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Jeffrey Glenn Miller M.D.

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Jeffrey Miller Obituary

Miller M.D., Jeffrey Glenn 46 07/30/1964 12/05/2010 We all lost a generous, loving soul when Jeff Miller died Dec. 5, 2010, in a tragic accident. He is survived by his loving family: wife, Jann Purdy; children, Dain and Margo Miller; his parents, William and Thelma Miller; and sisters, Julie (Steven) Mitchell and Vickie (Pete) Phelan. Jeff grew up in the foothills of the Sierra Mountains in Shingle Springs, Calif., on a small farm. It was there that he first gained a love for the outdoors, and he continued to hike and camp throughout his life, sharing that appreciation for nature with his family and friends. He and his wife decided to raise their family on a small farm in southwest Hillsboro to give their kids the kind of childhood that they had both experienced. Along with his love of nature, Jeff's passion was in helping others. After earning a Bachelor of Science from UC Davis in 1986, he entered UCLA for medical school and decided on a career in pediatrics. He wanted to work with kids, because he thought he could have the most impact by helping people early on in life. He completed his residency at the Children's Hospital of Oakland in 1994 and then worked in community health clinics in the Bay Area until he and his family moved to Oregon. From 1999 until very recently, he worked at OHSU's Doernbecher Westside Clinic as medical director, physician, and teacher. He was the Oregon coordinator for PROS (pediatric research in office settings), a national research organization, and president of the Portland Academy for Pediatrics. He loved his job teaching pediatric residents and enjoyed the challenge of research, but his main dedication was to helping kids. He had recently joined The Children's Clinic and welcomed the chance to devote more time to his patients. He also volunteered in his children's classrooms, helped coach his son's robotics team, and volunteered at the Essential Health Clinic in Hillsboro. A friend recently wrote about the time when Jeff held her infant son for the first time: "I saw that it wasn't the case that he had a way with kids because he was a pediatrician, but that he was a pediatrician because he had a way with kids." He had a way, really, with everyone. The outpouring of love and support from so many corners of the globe is a true testament of his contributions to those around him. Both his old friends and new friends will find comfort in knowing that Jeff considered himself the fortunate one to have had them in his life. His family will remember his playful sense of humor, his warm hugs given freely, his humble, gentle nature, high intelligence, and good judgment. A celebration of life will be held in Jeff's honor at 11 a.m. Sunday, Dec. 19, 2010, in the Cascade Banquet Room at the Oregon Zoo. In lieu of flowers or gifts, the family requests that donations in Jeff's honor be sent to the Essential Health Clinic, http://www.essentialhealthclinic.org, which serves the uninsured in Washington County. Furthermore, an account has been set up for the education of his children, Dain and Margo. Please visit any Wells Fargo branch to donate to the Memorial Fund for Jeff Miller or submit them online using account number 5104373054. If you have a story to share about Dr. Miller, please send your memories to [email protected].

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Published by The Oregonian on Dec. 12, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Miller

Sponsored by His family.

162 Entries

Archana Thomas

December 6, 2024

Thinking of Dr. Miller today, my prayers are with his family.

Jann

December 13, 2023

Dear Marisol, Archana, Heidi and Chao,
Thank you so much for your kind thoughts. We are so grateful to know that his impact on those around him is so profound. Our kids, Dain (27) and Margo (24) are doing great despite missing him these past 13 years. Warm greetings for the holidays. --Jann

Marisol Hernández

December 12, 2023

Siempre recordamos al Dr Miller con cariño y respeto porque fue un excelente pediatra para mis cuatro hijos, de igual manera tres de ellos se acuerdan de el por que el más pequeño tenía dos años cuando desafortunadamente Dios lo llevo a su lado por ser una gran persona. Siempre lo recordaremos D E P Dr Jeffrey Miller

Archana

December 7, 2023

Thinking about Dr.Miller and his family today.

Heidi Klobes

December 7, 2023

Always thinking of Jeff and his family this time of year, and wishing them all of the best!

Chao Liu

December 6, 2023

Always thinking of you and your family.

Heidi Klobes

December 8, 2022

Jeff & Family,

You are all in our hearts every December. Every time I hear the Christmas Canon song I think of you all as the year you passed, I cried in my car while listening to it and thinking of what a difficult Christmas that was and what a loss you were to the community. Attached are Romeo & Enzo, whom were some of your little baby patients all those years ago. I always remember how loving your hands were They are thriving and doing well and we are and always will be grateful to you for your care!! Wishing the family and the grown kids all the best!!!!

Archana Thomas

December 6, 2022

Thinking of Dr.Miller and the kindness and compassion he always so generously gave. Dr.Miller's family is in my prayers today.

Gina Pester

December 6, 2022

The boy you used to care for is now nearly 15. We still use our Nebulizer when he is very sick. You were an amazing doctor & you will forever be missed. I hope your family is doing well. Your kids are all grown now. Each year between the holidays you are in my thoughts & fond memories.

Ben Sanders, OHSU Pediatrics

June 10, 2021

Glad to have the opportunity to take a few minutes to appreciate Dr. Miller's legacy, at the OHSU Pediatric Grand Rounds this morning, where Ms. Jann Purdy and Dr. Allison Empey congratulate Dr. Tamara Grigsby as this year's recipient of the Jeff Miller award. Congratulations Dr. Grigsby, we appreciate your work with children.

Listening also to this year's Jeff Miller lecturer Dr. Erik Brodt, Director of the NW Native American Center of Excellence. Thank you Dr. Brodt!

Archana Thomas

December 8, 2020

Remembering Dr.Miller with gratitude! Thinking about Dr.Miller's family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Heidi Klobes (formerly Kaczmarek)

December 6, 2020

Always thinking of you all and memories of Jeff this time of year....I am sure your children have grown so much and are becoming amazing young adults! I wonder how they are and what their aspirations are. Whenever I think of my children as babies I remember Jeff's warm smile for a tired mom and his gentle hands when treating my babies. The boys are now 12 and 9, and like your children, they are no longer babies! Thank you for sharing your dad and husband with us, he touched so many lives and will always, always be remembered by my family as an outstanding and caring doctor and beyond that an amazing human and unforgettable spirit.

