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Jane LaMarche
February 11, 2025
Seven years! Where did the time go. Miss you, Erin, ever single day.
Love Dad and Mom
Amber Marie Penna
February 10, 2025
Missing you
Linda and Bill Bedard
February 8, 2025
My Fondness memory of Erin was the day she got married . She was just beautiful and glowing with happiness! She was such a beautiful bride! Think of her often and am so glad we knew her!
Erin Huckabee
October 12, 2024
Erin, I think about you alll the time. I will see something or read something and I want to tell you about it or discuss it with you, but you aren´t here and I hate that. Every time I walk past your old office I want to peek inside and smile and say "Hi! I´ll come chat with you later." And you would smile back and give me a little wave or a thumbs up. I miss not being able to talk to you about anything and everything on almost a daily basis. You left way too soon and I miss you every day. Sending you big hugs my friend.
Love,
The other Erin
Amber Marie Penna
October 11, 2024
October 9
Was a hurricane here
We are fine
Miss you Erin
Love u forever
David LaMarche
October 9, 2024
Happy birthday sweet Erin. So many people think of you daily, and we miss you with all our hearts.
Love
Dad
UNCLE BRIAN MERRICK
February 8, 2024
I THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY AND MISS YOU EVERY DAY ERIN. I LOVE YOU
Deborah Harper
October 14, 2023
Erin, Kathy and I celebrated her birthday just last week and of course,... we thought of you! How I miss the three of us celebrating our Oct/Nov birthdays together every year. We were all 10 years apart, almost to the day! You are forever in my heart and I miss you beyond measure, but I smile every time I think of you! There are so many wonderful memories! What a glorious day it will be when next we meet! I love you girl!
Amber Penna
October 13, 2023
Hi Erin.....no clue why u have been on my mind & heart so heavy this past week. Turns out Oct 9 is your bday. I can hear you still. This means I can still hear you my friend. I miss you beautiful. I am still in shock. I can believe you are gone. In a flash. Coolest part is...you got to just suddenly exit stage left!! Way to go Miss Clever!! ;)
I love you.......I can t wait to dance together again.
I am so at a loss. We were talking so often that whole 5/6 years leading up to this tragic sudden accident. For that I am eternally grateful. I love you so much....... please keep talking to me........
Linda and Bill Bedard
February 9, 2023
I can´t believe it has been 5 years, our hearts and prayers go out to John and your parents!! Your sisters keep you in their hearts 24/7 ! We have loved you guys since you were born! I really think of you all as family!! Love you Erin!!
Kateri LaMarche Ammon
February 9, 2023
There´s not a day that goes by without thinking of you & missing you. Your presence is felt in all that we do. Love you baby sis! Kateri.
Uncle Shawn and Elena
February 8, 2023
5 years feels like 5 minutes ago. The memories, admiration, joy and hurt still feel so new. We love and miss you, baby girl and we hope you have enjoyed all the places you have been.
Linda and Bill Bedard
February 8, 2022
I can´t believe it´s been 5 years! A friend lit a candle for you today at St.Michael´s in your honor !! You will always be in our hearts!!
Linda Bedard
February 7, 2021
Thinking of you today,a lot, sending love and hugs to your family !!!!
Nicole LaMarche Harnois
February 6, 2021
Thinking of you today and always. Love you little sister! I miss you everyday! ❤
David LaMarche
February 5, 2021
Masses celebrated for you, sweet Erin, on your 3rd anniversary (February 6, 2018). St. Patrick's Church, Charleston, SC; Our Lady of the Assumption, Enders Island, CT and St. Vincent de Paul Church, Alva, Fl.
Lots of prayers.
Love eternal
Mom and Dad
Nicole LaMarche Harnois
December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas in Heaven little Sister! Not days goes by that I don’t think of you. You are always in my heart! ❤
David and Jane LaMarche
December 24, 2020
Another Christmas eve without you here, dear Erin. Almost three years have passed, but so many frequent and vivid memories make it seem like only yesterday that we shared the joys of the holiday season together. You are missed and you are not forgotten.
Love eternal, Mom and Dad
Nicole LaMarche Harnois
February 5, 2020
I still cant believe you left us two years ago. Ive thought of you every single day since youve been gone. Theres been so many times over the past two years when Ive needed you- I KNOW you were there. ❤ Youll never be forgotten, we are all down here making sure of that. Ill continue to hold you in my heart until we are together again. I love you, Erin!
10/9/75-2/6/18
Dad
November 28, 2019
Dad
November 28, 2019
Dad
November 28, 2019
Memorial Bench
17th Hole
Dunes West Golf & River Club
Thanksgiving 2019
Linda Bedard
October 10, 2019
Doesn't seem possible you not here, but in our hearts you are, Happy Birthday. To the best gift giver ever!! Love you. Linda and Billy
John Brady
October 10, 2019
Thinking of my friend & roommate today! You are missed old friend.
Mon and Dad
October 9, 2019
God gave you to us 44 years ago today, October 9, 1975.
What a blessing!
Kateri LaMarche Fitts
October 9, 2019
Another birthday without you, Erin. Another milestone missed. Another very sad day missing you. And yet we also celebrate who you were, the life you lived, the smiles & joy you shared and the lives you changed, especially ours. The sun will always burn, but it's a little less warm & bright without you here. I love you, baby sis, today and always. Kateri
March 17, 2019
St. Patrick's Day
March 17,2019
May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
May the rains fall softly upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
My gift of song to you Erin and to John on your
wedding day.
Love, Dad
BRIAN MERRICK
February 20, 2019
My dear niece Erin. I miss you each and every day.
