Heather Lynn Hopson Graff

Heather Lynn Hopson Graff obituary, Nacodoches, TX

Heather Lynn Hopson Graff

Heather Graff Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 7 to Apr. 8, 2010.
Funeral services for Mrs. Heather Lynn Hopson Graff, 26, of Nacogdoches, Texas, will be at 1 p.m. Friday, April 9, 2010, at Harvest Point Church. Burial will follow at the Hopson Family Cemetery in Broaddus, Texas. Heather went home to heaven April 6, 2010. She was born in Nacogdoches January 19, 1984, to Paul Hopson and Tammy Glenn Nabours. A committed Christian, Heather accepted Jesus as a young child and dedicated her life to sharing her faith with those around her. She took particular comfort and direction from Psalm 62:1-2, "My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken." Heather was vivacious, friendly and always joyful; a loving wife, daughter, mother and sister. Friends and family cherish the memory of her radiant smile. Heather graduated from Nacogdoches High School in 2002. She then attended and graduated from East Texas Baptist University with a bachelor of science degree in nursing in 2008. While at ETBU she met her beloved Jacob, whom she married December 15, 2006. After graduation, the young couple moved to Nacogdoches where Heather loved working as a labor and delivery nurse at Nacogdoches Medical Center. They rejoiced in the birth of their daughter, Ava Reese, in December 2009. Heather loved softball. She played for the Nacogdoches Royals and NHS Lady Dragons and spent hours with her dad coaching her and teaching her to pitch. Heather also enjoyed spending time with her large extended family at the Hopson Farm in Broaddus. She and her mom, Tammy, loved doing crafts together and often went to their "Happy Place," Hobby Lobby. She treasured her life-long best friend and big sister, Jennifer. Heather and Jacob spent time together watching movies and playing with Ava. Heather was active in her church life and attended First Baptist Church of Nacogdoches. She is survived by her husband, Jacob Ray Graff and daughter, Ava Reese of Nacogdoches; her mother and step-father, Tammy and Larry Nabours of Nacogdoches; her father, Paul Hopson of Nacogdoches; sister, Jennifer Hopson of Irving; two step-brothers, Cade Nabours of Nacogdoches and Clint Nabours of Austin; paternal grandparents, Cecil and Lorine Hopson of Nacogdoches; maternal grandmother, Patricia Ann Glenn of Nacogdoches; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Billy and Dawn Graff of Galveston; two brothers-in-law, Joshua Graff of San Antonio and Jonathan Graff and daughter, Sophia, of Galveston; and many beloved aunts; uncles; cousins; and close friends. Heather was preceded in death by her maternal grandfather, Carrol Glenn; and by her infant daughter, Camdyn Reese Graff. Visitation with the family will be held from 5 until 7 p.m. Thursday, April 8, 2010, at Laird Funeral Home. Pallbearers will be Jonathan Graff, Joshua Graff, Cade Nabours, Clint Nabours, Zach Hopson, Robert Hopson, Kevin Hopson and Lance Hays. Honorary pallbearers will be Wayne Hopson, Steve Hopson, Tim Hopson, Kant Gaston, Charles Ferguson, Geoff Anderson, Al Suhor and Gary Brandon. A memorial fund has been set up for her daughter, Ava Reese Graff, at Community Bank of Texas in Beaumont, Texas. Contributions can be made at any location or by visiting the bank Web site: http://www.communitybankoftx.com, Account No. 21036993. A college fund for Ava has also been set up at Regions Bank in Nacogdoches, Texas. Contributions can be made at any Regions Bank. If you have questions, please call Chris at Regions Bank at 936-715-6116. To convey condolences or to sign an online register, please visit www.lairdfh.net. Laird Funeral Home.

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May 4, 2010

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April 13, 2010

Ashley Taylor Rodriguez posted to the memorial.

April 13, 2010

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Paula Kasper Gipson

May 4, 2010

I remember you always smiling, laughing, and staying positive. Thank you for being that wonderful person. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in Peace, sweet Heather.

Ashley Taylor Rodriguez

April 13, 2010

I'm very sorry for your loss, i had no clue just heard about it today. Heather was a great girl and I will keep your family in my prayers.

Love, Ashley Taylor Rodriguez

Rejeana Stewart

April 13, 2010

May God's love encompass and hold you, may His Holy Comforter dwell continually with you and, may His mercy dry your tears in time. There are no words to express my sorrow for your loss. My prayers are with you.
love,
Rejeana Dempsey Stewart

Ella Tatum

April 11, 2010

It is difficult to imagine such an unexpected death for a young family. All must contribute to comforting Ava through the years. Help her benefit in knowing her family. God is with you and will help ease the sad times.