I hope you all have continued to find joy in life and always look to the moment we're in with gratitude. Sending warm and loving thoughts to your family and Jeff!!
(pic of the boys on our road trip to stay in Tahoe this summer--what a crazy year!!)

Jann Purdy-Miller

December 7, 2019

Dear Lisa, Heidi and Archana,

Thank you so much for your kind thoughts (and Lisa, the picture of your kids which I'm sure Jeff wouldn't have loved to see), both for Jeff and for our family. I have a tradition of gathering with friends on or near the 5th, and when I mentioned that you all wrote on this Guest Book, they too were touched by your kindness and by the lasting impact of Jeff's legacy. We are all grateful.

Dain (23), Margo (20) and I are all doing well thanks to the amazing support we still receive from family and friends. Jeff was and continues to be a guiding spirit in our lives.

Warm wishes for the holidays!

Gratefully,
Jann

My 3 boys. I can't imagine having gotten them (or me) through the baby and toddler stages without Dr. Miller's patience and exceptional care.

Lisa Sandmire

December 6, 2019

Heidi Kaczmarek

December 6, 2019

Always thinking of Dr. Miller and his family this time. of year =). Hoping they are all doing well and happy!!

Archana

December 5, 2019

I said a prayer for Dr.Miller today, always in our hearts.

Heidi Kaczmarek

January 1, 2016

I felt it time to write a little message, I always do this time of year =) When I see your face in this picture I always remember that smiling face walking in to see me and my baby boy (now 7) to ease my mind, answer my questions and share your expertise. The one thing I remember the most was your gentle hands as you touched my little precious treasure. I have no doubt that your positive loving energy lives on in many ways, on this plane through your children and in the next in some other unexplainable (but real) way. Love to you and strength to your family!

The Hart Family

December 30, 2015

Dr. Miller, I know how blessed we are to have had you in our lives. I find myself thinking of you and of your family often and I know they must find comfort in remembering and reading about the many lives you touched. Thank you for being such a solid presence in my life during difficult times and always being a phone call away when I had any question about my daughters. I have never found a doctor who cares and is smart as you were. Sending big hugs to your family and best wishes in the coming year.

Chao Liu

December 10, 2014

Still thinking of you yesterday driving my daughter Jasmine home from kindergarten. We still haven't found another doctor like you. Bless your family.

Archana & Thomas

December 9, 2014

Have been thinking and praying for Dr Miller's family for the past couple of days. We lovingly and thankfully remember Dr Miller, he was truly a great human being,our child's first pediatrician, forever in our thoughts.

October 16, 2014

Dr Miller often crosses our families minds. My kids are 14, 11, and almost 4. He was my two oldest's doctor their entire lives and we were privileged that he saw our little Clara at her 2 week appointment days before he passed away. He was such a great doctor and a wonderful person -- we all still miss him dearly and remember him fondly. Blessings to his family from ours.
-- Josh, Amy, Rylan, Carson and Clara Trainer

Zacharaih Carpenter-Hamilton

September 23, 2014

Dr. Jeffrey miller was my pediatrician up until I was 17 and he always made me feel like I was an adult and even now as I am 2 short weeks away from 21 I couldnt imagine not seeing him

Karen Edmonds

July 31, 2014

I've been thinking of Jeff all week as Jeff would've been 50 yesterday--an age we couldn't imagine being when we met in college all those years ago. I miss Jeff as much today as ever. There are so many things that remind me of him and our long friendship, and I miss being able to share a song or joke or book or a beer with him.

Jann, Margo and Dain, and the Miller family, I am thinking of you too (as I often do), and share your loss.

You were one of a kind, Jeff. Kind, generous, funny, and a wonderful friend--the best. The world is not the same without you.

Ruby

July 12, 2014

I just found about the death of Dr.Miller and I am in great shock and disbelief. Dr. Miller was three of my kids pediatrician and my entire family just loved him. One of my sons is a future doctor because of Dr. Miller. may god rest his soul in peac

Archana

May 19, 2014

What a great great doctor he was, a healer and a genuinely compassionate human being, we will never meet anyone like him. Our prayers and thoughts are always with Dr. Miller's family.

Jann Purdy-Miller

March 30, 2014

Thank you, Heidi, and to all those who continue to write in the guest book. I woke up this morning feeling particularly sad and missing Jeff. Reading your post helped me to know the extent to which other share our grief. It is comforting to know that he lives on in the hearts and memories of so many people. Thank you.

Heidi Kaczmarek

March 29, 2014

I am so glad this guestbook is still online! I think of Dr Miller often and his wife and kids. He took such good care of my children and I will never forget that and I will never forget him. Every December I think of his gentle hands and spirit... He will live forever in my heart. Much love and strength to his family from mine.

Gina Pester

December 17, 2013

Still think of you all the time. There is no one that compares to you. The way you interacted with my son & I is unfogettable. You are unforgettable. I think of you very often. Your family is in our hearts through the year.

Chao Liu

December 16, 2013

Still thinking of you and your family.

My son's (now grown to young adulthood) loved Dr. Miller

Cherylanne Loop

December 15, 2013

December 15, 2013
Several years have gone by since your dear one was tragically and unexpectedly taken, and I am finding myself thinking of you, his beautiful family, during this holiday season. May the Lord be with you all and bring you comfort and new found joy in the renewing of life, especially with the meaning of Christmas and the hope it represents. As a doctor, we have yet to find one who compares...maybe we never will.
A Christmas Blessing to you all I send,
Most Sincerely,
Cherylanne Loop

Arubala Reddy

May 16, 2013

Just this morning I was at the West side pediatrics clinic. I saw the memorial set up in Dr. Miller`s memory. I was shocked...that he is no more. We as family have a great respect for him. He saved my daughter in 2006. he is some one who could make patients and family feel that everything is going to okay and he really mean it. Rest in Peace Dr. Miller. Thank you for saving my daughter.

