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John Gutierrez-Mier Obituary

DALLAS -- A week ago, John Gutierrez-Mier checked out of Medical City Hospital in Dallas after heart surgery.

He moved into a hotel near the hospital where medical students, some of them Muslim, live.

Mr. Mier greeted them in Arabic, which he had picked up while writing news reports about Islam after 9-11: "As-salaam alaikum." It was a moment, his friends said Saturday, that illustrated two important parts of his life. He spent a career in the newspaper business trying to bridge gaps between cultures and races. And he lived with health problems that had followed him since childhood and ultimately cut his life short.

Mr. Mier, a Star-Telegram reporter since 2002, died Friday. He was 43.

"John worked hard to connect with the communities he covered," Managing Editor Rex Seline said. "He liked to tell stories about real people and real lives. He had had health problems, and we had hoped he was getting better. This turn of events is shocking and sad."

Mr. Mier, who was born on Nov. 28, 1963, grew up in El Paso. An aunt, Virginia Gutierrez, spotted Mr. Mier's writing ability when he wrote an obituary for an uncle when he was a teenager.

"It was just a beautiful narrative story," she recalled. "We figured, 'Wow, this guy can write.'"

After earning a journalism degree at the University of Texas at El Paso, Mr. Mier got a reporting job with the San AntonioExpress-News.

Even as a rookie, he brought people together in the newsroom, said Nora Lopez, an Express-News reporter. He gave people playful nicknames -- Lopez's was La Beauty -- and tried to get people to socialize. "He was notorious for bringing people out of their normal lunch cliques," Lopez said.

Mr. Mier moved to Philadelphia in the early 1990s and commuted to the News-Journal in Wilmington, Del. He became active in gay and Hispanic politics in Philadelphia and was also a union leader at the newspaper, said Sam McLaughlin, a longtime friend. "The true John came out in Philadelphia," McLaughlin said. "No matter where else he went, he just kept to that true John."

But while in Wilmington, he had to have surgery to repair a heart valve in 1992 and spent months recovering.

He spent time as a public-relations writer for the 1996 Olympic games in Atlanta and then returned to daily journalism at the El Paso Herald-Post, which closed in 1997. He returned to the Express-News,and began to specialize in covering minority communities, which he thought got little coverage in traditional newspapers.

After 9-11, he began covering San Antonio's Muslim community. He read the Quran, visited mosques, and watched and re-watched a PBS series on the religion, said Macarena Hernandez, a reporter at TheDallas Morning News who worked with him in San Antonio.

"John was very passionate about communities of color, people whom newspapers traditionally ignored," Hernandez said. "He and I had very intense conversations about the coverage of Muslims, blacks, Latinos, the poor, gays and lesbians."

When he arrived at the Star-Telegram, he was assigned to cover minority affairs, homelessness and poverty issues.

"Some of the best work he did was when he was writing about our diverse neighborhoods," said Metro Editor Lee Williams, who supervised Mr. Mier. "Not every reporter has the ability to walk into these neighborhoods and disarm people, which let him get to the heart of what was going on."

Mr. Mier was on a team of reporters that won a second-place award for investigative reporting from the Texas Associated Press Managing Editors' Association in 2002 for a report card on local hospitals. In 2004, he and reporter Karen Brooks won second place in the Houston Press Club's Lone Star Awards for stories about the deaths of a group of undocumented workers.

In 2005, he and reporter Jeff Claassen took an in-depth look at colonia-style developments on the outskirts of the Metroplex, where pockets of substandard homes existed despite the area's growth and affluence.

Since late 2006, Mr. Mier had had more heart procedures and surgeries and had become seriously depressed. The last surgery was Aug. 7, and he was on the waiting list for a heart transplant, Hernandez said.

When Hernandez arrived to visit Mr. Mier on Friday night, he did not answer his door. After a maintenance man was summoned, she said, they found Mr. Mier unresponsive. The medical students whom Mr. Mier had befriended came to try to revive him, Hernandez said.

"Even his death was such a beautiful moment of all these different people coming together and trying to save him," Hernandez said.

Funeral arrangements were incomplete Saturday.
Published by Star-Telegram on Aug. 20, 2007.

