career involved numerous unheralded but seriously animated encounters with state and public utility officials over what trees should be cut, when and how. Dispossessed greenery had a champion in Van Yahres, too.

Mitchell Van Yahres was born on October 21, 1926, to George and Marcelle of Westbury on Long Island, New York. His father, a highly successful tree specialist himself, had first been drawn to Virginia by the Garden Club of Virginia in order to tend to the trees at Monticello, the home of Thomas Jefferson.

After service in the United States Army Air Force, Mitch Van Yahres enrolled at Cornell University and had the monumental good fortune of encountering a graduate student there named Elizabeth Franklin of McKeesport, PA. Betty and Mitch married in 1948, and raised five children, all of whom have exhibited the Van Yahres tendency toward cheery iconoclastic behavior.

Van Yahres is survived by his wife, Betty; his three sons, Mike, Mark, and Keith; two daughters, Beth Nave and Laura, and their spouses, Peggy, Elizabeth and Bryan Nave; as well as 11 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.

His friends, who nearly included everyone who met him, are asked, in lieu of expenditures on flowers and the like, to make a healthy and significant contribution to the presidential campaign of Barack Obama or, if they insist, the charity of their choice.

A Mass and celebration of his life will be at 2 p.m. on Friday, February 15, 2008, at The Church of the Incarnation.

Friends may sign the guest book at www.hillandwood.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Progress on Feb. 11, 2008.

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scott beistel

February 23, 2008

Keith... it's been nearly thirty-five years since we played wiffleball in the street or shot baskets in your driveway together as childhood friends and it's been long overdue since we've talked; but i wanted to send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family upon learning of the passing of your father. My memories of him as a kid were that of being the "cool" dad in the neighborhood and I can still hear his infectious laugh as he watched "All In The Family." I lost my father in 2002 and it's hard... but time will help. Celebrate his life.

Tiola Vaughan

February 19, 2008

To The Family OF Mr.Mitchell Van Yares,I knew of your father from growing up in charlottesville and he was always in and on the news for his contributions to trying to help make charlottesville a great place to live.I too would like to say Thank you!My Children Knew The VanYahres that lived next to riverside ave because they would stop and talk to them as they walked their greatdane through the neighborhood my girls loved to see them mr.vanyahres , his son ,and the dog.We send our deepiest sympathy to the family and a big thank you for a job well done.Remember the good times you shared with your loved one,The Vaughan Family 313B riverside ave.Ch,ville Va.

Shadeed Raimey

February 19, 2008

I don't know Mr. Van Yahres, but, After reading about his life works! We have lost a great man.May God Bless you All doing your grief.

Melanie Biermann

February 19, 2008

We all have been made better by knowing Mitch. About 15 years ago, I had an emergency bypass operation; he phoned me very early in my recovery to share his experiences and hope with me. We laughed together and I began to move away from the fear and depression. He was invaluable to me at that time!

My love and thoughts go to all his friends and family!

Peadar Little

February 16, 2008

Mitch was an inspiration to me as he was to many others in the Charlottesville area and beyond. His human touch was evident in all he did. His was a life well lived - may he rest in peace.

Ernie South

February 15, 2008

Betty & family,
The world is a better place because Van was a part of it. I know that he will be sorely missed by EVERYONE (how many people could really have that statement be true?). I loved his obituary--of course, I am probably your most liberal relative--the one who agreed with everything he stood for. Blessings to all of you!

Morrice Apprey

February 15, 2008

To the entire family,
It has been one of the greatest experiences in my life and my son's as well, to have spent one of life's most important gifts with you. The gift of time! As you have shared your time with me I began to see more inviting smiles, hugs and handshakes. When I met Mitch I could see where a true essence of family had originated and developed through each one of you. Thanks for supporting Mitch as a family to help make Charlotettesville a better place to call home. Thanks again for sharing time with you and Mitch to help me become a better person. May God enable your memories of Mitch to keep you comforted in you time of loss.
Respectfully,
Morrice B. Apprey
Moorice Kevon Apprey
Cell(310)557-6208
[email protected]

Debbie Quarles

February 15, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the family. What a nice man. I've known him all my life and I don't remember any important function (especially weddings) connected with my family that he didn't attend. I remember his smile, sense of humor, forthrightness, loyalty to family and friends -- even those lucky enough to be considered his "adopted" family. He was never too "big" or busy to speak -- even when he became a "politican". I'm sure my Dad is happy to be with his friend again and Heaven is all the more beautiful for their being there. They are probably working on several projects as we speak. Please be consoled by the fact that he touched many lives and will live fondly in the hearts of many. Bless you all.