Erica White

April 10, 2010

To the Hopson/Graff family, My prayers are with you all during your our lost of a friend,classmate,wife,daughter,sister,mother,etc. For we never know when our clock will sxtop clicking at a unexspected time. My encouragment is to live,laugh,learn an love our love ones while there here for we never know when our time is. I love each an everyone of you even those who don't know me, may God Bless you all during this time.Sorry for your lost but, she is always in our hearts, memories are a lifetime cherish that you will always have with you. Still a shock that she's gone. R.I.P Heather Hopson Graff WE LOVE YOU & YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED BY MANY! BY: Erica White & Family CLASS OF "02" .

Lindsey Van Dusen

April 10, 2010

Praying for you, Jacob and your precious daughter. I know that God will be with you during this time and will give you understanding. Cling to Him and He will give you strength. My family and I will continue to pray for you guys and for Heather's family. I never had the opportunity to meet her, but she sounds wonderful and glad to know she loved Jesus.

Lori Graves Loria

April 9, 2010

My prayers and heart pray that you will find peace in knowing that she is in the hands of our almight loving Father above. May God Bless you with peace and comfort as you find your way to mourn your loss! Many Hugs! Lori Graves Loria

April 9, 2010

My heart aches for you for your loss. Josh and Audra both are deeply saddened and filled with disbelief as well. We will pray for consolation and peace for your family. Estelle, Randy, Josh and Audra Stroud

April 9, 2010

Paul, We are so sorry for your loss.We now live in Gary and only heard about Heather today.You are in our prayers and let us know if there is anything we can do for you or the family. May the smile on your granddaughters face always give you the peaceful memories of Heather.
Tommy and Colleen Miller

Lisa Henderson Pace

April 9, 2010

Paul, I am so very sorry to hear about Heather. Take peace in knowing that she is with God now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Carolyn Stein

April 9, 2010

I only knew Heather as the beloved friend of my niece, Amanda Ferrell Nicholson, and though our times together were limited, her eyes shined with the love of her Jesus and her infectious smile and spirit drew me in completely. There are no words I can offer except to wrap yourselves in the arms of the Lord. Heather was a blessing in life and remains so in the lives she's saved in the giving of herself. Our prayers are with you all, and we are so grateful that her life touched ours.

Sue Francis (Henson)

April 9, 2010

Paul, Tammy & Family, May God keep you all close now & forever. I know this is the hardest thing in the world. I will keep you all in my prayers.You All have my deepest heart felt sympathy.

jennifer berry

April 9, 2010

May you each seek God in your time of sorrow.. And find the comfort that he has for you. Heather, you will be truly missed and your memory will forever live.

CAROLYN COX MARTIN

April 9, 2010

WHAT WE KEEP IN MEMORY IS OURS FOREVER , UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY .

CAROLYN COX MARTIN
NAC MEMORIAL ER

April 8, 2010

May the God of all comfort surround you with His grace and peace. --Rev. John McGee Leggett, Jr. (Cousin of Margaret Ener)

Becki Haley

April 8, 2010

Tenderly... may time heal your sorrow, Gently...may friends ease your pain. Softly...may peace replace heartache-and may warmest memories remain. My heart goes out to you all. May time heal your heart. Becki Haley, San Augustine, Texas

Desiree' Thompson-Morrison

April 8, 2010

Heather, we grew up together, but I hadn't seen you in years. I have prayed for your family since I found out, you have not been far from my thoughts. I have fought questions of why and you have made me appreciate waking up so much more. My heart is shattered for your family. You were such a lovely woman, the type of person, even when we were little girls growing up together, that would come and put your arm around someone when they were down, and flash that radiant smile that brings warmth. I wish I would have kept up with you better. Your beautiful life doesn't stop now, but will continue to live on in our hearts and memories. I so enjoyed your company and am amazed at what a tremendous woman you became. What I will remember most is the inspiration you have become for me that a young woman can be a perfect example of Proverbs 31, I know because we have seen this in you. May God wrap your family in total embrace for the days to come, and may they feel your reassuring presence. With deepest sorrow and greater love...you will be missed.

Janell Flores

April 8, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Susan, Keri,Kori, Kristina,Katie Jarboe

April 8, 2010

We have your family in our thoughts and prayers today. Heather's smile and grace will be missed.