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Margaret

September 30, 2024

Today I thought of you; your kindness, your generosity of heart, your zeal to live life to the fullest! How I miss you, you endowed us with so many priceless gifts and I just have to close my eyes and remember! Thank you John for your Love, for your support and for your faith in God and Family! You taught us how to Love purely! Miss You! Hope your enjoying Heaven with Liz and Goose and so many others!! Margaret Mier Horsch

Virginia Gutierrez

September 6, 2019

It's 2019....12 years since you left this dimension. Lizzie left in 2016!
You remain in my heart and in my mind!! Now, I smile when I think of your craziness and your big..big heart!! Love you! Sept. 2019

Margaret Horsch

November 28, 2017

My Dearest Beloved Brother, All I can say is that I miss you! Always the life of the party, your witty personality, your humor, your love and your compassion were the hallmarks of your being! So Blessed to have shared in this journey of life and so honored and privileged to have called you brother and friend! I miss you but cherish the joy and laughter you so freely gave; enjoy heaven with Liz!

Virginia Gutierrez

November 27, 2013

Your birthday lands on Thanksgiving every so often....we would joke that you were a turkey!!! Happy 50th Birthday John! You're never forgotten!

Margaret Horsch

October 31, 2013

Thinking of you today as Emily ventures out into a new horizon and how much you treasured your time with her; she is all grown up and you continue to watch over her. I love you and miss you terribly!!! Your smile, your laughter, your friendly demeanor............ I MISS YOU!

Virginia Gutierrez

August 27, 2013

It's been six years since you passed and I miss your crazy, devious personality...always will!

Ted Faigle

February 26, 2012

Sorry, I don't remember if I've already signed John's guest book -- just came across it (again?) by chance & want to make sure I convey my condolences and appreciation of my dear old Philly friend and wild party boy from my own wild party days. Miss you John. Love you Virg. xox ted

Marie Mier-Metz

November 28, 2011

Thinking about you today!! Missing you very much. Love you Liz

August 1, 2011

John, thinking about you today....miss u still....Liz

Virginia Gutierrez

August 19, 2010

I remember you on August 17th, remember you on your birthday, November 28th and almost everyday something reminds me of you! Your soul is returning to this dimension again....I know it!
Love and miss you! La Virgie

La Virgie Gutierrez

August 11, 2010

Read a story in NY Times re:living a minimalistic lifestyle...being non-materialistic! I thought of John...he was all about people and relationships, not about material possessions. I seek to cherish my relationships, not my possessions...thanks for that lesson my dear nephew!

David Mier

July 4, 2010

Primo: not sure why I was thinking of you today but I was. I was remember the time I had dinner at your house in Fort Worth with your Mom and Dad and we drank your Dad's beer. Not sure where he kept getting them from but he kept finding beer after beer even after we thought they were all gone........

Marie

June 14, 2010

John, you have been on my mind so much here lately. Miss you, wish I could just pick up the phone and hear your voice. Am asking God to let you know how much you're missed. Liz

November 27, 2009

John, another year has gone by and there's still a hole in my heart that can't be filled. Still miss you terribly especially when I'm here in El Paso. Too many reminders that our family is incomplete here on earth. Look forward to seeing you in heaven. Gonna enjoy Tecate con limon in your honor today Luv ya Liz

Virginia Gutierrez

November 5, 2009

Another year and we've celebrated Dia de los Muertos....and once again our Ofrenda for John was an opportunity to honor & remember him. I think of him often and play the CD of his voice messages. It feels so good to hear his voice again. Blessings to all of our relatives & friends who have passed on!

Hilda Morales

May 6, 2009

John, I come to your page time after time to read your life accomplishments as a grown man. I had the pleasure to have met you as "kids" at Bassett. We became very close friends and had many great times. Especially at the Austin/Irvin bon fires. Wow the 80s sure did Rock! We did a million things.. and never got caught (L.O.L.) I wish we would have kept up after that last call. But, I guess it's never to late. Vaya con Dios amigo mio, we'll see you soon. Te quiero y recuerdo siempre.

Hilda Morales
El Paso, Texas/San Antonio

OFRENDA PARA JOHN GUTIERREZ MIER

Virginia Luz Gutierrez, Esq.

October 28, 2008

Dia de los Muertos 2008....once again we will offer a tribute to John and erect an "Ofrenda" in Oaxaca Mexico in his honor!