Uncle Brian
February 8, 2019
I am Jill, one of the people who shared Erin's liver. I have been in touch with Erin's parents. I would like to attend the VT services if they are yet to happen. Erin was growing up in my home town! I cannot be.ieve the connection! God Bless! Jill CronkriteYandow
February 6, 2019
To everyone who is remembering Erin today, still deeply feeling her absence yet seeing her beautiful face as if she is right in front of you, our thoughts, love and prayers are with you. Shawn and Elena Merrick
February 5, 2019
Erin Whitney LaMarche Thomas
1st Anniversary
February 6, 2019
We are together today celebrating your life
of loving, learning and giving.
Love, Mom, Dad and John
Kateri LaMarche Fitts
February 5, 2019
It's unfathomable, still, that you're gone. And even more so that it's been a year. Not a day goes by where you're not missed, thought of, remembered, cried over or honored. You were, and will always be, one of the brightest parts of our lives. Forever in our hearts Erin Whitney LaMarche Thomas. 10.9.75 - 2.6.18. Love you lil sis. ♥ Kateri
Susan Goode
February 5, 2019
We miss you Erin. It's really difficult getting through these days reflecting on last February... the Super Bowl, remembering our last days with you. Reliving receiving the news of your accident... and the days that followed. You will forever be in our hearts. So many of us are changed forever by the loss of you... and I know I speak for a lot of people that loved you so much. I love you, I miss you and I look forward to seeing you again one day and hopefully - then - understanding why!
Linda and Bill
February 5, 2019
The Pats won Erin and it has been a year since you left all of us, fist thing that came to mind was you were up there cheering!! We think of you often, been a long year without you!! You are special and all the people you helped, we'll i hope their life is better and healthier because of you, love you honey!!!
~Nicole
February 4, 2019
Todays the anniversary of the day you left us. Cant believe its been a year. All I have are the memories of our time together, I think about those times often. If I could only have you back for a little while to tell you how sorry I am for all the time we lost. I think of you and miss you everyday. You will always remain alive in my heart and my memories. Rest In Peace Erin. I love you. ❤
10/9/75 ~ 2/6/18
~Nicole
December 24, 2018
Thinking of you today and everyday. Merry Christmas in Heaven Sis! Love and miss you! XOXO
December 24, 2018
Erin Whitney LaMarche Thomas
October 9, 1975 - February 6, 2018
. . . Rest in heavenly peace . . .
Lori Bienvenour
December 21, 2018
Dear David and Jane:
I keep waiting for better words, but there just aren't any. As you may recall, I was one of Erin's roommates while we were graduate students at BU School of Theology. Those were sacred years in many ways. Erin taught me a lot about being true to myself while still being boldly faithful. Such a gift. During our years in Boston, she wore platform shoes exclusively-even to exercise. I long to hear her clomping up the stairs of our house again. I have celebrated and shared her gift of life with so many others. Erin was part of my sermon for the congregation where I serve as senior Pastor. Wow - she changed me, and I am grateful for all that we shared. May the memories both quirky and profound sustain us. With love and in faith, Lori
November 21, 2018
Thankful for the gift of our sweet Erin. Our lives enriched with her presence for 42 years.
Grateful parents.
Happy Birthday Erin, 10.9.18
Heather Smith
November 8, 2018
One month ago- tomorrow- we celebrated Erin's birthday by donating blood, in her honor. While this blood drive at our local hospital was technically scheduled on her birthday by chance- I knew that it wasn't chance at all. My mom, special friends who were fortunate enough to have met Erin over the past few years and members of our church family joined me in donating that day, 24 people total- 4 of which were first time donors. We could feel her presence and know she was smiling from above!
I miss her every single day. There are still days that I wake up and think maybe, just maybe this has all been a bad dream... or I pick up my phone to share something funny, some good news or maybe ask for some much needed advice from my best friend. I don't know that this will ever change.
While she may not physically be here - I have no doubt that she is still with each and every one of us. I personally feel that any simple act of giving done in her name helps us keep her spirit very much alive and gives me a sense of comfort and peace. What a blessing she has been and continues to be!
Jacob Austin Fitts
October 23, 2018
Papa and Grandma-
I know Auntie Erin's birthday was October 9th, and its sad that she was not here with us to celebrate. I wish I was able to be with you for the burial on the 11th as well. She was an amazing aunt and I loved her very much. She did so much for me and I wish I could have seen her more often. I miss her and not a day goes by that I don't think of her
I love you, Papa and Grandma'
Jacob
October 22, 2018
Erin's ashes were laid to rest on Thursday, October 11, 2018, next to her brother, Andrew, and close-by her grandparents in Oakland Cemetery, Springfield, VT. Her family was present for the interment. Rev. Peter Williams officiated the burial and sang the Irish traditional song, "The Parting Glass".
Thirteen Masses were celebrated in solidarity of prayer for Erin, October 10-25, 2018. Included were St. Michael's College, Boston University, The Citadel, Rice Memorial High School and St. Patrick's Church in Charleston, SC.
A Memorial Service took place in Mt. Pleasant, SC, on March 3, 2018. At the end of May a golf tournament was held at Dunes West Country Club (Mt. Pleasant) in Erin's name. Earlier this month, another golf tournament was dedicated to Erin and the proceeds were given to "Donate Life" in her honor. Rest in peace, Erin.
October 10, 2018
Thought of you all day yesterday on your birthday, I remember your Dad calling me when you were born, you are so missed , The world was a little brighter with you in it, love you Bill and Linda
Jennifer Haffner Thomas
October 9, 2018
I'm so sorry that I am just learning of your passing. I always admired your sweet soul. Shine bright Erin! Until we meet again
John Brady
October 9, 2018
The world was a better place with you in it. Rest in peace old friend.