Renae Vawter Chaviers

April 8, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Candace Johnson

April 8, 2010

We can't imagine you're loss. Our heart goes out to each of you. May God wrap his arms around you and carry you through this devastating time. All Our Love, Nac Memorial ER Crew: Gwen Nerren, Candace Johnson, Peni Russell, Nicole Starling, Greg Stoddard, Cami Rutledge, John Sanchez, Heaberlyn Campbell, Sammy Alvy, Joann Morrow, Melissa Taylor

Clarissa Knabenshue

April 8, 2010

Heather was a wonderful daughter, sister, wife, mother, and friend. She will be greatly missed. I was so blessed to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Jackie Laird

April 8, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Gloria Bay

April 8, 2010

April 8, 2010
Sending our prayers for God's peace and grace at this time. We thought the world of Heather. She was a delightful young lady. She and Adrienne enjoyed each other very much. Prayerfully, Dan, Gloria and Adrienne Bay

Stacey Johnson

April 8, 2010

Though I only knew Heather for a short time after having met her during nursing school, my life will never be the same after having known her. My thoughts and prayers are wih you during this time. Heather will be greatly missed, for hers was a life that will not be forgotten by those who knew her and were touched by her life.

Toni Lyles-Tallant

April 8, 2010

I am very sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.

April 8, 2010

To all who loved Heather. We share your grief. We know many of the extended family personally and feel as though we knew Heather because of the feeling you got from being with any of the Hopsons. May you feel God's presence in the coming days in ways you never knew possible. Dr. Bill Gandy's office, Angela, Sandy and Ann

Cassondra Lytle

April 8, 2010

I've known Heather since she was a liitle girl. Always friendly and always smiling. She had a perky personality and you couldn't help but love her. Tammy, my friend, my heart bleeds for you and your family. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. May God bless and keep you always.

Harolyn Adams Smith

April 8, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

April 8, 2010

Our prayers and condolences. GOD bless you all------Tony,Nora Marc and Thelma(Weatherford-Lopez) WEATHERFORDS

April 8, 2010

We were so very sorry to hear about Heather. We will keep your entire family in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Coach Steve, Susie & Rachel Oates

Leah Ewing

April 8, 2010

Larry/Tammy: I did not know Heather but from what I have heard she was a wonderful young woman. My sympathy goes out to your entire family.

KATHY SITTON

April 8, 2010

Heather was such a beautiful person. Her smile was like a ray of sunshine. My most vivid memory of Heather was on a horse at Paul's farm. There was such a story behind that memory. Paul I just want you to know that my heart hurts for you. I can't even begin to imagine what you and your family are feeling. I am praying for you. May God be with you and Jennifer, and the rest of the family.

Jimmy & Faye Socia

April 8, 2010

Heaather I didn't get to met you but I feel like I know you. I know several members of your family. My sympathy goes out to your family. I am praying that God will hold them close and they can feel his love.

Mike and Felicia Stanfield

April 8, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you in this time of grief. God bless you all.

Susie Heflin

April 8, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss, we will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Jason and Susie Heflin

DANA CUSTER

April 8, 2010

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference. Amen! I LOVE YALL YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS!

Patty Bridges

April 8, 2010

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss Paul, and for the rest of your family...look to the Lord for your peace...He will give you the strength to go on without her. Patty Bridges (TXDPS/Lufkin office)

BRANDI DEGEER

April 8, 2010

YOUR FAMILY IS IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.WE LOVE YOU,
YOUR PHARMACY FRIENDS, BRANDI DEGEER AND PATTI MADISON

Larry and Beth Channel

April 8, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Kim and Brandy Graham

April 8, 2010

I never got to meet you Heather but you have got one great Dad. Paul was a Trooper when I was there working at the Sheriffs Office. May God Bless Your Family and Keep his Arms around this family during this difficult time. God Bless! You will be missed so much!

DebbySaxton Saxton

April 8, 2010

we are so sorry for your loss,our toughts and prayers are with you.
Debby Saxton and Family

Gregg & Angie Nichols

April 8, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with Jacob, Ava and all the family. Very sorry for the loss of Heather.

Linda Yancy Lilley

April 7, 2010

My heart goes out to Heather's family and friends. Please acccept my sincerest condolences.

Ken & Julie Davis

April 7, 2010

We are so very sorry for your loss - our prayers are with you all at this time. Her favorite Psalm shows her love for our Father as she is with Him. Be comforted that we will see Heather when it is our time.

Blessings, love and peace,

Becky Conditt

April 7, 2010

There are no words to adequately convey our deep feelings of sympathy. You are in our thoughts during this very difficult time.
The Conditt/Nabours Family

Jacky & Regina Collins

April 7, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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