John in NYC

Virginia L. Gutierrez

August 17, 2008

It is August 17, 2008 and it's been a full year since my nephew left on his journey. We miss you terribly....your
crazy telephone calls.....your pranks...your loving ways!
You are loved! Your Tia, LA VIRGIE

Gordana Icevska

February 28, 2008

In 1999 I was Alfred Friendly Press Fellow at San Antonio Express News where I met John. Being a Macedonian in Texas was strange, but John made it a home for me. I miss you John!

Rebecca Aguilar

November 19, 2007

As we approach Thanksgiving....I'm thankful that I had a chance to know John. He was a wonderful soul. An inspiration in the crazy world of journalism. We met so long ago in San Antonio. He was an instant friend---always offering a smile, a piece of advice, a comforting word. I was blessed to call him a friend.

el paso 2003 at mom's

October 8, 2007

Marie Metz

September 23, 2007

My dearest brother, it has been 5 weeks since the Lord called you home and it's still a truth that's not easy to grasp. Until now, I haven't had the words to express how deeply I feel this loss. I know because of my faith and yours, that you are in heaven, but I still miss you tremendously. I'll be trying to get through my many daily tasks, and one thing or another will occur and my thoughts go to you. I still can't believe that I won't hear your voice, your laughs, or see that pose that my boys seemed to love to have you do. The obliging uncle always wanting the laugh never refused them. You were a most humble person, even with all your successes (and there were many) you never bragged. We didn't even know about the awards until after you were gone. I'm certain that when we stand in judgment, the Lord will say well done my good and faithful servant. I can only hope to be likewise addressed. I cant wait to see you again in heaven. I love and miss you so very much.

Janet Vasquez

September 23, 2007

I met John at the San Antonio airport while covering a story for WOAI Radio. We became friends and stayed in touch over the years. I have so many fond memories of John. I am so fortunate to have been able to know him. He was always kind and I will miss his warm and caring ways. I'll always remember the times we spent at local dance clubs. I will miss you, my friend. You truly were a special person and I am fortunate to have met you that day at the airport and to know you the years that followed.

September 19, 2007

John Life of the party!

September 19, 2007

Michael Barrientos

September 18, 2007

I'm
proud to have known John and was saddened by the news of his passing.
He was a wonderful man and always a pleasure to be around. My best
memory of him was the 1998 NAHJ Convention in Miami when he gave me a nickname that he would never let me forget. John will be missed

Allan (Al) Kaida

September 15, 2007

As-salaam alaikum my friend

Stella Chavez

September 7, 2007

Three weeks since his death, it's still hard to believe John is gone. I won't forget my last conversation with him, about a month before he passed away. In typical John fashion, he was upbeat and friendly. He wanted to live, he told me. "I don't want to die. I'm too young. Please pray for me," I remember him saying.
John made a huge impact on the community. For those who don't know, he played a big part in the Dallas/Fort Worth Network of Hispanic Communicators both as an officer and member. I met him through the organization shortly after moving back to Texas and I remember thinking he was so enthusiastic, so kind and so devoted to the mission of helping young and aspiring journalists. His contribution to the Network and journalism will not be forgotten. May his love for life live on in all of us.

Eva-Marie Ayala

September 5, 2007

John G-M,
It's taken me forever to sign this because I don't want to admit you are gone. I want to pretend you're just being flaky the way you get when you try to do too much for too many people and haven't gotten around to calling me back yet. And then you'd call me and give me a long funny sob story and have me laughing so hard I'd cry. Then we'd make plans to go for Thai soon, which we only actually got around to doing once. I think about the time you met my grandmother at her church and she wanted to show you off to everyone. You are a good soul. I do miss you so, hermano.

Jean Marie Brown

August 29, 2007

John had a wonderful spirit. He was a gentle soul, who always had time to stop and talk. We always joked that even though I was instrumental in hiring him at the Star-Telegram, we never really got to work together. Still, we chatted about stories and family.
He will be missed.