John Brady
October 9, 2018
Rest in peace old friend. The world was better place with you in it!
October 9, 2018
I can recall many great laughs and your brilliant smile. Rest well!
Kateri LaMarche Fitts
October 9, 2018
Happy Birthday in Heaven, Erin. Your smile, your laugh, your joie de vivre are all missed, very much. Things just aren't the same without you here. I hope you know how very much you are loved and missed. You are thought of every single day. Love, your big sister, Kateri
David and Jane LaMarche
October 9, 2018
Thinking of you in a special way today, Erin.
Remembering when you arrived the evening of October 9, 1975.
You've been a blessing.
Love,
Mom and Dad
Nicole LaMarche Harnois
October 9, 2018
Erin,
Today is your Birthday. It's a day filled with memories, happiness and tears. Not a day has gone by where I haven't thought of you. I miss you and wish you were here, but I feel you beside me when I need you most. Although I missed many Birthday celebrations, I have the memories of the many we shared together just you and I. I'm so thankful for those times.
You will never be forgotten, Erin. The world was a better place with you here. Your memory will always live on. After all, how could anyone forget someone who has given us all so much to remember. I love you and miss you everyday little sis! Hope you have a Happy first Birthday in heaven. ~with so much love, your sister Nicole ❤
Tara Smith
August 19, 2018
Mr. and Mrs. LaMarche
I have been thinking of Erin a lot lately, especially when Mr. LaMarche talked about her at the Memorial Service, recalling Erin's words: "It's too easy to be mean and critical, and it can take a lot of effort to be kind, especially in certain circumstances. I still choose to be kind." I want to mirror my intentions as Erin did.
I hope you guys are well. I pray for you two and Erin all the time. The week of her death I couldn't stop watching Phantom of the Opera and Les Miserable. I introduced them to my kids, only to hear at her service how much Erin loved those musicals too. I do believe she is in a better place and watching over us, giving us signs.
God bless you.
Tara
Classmate and Friend
Lynne Methany Leib
August 4, 2018
Dear David and Jane:
My thoughts.....
One of Erin's many gifts when she toddled into the Leib family's lives 40 years ago was that she created a connection with our families that I respect and cherish. Your generosity in maintaining that in the face of your grief is quite astounding to me, and quite a role model for grace under duress. I thank you again for that, and hope that we can maintain a friendship in honor of ourselves as we get older, as well as in Erin's memory.
Fondly:
Lynne
Beverly Owen
July 29, 2018
Dear David, Janie and family:
We are so sorry for the loss of your daughter, Erin. We never got to meet her, but just know she was a wonderful person, like her parents. May your many memories of Erin help to give comfort to your hearts.
Love,
Your cousin Bev and Verne
Mona Poznanski
July 29, 2018
Dear Janie and David:
We are very sad to hear news about Erin. Our hearts break for you and your family. She was a beautiful person, both inside and out. We have to envy her goodness to so many. May God ease your grief with great memories of your sweet daughter. We are making a donation to Brigham and Women's Hospital in memory of Erin.
Love,
Cousins, Mona and Nick
July 5, 2018
I spent a few hours the morning of July 4th giving Blood Platelets in Erin's memory. Last night - reflecting on my day - I decided to finally decided to share my story on our American Red Cross Support Page. For the LOVE of one special person- this is for you Erin! The outpouring of support and love shown by these people who never knew our Erin - has overwhelmed me. It read: I have wanted to share my story for a while... My daughter's very best friend in the whole wide world, and a second daughter to me... died in a tragic accident in February, 2018. Erin Thomas, Mt. Pleasant, SC - was one of the most selfless people I have ever know. She died in an accident while visiting friends in Boston, MA - she was a Big Patriots Fan. Tragic...is an understatement! Her family, Her friends, we have all been shattered by her untimely death. She was a Blood Donor. She loved giving blood, and was so proud every single time she donated. Because of Erin - She and my daughter - donated blood regularly. After her death - Erin's organs, skin, tissue, Everything that could be donated - Was! Within a month of Erin's death, my daughter received a call, pleading for her to give Platelets. The fact that it was something new to Heather, she asked me to go with her.... to hold her hand. Of course - I did. Immediately, I began feeling the pull - why - why don't you just step up and do this. I was just a chicken. I had NEVER even considered giving blood, platelets, anything. I was the typical woosie! Because of Erin - and because I was going to hold my daughter's hand - I decided - driving over to the Red Cross - why not me. After my first donation of platelets... I found out I was O- and in high demand - and I just can't say NO. My platelet count is almost 400 and when they call..... I go. Thank you all for your courage. The courage of Erin Thomas, and Heather Smith - made me step up - and now I am a Plateleteer. And I am so very proud of myself.
Lisa Biordi
July 1, 2018
Dear Jane and David:
You and Erin are often in my thoughts. I wish there was something that I could say that was wise or would comfort you, but I don't think there is anything that anyone could say that would comfort parents on the loss of a child. We are so very sorry for your loss.
We didn't get to know Erin very well, but the conversations we did have with Erin, we found her smart and charming. We admired her discipline, her ability to set and work towards her goals, and her love of adventure. She was so very full of life. From Beth, we know she was a good sister-in-law, and we know from the women that attended her memorial service that she was a good friend. David's moving eulogy painted a lovely picture of someone we wished we had been able to know better.
