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Katherine Jane Kolinger "Katie" Urban

Katherine Jane Kolinger "Katie" Urban obituary, West Chester, PA

Katherine Urban Obituary

Katherine Jane Kolinger Urban 'Katie' of West Chester Katherine Jane Kolinger Urban "Katie", of West Chester, died suddenly on Dec. 10, 2010. She is survived by her loving parents Jane (nee Lantz) and Paul B. Urban, Jr., her beloved brother Douglas, her maternal grandparents Elizabeth and William Lantz, her paternal grandparents Katherine and Barry Urban, Sr., and her great-grandmothers Dorothy V. Urban and Ruth Donnelly. Relatives and friends are invited to her viewing from 6 to 9 p.m. Thurs., Dec. 16, at D'Anjolell Memorial Home of Broomall, 2811 West Chester Pike Broomall, and also to her memorial service at 11 a.m. Fri., Dec. 17, at Swarthmore Presbyterian Church, 727 Harvard Ave., Swarthmore, PA 19081. Interment private. In lieu of flowers contributions in her memory to, West Chester United Soccer Club, PO Box 5, Westtown, PA 19395 or Girl Scouts of Eastern PA, PO Box 27540, Philadelphia, PA 19118 or Kennett Symphony Children's Chorus, PO Box 72, Kennett Square, PA 19348, would be appreciated.

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Published by Daily Local News from Dec. 13 to Dec. 14, 2010.

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Cozzone's

December 8, 2021

Katie is smiling down on you all . She is an angel watching over .Prayers to you and always in everyone's heart.
God Bless

Michelle Roberson

December 7, 2021

Not a day goes by that I you are not thought of miss you so much!

Michelle Roberson

December 7, 2020

Missing your beautiful smile and your sense of humor! I know you Bianca and Mykel are all together and smiling brightly down on us all

Fran Hourican

December 7, 2020

I think of Katie often. I can close my eyes and see her face clearly. She is always in my prayers

Sophia Cozzone

December 7, 2019

I remember playing soccer with Katie. She always loved the game and never gave up. Everyday I continued playing I would remember how excited she was to finally be able to play together on same team. I still have my jersey with the K patch on the side in remembrance of her! Keep shining down on all the hearts you touched Katie, you truly are a guardian angel.

December 12, 2011

Urban family,
I remember Katie as a smiling third grader, with a kind word. I offer a prayer for you.
Loretta Zink

December 12, 2011

We still pray for you and your family and always will! God Bless you all! We will never forget you . Your smile will be in our hearts! Peace be with you all!
Stetson Family

A friend Of Katie

December 10, 2011

This is long over due but.. Katie everyone still loves and misses you. You have made me realize a lot of things since you passed away. I will NEVER forget you and I'm happy that I called you my friend.

Trevor Staples

December 3, 2011

You will be very deeply missed

A 6th grade Stetson family

December 25, 2010

We have been praying for your family since we heard of the loss of your wonderful daughter. We thought of you often on this Christmas Day and hope that your special memories continue to help you through these most difficult times.

Linda Pettinelli

December 21, 2010

Dear Urban family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers. May God give you strength as each day passes. Sincerely, Linda

Lisa Korn

December 20, 2010

Dear Jane and family,
My heart goes out to you at this incredibly painful time. May happy memories of Katie be a source of peace and comfort to you now and in the days to come. I will keep you in my prayers.

April Fotherby BaSaing

December 20, 2010

Jane and family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you during this very difficult time.

Heather Hartung-Akers

December 20, 2010

Dear Urban Family.
There are no words for your loss. I am so sorry and will keep you and your family in prayer.

Stetson's Moms in Touch prayer group

December 20, 2010

Dear Urban Family,
We are sorry for your sudden loss of Katie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May the Lord comfort you and give you strength each day. May His peace guard your hearts and minds. We will continue to keep you in our weekly prayers.