Richard Kessler

August 29, 2007

John and I had a number of pleasant conversations in the years after we hired on at the Star-Telegram in 2002. We had mutual ``conocidos'' in the press corps who had been through Latin America and he was interested in the region, particularly Mexico and Central America. His focus was social issues and the downtrodden, a welcome change from the foreign media's obsession with Latin sports, show biz and politics. John was a caring person who would ask me how my family and I were adjusting to Texas and U.S. culture after so many years living in South America. It was no surprise that he was among the many colleagues at the paper who expressed their support when my wife Graciela was diagnosed with breast cancer in July last year. My condolences to his family. He'll be missed.

Deborah Overton

August 28, 2007

I am really glad that I had an opportunity to meet John. He was a such a genuinely friendly person. I met him at a writers conference in San Antonio a few years ago, where we ate at a restaurant with some of his friends and I had fish tacos for the first time. Even though we worked for the same newspaper, we had never met until the conference. After the conference it was like we were old buddies, we'd never pass by each other in the hall, and I'd never go pass by his desk without speaking. I will truly miss seeing his smiling face.

John Moore

August 27, 2007

"And those of us who delve in beauty's lore
Know all that we have known before,
Of vicious death is in its reaping"--Edwin Arlington Robinson.

Farewell to a beautiful soul who touched many lives.

Tillie Rivera

August 25, 2007

To My Wonderful Nephew who loved life and life loved him. Good memories, especially your humor that made us laugh all the time will live in my heart forever.
Love, Your Tia Tillie

A dance with my primo, John

Cindy Aguirre

August 25, 2007

My Dearest Primo, How saddened we are that you are not here with us anymore. Our Family get-togethers will not be the same without you. We do know that you are in a better place and Granny Goose is taking care of you now. Thanks Primo for calling me and letting me know that you are in Heaven and not suffering anymore, that was a peaceful moment for me. I am in such "AWE" of how many people love and care for you as much as I do! You are truly an ANGEL , an Angel that will be waiting for me when my time comes.
Te Amo mucho Primo!
Cindy, David, Eric and Steven

Nan Keck

August 23, 2007

I had the privilege of working with John at the El Paso Herald-Post. He had the most infectious laugh ... I can hear it at this very moment. When I moved to San Antonio, he took me to dinner at a Thai restaurant and we spent the evening catching up on mutual friends and former co-workers. I was amazed at how well he kept up with people and their whereabouts. He truly had a heart of gold. To John's family, I offer my deepest sympathy and pray that God surround you with an abundance of love, the same love John showed everyone he came in contact with. He was a very special man.

Rebeca Chapa

August 23, 2007

Our paths crossed only briefly: John enroute to the Star-Telegram and me enroute to the Express-News. I've enjoyed getting to "know" John through the stories of his friends and am saddened by his passing. Rest in peace, John GM. To his family: I wish you the very best in dealing with this tough situation.

Enjoying the party with friends

August 23, 2007

John with his infectious smile

August 23, 2007

Gustavo Reveles Acosta

August 22, 2007

John's spirit will be with me forever. He was one of the great things that happened to me during my stay in Fort Worth. He made some of the hard times seem much easier to handle. His kindness, friendship and sense of humor will live on in the hundreds of friends he had. I'm lucky enough to be one of them.

Ahi te guacho, loco.

Billy Calzada

August 22, 2007

To John's family and friends:

John's physical heart may have been bad, but his spiritual heart was a good one. He was a friend who was quick to volunteer when he saw someone in need. He offered me his couch on numerous occasions. He was a trustworthy soul, and professionally, he was a photographer's reporter. This is just part of his spirit of giving. I'll miss you, amigo.

Kin Man Hui

August 22, 2007

JGM, your compassion for people is what I'll remember. And your laughter, too! I missed you when you left the paper, I'll miss you even more now.

Claudia Schramm

August 22, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Danny Mier

August 22, 2007

We ache selfishly because John is no longer with us. Yet, based on his many friends, he made his mark and went home to be with our Father a rich man!

Patricia Talorico

August 22, 2007

John and I worked together at The News Journal in Wilmington, Del. At the time, we were both working the dreaded 3 to 11 p.m. shift, but it wasn't that bad, because John was always so much fun to be around.