Lisa Sandmire

December 6, 2012

I think about Dr. Miller and his family frequently. Although our relationship was that of Doctor-Patient (or patients' mother, more accurately), because of his warm and friendly personality, and because he was our doctor for 11 years, I think of him more as a friend and part of our family. We miss him very much, and hope for all the best for his family.

Chao Liu

December 6, 2012

2 years have passed, and we still think of Dr Miller. He has made a lasting impression on us new parents that no other doctor will ever come close to the kindness and gentleness that he has shown. We miss you, Dr Miller.

Summer 2012

Jann Purdy

December 5, 2012

Dear friends and family,
Today I woke up to a gorgeous, sunny, crisp December day; the weather is so much like the day of Jeff's tragic accident that it is hard to resist the temptation to wish for a time warp so that we could start that day over and do it differently. The kids and I miss him so much that I wonder how we survive the pain.

And yet, I do know how we survive. Just reading these posts here, I can see how much support and love Jeff fostered during his brief life. That foundation has kept us surrounded with the hope and strength that we need in order to live and love and heal. Our families, our neighbors, our friends and even those of you we've never met, have contributed to our safety net.

I want to thank each of you who have contributed to this guest book. You have touched our lives in such profound ways. The stories and sentiments that you have generously shared with us will be treasured by all of those who knew Jeff, but especially by Jeff's and my kids, who need everyone's memory of their dad to keep their memories rich and full. I myself have learned so much about Jeff as a doctor—even though I knew him so deeply and intimately and knew what an extraordinary person he was, I am still shocked and humbled by the kind of impact that he had on the families who were in his care. Just today his friend and colleague, Angie, said that a patient's mom was crying in her office yesterday, so much she missed Jeff. And Chao Liu, a patient's parent, also noted in her post here, that last year's weather was exactly as Dec. 5, 2010 had been. I thought only I would have noted the weather! The stories and quotes from your kids and how they viewed him are precious. And there is even a post from his patient, Ryan. What a testament to his impact! I am also touched by those who knew Jeff as a young boy—his neighbors and classmates—who remember young Jeff in exactly the same way we do: as a gentle, smart, witty, loyal, humble person. As his friend, Kyleen, from Jr. college writes, all those qualities are now inspiring all of us everywhere to live better lives by his example.

I have such a profound sense of gratitude today, December 5, 2012, for the love Jeff gave to us, for the sea of love that comes back to us from all of you and for all that you have share with us. These posts are truly cherished gifts. Thank you for your caring sentiments.

With deep gratitude,
Jann

December 5, 2012

Dear Family, Friends, Colleagues and Patients of my wonderful brother, Jeff Miller,

Today marks two years since all of us lost Jeff. For me, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him or miss his presence in my life and I know that I am in good company with all of you who feel the same way. Thank you for being a part of Jeff's life; I know he valued the life he had, but more importantly, Jeff loved the people he had in it more than anything else.

When Julie, Jeff and I were kids, our family camped a lot. I can always remember when it was time to leave the campground, my dad would say, "Come on kids, lets leave this place better than we found it", upon which we would scour the site, picking up every little piece of foil or soda pop top, and even a stray eggshell or two. Little did we know that that philosophy would follow us through our lives and become a part of who are today. Jeff lived that motto with intention and the impact he made on so many lives is one we should all aspire to. I, like many of you I'm sure, have thought more about life, death, my purpose and my legacy more in the last two years than I ever did before. Is it wiser to be more present in our daily lives and mindful of the way we live or is it better to ride the wave of day-to-day life, noting the highs and lows, and simply be? I have decided that to "leave this place better than we found it" is the best approach, so I ask each of you to make that happen in your own life, whatever that may look like to you.

One thing I have learned from losing Jeff is that it is the relationships we have with people that matter the most. I thank all of you for being in my life, supporting me, comforting me, loving me. I have found so much strength in all of you. So once again, would you please join me and my family, my mom and dad, my sister, Julie's family and Jann, Dain and Margo in honoring Jeff's life over some chips and salsa (guacamole if you have it... Jeff could never have enough! :) and an Indian Pale Ale or Diet Coke and share some laughter and good conversation with the people you care about the most. Take a moment to go outside and breathe in the fresh air and tonight when the stars are out, think of him.

Take care of each other while you make your way through the world. Stay healthy and find joy in living. I miss you Jeff and will love you forever. Your sister,VIC

November 9, 2012

Jeff, I still think about you all the time and what a lose you are to our community. You should know how strong, patient and fit Jann is. She walks around our almost 5 mile block with their new dog Tanner. Tanner is so much like Yukon and we're all hoping he grows out of it. Just kidding-he brings a lot of joy to all of us but he is a puppy. I don't know how Jann carries on-I am in awe of her strength. Margo has absolutely bloomed into a beautiful young lady that you and Jann can be so proud of. Dain is a carbon copy of you and I can see your legacy passing to your son. You are missed at so many levels, it's hard to believe that I had the privilege our knowing you and your family. I send my love to your parents and sisters.
Aprile Penhall - neighbor and friend

Lisa (Dubuc) Beul

September 26, 2012

I was sadly shocked last evening when I learned of Jeff's death. My best friend Laurie (Seeber) Eskew and I have so very many heartfelt memories with Jeff. I have known him since I think the 6th grade, and we all had so many classes together in our Freshman year of highschool as well. Not to mention when I returned at 20 years old from RI for a visit and spent time with Jeff and other friends. We had lots of great memories in our friendhsip. Though I did not have contact with him as adults after our college careers,words do not express what a wonderful person Jeff was. I am very happy to say that he had a very good impact on my life. I am happy to have known him. Jeff made such a difference in so many people's lives. I wish his family only the best. Jeff is a man truly to be missed.

Heidi Dehen

April 20, 2012

I am speechless today as I learned about the death of Dr. Jeffrey Miller. He was our first pediatrician, and we loved him dearly. My kids were deeply saddened to hear of his death, and since moving out of the country, we lost contact with him. My heart goes out to his family, and know that he was loved by all of us. I am saddened that he was taken much too soon. He was an inspiration to all of us, and we will never forget him. Love and peace to all.