I do have one particular memory that I would like to share with you. John and Erin came to Maryland for Christmas, and they brought their new dog, Oscar. I have a vivid picture of the two of them standing there beaming - two golden gorgeous people looking like a couple out of Norse Mythology, and this tiny black powder puff in Erin's arms. She put him down on the ground and off he toddled. All I could think was, could that dog be any smaller? Someone is going to step on him. Oscar was so cute and Erin and John looked so happy. When I think of Erin, this memory comes to mind.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
In sadness,
Lisa Biordi and Bob Miller
Fuquay-Varina, NC
June 17, 2018
Father's Day
June 17, 2018
Once again, another major holiday without your sweet girl to celebrate with. I'm sure she's watching over her "daddy" and smiling her infectious smile. "All is well, Dad. Not to worry".
Annette (cousin)
David LaMarche
June 17, 2018
Fathers Day
June 17, 2018
Erin, memories of you comfort and keep me strong. I laugh as Ive always laughed at the little things that bound us together and I hold dear the love you gave me. You had an eclectic taste for music, especially musical theatre; the story, the melody. This Fathers Day Ive chosen music that brings you close knowing you are but a breath away:
Fly me up to where you are, beyond the distant star. I wish upon tonight to see you smile if only for a while to know that you are there. A breath aways not far to where you are, I know you are there. (A breath aways Josh Groban)
Love, Dad
Mary and Ron Charlebois
June 10, 2018
Dear Jane and family,
We are saddened beyond words to hear of your daughter Erins tragic passing. We know that your faith will keep you strong but We also know how horrible a loss you have all suffered. You were such a help to our family at the time of Kristens passing. Our profound sympathy and prayers.
Mary and Ron Charlebois
Lucille Homcy
June 4, 2018
David and Janie:
Thinking of you. So sorry to hear of your loss. Hope your recent surgery mends quickly. The heart will take forever.
Love Lucille
Susan Goode
May 19, 2018
I completed Another Platelet Donation - in memory of our sweet Erin. I am doing this for her! For Her Husband John and for her Mom and Dad, Jane and David. I Never thought I could ever do this - but for Erin - I can... and I have! In Memory of you and in honor of your girls!
Janine McCallion
May 16, 2018
Dear Jane and David:
Just to let you know that I think of you often and continue to keep you in my prayers. I'm hoping that your strong faith and special memories of Erin continue to keep you strong.
Love, Janine
Linda and Billy Bedard
May 13, 2018
To my Jane and David, you are in our hearts and prayers as is John, as a parent I know your hearts are broken, Erin you had great parents, they are so proud of you, your legacy will live on forever in others,my love to all of you.
Jane Merrick LaMarche
May 13, 2018
MOTHERS DAY
May 13, 2018
A Bittersweet Occasion
Erin Whitney LaMarche, my precious precocious little girl, my challenging, competitive and motivated teenager, and my free spirited, searching young adult.
Erin Whitney Thomas, my beautiful, classy, generous, thoughtful, kind and hardworking grown up women. Your final act of giving.. extending life for others. I couldnt be more proud. Your absence is obvious and my heart is broken.
Forever my child
Forever your Mom
Susan Goode
May 4, 2018
Erin, Just wanted you to know - I gave platelets again today. Thought of you the entire time. I know you were proud and smiling! Love you so much sweet girl... and miss you like crazy.
Richard Fitts
April 22, 2018
Saying goodbye is a hardest thing to do. I cannot put into words. I know you are in a better place now.. Erin you are one of the Nicest person I ever met.I will truly miss you. Love Richard Fitts.
Sheila and Joe Beard
April 20, 2018
David & Jane,
I think of you two constantly and hope you're doing as well as can be expected
My heart aches for you and wish I could hug you both and never let go.
I recently read some of the tributes and memories written of Erin, just beautiful, but I already knew that, she's her parents' daughter. I remember every story you ever shared about your trips to SC and the projects you did at Erin & John's house!
I take comfort in knowing you have each other and your faith.
I miss you, I haven't seen you in so long. I dreamt last night that I got on an elevator and you two were on the elevator?
LOVE & MISS YOU BOTH
Donald LaMarche
April 6, 2018
You've inspired me to become an organ donor, Erin. Love Uncle Donald
Fran (Kelly) Apostolopoulos
April 2, 2018
Dear Mr. and Mrs. LaMarche
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for the unexpected loss of your beautiful daughter, Erin. She was a dear and beloved friend to me. Always showing me kindness, grace and understanding. We kept in frequent touch via text messages. As you know,she adored you both. Erin was so proud of you. No daughter could have loved, respected and admired her parents more. The goodness, support and love you gave to her throughout her life was so reflected in the way she treated others. She gave of herself so freely, without judgement and with such goodness. She was able to do that because she had you as her parents. I cannot imagine your heartbreak, but please know that you are being held in light and love by your daughter and all of those who love her. I will always remember Erin. I am so thankful she was a part of my life and she will forever have a special place in my heart.
Bro. Roger Lemoyne, SC
March 22, 2018
Dear Jane and David:
It is with a heavy heart that I write these few thoughts, but no one can express the grief that you both now carry in mourning Erin's untimely death. How inexplicable is such a tragedy! In my office, I still have the pictures taken by Mike Pearo in 1993 in our service trip to Russia and focus on Erin's smiling and happy face. As David said, the many happy memories help ease the pain which is still overwhelming. As I ponder the many encounters I remember with Erin, I remember a dedicated Christian woman always focused on the other person. How appropriate that her organ donations have brought new life to others, much as Christ's life has done for all of us!
I reach out to both of you in love and friendship (a very deep one!) and assure you of my prayers for the repose of her soul and for your consolation and hope as you try to move on in time. During this Lenten season, I find meaning in Jesus who tells us today that if we are to be his disciples, we must deny ourselves and take up our cross! Very difficult words to understand, but certainly full of meaning. Please let me know if I can in anyway be of help to you. May God bless you and your family. And may my meanderings, as inadequate as they are, help you know that you are not forgotten and loved very much.