December 20, 2010

Jane and family, Hoping beautiful memories of Katie, in time will bring you peace. There is no doubt she will be in your hearts forever. With my deepest sympathy, Krista Valdur Watt

Keely Renninger

December 18, 2010

Katie, you were so nice to me. I wish i could talk to you now, but unfortunatly i can't. thank you for being such a good friend to me. You are in my families prayers

December 18, 2010

My heart breaks for the loss of your dear Katie. I remember her from Camp Tweedale where I worked as a counselor and I just remember Katie for her enthusiasm and constant smile. I'm so sorry for this tragic time you're facing and I pray for peace and comfort during these trials. God bless all of you.

Judi Maugeri

December 17, 2010

Jane, Barry and Doug,
I am so sorry for your incredible loss. I know that there is nothing that I can say that could possibly express the sorrow I feel for you. Jane I remember being at NPE when both Doug and Katie were little and seeing the twinkle in your eye when you talked about them. I hope and pray that God can give you all the strength that you need to cope with the loss of your beautiful daughter. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Eve Welden

December 17, 2010

Dear Jane, Barry and Doug -
My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time. You should know that many, many people are holding all of you close in their thoughts. Doug, I don't know if you remember, but I taught you in Sunday School and I recall what a kind and caring young man you are. Stay strong and know that others are thinking of you.

Michelle Molineux

December 17, 2010

Dear Urban Family,
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I didn't know Katie but my daughter Kailyn attends Stetson and was in classes with Katie and says she was a wonderful friend. May each passing day get a little easier for you. God Bless.

(Kailyn Haley-6th Grade Stetson)

Kim Gallagher

December 16, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Carmen Hoch

December 16, 2010

Dear Urban Family, Thanks for being such an example of a loving family to all of us. Our prayers are with you. The Hoch Family

C Allen

December 16, 2010

My son went to Starkweather and Stetson with Katie. We are so very sorry for your sudden loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers.

Allen Family

Alessia

December 16, 2010

I did not know Katie that well, but she was the best "sweeper" on our soccer team "The Firecrackers". She was the best sweeper I ever met. My 2 friends/teammates are wearing our jerseys to school tomorrow in honor of Katie.

The Lane Family

December 16, 2010

DEAR KATIE,
I rode the bus with you each day...I saw your smile light up around you. Your eyes are of beauty and grace...with each glimse of blue. You will always be remembered in my heart forever...Kari
DEAR DOUG...I am sincerely sorry for your loss of a true friend and sister. Being an older sibling myself this brings sadness to my heart. Know that Katie will always be your guardian angel, its Katie's turn to watch over you. Always remember your fellow friends at Stetson are here for you....You will remain in my prayers... Kari.

DEAR URBAN FAMILY,
No words can ease your pain. Our hearts ache for you all. May you find strength for each moment though The Grace of Our Father. Love and Peace of the Lord... Be with You...You remain in our prayers...The Lane Family.

Enid Weiser

December 16, 2010

Please accept my condolences. I work for Girl Scouts of Eastern Pennslvania and was very sad to hear of Katie's passing.

December 16, 2010

My heart is broken for you three. You will be in my prayers.

The Hourican Family

December 16, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. OUr thought and prayers will be with you and your family during this difficult time.
Chris and Patti Robideau (Patti Woods)

December 16, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of your loss.Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
The Genaro Family

Schenk Family

December 16, 2010

Dear Urban Family- We weep for you at the loss of Katie and want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. During this devestating time please hold your family close and know that God's love is surrounding and keeping you all. With deepest sympathy.

December 16, 2010

Dear Urbans,

We cannot begin to express our sorrow for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

The Grady Family

December 15, 2010

May God watch over Katie, and bless all of your family with stregnth and comfort. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Bozzuto Family

Bruce Koonce

December 15, 2010

Our prayers and sympathy goes out to the Urban Family. We are so so sorry for your loss.Your family remains in our thoughts.
Tht Koonce Family

Chris Carr

December 15, 2010

Barry,Jane and Doug,
Just wanted to let you know I care and will keep you in my prayers always. God Bless.
Chris Carr

Gods love and strength

December 15, 2010

There is nothing more devastating than losing a loved one. I didn't know Katie but would like to extend my prayers and condolences.
Doug you are not the only person who has suffered through something like this. I will pray for your strength and courage. I do know how you feel. Stay strong and know God will be with you and your family.