John was the night police reporter and we always would take our dinner break together. One night, we went to a restaurant and John brought along a portable police scanner so he wouldn't miss an important police or fire call. Restaurant workers saw, and heard, the scanner and immediately became concerned. John was wearing a long, rumpled trench coat and he kind of looked like Columbo. He told the restaurant workers not to worry. "We're not the police; we're from the Department of Health." The surprised and scared look on their faces was priceless. John and I laughed until tears streamed down our faces. Thank goodness the restaurant staff had a good sense of humor. But, just in case they didn't, we ordered take-out and left. We laughed all the way back to the office. I loved John's infectious laugh and his kindness. It served him well in the crazy world of journalism and in life.

David Mier

August 21, 2007

It was only a couple of weeks ago we met at your parents house and discussed your forthcoming procedure. Even then, you were so full of life and optimism despite the challenge that lay before you. Throughout our lives from childhood to adulthood, you never complained about the hand you were dealt-you merely handled it with tact and class. When you had your last major procedure in Fort Worth a few years back, as you lay on the gurney before you went in the operating room, you asked me to call your Mom and tell her you were fine. Even then you were thinking of someone else. The same character traits that earned you the love and respect of so many.

Isaiah 57:2
2 Those who live good lives find peace and rest in death. May you rest my brother.

Pablo Bello

August 21, 2007

John fue siempre un buen amigo. Cuando mas se le necesitaba siempre estaba ahi para ayudar a los amigos y tambien para celebrar, era bien pachanguero. Descansa en paz querido amigo.
John was always a good friend. He was always there when you most needed him.

Scott Huddleston

August 21, 2007

John had an infectious smile. His smile would make us smile. I used to like to say things to make him laugh, and it was pretty easy because he smiled and laughed a lot. He left a huge wake behind him through the lives he touched. I'm glad that there will be a celebration of his life. That's as it should be.

Eric Aguirre

August 21, 2007

Thanks for all your help, John. As the pages and pages of text on this site can attest, you will not be forgotten.

Ruben Mier

August 21, 2007

John,

It can be said that you had passion for your work but what you really had was respect for people and you applied that to your work. It is said that a man's life is not measured by the riches that he possesses, but rather in the way that he treats his fellow man and John, you excelled in that arena. Your peers hold you in high esteem and your parents, brother, and sisters can be proud of the fact that you lived your life to the fullest as a professional but also as a friend and mentor to others. Rest now as our Good Lord has stopped your suffering and called you home.

Patricia Perez

August 21, 2007

Dear Juan and Yolanda and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
We are sorry for your loss.
Love, Mike & Helen Arreguin, Ed, Pat, Art, Fernando, Sylvia & Anthony Perez

Elaine Aradillas

August 21, 2007

Dear John,
Thank you so much for coming into my life and welcoming me into yours – and your home. When I didn’t have a place to stay for NAHJ in Fort Worth, you invited me stay with you. Every day was a party (literally!) filled with pink streamers. Thank you for the laughter and wonderful memories.

Jaime & Letty Castillo

August 21, 2007

Amid the profound sadness, Letty and I can't help but smile about the way Juanito touched our lives. John was a whirlwind of energy. Quick with a joke (even to the point of being a little devilish at times). But most of all he was a true friend. He always made the effort to keep in touch. Adios nuestro amigo.

Matt Flores

August 21, 2007

Easily, John was one of the most kind-hearted souls I've ever met. In the 20 years I knew him, I don't think I ever really saw him get mad. It seems like lunch or drinks after work was typically an adventure when John G-M was around. He had a way making a lot of folks smile, and those of us who were lucky enough to know him well are all the richer for that.
Adios amigo and fellow brownie.

Mc Nelly Torres

August 21, 2007

Dear John: I just found a picture of us at the last UNITY in Washington, D.C. You were waving and smiling standing next to me. And that was John. Un buen amigo, an inspiration to any journalist who ever met him. Thanks for your unconditional friendship when I moved to San Antonio in 2002. Nunca te olvidare. Gracias por tu amistad sincera. We'll miss you. Dios te Bendiga!

Karen Brehm

August 21, 2007

I'll miss you John. The last time we hooked up was for Fiestas in San Antonio. What a wonderful time we had, covered in confetti and laughing a lot. Thank you for your sensitivity in covering religion -- what and how people believe was always imporant to you.