Leslie Fortier

December 5, 2011

Jann, Dain & Margo

Thinking of you all today and of Jeff who is on our minds. Had chips and salsa last night and thought of him just as Vickie said but knowing it is the "last" day before marking a year. We missed him at Thanksgiving but were thankful for you, Dain and Margo to be with us. Look forward to seeing you in Hawaii and hope it works out to hook up!

chao liu

December 5, 2011

My husband and I lived in sadness this last few days knowing that Dr Miller's one year passing was coming up. The weather today is identical to Dec 5th last year. It has been a year and we are still very sad that we lost a kind loving soul.

Lois Parsons

December 4, 2011

Tomorrow it will be one year without you on this earth. It's actually hard to take my children to your colleague at the children's clinic. I do it because I have to. My children and I miss your face! You are always on our minds. Dr. Jeff Miller you will always be loved!! Thank you for all you did for us. Rest in Peace!!

July 31, 2011

Happy 47th Birthday Jeff! Yesterday was your birthday and you were on my mind all day long. Each of these important days of your life are so hard to get through without you, but I do because you give me the strength to keep moving forward and experiencing life with both its joys and sadness. I miss you so very much and love you with all that I am. Last week, we hiked up Mt. St. Helen as a family and I now understand why you loved that mountain so much. Jann gave a beautiful heart-felt presentation and read the vows you wrote to her. Through the tears and timely laughter, she painted the most beautiful picture of your love for her. I felt honored to hear how you felt about Jann, the outdoors, life, the future... I just felt closer to you. As we scattered some of your ashes, the sun broke through the clouds and a gorgeous day unfolded encouraging us to press on and tackle that mountain, snow and all. Pete, Drew, Jann and I made it all the way to the top of and what a view! You were with me every step of the way; when it began to challenge me, you were my mantra, "This is for Jeff... this is for Jeff". I hope you are at peace Jeff. Love your sister, VIC

"I have passed the mountain peak and my soul is soaring in the firmament of complete and unbounded freedom; I am in comfort, I am in peace."
-Kahlil Gibran

Beck Ritterman

July 30, 2011

I am so saddened to hear this - Dr. Miller provided such excellent care and guidance to my four children for over 10 years, and despite their "outgrowing" him we have always considered him our only Family doctor. My prayers and thoughts to his family and children, who he spoke of often during our visits. A great loss to the many patients who will never know his kindness and care - I feel blessed that his short life crossed our path.

Ana Acosta

July 12, 2011

Dr. Miller was my our pediatrician for a couple of years while we lived in Portland, Oregon. I found out today that he passed away in Dec. 2010. My heart goes out to his family. He was a kind man and took excellent care of our children.

May God bless you and your family.

Vickie Phelan

June 19, 2011

Dear Dain and Margo, Today is Father's Day and all I can think about is your dad/my brother, Jeff. As I was sitting here writing a card to Poppa, I couldn't stop thinking about Jeff and what a wonderful dad he was. He glowed when he was in your presence because you both filled him with so much love. He was fulfilled in life on so many levels and he was proud of the wonderful people that you are and continue to be. Sometimes when you are young you don't realize what you have in life because it is all you know, but when you grow older and meet a variety of people and hear their life stories, you realize just how stable, warm and secure your life was and the role your parents. Your dad was a very special, loving dad; he was there for you and he simply loved being in your presence. He made a conscious effort to read to you at night, volunteer in your classrooms, work at the Free Clinic, be an active member of your community and so many more every day things that sometimes get overlooked, yet make home life what it is, loving,warm and comforting. Your dad lived his life to the fullest and he made an impact on this world, but his greatest legacy is you two, without a doubt. I miss him so much; the ache inside subsides now and then, but never goes away. I hope that with time you can remember your dad as he was: smiling, happy, laughing, carefree, intelligent, analytical, warm, tickling, playful and most of all, loving you with all of his heart. Dain and Margo, I celebrate you two today for what you have brought to my life and what you brought to Jeff's. I love you both so much. Love, Aunt VIC

Francine Jolton

March 16, 2011

I just read about Jeff in the Children's Hospital Oakland Alumni Newsletter. Though we had lost touch since our years in residency together at CHO, he was always someone I thought about often. We had many good times and I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing. I am not the least bit surprised to hear of his many great accomplishments as a doctor, husband and parent. It is such a tragedy that his life ended too soon. All of us are better people to have known him. My heart goes out to his wife, children and extended family.

Kristy Collins

February 8, 2011

I am so heartbroken to find out Dr. Miller has passed away. He was such a wonderful doctor to my two children. When my son was 6 weeks old he had a very high fever that wouldn't break. Dr. Miller would call and check on him if I didn't check in first. He was such a wonderful doctor that I would drive from the East side of Portland just to have my kids see him. I am at a total loss for words over this tragedy.
My only prayer is that is family find the love and comfort they need to get through this difficult time. He will deeply missed by so many. They don't make many like him.
RIP Dr. Miller you will be missed.

Elliot Howard

February 4, 2011

Dr. Miller was a wonderful pediatrician for our daughter, diagnosing a rare condition that few other doctors would have thought of, and possibly saving her life. He was always kind, took the time to listen, and as far as I know was adored by everybody that knew him. He will be missed by many, many people. Unfortunately, my wife just found out about his untimely death, and is still in shock and mourning. My prayers go out to his family, they have lost a truly good man.

Velasquez Perez

January 13, 2011

Dr. Miller was the doctor of my 5 kids for 12 years. When I found out he had passed away I did not believe it. Even though it has been a month after his death I can not stop crying and I can not believe that my kids doctor who I had just saw on november is not here no more. It is hard thinking that when the last time I saw him I told him that I wanted to bring my 2 boys so he could check them and he told me that he would. I had the appointment with him on December 22 but he dead before that appointment. Dr. Miller was the best doctor in the whole world, is the best doctor in the whole world and he will always be the best one on what he was good at. I prey every night so wherever he is that he is happy and resting in peace. Even though his ashes are all the way to California and I live in Oregon and he is no gone he will always be in each and everyone who loved you. Thank you dr. Miller for everything you did for my family and I. Hope that you can sent me a new doctor for my kids. My family and I will miss you a lot and we will never forget about you. God bless you wherever you are and god bless your family. Sincerely The family Velasquez Perez.

