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Gary Gruenewald Obituary

Gruenewald, Gary James, born 4 November 1950, passed away on 8 March 2011 after a valiant battle against cancer. HUSBAND of 34 years to Maria (Moretti), BROTHER of Carol (Gruenewald) Morganti (Marvin) and Dr. Richard Gruenewald (Joyce Clements), BROTHER-in-law of Agatha (Moretti) Schmidt (Jeffrey), Ernie Moretti (Sue), Anthony Moretti (Linda), Sal Moretti (Debra), Renato Moretti Jr. (Theresa), and SON-in-law to Renato Moretti, Sr. and Mary (Valenti). Gary was UNCLE to many nephews and nieces whom he adored. Gary was an UMSL graduate who worked as a teacher in the St. Louis area and later a technical writer. Gary loved nature and he camped and hiked all over the country. He was a daredevil, rollerblading down Glenwood Canyon and scaling Long's Peak. Mountains spoke to his soul, and he was happiest near them. He was a great lover of books and the written word, and amassed a great collection of first editions. Gary was an avid skier, preferring to schuss straight down the hill because "turning is dangerous." Gary loved to travel, whether it was a long drive cross country or a grand tour of Europe. He took great pleasure in using up his wife's frequent-flyer miles in first-class, slugging down as much vodka as they would serve him. One of Gary's greatest achievements was to build with his own hands his passive solar, multi-level, custom home. He was a kind and generous man, fearless in his approach to life, even as he faced its last grim challenge. His charity of choice is the one he established to encourage future high school math and English teachers: The Mimi and Gogie Scholarship Fund, c/o UMSL, One University Drive,
230 Woods, St. Louis, MO 63121. Memorial service to be scheduled at a later date.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Mar. 10 to Mar. 13, 2011.

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Bill Lee

July 26, 2024

I worked with Maria at Defense Mapping many years ago. I remember visiting their house when it was toward the end construction for a "Kamikaze" party. It was amazing. An amazing couple. Sorry I missed this from many years ago.

He said he would play this year, maybe he's already practicing.

Art Frederick

April 7, 2011

Lynne Resowski Ridgeway

March 15, 2011

Maria -- I am so sorry for your loss. I was reading about Gary and his life reflects one of those special souls that walks into peoples' lives. Take care.

Katie Pica

March 14, 2011

Maria - My thoughts and prayers are with you and both the Gruenewald and Moretti families. It was a pleasure to know Gary and I know that he will be missed by many people.

March 14, 2011

Maria, we were so sorry to hear this very sad news. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Dan & Mary Tarantola

Terry Housel

March 14, 2011

Maria,

I never met Gary, but do remember you telling fond and amusing stories about "Gruenewald". I'm truly sorry for your loss.

TOM WILHELM

March 14, 2011

Losing our friend is very sad for all of us, but knowing Gary he wouldn't want us to feel that way. That's how he was, he'd be more concerned about his friends than himself, deflecting attention toward someone else to consider. He was funny, during room fulled events or around the campfire how he had these running comentary's and jokes that unless you were sitting right beside him would go unheard, funny stuff if you caught it. But like i said we wasn't looking for attention or appreciation but he was appreciated, only a special person could have white russians ready when you returned to camp after hiking all day....made with powdered milk and water from a mountain stream and at 9000 feet no less, i can still remember that 25 years later.....how cool was that.....proud to be your friend, i will miss you.

Sue Moretti

March 14, 2011

Gary was a very cool brother in law with his quiet demeaner, great sense of humor, and most of all his kind and generous nature. He will be missed! Love, Sue

Mike & Faye Kidd

March 13, 2011

Maria, Our hearts and prayers are with you. Gary was a very nice man, he will be missed.

Ruth Portell

March 13, 2011

Maria I was so shocked to hear about Gary. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Linda Barbaglia

March 13, 2011

We will miss seeing Gary throughout the subdivision, riding on his golf cart. Our hearts and sympathy are with you.
The Barbaglia's
The Pippin's
The Skaggs

Debbie, Tara and Margie

March 13, 2011

Maria, our thoughts are with you.

cynthia estremera

March 12, 2011

May he be in all of our hearts and memories. What a great story to live by. With deepest sympathy, John and Cynthia.

Corena Alexander

March 12, 2011

Maria, it was always fun times when I had the opportunity to hang out with you and Gary during travel. I'm so grateful to have met Gary and his unique humor. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Jeff Kretsch

March 12, 2011

Maria, you and Gary were the spice of life, people who made life more worth living for all of us. You gave far more than we could ever give you. Thank you.

Tammy and Bill Pryor

March 11, 2011

Your love and respect for each other made the world a better place. We are greatful to have known Gary and he will be missed.

Cate Ponder

March 11, 2011

There never was a sweeter man...
See you on the mountain tops, banjo in hand!

Dave and Pat Gillett

March 11, 2011

So glad for all of the times that our path was the same. We miss you!

Larry, Karen & Kevin

March 11, 2011

In our hearts forever.

John Rother

March 11, 2011

Maria, Our hearts and prayers go out you on this tragic lose. Thank you for showing me what true love really means through your 34 year love affair with Gary. Although I only met Gary a couple of times, I can honestly say he was one of the nicest men I have ever met. John

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