Sandra Mays

February 15, 2008

Dear Beth and Family,

I was so saddened to hear of your father's passing. I have many fond memories of you and I as schoolmates of many years and as great and fast friends. I remember both your mom and your dad as wonderful people who always made me feel comfortable and welcome in your home. Your dad did so much for the city he loved and I know that he will be truly missed, not only for his positive impact, but for the joyful and caring person he was. His influence, legacy and memory will live on. My thoughts are with you and your family.

With Sincere Condolences,
Sandra

Skeeter Key

February 13, 2008

Dear Mike and Van Yahres family,
Your Dad was without a doubt one of the greatest citizens of Charlottesville ever. Although I left C'ville I followed and admired all Mr. Van Yahres did for the city, county and state. My dad
always admired Mitch. Once I read about your Dad's passing on Febuary 8th my dad passed away that same day. Two men who loved their city.
Take care my prayers are with you all.

George Pfeiffer

February 13, 2008

Dear Betty:

My deepest condolences to you and your family on Mitch's passing. It was a honor to know him for the past 16 years.

God bless you.

February 13, 2008

With deepest sympathy.
I am certain he is being welcomed with the words:
"Well done, good and faithful servant."

Muriel & Roland Wiggins 1829 Brandywine Drive

February 13, 2008

Dear Betty and Family,
At every occasion that we shared with Mitch, his warmth and sincerity radiated throughout the encounter. He was(is) so much bigger than life that he will always be here with us. Our heartfelt thoughts are with you during these difficult days.
Love,

Paul Wood

February 13, 2008

Dear Betty; What a shock to hear of Mitch's passing. He was such a dedicated public servant and will be truly missed. Diane joins me in extending our love and deep sympathy and pray God will sustain you and your family during this difficult time. Sincerely Paul Wood

Kendra Hamilton

February 13, 2008

Dear Betty,

We're all going to miss Mitch so much--he was such a warm, fun, loving guy. He always had a hug AND a kiss in greeting. And if ever I was down, feeling beat up by public life, he always had a funny story to lift me up and make me smile again. The loss is shocking, so sudden--hard to bear. But if I know anything about Mitch Van Yahres, it's that he's going to keep on fighting for the things he believed in from the other side. My prayers are with you and your family.

Karen Schmidt

February 13, 2008

I was sad to read about Mr. Van Yahres' passing. My prayers are with everyone in his family. He was a great man who did great things for this community, and his spark will be missed.

George & Jeannette Williams

February 12, 2008

Dear Betty and all the family: You are in our circle of prayer, love, and concern. Mitch was a good friend and we enjoyed him and Betty so very much. A favorite member of the House of Delegates to us- and the only member who could give us advice on the trees in our yard and woods! He was an excellent legislator, who cared about people and who enjoyed serving the people of Virginia. Peace, Hope, Love to all! God love and bless you!

Charlotte & Christy Buttner

February 12, 2008

Laura, Betty and family,
Mitch was a wonderful person, I got to know him through his daughter "Laura" as well as while I was working at UVa. He will be greatly missed. May God be with each of you in this time of loss.
I will always remember his smiles and good nature toward everyone he came in contact with.
God Bless
Charlotte & Christy Buttner

Anne Morrow Donley

February 12, 2008

To all the family --
Thank you for letting us share Mitch with you. I met Mitch when volunteering with GASP to get no-smoking in public places and the workplace. We could always count on Mitch being there for the people. He was compassionate, genuine, skillful, knowledgeable, and believed in putting people before politics or anything else. I'll miss you, Mitch, but the memory of your smile will stay with all of us who loved you.
Anne Morrow Donley on behalf of myself and all the others in the GASP.org family.

Jaclynn Dunkle

February 12, 2008

Dear Betty and family: Fellini's will miss Mitch very much. I truly appreciated his humor and positive energy. Our thoughts are with you.

Gabrielle Foreman

February 12, 2008

I don't know the Van Yahres but I want to say that this was a very touching obit, the kind that you hope your own life might prompt. Prayers for you and yours at this moment of transition. And go Obama!

Frank Leone

February 12, 2008

Mitch was always a wonderful friend of the UVa YDs. A rare elected official who brought both passion and joy to his endeavors. We will really miss him. Best wishes to Betty and family.

Ginnie Austin

February 12, 2008

Dear Betty,
I was so distressed to learn of Mitch's death. Please know that you and your family have my deepest sympathy. What a loss to the community. My thoughts are with you.