Katherine Ensign

January 13, 2011

I just received word about Jeff's death and am heart broken. Jeff was a gentle, loving man and a phenomenal pediatrian and teacher. I had the honor of working with him at Silva Clinic and we all shared his joy at the birth of Dain, his son. I lost contact after his move to Oregon but will always carry a part of who he was as a clinician and human being, in may heart. My deepest condolences to Jan and his family.

Karen Edmonds

January 11, 2011

I met Jeff in 1982 or 1983 at Sierra College. We had some great times back then, and remained friends through the years as our lives meandered and changed. 28 years of friendship wasn't long enough. My heart goes out to all of us who lost him, but especially Jann, Dain, Margo, his parents and sisters. He was one of the most special ones. We shared lots of good times and adventures, and I'll never forget his smile, the sparkle in his eye or his laugh. I miss you, my friend . . .

1986 Pete, Karen, Jeff, Monica

January 11, 2011

chao liu

January 8, 2011

It has been a month since I found out about this terrible news, and I still cannot come to terms with it. My heart still aches everytime I think about Dr Miller and his family. Deepest sympathies to his family...

Diane Jordan

January 5, 2011

I cannot begin to describe the shock and sadness I felt when I read the letter today. Dr. Miller has been taking care of my three children for 10 years now - ever since we moved to Portland. We all absolutely adore him. He was always so patient - even with all the "little things" we came to see him about! My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. This is truly a terrible loss. Dr. Miller was such a kind man and we will miss him very much! Our deepest sympathies.....

Nathalie

January 5, 2011

My 3 sons and I are greatly saddened by the passing of Dr. Jeffrey Miller. He was my sons, age 11, 7 and 5, pediatrician for 10 years. He had been there for one of my toughest period as a parent. When my youngest youngest son was 18 months he had Kawasaki's Disease and stayed at Doerenbechers for 3 days. Then, less than 3 weeks later my oldest son, then 8 years old, developed viral meningitis and stayed in the hospital for 5 days. He then developed ADEM on top of that and stayed an additional 9 days a Doerenbecher. This was the most trying time as a parent. I was comforted to know that Dr. Miller was my sons' doctor. We will miss his soft spoken and kind spirit. He has left a lasting impression in us all.

Suzanna Stevens

January 5, 2011

I am so sorry to the Family and for the staff of Dr. Miller. What a great loss to them and the community that he served. My grand daughter has seen him for 10 years her whole life she will miss him terribly what a wonderful , caring loving doctor he was, very gentle and loved his patients. S Stevens Portland, Or.

Lisa K

January 5, 2011

I just got the letter today and am so sad and upset that I was not able to be there for the service. He has been in our lives for 10 years now. Even when he decided to leave OHSU, we decided to follow him. I am so sad and am torn on how to tell my little girl. He will be missed!

Sowmya Srinidhi

January 3, 2011

Dr Miller was a friend, guide, and pediatrician to my 2 sons Ayush and Neel. I have taken our kids to Dr Miller so many/ innumerable times - ear infections, cough , cold, quaterly, half yearly, annual appointments, and every health issue/concern. He was on both mine and my husband's speed dial. When we had our second son in 2007 he was by our side to make sure everything was fine like in 1/2 hour. His smile, calm demeanor, due diligence on all the preventative appointments of my 2 sons was something we will always cherish and remember. He took his time. He talked slowly and was never in any rush. He was such a soothing human being and doctor. We lost a dear friend and family from our inner most circle. Even my mother in law and sister in law who came along with me to a few dr's appointments were shocked by the tragedy when we informed them in India. It was a very sad loss for my whole family. We always threatened my elder son to behave and look after himself and say "if not we will call Dr Miller" and our son would toe the line. He was always so pleasant even when we paged him in the middle of the night to help us out. We are heartbroken. It is a immense loss to us and our whole community. He never hurried us in any appointment and always was so thorough addressing all our concerns but health and emotional - always providing us a guiding light and plan of action. We can never forget Dr Miller who has been an integral part of our family and the upbringing of our kids early on for so many years. There is so much to say.. and we always felt if there was anyone on whom a goatie beard suited it was Dr Miller!.. He always had such a gentleman aura and smile.. Our prayers with his wife, children, parents, in laws and every one else in his extended family as a person and as a Doctor. We will miss you Dearly Dr Miller.

Brune Biebuyck

January 3, 2011

Jeff and his family have always been very dear to me though I live so far away. Paris was a special place for them and the memory of their passage here always heartened me. Our conversations in the shade of the Jardin du Luxembourg will always remain poignant. Jann I think of you and send you all my love.
Brune

A. Shirley

January 1, 2011

I found out about Dr. Miller's passing 3 weeks ago and I still can't believe it. He has been our pediatrician for 6 years. Both of my kids are shy quiet types but when they were with Dr. Miller they would actually become chatty. He was just always so kind and gentle and like so many of you have mentioned he had such a great smile and laugh. We will miss him so much. It's hard to imagine having to find another doctor for our kids. I think of him and his family daily. We just want you to know he will never ever be forgotten. It is obvious he was loved by so many and he will live in our hearts forever.

Suzanne

December 30, 2010

I was heartbroken to read the letter I got today about Dr. Miller's passing. He's been taking care of my 3 kids for over 10 years. From the moment I met him, this young eager pediatrician, I knew he was the perfect doctor for my kids - he had the rare combination of being amazingly intelligent as well as amazingly compassionate and kind, with that wonderful smile and laugh. Even when my kids weren't at their best, there was no judgment from Dr. Miller, just a sincere desire to make sure they were healthy and happy and cared for. Dr. Miller will be sorely missed and I am so grateful my family and I were fortunate enough to know him.

December 29, 2010

Our prayers are with you and your family. May you rest in peace. Thank you for always taking such loving care of our son, and helping me as a Mommy also.