Sarah (Ross) Pilacik

December 15, 2010

Your family, and the community that surrounds you and loves you, has been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I had the awesome opportunity to know Katie when she was at Kindercare and then to babysit her and Doug over a few summers. Although it's been years, the memory of them both is very clear to me. She had the most beautiful blue eyes and was so happy, gentle, and warm. May peace find you and be with your family.

Sonny Stewart

December 15, 2010

Barry & Family:

Our sympathy goes out to you in your time of grief. Let the memmories of Katie keep her in your thoughts. You are in our prayers.

Sonny & Cheryl Stewart

December 15, 2010

We are deeply sorry for you loss. No words could ever express. You will all be in our constant prayers.

The Murray Family (former students Matthew,Madison,Maria & Michael)

December 15, 2010

Dear Urban Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family will forever be in our prayers.

- The Bowen Family

Diane Campanile

December 15, 2010

You are close in our thoughts and in our prayers. Our deepest sympathies....The Campanile Family (Mark, 8th grade)

Maura McDonnell

December 15, 2010

Barry & Family --
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I will keep praying for you all.

Hunter Family

December 15, 2010

To the Urban family,
You are in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Febus, LaReita, LaKeya, Joshua, & Victor Hunter

Catenacci

December 15, 2010

Sending our deepest sympathy and prayers to the Urban Family.
The Catenacci Family
(Tommy, 8th grade Stetson)

Lyn Van Druff

December 15, 2010

Jane, Barry and Douglas,
Words are insufficient to express the depth of my sorrow and pain for all of you. I know that nothing we say can make it any better for you, but I want you to know that not a waking hour has gone by since hearing of Katie's loss, that I haven't whispered a prayer that God's grace and love will surround and uphold you at this time and in the weeks ahead.
lovingly, Lyn Van Druff

Karen Campo

December 15, 2010

To the Urban Family~
Our deepest condolences, we are so saddened by this tragedy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Campo Family

The Leonard Family

December 15, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of great sorrow.

Bjorklund Family

December 15, 2010

Jane, Barry, and Doug - There are no words to express how truly saddened we are about the loss of Katie. We will remember her big smile that would light up a room and her thoughtful kindness. I'm so glad we got to see her sing in the chorus concert last week. She is a true angel in every sense of the word. Our thoughts and prayers go out to each of you, and we hope you can find the peace and strength to get through this. Please know that we are here for you. - Alice, Steve, Elizabeth & Abby

Kathy Elefante

December 15, 2010

Jane & Barry, no words can express how deeply saddened I am about Katie. I pray for God to give you the strength to get through this very difficult time.

George, Yulia and Katya Iatsenko

December 15, 2010

Dear Urban Family, although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. Be strong and know that we are here for you. Katie has a permanent place in our hearts.

The Gallagher Family

December 14, 2010

Dear Urban Family,
Our thoughts and many prayers are with you during this time. Our son and Katie were in many classes together at Starkweather. Katie was always smiling and always a joy to be around. God's love in here to help you heal and to help you keep Katie alive in your hearts.

The Kaliner Family

December 14, 2010

Although I did not know Katie, she has been on my mind consistently the last 4 days. My son is a 6th grader at Stetson, but did not have the opportunity to get to know Katie. From all the wonderful things I've read about her, I'm sure he would have liked her very much.
I am so saddened by the devastation your family must be feeling. Please know that the community is behind you, ready and willing to help in any way...yet knowing that the single thing that would truly give you comfort is not possible, to have your sweet daughter in your arms again. I can only pray that with time the pain will lessen and you'll remember only the joy she gave you.