Suzanne Hoholik

August 21, 2007

I am still so sad about John's death and yet I feel lucky to be one of his many friends. John was good about keeping in touch, even after I left Texas so many years ago. Goodbye my friend, you left an imprint on my heart.

Wade Horsch

August 21, 2007

Recognizing what John has left behind in the lives and spirits he touched is our gift to use and comfort us. John also took me under his wing as I was an incoming solider at Ft Bliss. While dating his sister Margaret, John was my tour guide and welcoming party to the beauty and spice of our wonderful city of El Paso. John I promise to carry the torch and welcome and promote the diverse beauty of our home. My brother you will be greatly missed.

Deepak R

August 21, 2007

Goodbye John, heard so much about you wish we had met.

Rose Mier

August 20, 2007

Dearest Cousin John: How the LORD blessed you with your talent in reaching so many diverse cultures. You are loved by many and will be greatly missed but some day you will greet us in the Kingdom of Heaven. GOD loved you so much he called you early; HE missed you more than we do. Until we meet again in our everlasting life....

Paloma Castilla

August 20, 2007

Thank you John for being so active with the NAHJ Student Campus back in 2005. Having shared in that experience with so many student journalists, I thank you sooo much for giving us an unforgettable week.
You will be greatly missed.

cynthia Garcia

August 20, 2007

Dearest John: How my heart is broken knowing you are gone. Your were an inspiration to us all. For all that you did, for all that you lived for. I thank you for your genuine friendship and your full support when we served as Hispanic Communicator Officers. I will forever hold your friendship deep in my heart. You are with GOD now and you will be our angel along with my son looking out for us as always. VAYA CON DIOS!
Tu Amiga Siempre,

Mr. and Mrs. Cynthia Leonor Garza and Eyder Peralta

August 20, 2007

Goodbye to our beloved John, whom we were fortunate enough to have called a dear friend. Your life was cut too short, but you truly were in a class of journalists and people all of your own. We'll miss your wit, your Philly stories, your apodos for everyone and their dog, your Thank You cards, your pointless forwards and your genuine, heartfelt concern about the little guy. I know you're holding court in heaven. Make the big guy laugh, will you. Hasta que nos vemos de nuevo!

James Martinez

August 20, 2007

My condolences to John's family. I met John back in the 1980s at UTEP. As city editor, he was one of the last reporters I had the privilege of hiring at the El Paso Herald-Post before it closed.He was a good person, hard working and funny.God Bless.

Marissa Alanis

August 20, 2007

I'll remember John as being a witty, friendly person. I wish I had gotten to know him better. I'll cherish the times I did spend with him such as when I introduced him and several friends to Cuquita's Mexican Restaurant off Knox-Henderson in Dallas. We had a good time chatting over lunch. I'll remember his contributions and the time he spent helping out the DFW Network of Hispanic Communicators. He truly cared about helping aspiring journalists and the community. My deepest condolences to his family. John and his family are in my thoughts and prayers. He'll be greatly missed.

Analisa

August 20, 2007

It's really quite unbelievable that this world will go on without this wonderful, kind-hearted, and once-energetic man. Everywhere John went, he made fast friends, loyal friends, who loved him dearly. He was always at the center -- or behind the scenes -- of so many good times in San Antonio. And I, like so many of John's friends, are deeply saddened by the loss of such a spirited person, such a good soul.

Victor H. Arriola Sr.

August 20, 2007

Although I barely knew you growing up in our neighborhood, I never imagined that anyone there would have touched so many people in the way you did with your personality and through your reporting talents.
God bless you and your family from me and mine, rest well my friend.

Susie P. Gonzalez

August 20, 2007

John was a dear colleague when our paths crossed at the San Antonio Express-News. He always had good story ideas about society's little people and worked quietly but persistently to get them into print when discouraged by editors. He always smiled and always listened, two great attributes of any reporter or any person. Even after he left for Fort Worth, he would call regularly to ask about my children and my life. John loved talking on the telephone. We spoke just a few days before he passed away because I wanted to mail a Spurs championship bumper sticker to him. He asked for prayers because he said he wasn't feelilng well. I would like to think that he is talking on the phone right now, catching up on the chisme and praying for all of us. Adios, my friend.