Cherylanne Loop

December 29, 2010

My 2 boys, Zachary now 18, and Isaiah now 16, were privileged to have been under the care of Dr. Miller for the last 8 years. My heart is so very heavy for the great loss your family has sustained. God gave Dr. Miller the most endearing smile and little laugh that was so disarming for everyone. I always felt he had our boys best interest at heart, and thankfully we left at times without a needless prescription in hand, for which I was grateful. His warmth and sincerity was evident from the start, and will be missed, and I can hardly take it in that we will never again see Dr. Miller in this life. And moreover that he is now absent from those whose light he turned on, whose presence he warmed and those who meant the most to him, you his family. May God hold you close during the months ahead to give you and your family supernatural and enduring strength for each new day. Sincerely, Cherylanne Loop

Dr. Miller will be missed!

Jack Keeler

December 29, 2010

kelly roby

December 29, 2010

Dr. Miller was an amazing doctor with a lot of passion for what he did. He was my son's doctor since birth and we are deeply saddened by the news. He helped us tremendously as new parents and was always there to help. We send our prayers to the family-the roby family

December 28, 2010

I remember Jeff's smile the most....along with his laugh. Doesn't that speak volumes about a soul?
Jann, Dain, Margo, Uncle Bill, Aunt Thel, Julie and Vickie, my heart goes out to you. Your tribute to Jeff was a mixture of tears and laughter and honored a wonderful person and gentle man. I loved the music....
He will live on in our hearts and through his children.
I love you all very much.
Lori Iaconis

The boys

Shoshana Timm

December 28, 2010

Dr. Miller was a very caring pediatrician for our two boys. We were so fortunate that he cared for our sons so gently and capably and helped us as parents too. We send our prayers to the family. Shoshana, Allen, Alim and Rayhan

Cindy Skirvin

December 28, 2010

Our son was a patient of Dr. Miller for the last 10 years and our daughter since birth over the last 7 years. We are very saddened by this terrible news. It was shocking to me, knowing we are the same age and my husband and I always felt a sense of common ground with him. We know he had kids close to the age of ours and we send our prayers and loving thoughts out to his family. He was always so gentle and carring with our children. He will be truely missed by many. Sincerely, The Skirvin Family (Beaverton, OR)

Lisa Davis

December 27, 2010

Dr. Miller was our pediatrician at the Laidlaw location. We were sad when he changed offices this past summer and shocked to hear this news of his passing. My children and I would like to express our love and warm wishes to his family.
Davis Family

maria caudill

December 27, 2010

I just heard my thoughts are with his family he will be missed. He has been my boys doctor since they were 2 years old, and he always made should they had what they needed and helped me in there medical condtions. He even called to check after an app to make sure that meds are working or how there doing what doctor does that anymore. He will be missed he was always smiling and even said keep up your college in the medical field good for you he always said always so postive, Sorry again and prayers to you all.

Andrea Jackson

December 27, 2010

Our family is just shocked to hear this news. We loved Dr. Miller and I was so very thankful to have him in our lives as a reassuring, gentle, patient doctor. He was sometimes my only sanity in the early years of raising twins. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

December 27, 2010

I give my deepest sympathy to the family. I was the lucky one thst my two boys got to have him as there doctor. He helped me with there needs and he even call me personally to make sure they were okay you never hear of that anymore. He will be truly missed.

December 26, 2010

We have known Jeff since birth. He was our only nephew & we are his only Aunt & Uncle on the Beaver side of the family. He was a happy, quiet,
gentle,respectful little boy full of life & remained that way through adulthood; truly a gentleman in every way.There are no words to express our sadness. His death has left a void in all our lives. All our love to his family. Mary Ann & Charles Cooper (Aunt Tot & Uncle Chuck to Jeff)

Elizabeth Glover

December 24, 2010

I was cleaning up my counters for Christmas today and opened the letter about Dr.Miller. I am in shock, he has always been my favorite doctor. I loved how he always came in the examining room with a smile on his face and always put my mind at ease. He truly was a friendly, considerate and compassionate man. My 3 children have been a paitents of his since he moved to Portland, 10 years ago. My youngest is special needs and he really warmed up to Dr.Miller which is rare for my son to like anyone, he was always gentle and caring towards children. He always had the right things to say when they asked questions and he made them feel comfortable. It is sad to hear that he is no longer with us but he will always be in my families hearts. My heart goes out to his family, he truly will be missed.

December 23, 2010

Growing up together I have so many memories of Jeffey Minnow that I don't even know where to begin, but there is one special moment that I will always treasure.

As a young doctor Jeff helped deliver our youngest son, Kevin. I remember that moment in time when my Jeff delivered our son and cradled him in his arms, smiling at me with that grin of his.

My chest swelled, and still does. It was the proudest moment of my life. Not only having a new son, but having my cousin Jeff there to deliver him.

Jeff was golden to us all. Always was and always will be.

With much love,
cousin Dave and Vicky Cooper and family

Medical school graduation 1991

Yvette David

December 22, 2010

Rathna Mani

December 22, 2010

I Couldnt get over the shock yet. On reading the guest book, saddened even more. It is so obvoious he touched so many hearts. We met Dr. Miller before our kid was born, Ive known him for the past 3 yrs, he was my son's pediatrician, My kid is 3 years old now. And he always, always listen to me, and answers all my silly how tos..Wonderful human being.

Our sincere condolences and prayers to his family members.

Angie Scott

December 22, 2010

I am so shocked and saddened by the passing of Dr. Miller. He has taken care of my kids since I moved here over 5 years ago. I had never met anyone like him. He was a wonderful person. He was patient, smart, caring, and calm. My kids loved him. He would go out of his way for his patients. He even sent my husband an email telling him to finally install a gate before my daughter would fall down the stairs. He did it in such a funny, warm way-my husband finally put it up. Our family will miss him so much. He has been a large part of our kids lives.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family. I can't imagine what you are going through. I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss.