Amy Hourigan

February 12, 2008

Dear Aunt Betty et al,

I'm sorry to learn from my dad, Dave Ritz, about the passing of Uncle Van, who will be remembered fondly.

Your family will be in my prayers.

ALYSON FIALA

February 12, 2008

I HAD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING MITCH. I WOULD WAIT ON HIM FOR VARIOUS PRODUCT PURCHASES, HE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON AND PLEASANT THINGS TO SAY TO EVERYONE. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

Byron Griffin

February 12, 2008

My sympathy to the Van Yahres family and to his numerous friends and to his constituents. Virginia and progressives around the nation must now mourn the lost of a visionary and constructive leader-- a man of the highest integrity.

Barry Graham

February 12, 2008

I met Delegate Van Yahres while attending the Taft Seminar for Teachers at UVA. He was a wonderful speaker and truly a blessing for the Commonwealth. I loved his stories about working with Republicans and the looks he received from fellow Delegates when he would travel/lunch with some of them! I always followed his political positions and statements for the many years after I was at UVA.

Ruth Swingler

February 12, 2008

I would like to say that my prayer's are with you and that Mr. Van Yahres will truly be missed he was a wonderful person.

Michael Henrietta

February 12, 2008

Mitch has had my respect as a progressive voice in politics and as an arborist as long as I've lived in Virginia. We will miss him.

Eric Wattree

February 11, 2008

Sir,

Even though I didn't know you, what I know of you, has cause me to shed a tear. But I don't weep for you, I weep for this world, because with your passing, it is not as good, nor as compassionate as it use to be.

God bless you, and the life you led.

From a Black man, thousands of miles away.

Mr & Mrs Sammie & Linda Morris

February 11, 2008

Sincere condolences to the family. As requested by Mr. Van Yahres, we will, in his honor, donate as much as possible to the Barack Obama campaign. God Bless

Michelle Brown

February 11, 2008

Betty,

I had the pleasure of meeting Mitch last September and within moments we were embraced in conversation and laughter about the simplest things. He had a way about him, even after only an hour together, that made me feel as if I had known him for a lifetime. He was a special person with a vibrant personality.

Marietta and Sherwood Frey

February 11, 2008

Dear Betty -- Our love and thoughts are with you. Mitch touched many lives, ours included, and has truly made a difference in Charlottesville and the Commonwealth. His legacy will be everlasting. We are out of the country for several more weeks but will catch up with you upon our return. Love, Marietta and Sherwood

Wayne Sutton

February 11, 2008

To the Family-
I truly sympathize with you for your great loss. Although I only know Mike and his family, I can tell that they have came from a special family and Mitch appears to have been one of those pillars who formed a strong and virtuous family. Mitch and his fathers love of tree work and the outdoors, have been carried forward and is their legacy which will survive for many years to come.

leroy wilson3

February 11, 2008

i want to say you really made a difference thank you pls rest in peace. leroy wilson 3

Bob Grant

February 11, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

dick mountjoy

February 11, 2008

my heart is broken. another mitch? not in our lifetime. or ever.
dm

Harlene Clayton

February 11, 2008

Betty and Family:
I was Marian Van Landingham's Aide for 17 years and the last years our office was next to Mitch. He was so much fun....full of life and always had that office door for his constituents and people of the Commonwealth.
Wishing all of you peace at this difficult time.

Fr Dennis Murphy

February 11, 2008

My heartfelt sympathy to Betty and the family. I have fond memories of Mitch and Betty coming to Mass at Holy Comforter. I saw such joy on their faces and when I would compliment Mitch on his lovely bride he would beam with pride!! He sure did love Betty!!

He was an inspiration to faith -filled people everywhere.

God rest his soul.

Leslie Byrne

February 11, 2008

Mitch was a great Delegate and a good friend. My sympathy to Betty and the family. We are all better people for having known him.

HA TO LY

February 11, 2008

Sending my depest sympathy

Elllen Coleman Walker

February 11, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of this gentleman passing. He made Charrlottesville and the state of Virginia a much better place just by his voice of passioon.

Willie Griffin

February 11, 2008

Keith: my sympathy to you and your family. Willie

Leona Brown

February 11, 2008

To:The Family
I had the pleasure of working with Mitch on the board of directors for St Margaret Mary's housing. He was always a great person to be around.Mitch had a good heart.
May the grace and love of God grant you comfort as you go through the days ahead.

Wallace Rinker

February 11, 2008

My Sincere Condolences.

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