Tavy L. Cain, 76, passed away peacefully on Sept. 17, 2011.
He was born in Belmont, Miss., on Oct. 11, 1934. He was a longtime resident of Camarillo, after moving here in 1963 from Memphis, Tenn., with his wife and children. He was honorably discharged from the United States Air Force, after serving four years. He was a graduate of Memphis State and Christian Brothers College, majoring in electrical engineering. He graduated UCLA with his Master's Degree in engineering, at the top of his class. He worked as Senior Management in NEMESIS at the Navel Base in Port Hueneme from 1963 until his retirement.
Tavy is survived by his wife, Joan; children, Linda Cain (Kloeffler), her husband, Randy of Sunland, Calif., Tavy Cain Jr, his wife, Kathy of Franklin, Tenn., Keith Cain Sr., his wife, Misty of Camarillo; grandchildren, Serenity Goodman, Cain Clifton, Keith Cain Jr., Lon Kloeffler, his wife, Rachel, Sky Kloeffler, Maddison Cain, Dalton Cain, Jaxson Cain, Zackary Cain, Jayden Cain; great-granddaughter, Jade Chamberlain; his brother, James V. Cain, his wife, Teresa of Maryland; nephew, Casey Cain, his wife, Sarah of Kansas; his father, Charles McDaniel of Memphis, Tenn. He was preceded in death by his father, Otis Lester Cain of Belmont, Miss., and his mother, Aurora McDaniel of Memphis, Tenn.
His interests included family, friends and local sports. He was active with the Pleasant Valley Youth Sports organization, as Board Member, Coach and father to his sons' participation in the various leagues. He was an active member and usher at the Methodist Church here in Camarillo. He will be dearly missed by all whose lives he touched.
Memorial services will be held at 2 p.m. on Friday, Sept. 23, at Griffin Family Funeral Chapel, 1075 E. Daily Drive, Camarillo, CA 93010. 805-482-1166.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Jeff Noll
October 6, 2011
I just learned of Tavy's death. He offered me my first management position in 1983 and I worked for him for over 15 years. He was, by far, my most influential mentor. I will never forget his steadfast support and encouragement to take risks. I always knew if things turned ugly Tavy would be at my back. Tavy and I traveled extensively together and I got the opportunity to spend off-hour time with him as well. Tavy was truly a Lion among his peers. I will never forget him.
Thomas Thompson
September 22, 2011
Sincerest sympathy to the entire Cain family. Tavy was a good person and he will indeed be missed.
Richard Rice
September 22, 2011
Tavy and I were very good friends and we worked together to make things better for our departments. I always respected and enjoyed working with Tavy. I am very sorry to learn of his passing.
Brenda Johnson
September 22, 2011
I was Tavy’s secretary in the early 70’s while he was Division Head, in the old Code 4700 (Point Defense) at NSMSES Port Hueneme. I respected and admired him for the boss and friend he was, and I am saddened at his passing. My heart goes out to your family.
September 22, 2011
Dear Keith, Misty and Family, We are so sorry for the loss of Tavy but are greatful he is no longer in pain. We know he is with you everyday and you will feel him near when you need him. Know our hearts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Love you more than you know. Ken and Cecile from Benjamin, UT
Richard Ripley
September 22, 2011
I just heard about Tavy's passing. I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to the Cain family. Praying that you find comfort and peace in the Lord.
Lisa Mercer (Sevilla)
September 22, 2011
Tavy Jr. & Family,
I'm terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I like to believe that when we lose someone close to us they still live through us and give us strength. The time we have spent with those we've lost makes them part of us. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jim Frick
September 22, 2011
I worked for Tavy when he first came to THawk in/about 78. As a senior project engineer, he was my Division Head--I appreciated his "give the job to good people and get out of their way" management style. I remembered that and tried to use it later in my career. A great man, I share your loss. Sinerely,
Dawn Peck
September 21, 2011
Tavy was a very special man. I'm sorry Cain family. Prayers of peace to flow into your family.
Diane (Fox) Scoggins
September 21, 2011
To the Cain family,
My deepest sympathy and my heartfelt prayers are with you all. Tavy was my Department Manager (back in the "4G" days and my son was active in Camarillo sports) and I will forever remember him for his guts, his smile, and his "proceed until apprehended" demeanor. Tavy always spoke honestly, always -- you never had to "guess" about how he felt about a particular subject - he'd let ya know! He would always ask me how my family was doing (we both lived in Camarillo at the time). He was a true trail blazer when trail blazin' wasn't cool. He will be sorely missed. God bless you all during this heartbreaking time.
Evangelina (Evan) Navarro
September 21, 2011
Mrs. Cain and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Tavy was a wonderful department manager, boss, and mentor. He will trully be missed. My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to all. May you find comfort with God's Blessings.
Very Respectfully,
Sarah Alton
September 21, 2011
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Tavy was an awesome Dept Manager! He took the time to know everyone by name and treated you with respect. He will be missed. God bless you.
Clark & Judi McKay
September 21, 2011
Tavy was a special person who always had a positive input for any situation. Our thoughts and condolences are with his family during this time of grief.
Dee Angeles
September 21, 2011
I am so sorry on the lost of Tavy. He was a special man who loved his family and his work. He was the best boss anyone could ever want and taught me so much.. There is no one that will ever take his place. My prayers are with Jo and the family.
JAN FILSINGER
September 21, 2011
Oh God Tavy - You will be missed so much - you were the most dynamic man I have ever met no less worked for. I love you!!
Showing 1 - 15 of 15 results
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more