With sympathy and love,
Roger
Linda and Bill Bedard
March 18, 2018
Well my lovely Erin, I can't even begin to describe Bill's or my own emotions to your family or your wonderful husband on how your leaving us way too soon affects us. You are the best of your Mom and Dad and a better compliment I can never give. The first time I met you was on a Memorial Day weekend , when your parents came to put flowers on Andrew's grave. Usually your folks told us they were coming but this time we were surprised, here was your mom ,with a huge grin wearing a very white maternity top. Because we worked together as nurses in an OB-GYN office I knew all about her pregnancy with Andrew and the strong suggestion she not have anymore pregnancies! Well God had a special reason why you should be here and what a true blessing that was. Even tho' your early arrival was nerve wracking you were so welcomed and loved, as Your Dad said when he held your tiny hand every day. I so enjoyed getting to know you. Laughing so hard when you made you Mom crazy during your Phishdays. We kept saying relax Jane , she has great genes , sh will be fine, voila , I was right . Thankyou for inviting us to your beautiful wedding, You and John were so in love that your eyes just sparkled. Your parents are our dearest friends and they are always in our hearts and prayers! Thankyou so much for letting me get to know Oscar, I spoiled him wicked when your Mom wasn't looking. I promise I will try to make them laugh again, John is always in our prayers. We so wished you didn't have to,leave so soon , I know there was a reason but we don't understand it, we are not suppose too I guess, please hug Andrew. And tell we miss him. We love Erin , thanks for being in our life even for a short time.
Joan Matarazzo
March 18, 2018
Dear Janie and David:
Thank you so much for sending me everything from Erin's celebration. It could not have been more love-filled. David's eulogy was so heartwarming. I have read it so many times. Great parents you were to that little girl of yours. A little girl who grew up to be so caring and thoughtful. She was a beautiful person inside and out. She did so much good for so many. It just doesn't get better than that - to be so loved by so many. I still get flashes of a picture I have of her digging in the sand at Hampton Beach - as always with her Erin smile.
Know you have heard from so many people from VT but I just wanted to mention that when the Rice community heard about Erin, TJ said so many wonderful stories were told about Janie and Erin from teachers, colleagues of Janie, classmates of Erin. One girl (think she might be the HR person at Rice High School now) in particular told TJ she probably wouldn't have made it through Rice without Janie. Kudos to you, Janie, for the great job you did for her.
I hope all the love sent to you each day lightens up your hearts. That is my wish.
Love to you, from Erin's godmother
Butch and Annette Boucher
March 18, 2018
Dear David and Jane;
What a touching, inspiring tribute to Erin. We didn't know Erin very well except for what you told us about her, but this reflection was a beautiful kaleidoscope of her life that allowed us to know how kind, generous and loving she was. How you were ever able to deliver this Dave, is beyond me. But as I reflect upon your words, I can see that sharing a life such as Erin's is a story that must be told and what better way than from a parent's perspective. Life will never be the same without her but all the loving memories will live in your hearts forever.
Knowing that she now resides in the Kingdom of God is probably the strength that will get you through.
Much love from your cousins.
Elena Wells-Merrick
March 13, 2018
Sweet Erin, I wish there was a way you could let us know what you can see from up there. Did you see your service? Are you reading these love letters to you? Are you trying to break the rules long enough to just touch or whisper to John or your family? I was your aunt for only a short time but what a beautiful time it was. Whenever we were together I always wanted to be where you were. You had that impact on everyone. Magnetic. Cool. Kind. Funny and thoughtful. Even now I still want to be where you are. Few people in life leave the impression you have. You are missed every moment of every day. And not only was the world a better place while you were here but due to your generosity, spirit and example lives are still improving because of you. It was better to have known you and loved you for a short time than to have never known you at all. Give your little brother a kiss and hug from Uncle Shawn and Elena and we'll see you at the heavenly family reunion. When I look up at the stars at night I'll know the brightest one is you, Erin. Always has been. Elena
Kateri LaMarche Fitts
March 13, 2018
I still can't believe it's real. Still can't believe you're gone. It's hard to put into words the depth of my love for you and the grief caused by your passing. From the moment mom & dad brought you home from the hospital, to your last days in the hospital it has been nothing but joy. Your smile, your laugh, your vibrance lit up the world around you. I was truly truly blessed to have you as my baby sister. We never had a bad moment and even though we lived far apart were always close in spirit & picked up right where we left off after the last visit. You got me and I got you. I loved that since you were taller many thought you were the older sister and you so hated that! I was so proud to be your Matron of Honor when you married the love of your life. You were best Auntie Erin to Jacob and I really looked forward to you watching him transition into adulthood with the Army and onward. Now you'll have to do that from above, keeping him safe and guiding his way. It was truly awful having to tell that beautiful boy that his auntie had passed. And he cried like never before. I miss you, Erin. We all miss you. Terribly. Every day. All the time. You made life better and we are all better for having known you. How do we go on without you? And why would we want to? Well, we will because we have no choice and because it's what you'd want. Your final gift of organ donation resonates deeply and will not be forgotten. Even in death you gave of yourself and helped others. I miss everything about you but most especially the joy you found in living. That's how I'll remember my beautiful, bright, quirky, bossy, funny, smart, outgoing, hard working, loving baby sister. I think the best way to honor your life and your memory is to follow the words of Maya Angelou: "Open your eyes to the beauty around you. Open your mind to the wonders of life. Open you heart to those who love you. And always be true to yourself. " That's you. That was Erin Whitney LaMarche Thomas. Love you, sis. Forever and always. Kateri
For you Erin!
Susan Goode
March 12, 2018
We did it Erin! We felt you there with us! Love you Sweet Girl!