Ryan Kennedy

December 21, 2010

Dear Mrs. Dr. Miller,
My name is Ryan Kennedy. I am 11 years old. I met Dr. Miller in the hospital at OHSU when I was born. I am really going to miss him. I have stopped crying. It helped to hear you talk about him on Sunday. You did love him a lot and he knew it too. You guys were lucky to have each other, even if it was for a short time.
I am lucky I had him for my doctor. He helped me get the right special doctors that I needed. He always knew what to do.
Now I have Dr. Weill. I think he will do.
Some day I want to be a doctor. I go to Health and Science now. When I do become a doctor, I hope I can be as good as Dr.Miller was. At least that will be my ultimate goal. He was awesome. Thank you for sharing him. He was really lucky to have such a nice family.

Love,
Ryan Kennedy

Susan C

December 21, 2010

Dr. Miller was a caring and gentle man who always made me feel calm and settled with both of my children. He was so gentle with the kids and quick to remember the littlest detail about our family (even if you hadn't seen him in 6 months). His calming voice still rings through my head as I go about raising my children. It is obvious he was loved by many...prayers of peace go to his family. Please know you have an angel watching over you.

Sharmila Bose

December 21, 2010

I was so sorry to hear this, for my selfish reason too - who will take care of my daughter now?? Who can I trust so much? We have known Dr. Miller for a short time, he was my daughter's pediatrician and my daughter has a heart condition. Dr. Miller was of immense support and assurance to us. What an amazing combination of competence and kindness!

I have no idea what to say to the family, this must be so difficult. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. And I lit a candle in his memory at the Trinity Episcopal Cathedral, I hope that will be OK with the family.

Our sincere condolences and heartfelt gratitude for all the help we got from Dr. Miller,

Sharmila

Jennifer and Ken Hoffman

December 21, 2010

My heart is aching for Dr. Miller's wife and his two children. Dr. Miller was our beloved doctor to our three children for over 7 years. We followed him joyfully to all the new offices he worked at. We met Dr. Miller to "interview" him before our first child was born. We were one of those new parents with the long list of probably "ridiculous" questions. We knew immediately that he was the Dr. for our children. Dr. Miller always spent so much time with us. He was gentle, kind, and most of all so respectful of each of my children's personalities. They tend to be shy and quiet. Dr. Miller never teased them or forced them to talk if they didn't want to. They loved Dr. Miller. He was so good with me especially when I was a "crazy" new mom. We laughed years later about how he gently told me "not to quarter my son's cheerios" because I thought he would choke! He was always interested in my children's education and how they got along with each other as siblings. I remember vividly how loving and how it seemed that he was in awe when he first examined my daughter right after her birth. It was if he was examining his own daughter. I can still picture him moving my daughter's legs in such a gentle and nurturing way. He was simply the best, and my heart is hurting so much. Even though he was so humble, for me, he took such good care of my children that he seemed larger than life. He often mentioned his own children and wife during our dr. visits. I am so sorry for your loss... it simply goes beyond words. The memorial was amazing. So many people were there. Our family will never, ever forget our wonderful doctor. He just simply can not be replaced.

The Conway Family

December 20, 2010

Our toughts and prayers are with the entire Miller Family. We are shocked and saddened by Jeff's accident. We will keep many great memories from our school days at Rescue and Ponderosa H.S.

Kelly Lerch

December 20, 2010

Dr. Miller was our pediatrician for 5 years. He was a truly wonderful man who I feel blessed to have known. I recommended him to everyone. His easy-going manner, intellect, and caring approach were very calming to both the patient and the frazzled new parent.

To the Miller family, words cannot express the sorrow I feel. We have lost a truly unique and wonderful person. I hope you find comfort in knowing that while Jeff’s time was far too short he made a tremendous impact, touched so many lives, and will always be remembered.

jordan

alicia contreras

December 19, 2010

Dr miller will be missed greatly, he meant so much to us, he was more than a doctor he was truly a friend and felt like a family member... Jeff always took the time to listen to us and our concerns and took the time to listen to our son. he treated our son for 11 years and was there during the most difficult times in our life, he dignosed our son with adhd and helped us with that. he was such a warm,caring,loving individual who went out of his way to help... i know he is watching over us from above...like an angel...
I just want the family to know he will always be in our hearts and i know his strength will get u through this most difficult time...
DR miller u will truly be missed!!!
alicia and jordan

jordan c

alicia contreras

December 19, 2010

Jen Lane

December 19, 2010

Jeff Miller was unique because he had knowledge and position without ego, a rare and beautiful trait. He was a wonderful doctor to our boys. Wishing his family God's comfort and healing.

Suzanne Griffiths

December 19, 2010

Dr. Miller was our girls' pediatrician from birth - so about 9 years. His kind and unhurried manner always put us at ease and we felt as though he really took the time to get to know us and never rushed through appointments. He'd watch the girls demo a few Irish dance moves during a check-up and genuinely enjoyed hearing about their progress at school, etc. I remember when he asked our daughter (then 4) about what kind of stories she liked us to read to her. When she mentioned that her fave was "Snow White and the Evil Realtor", Dr. Miller gave us a puzzled look and my husband and I sheepishly explained that we had recast the Evil Stepmother as a realtor (after some snafus buying a house). Dr. Miller roared laughing and said he'd tell his family the story at dinner - as the funniest moment of his day. We'll miss you terribly, Dr. Miller. Our sincere condolences to your family.

Christine Martin, MD

December 19, 2010

I take it as fate that Jeff Miller was recommended to us by my son's new GI doctor at OHSU when we moved to Portland. She introduced us to him and both my partner and I knew right away that he was the right doctor for our son. Our son has multiple medical problems and Jeff not only listened but it was obvious that he really cared about him and about us as a family. My son felt at ease with him from his very first visit, and Jeff always used his humor to get a smile out of him. We had just recently seen him for my son's well child check and we were both shocked and saddened by his death. In addition to being so intelligent, he was compassionate, dedicated, committed to his patients, and extremely modest. It was not until I sent an email to a former colleague who I thought might have trained with Jeff at Children's Hospital Oakland that I found out he had been a Chief Resident at CHO. He was so humble he never even mentioned it. We have lost a wonderful pediatrician and person and he will be missed greatly. Our heartfelt sympathy to Jann, his kids, and their families.