Jen Gaffney

December 14, 2010

Dear Urban family,
I have played on Katie's soccer team multiple times several years ago and also sat at her lunch table this marking period. I'm very sorry. Katie was one of the nicest people I have met and was a fun team mate. I hope GOD gives your family strength this year and the new year to come. You're in my prayers. I am glad to know Katie.
Love,
Jen Gaffney <3

Denise & Andy Haines

December 14, 2010

So sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter. You are in our thoughts and prayers daily.
(Uncle and Aunt to Jennifer Gaffney)

December 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please know that the school and the community are thinking of you. Katie was a friend to all and will always be remembered. May God give your family the strength to heal.
The Ibach Family

Becky Cagle (122 Green)

December 14, 2010

I was blessed to have known Katie,as well as Doug. I was their bus driver in Elementery school. I will always remember her infectious smile every morning and afternoon! She still had it when I would pull up to Stetson everyday. While she was waiting on her bus to pick her up, she would be waving like crazy.It really gave you a great feeling to see her! She will be missed greatly by many people. Doug, stay strong, and keep all the great memories of Katie with you. To Mr.& Mrs.Urban,my condolences on the loss of your daughter.

December 14, 2010

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. The Covert Family

The Riti Family

December 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time. As the mother of three, my heart aches for the loss of your beautiful baby girl. May you find comfort and peace in the days ahead. God Bless you.

Kaitlyn Durant

December 14, 2010

DOUG:Keep going strong as you are now and live your life to the fullest.
MR. AND MRS. URBAN:Im sorry for your lost and everyday we pray for you. Katie was AMAZING and funny and just filled with light, joy, and energy. I hope you will always know that Katie will always be on my mind no matter what.
KATIE: You were the best!!! You always gave me great advice,helped me through problems, and just made me happy. You're just a person made from sunshine. You could make someone happy on their worst day,and theres no better words to describe you other than a HERO. Everyday i think about you and you will always have a special place in my heart.
<3 <3 <3 BFF's <3 <3 <3

December 14, 2010

Urban Family,

Our sympathy and love go out to you. May the many memories of Katie be a source of comfort that surrounds you at this time of great sorrow.

Sue & Richard Misher

John Canterino

December 14, 2010

Barry it has been a while since we have crossed paths but Dave yesterday informed me of your loss. Know that you and your entire family our in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God Bless

John Canterino

Steven Vanderwolf

December 14, 2010

Dear Urban Family,

We are deeply saddend and our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this very difficult time. Katie was such a beautiful young woman with an angelic voice we will miss her deeply. May GOD give you strength and we look forward to seeing you all again when time allows. Hope, peace love to you in your time of grieving. Sincerely, The Vanderwolf Family

December 14, 2010

Everyone will miss Katie so much. Douglas your friends at Stetson support you and are here for you. Eric Flynn

Steve, Roe, Matthew, Mike and Katie Durant

December 14, 2010

Barry, Jane and Douglas - please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your terrible loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. We will always remember Katie for the sweet, gentle girl she was, with a smile that lit up her beautiful face. She will be deeply missed by all that knew and loved her. We pray the love of God enfolds you during this difficult time and he helps you heal with the passage of time.

December 14, 2010

Dear Urban family,
My children rode the bus home with Katie and Doug everyday and have fond memories of Katie. Please know how much everyone cares and supports each of you and prays for your family to heal. hoping the wonderful memories will help you in your healing of your beautiful daughter an sister.
Gretta, kevin,jason ( Haley and Eric Flynn Katie and Dougs friends)

Beth Shearn

December 14, 2010

My daughter Kayleigh was on Katie's soccer team this past spring - she was an amazing defender and the such a great kid. We are praying for the Urban family and everyone who was touched by Katie in this time of great pain. We hope the love and support you feel from the community, friends and family brings you peace.

December 14, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss! Our prayers and thought will be with you at this time! We know you will all find strength in God and each other at this time.We will always remember Katie's wonderful smile and love for soccer! She will always be in our hearts!
God Bless you All,
The Cozzone's

Steve Holauchock

December 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. God Bless

The Holauchocks

Colleen Woods-Cahill

December 14, 2010

Urban Family,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

The Pileggi Family

December 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless your family.

A friend

December 14, 2010

Like The Bales Family, I have a 7-year old daughter who is the world to me. I hope the love of those closest to you bring you comfort at this unbelievably difficult time, and that your grief may in some way be eased by joyous memories.