Susan Goode
March 12, 2018
Erin, We did it! You were there with us! I just know it. I know how proud you are of us.... and I will try my hardest to keep this going forward. Love you Sweet Girl! We did this for you!
Nicole LaMarche Harnois
March 11, 2018
Erin, it was a tough weekend in SC meeting everyone that loved you so dearly as we mourned your passing. I still can't believe you're gone. Listening to Dad's reflection was by far the hardest. I'm so blown away and proud of the woman you became. Sad I wasn't present for all those years. The picture of you in New Zealand reminded me of just how I remember you, such a strong, independent, free spirit and so beautiful! Erin, I'll always regret the time I lost with you, but will cherish the time we did have. There were many years where you were all I had and we were best of friends. In my heart are those memories, and there you will always be. I'll miss you everyday and will carry you with me until we see each other again. I love you, Erin.
Your sister,
Nicole
Betsy Harcourt
March 10, 2018
My Dear Erin,
My Beautiful Sister,
My Sister Soulmate
I don't know how I am going to get through this without you. Distance never mattered to us, be it time or space, we were cut from the same fabric, always connected, always the same. You were a text away at all times, and on so many dark days over
these past few years, all I'd have to do was think of you, and there you would be, your beautiful words popping up on my phone, popping up in a letter in my mailbox.
We met in Boston in the first days of our graduate program at Boston University's School of Theology. There weren't many women our age in the secular program, but even still, it was impossible not to notice you. I'll never forget the first time I saw you. You were the brightest,
most vivid, alive person in that room by far, and for whatever reason, you walked over to me, and introduced yourself. It's a bizarre experience to meet someone for the very first time that your soul always has known.
While I wrestled with my own middle school-like insecurities, wondering when you would realize that you were way too cool and glamorous for me, I knew each moment I shared with you was profoundly special and to be cherished. I loved being around you, hearing your tales, being trusted with your secrets, being able to go from silly living room dance parties to pjs, deliveries, and all-day movies. You were maternal and nurturing in a way that I'd never had in my life. You loved me unconditionally and without judgment, and you let me love you the same way. I am an
only-child, and only had dreamed of having a sister. When I met you, my wish came true. Perhaps it was because of what we were studying together, or because of our innate connection, or shared, unfortunate. real life experiences, but even from the very beginning, I always had the sense that each time I saw you, it would be my last. I remember sharing that with you one day, and it didn't surprise you. Everything about you was at once wholly surprising and entirely comforting and familiar. You've always been sacred to me, my real life guardian angel. Our days in Boston, our time in France, and the many long-weekend visits in our respective cities and homes over the next fifteen years ran the gamut, and for all the pure and wild fun we had together, we also had the most soul-connecting, meaningful conversations about faith, God, spirituality, death, and life that I've ever had. Those conversations have helped
solidify my value system and strengthen many of my most coveted personal beliefs, and they play a prominent role in the way I try to conduct myself, if only to lead with an open heart and by example, the way you always would, for my son.
I am struggling to find the words that capture how vital you are to me, to my heart, to my soul, to who I am as a Mom, a daughter, a friend, a woman. But you have influenced every aspect of my life. You have shown me, time and time again, the importance of staying true to what is right, to my word, my promises, my commitments, and to my loved ones, even when they aren't behaving the way they should. You have taught me to meet conflict with compassion, to always give, and in the least likely of situations to find empathy. Remember, Betsy, you said that brisk spring day in Boston, how we look isn't always who we are. It doesn't always tell the story of our lives, what we've endured, or what we will do. You have taught me the value in pushing past
self-doubt and feelings of hopelessness, reminding me that on the other side of the exhale can be the release and freedom from the obstacles we face. The words may not be in this writing now, but I will find them, my beloved sister, and I will share them.
We had a walking angel on this earth while you were here, and for eighteen years, I was given the undeserved gift of knowing it, and having you in my physical world. I love you, my beautiful sister, and I miss you with all of my heart. Now, go, fly, and be free
Susan Goode
March 10, 2018
Dearest Sweet Erin, You would have been so proud of your Memorial Service. Your family did a beautiful job... Your Mother, Your Father, Your Husband, ... surrounded by your Friends. The days are not getting any easier without you... but I want to make a public affirmation today - that because of you and your giving spirit - I have an appointment on Monday to give Blood Platelets. You have always inspired us with your influence - not by asking anyone to GIVE but by showing us how you GIVE. Because of you - Heather has given blood - but I have always been such a baby about it. That is changing - and in your memory I WILL DO THIS....and will continue to- because of you. I Love You! I Miss You! We all Miss You. Hopefully we will all continue to be better because of you. I - for one - am trying.
Deborah Harper
March 3, 2018
My Dearest Erin:
I attended your memorial service today. How very sur real it all seemed! You were there everywhere, in the music, the prayers, the tears and the occasional smile. You were inspirational in life and now even beyond. My heart is heavy with The loss of you. You were unlike anyone else I have ever known. You were smart, funny, charming, elegant. You truly lit up a room! Perhaps your best attribute was your supportive nature. You were always a champion for women, so encouraging and supportive. That is such a rare quality! You came into my life during a very difficult time and I will forever cherish our working relationship and our girl's nights out. We shared so many of the same loves: classical music, jazz and broadway. I never knew until today that your favorite book was The Giving Tree. It was always Martin's favorite too. I never managed to read it to him without crying. And in fact, I still have his copy to give to him one day. It will hold even more meaning for me now! So, it may be harder to pass down. You have made all of us who knew you a better version of ourselves. I will do my part to pass on the baton and keep your light forever burning. I know that you are still with me, flooding my mind with precious memories. I will try to take courage From Josh Grobin's words: A breath away is not far to where you are.