Victoria Valles

August 20, 2007

I will truly miss John. His advice, humor and great personality is what I will always carry with me. John assured me, I could do whatever I put my mind and heart to and I thank him for always supporting me. I’m going to miss our breakfast outings after church and great conversations.

God Bless John and his family.

John and Jennifer Forsyth

August 20, 2007

We were heartbroken to hear of John's passing. His life was too short and more of a struggle than a sweet man like that deserved. We are very glad to have worked with him but, more importantly, to have called him a friend.

Antonio Zacapala

August 20, 2007

I only saw John once at a meeting with the Network of Hispanic Communicators. Even though we only spoke briefly, he seemed a nice guy to me. Rest in Peace.

Tony Cantu

August 20, 2007

A few years younger than John, I was a green reporter for the now-defunct San Antonio Light. I cringe today remembering how needy I must've come across at times -- having just lost my dad at 20 in whose footsteps I was following -- as I looked for role models on which to pattern my nascent career. I never got to know John very well, as he worked for the cross-town rival Express-News but I admired his career. With every encounter, be it at Press Club or at Hispanic Journalists Society gatherings, John was always very kind and encouraging. He was one of those people who, sadly, are rare now -- the type to actually stop to listen to a companero de trabajo and offer kind words, no matter how paltry the journalistic contributions of that colleague might be. I remember him actually listening to my youthful ramblings with a genuine interest. He was truly a kind human being. I was very saddened to hear of his passing. And having read some of the tributes to him since, feel all the poorer for never having gotten to know him well.

Michael Vega

August 20, 2007

Truly a sad weekend to know one of your friends has passed on. John was a supporter. Every time I sent an email newsletter, I would get a "good job!, BRAVO" response from him. He was also very good at what he did, which was to represent and give a voice to minorities and under represented communities. I will miss John dearly. Thanks for being a friend, a colleague and a mentor to all of us.

Jose Tiscareno

August 20, 2007

Even Though we worked for different newspaper John was always supportive, he would give me advise on some things.
Algunas veces coincidimos cubriendo noticias o eventos y siempre hablabamos de nuestro trabajo.
Asistìa al mismo gimnasio al que yo iba, y también alli platicabamos de lo que nos apasionaba de nuestro trabajo.
I met him when he first came to work for the Star, and we were friends ever since,
que descance en paz!

Adrian Zamarron

August 20, 2007

I met John at the Express-News. I was an 18-year-old cub reporter without a clue. He made me feel at home and took the time to calm me down give me some perspective. I never forgot that. I admired his quiet and welcoming demeanor and aspired to carry myself in such a way. I didn't know John well enough to get too personal, but I do know that he changed lives and made a mark and that his lessons will stay with people. And that's enough.

Shannon & Chris O'Neill

August 20, 2007

My husband and I had the privilege of getting to meet John and spend a little time with him. He made a genuine impression on both of us and he was nothing but kind to us in a trying time. We send our best wishes to his family and friends.

Stacy Lunsford

August 20, 2007

My deepest sympathies go out to John's family and everyone he touched.

John always had a way to turn everything into laughter. I'll miss his sometimes corny jokes, his enthusiasm, his careful crafting as a writer. I'll miss him so much.

Jon Garinn

August 20, 2007

John was a gentle, sometimes troubled soul. Yet he was always a faithful friend and a real blessing to those of us who were fortunate enough to know him and work with him. He will be missed.

Virginia Luz Gutierrez, Esq.

August 20, 2007

Our sincere gratitude to all of John's friends and colleagues for your kindness and support during this difficult time. Macarena, Martha, and Raymond-special thanks.

My nephew will be remembered for his wit, his charm and most of all for his lifetime of work to give a voice to those who are invisible in our society.

I already miss his incessant telephone calls during the day...calling for any reason or no reason but to say hello.
Best to all,

Monica Holguin

August 20, 2007

John you will truly be missed by all your friends our thoughts and prayers are with you in heaven and with your family here on earth. All the memories that I have of John of our college years make me smile.

God Bless,

Monica Duran Holguin

Ernie

August 20, 2007

Farewell to a friend, one of the sweetest, nicest people you'd ever hope to meet at your job. Your time on this earth was far too short. And those whose stories you told -- who otherwise would have been silenced by fear, bigotry and the like -- are in your debt. Adios, John. Hasta la próxima...

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