Father's Day 2002

Ellen Singer

December 18, 2010

I was truly fortunate to work with Jeff in practice at OHSU in the first few years he and Jann moved to Portland. He was always a wonderful listener and always thoughtful, fair and deliberate with his opinions. He had a great sense of humor and an even better sense of how to find balance and joy in his daily work. It was very difficult to tell Jeff that I was going to leave my practice at OHSU for another job -- but I knew that we would stay in touch even when we weren't working in the same office.

In late August of this year Jeff and I attended another practice partner Jim Hartford's memorial service. It was the end of a long and difficult summer for me and Jeff was also embarking on his job change to The Children's Clinic. It was a true comfort to share this time with Jeff. We both shared our memories and fun stories of our time working with Jim. Jeff's kind heart and listening ear was ever-present.

In looking back through our old photos I found two photos of a Dain and Margo at our home during a Father's Day party in 2002. My family and I always knew Jeff in his role as a "Dad". He was a wonderful and committed father -- energetic, talented and fun. And like others my tears on receiving a phone call on the night of his death were for the unimaginable loss that his beloved children and Jann must know.

Jeff always brought kindness, optimism and peace to those around him. In his memory may we do this too. I hope that the loving remembrances in these posts and those shared tomorrow will serve as a blessing to Dain, Margo and Jann and Jeff's entire family.

Cousin, Leslie Fortier

December 18, 2010

I am having the hardest time finding the words I want to say to Jann, Dain, Margo, Uncle Bill & Thel, Julie & Vicki. I'm writing this as I'm sitting in the car on our way from Chico to Portland in disbelief that we are gathering again so quickly and seeing all of each other to celebrate Jeff's life tomorrow as well as mourn his loss together. I couldn't have fathomed this 3 weeks ago. I've spent the last several days pouring over our past Thanksgiving videos and hundreds of pictures to find the ones of Jeff so I could hear his voice and laughter that we all looked forward to every time we all got together, which wasn't enough, and to be able to share them wih you. Our family Thanksgivings will never be the same again which saddens me deeply. Jeff was such a wonderful, loving cousin that I feel so blessed to have had as a part of our family. My heart is sick with grief for Dain & Margo losing such an amazng, loving father at such young ages. It just doesn't seem possible or fair to them but they are truly remarkable children who are a testament to the wonderful, amazing parents who raised them. Jeff, you will be missed deeply and we will all have a void in our lives forever without you!

December 18, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jeffrey Penhall

December 17, 2010

From the very beginning, I considered Jeff a unique individual, a good friend and the perfect neighbor. I often used the word perfect when describing him as a neighbor. Jeff was the guy I could always depend on to help me with whatever I needed help with, which usually consisted of heavy objects being relocated to a different level in my house or barn. When the hay arrived he would just show up and jump in to help unload. As a friend, Jeff was quick with a smile and a chair in the sun to discuss this weekend’s to do list or just hang. Knowing Jeff as an individual enabled me great insight as to what it takes to be a physician. The drive and dedication is immense and I know few people that have accomplished what Jeff had accomplished. Jeff always had an upbeat attitude and a positive outlook on life, which are rare traits in our culture today. Our little world on the hill has been shattered, but I will always remember Jeff dearly when I look to the west and see the home he established for his family and remember the mark he left on my life.

Jeffrey, the neighbor

Alex & Lauren Primrose (6, 13)

Kelly Primrose

December 17, 2010

I had to think for almost two weeks just to wrap my thoughts around this terrible tragedy. After reading all of the guestbook, I felt everyone had the same impression of him and not one of us feel the pain any less. Its a shock that runs so deep because it could happen to any of us, an accident of such a decent,well-meaning person that just left us too early.

I can't help but think of his wife and kids who if we are hurting, how do they feel to have lost a piece of their soul? Is it unimaginable to lose your best friend, husband and father to two wonderful kids. Every time I think about him, I see the pain his family must be going thru at one of the toughest times of the year. How to go on, I just can't imagine. Dr. Miller, Jeff, son, brother, Daddy, these were his most dedicated roles that no longer can be filled by anyone else.

My kids will heal but when my daughter asked last night how old her own daddy was, I knew she was thinking of Dr. Miller and how someone so good could be lost so quickly. Lesson learned, embrace each day like its our last because you never know.

We are thankful to have known him and to have shared our precious children with someone who knew how to nurture and celebrate life. We are all better for his presence.

December 17, 2010

I never met Jeff. However, I heard so much about him from Jann's mom, my sister Gwen, and knew that indeed Jann had captured the heart of a lovely man as her husband. I'm so saddened that my niece has suffered such a tragic loss. May all her friends and family gather all their love and surround her in the coming days. Joan Adair, Sun City, Arizona

Alice Rau

December 16, 2010

My son and daughter genuinely loved to see Dr. Miller even when it meant that they were sick. He was one a gem of a doctor, the kind that you look him in the eyes and see the sincerity and true love for what he was doing. I told my 6 and 4 year old about the passing of their favorite doctor and we all cried together. We were truly blessed to have known him and to have had him as our Pediatrician. Our prayers go to his family and friends that the God of comfort will heal the pain - just as He used Dr. Miller to heal our kids's...

Heidi Kaczmarek

December 16, 2010

I am so sad and shocked to hear of the passing of Dr. Jeffrey Miller. He was such an amazing Pediatrician for my 2 boys and I trusted him implicitly. He cared for my children with genuine kindness and concern and I am sure he can never be replaced. He put up with my endless questions and always asked how I was doing as well. We are so sad we will not see him again. Our thoughts are with his children and wife. A great man has been lost but will never be forgotten.

Gall & Thompson Family Children & Dr. Miller's Patients. Taken in 2005 when Dr. Miller was treating them both for medical issues.

Melissa Gall

December 16, 2010

Vikk Woolsey

December 16, 2010

It has been a week and a half since I was told of Jeff's death, and I still am having trouble processing it. I still expect him to walk into my office with a question or some needed paperwork. He was a truly sweet man that made everyone feel worth millions. He made such an impact on everyone at The Children's Clinic in the short time he was with us, Jeff you are missed every day. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

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