Sore with the angels my friend and watch over us. 11/11,... make a wish. (Wink!) I love you!
Robert, Lauren, Cora, and Hensley Mackie Mackie
March 2, 2018
Erin,
I want you to know that you were so very special. Your smile was always so radiant and infectious. We shared many memories together and even thou we grew apart you always made it a point to ask about Lauren, Cora, and Hensley. You truly cared about their well being and how they were. This is a large part of your legacy you left behind...just take a second each day and pour into others lives and be in tune with theirs and not always our own. My heart breaks daily for John, your parents, and every individual that you ever touched.
Love you Erin!
Lori Hinman
March 1, 2018
Heather Smith
February 28, 2018
I have been trying to find the words to express just how much Erin means to me and how grateful I am for having her in my life for as long as I have. Had I been asked just a few weeks ago, I could have gone on and on about this or that, shared a million stories, reasons why I love her and plans we are making for the next 100 years. Now however, now that she is gone and I am unable to see her face, hear her laugh and make more memories with her, it's not that simple.
More than my best friend, she was my sister. She was the person that I started each day with, even if just through a hey darlin or what's up sister text message. She was the person that I couldn't wait to share good times, good news and accomplishments with and she would always, always be there to help me through the tough times. She was an amazing, loving Godmother to my girls and never missed an opportunity to spoil them (even if just by telling them all about her worldly travels or playing cards at 6am on a Saturday). She always knew when I needed to hear...you are a wonderful mother or you are the best wifey or I'm so grateful for our friendship. She always knew. In one of her last text messages to me, she said: There are so many reasons why I love you. I don't know how I would do this life without you. I love you sister. I never for a moment dreamed that that very sentiment would be so very real for me right now. How am I going to do this life without you? I love you, sister.
I pray that with each passing day, she will give me the strength to get through this painful time. I pray that the pictures that I can't stop staring at will soon bring a smile to my face rather than tears to my eyes. I pray that I was the friend to her that she was to me and that I told her enough just how much I love her.
She was an unbelievable blessing in my life and has made me believe without question- that there really are angels among us. I am a better person because of her and I know that she is still here with me, every day.
I am praying for peace and comfort for John, sweet Oscar, her family and those of us that she made feel like family.
Jason Hanson
February 28, 2018
Erin was such a great friend and I miss her dearly. I have been unable to find a way to comprehend this loss and I'm not sure how to move past it. Some days I find myself staring off at nothing and then something brings me back. My heart breaks for John and all of her friends and family. I'm sure so many of you are struggling with the same feelings. I was fortunate enough to see Erin almost every single Saturday for the past 12 years and I always looked forward to catching up with her throughout the day. Erin was an amazing listener and she was so in tune with everyone around her. She always made me feel better about myself through her warmth and compassion. Erin had a way of complimenting others but it never felt forced or obligatory. She simply found something nice to say to me every time I saw her and I learned so much from her about how to make others feel good about themselves. I hope I can emulate this quality with a fraction of the effectiveness she achieved so effortlessly.
Erin, I will never forget you.
Lisa BIordi and Bob Miller
February 28, 2018
Our deepest condolences on this tragic loss. Our hearts go out to John, David and Jane. We will keep you in our prayers.
"Say good night, not goodbye"
With love,
Sarah Leib
February 28, 2018
Erin - my first friend, best friend and sister.
Ever since two-year old you wandered over to my to welcome me (and my toys) to the neighborhood, we have been together through giggles and tears, new adventures and old mistakes, triumph and heartbreak. You are the star of every childhood memory and the best part of who i am today.
But even with the 40 years we had together, I never got to tell you how much you taught me about faith, hardwork, selflessness, bravery, patience, and most of all, love. I wish I had.
I wish a lot of things. I wish i weren't so angry that someone so good to this world and all those in it was taken far too soon and suddenly. I wish i could feel blessed for the four decades i had with you instead of the looming emptiness of spending the rest of my life with only memories of my best friend. I wish I didn't feel so lost at sea having lost the only person i could call day or night and know would be on my side, no matter how stupid that side was. Mostly, though, I wish you were here with me right now.
I don't know how we are going to get through without you. I truly don't. But I know that we will, because anyone who knew you knows you are a force of nature, with a will and spirit that is certainly stronger then something as pedestrian as Death. It is that part of Erin that will get us up every day and put one foot in front of the other, look at the stars and feel full of love instead of loss, laugh at a joke, sing along to the radio and dance whenever the mood strikes.
And as i write this, mascara streaming down my face and kleenex balled up on the floor, I understand that you are here with me. You are keeping my hand steady, my heart full, my eyes clear.
I love you Erin, I miss you and I thank you, my dear dear sister. Best Friends Forever, indeed.
Melanie Landin
February 28, 2018
I still have a hard time believing this is real. I dont often have the right words to say like Erin did, but Im just heartbroken. Erins love for her family and friends was something that no one would understand, unless they were privileged enough to experience it. Im so fortunate to have been one of those people. I find comfort in remembering the laughs and memories we shared, but just wish wed had more. I miss your self-deprecating humor that never failed to make me laugh! I look forward to laughing with you again, dear friend. You truly made this world a better place in your life and your death. My deepest condolences to John, Dave, Jane and all of those who loved our precious Erin.
Charlie Smith
February 28, 2018
To Erin and those who were blessed to know her knew that she was a special person from the time she walked in the room. She never knew a stranger and would get people talking to each other that would normally not speak. She had a way about her that made you feel like you were on top of the world. There is no other like her and she left a large hole that may never be filled, in many lives. She was a kind soul and brought joy to so many and we are saddened by her passing. Heather, her Godchildren; Stella, and Claire miss her immensely.