Kathie Reeser

December 14, 2010

Lighting a candle in Katie's honor.. I did not know Katie or her family, but with children of my own, I couldn't even begin to imagine the terrible loss you are going through. My sincere condolences go out to your entire family.

Valerie Pyle

December 14, 2010

No words were ever created that could even attempt to take away what you're feeling right now. Know that above all else the memories of your beloved daughter will grow stronger and clearer in the time to come. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. May God's peace enfold you all so you can feel His embrace. Jesus will hold Katie for you till you see her again one day.

beth kostans

December 14, 2010

Katie will forever be in our memories and prayers. Barry, Jane and Douglas I know that there are no words to say to make this go away or make it any better, just know our thoughts and prayers are with you and if you need us for anything we are here for you. We are so very sorry for your loss of such a beautiful, happy, kind and sweet child. Love John Beth Matthew and Megan

Shannon Brill

December 14, 2010

Jane, Barry and Douglas: Words cannot describe our sadness over the loss of Katie. She was a ray of sunshine and could always be counted on to greet you with a beautiful smile. She will be dearly missed by adults and kids alike, who were lucky enough to have had Katie in their lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and we hope that you will find peace and comfort in the days ahead. Your special angel is always there to cheer, to comfort, to guide and to care. "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God" - Matthew 5:8 Love: Shannon, Jon, Lauren and Allyson Brill

Cozzone's

December 14, 2010

In memory of Katie!

Amy Shaw

December 14, 2010

We are so, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. May you find a bit of comfort knowing that all the families at NPE have you in our thoughts and prayers.

-The Shaw Family (Amy, Bill, Jake and Dylan)

December 14, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. May you be lifted with support and faith during this time and find strength in each other. Ben and Barbara March, (Noah and Meghan March)

The Munro Family

December 14, 2010

So sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot imagine the pain and grief you are feeling. May you find strength in each others' love.

December 13, 2010

DOUG, WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH JUST PLEASE FEEL OUR ARMS WRAPPED AROUND YOU EVERY MOMENT OF THE DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AUNT MICHELLE, BIANCA, MYKEL AND JOSIE

michelle roberson

December 13, 2010

Lord God, source and destiny of our lives, in your loving providence you gave us Katie to grow in wisdom, age, and grace. Now you have called her to yourself. We grieve over the loss of one so young and struggle to understand your purpose. Draw her to yourself and give her full stature in Christ. May she stand with all the angels and saints who know your love and praise your saving will.

Aunt Michelle, Bianca, Mykel and Josie

December 13, 2010

Katie you and Doug are like my own children I love you both you are gone but will never be forgotten. Jane and Baryy I love you guys and we are going to keep doing what we do.

Aunt Michelle

Gail Thompson

December 13, 2010

To my beautiful K T. I am so honored to have had the opportunity to have you on my soccer team. Every once in awhile a player comes along who touches you on a different level. Who you have a special connection with. Who has a constant place in your heart. Katie, you were that player for me. Your amazing personality, beautiful face, huge smile and striking blue eyes will remain in my heart forever.
To the Urban family, my deepest condolences go out to you. I pray that God will embrace you with His love and give you peace and comfort at this time. At the times you dont realize it, or cannot understand it, or do not want it, this is when God wants us to turn to Him the most.
Coach Gail

Joan & Art Holt

December 13, 2010

There are no words to make it all better. There is no magic to make it all go away. Keep your faith, and draw your strength from Katie. Cry, laugh, and honor Katie by keeping her memory alive. I will never forget Katie and Doug walking the dogs and stopping to talk with Emma dog and me. They were happy, laughing, and always friendly. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Faith, Hope and Love, Joan and Art Holt.

Jackie Barker

December 13, 2010

Katie you are in our thoughts and prayers, today and always. Our heart and condolences go out to Barry, Jane and Douglas during this most difficult time. Love, The Barker's

Lisa Hoppe

December 13, 2010

Our prayers are with your family. Lisa and Meagan Hoppe

The Bales Family

December 13, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I have a 7 year old daughter and cannot even begain to imagine the pain you must be feeling. Although I nor my daughter knew Katie we just wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Bales Family

December 13, 2010

Keep strong Doug... It's ok

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