Heather DiSandro
February 27, 2018
Dear Erin,
I have been searching for the right words to share to provide comfort to all that you touched. So many special individuals are devestated by your swift and unexpected departure. You my friend were an amazing overachiever in all that you did each day. From higher education to your career to amazing excersions to providing solid advice to your friends on a regular basis. Thank you for your friendship! Thank you for sharing your life with me. Thank you for being the most selfless person and caring for those you loved. You are missed! My heart hurts to loose you. My heart hurts for those you were closest with. Forever will I keep John, your parents and family and your friends in my thoughts and prayers. I will continue to pray for their comfort.
"A beautiful soul is never forgotten " (unknown). And you my dear sweet friend are a beautiful soul and we will never forget you! I promise to remember you with a smile! XOXO
Beth Thomas
February 26, 2018
I will not let the heartbreak and sadness that I feel overshadow the wonderful times we shared together. I know you are all around us now but everything looked much brighter with you here on earth. As you always said...to make a long story short which never is, I miss you and I love you.
Marilyn Ferdinand
February 25, 2018
Dear Erin, know that you will be missed more than I can say.
My deepest condolences to Erin's husband and her family. Erin served as my Office Management Assistant during my 6 years in CGFS's front office. She kept me straight on many occasions and was more of a friend than office colleague. You all are in my prayers. May her soul Rest In Peace.
"I, Erin Whitney Lamarche, take you, John Thomas, to be my spouse. I promise to be faithful to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life."
Rev. Richard Myhalyk
February 25, 2018
Rev. Richard Myhalyk
February 25, 2018
When Erin Whitney Lamarche Thomas died a part of her husband, John, and her parents Jane and David, as well as her siblings died with her. Their world and the world of so many others must feel very empty with the passing of a loving wife, daughter, sister, friend.
One of the prefaces for the dead, which is prayed at the beginning of the Eucharist Prayer at a funeral Mass, reminds us that when someone dies life is changed, not ended. That is certainly true for Erin, but it seems like it has surely ended in so many, many ways for those she leaves behind. Our faith is intended to reassure and comfort us at moments like this but even the faith-filled stand in devastating unbearable disbelief when tragedy strikes someone in the prime of life.
Good memories help to lessen the pain. The spirit of those special moments can never be entombed. Perhaps that is what the author of the Book of Wisdom had in mind when he wrote about the sparks that dart through the stubble (Wisdom 3:1-9). The sparks I will remember are these: Erins loving interaction with her adopted international siblings during her childhood visits to the Edmundite residence Fairholt for a meal and a video; her Rice High School service trip to Russia, where we learned to survive with little food and lots of hard work; and her marriage to John.
While those were the sparks, the stubble certainly had to be the pierced tongue with silver stud, shown proudly, as she came up for Holy Communion. Gratitude has to be the spark at least family and friends had her back after her on-the-concert-road gypsy-life.
Although I am nearly double Erins age, I was always impressed by Erins sincere interest in my life and others young and old, rich and poor, Black and White That is a remarkable quality in a day and age which is so self-absorbed and self-preoccupied. Erin clearly was other-centered which makes her passing so difficult. But, Erins final gift of donating her organs to those in need strikes me as a way of seeing how good can come from tragedy and loving presence can be sustained in new and living ways.
May these words on Love and the Family by Jesuit Father Alfred Delp be your consolation: The transformation of the world comes about in the quiet home of all life, the family. It comes whenever people understand that the true meaning of love is not the will to dominate, to exploit and to possess; but that it lies in service, generosity, sacrifice, willingness to change and a desire that others be blessed and brought close to God. When people can emerge from the quiet and solitude of their homes touched and renewed by true love, a love that sanctifies us and helps us find the way to heaven, then our land and our people will be blessed, and we will have the strength to face whatever lies ahead.
Erin's service trip to Russia when she was in High School.
Rev. Richard Myhalyk
February 25, 2018
Cathi Royer
February 25, 2018
Erin.. Your energy will be very much missed here on earth.. life took us in different directions but I always looked forward to our yearly catch up! I will miss that selfishly, as your life stories where always more amazing! I'm sorry for John losing his best friend and partner in life.. John, she loved you so much... I am so sorry for your family's loss. You're relationship with your mom & dad was one to be envied.. they raised such a good soul here on earth... you are going to be so very missed my friend and I hope you knew while you were here how very loved you were and how many hearts you touched...
Thank you for letting me into your life!
February 22, 2018
I would like to offer my deepest condolences to the family of Erin. As a colleague, I never met Ern in person, but we communicated for many years via e-mails and phone calls. She was always very professional, sweet and kind. May her soul rest in perfect peace.
Zainab Thompson
bob wright
February 19, 2018
Just full of tears
Lori Hinman
February 17, 2018
It is difficult to find the "right" words at this time. My own sadness and feelings of loss are profound and yet I know that all of you, Erin's family, are feeling those feelings so much more strongly. My heart goes out to all of you.
Erin was not only my co-worker, but also a friend. We began working together nine years ago and we hit it off right away; must have been the Yankee in both of us. Erin had such a great spirit and that can-do attitude. She amazed me with not only what she had accomplished, but also the many travels she had taken.
By reading the wonderful things people have written about Erin, it is certain she touched many hearts. She had an abundance of love for her husband, her family and her friends.
Erin, we cherish you as a beautiful angel that heaven has gained.
May you find comfort in your loving memories and the warmth of family and friends.
John and Joanne Varricchione
February 17, 2018
Dave and Jane, we were so sorry to hear of Erin's sudden passing. We send our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. John and Joanne Varricchione
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