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Lyle Lightner Obituary

Lyle Henry Lightner, 61, formerly of Napoleon, died Nov. 30, 2012, at Eaton Community Palliative Care. Born Dec. 11, 1950, in Watervliet, Michigan, he was the son of Keith H. and Florence E. (Heim) Lightner. He was a member of the Grass Lake Class of 1969 and attended Wittenburg University in Ohio. He worked for Federal Screw in Chelsea, Pittsfield Products in Ann Arbor, as a plant manager at DC Products in Hanover, and as a driver for Taylor Postal Trucking. He also maintained a lawn care service. Lyle cultivated a love of farming throughout his life, including farming in Sylvan Township and collecting Farmall tractors. He also loved history and enjoyed piecing together his family's genealogy. Lyle was a loving father, beloved uncle, and good friend. He is survived by his son, Travis Lightner of Ann Arbor; a sister, Joyce (Paul) Easter of Vandercook Lake; two brothers, Dan (Georgia) of Jackson, James (Debra) of Springport; numerous nieces and nephews; and Mary Ruth (Horsefall), whom he married in 2005. He was preceded in death by his parents, and a sister, Mary. A Funeral Mass will be held Monday, Dec. 3, at 11:00 am, at St. Mary Parish in Chelsea, with Fr. David W. Harvey, Lyle's cousin, officiating. The family will receive friends an hour before the Mass. Burial will follow at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Chelsea. Memorial contributions may be made to Eaton Community Palliative Care. Arrangements by Cole Funeral Chapel, Chelsea.

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Published by Jackson Citizen Patriot on Dec. 2, 2012.

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Sandra Peterson Gayk

October 11, 2020

Dear Lyle was my first love. He always held a special place in my heart...obviously, since years later in 2020 I did a google search to see what happened to him and learned he had died. I read everyone's comments about Lyle. He was a good kind hearted person. We had so much in common, but it didn't work out due to our young ages. It makes me happy to know he had so many friends in life. I am sorry he died at such a young age. I will always treasure my memories of Lyle, especially our motorcycle days, the Jackson County fair, and mostly our times spent together after my afternoon work shift. My deepest sympathy, although late, to Lyle's family and good friends. Sandy Peterson Gayk

January 28, 2013

I worked with and got to know Lyle at Hanover. He was a good friend and a good man. I will miss him and pray for his family.
Karon Vanderhoof

George McAtee

December 12, 2012

Lyle was My Best Man and I was his. We traveled to California, then Florida years later. He was my friend and I loved him like a brother. We hunted, partied, got married, worked, & enjoyed lots of enthusiastic 'conversations'. Our points of veiw was sometimes 180 degrees apart, but passionate he was to make his point, and so was I, which made for some loud & lively moments.
My dear friend is gone but his memories are ever strong, and thats what I will take forward.

William Sherwood

December 7, 2012

Sorry to here of Lyle's passing. We shared may great conversations during our younger days.

John Burgett

December 7, 2012

So very sorry to hear...I will miss seeing and talking with Lyle at the Napoleon Auction. We are all so close but yet so far away...I wish I would have known so I could have paid my respects.

Rosetta Dingman-Myers

December 3, 2012

The Lightners were our neighbors in Leoni for years. I have found childhood memories of each of them. Lyle always had a gleam in his eye and a smile for everyone he met. Prayers go out to Dan, Joyce, and Jim. Sorry I can't be there for the mass.

Gary & Gloria Wyer

December 3, 2012

No matter where our paths would lead us, no matter how far the distance or how much time had past, when we would met each other again, Lyle would greet me with a big smile and a warm handshake. Lyle has been a friend to both side of my family (Caler & Wyer) since I can remember. Lyle will truly be missed.

Cathy Taylor

December 3, 2012

Dear Ruth: Our sympathies to you and the entire Lightner family. We remember Lyle in many special ways, but most of all for his compassion for his friends, familly and co-workers. We enjoyed many lengthy conversations with him. He made an impact on many lives and will be sadly missed.

Mark Taylor

December 3, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, he is truly a good friend and we shared many memorable moments! I will miss him, and may God Bless him!

Theresa O'Shea

December 2, 2012

So sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of our "Leoni" family.

Doug Moeckel

December 2, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss and send our sincerest condolences. The Moeckel's

Bill White

December 2, 2012

Rest in peace cousin.

Renee Gross

December 2, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the Lightner family. I enjoyed my morning talk with Lyle on the dock at the post office on the weekends Lyle will be missed by many.

Kathy Donaldson

December 2, 2012

So sorry to hear of lyle passing.I knew him from the post office. What a great guy he was and a great worker.Will miss him. My Deepest Sympathy to the family.

December 2, 2012

Travis, Our thoughts and prayers are with you.May your happy memories bring comfort to you. Aunt Gay and Uncle Bruce

Aunt Gladys

December 2, 2012

Travis, hold on to your memories, that will keep him near. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Patti Hood

December 2, 2012

Travis,
I am sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I know how proud he was of you and he loved you very much.

December 2, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with our nephew Travis and the Lightner family.
Aunt Carol and Godmother Gail

Ed & Sue Schweikert

December 2, 2012

So sorry to hear of Lyle's passing. He was a good neighbor and friend. Enjoyed his music and playing the theme from "Rawhide" loud enough so we could all enjoy it. We shared many good memories.

Art & Jo Savoy

December 2, 2012

We always considered Lyle a friend, enjoyed visiting with him and are sorry to learn of his passing. May happy memories bring you comfort.

John and Wendy southworth

December 2, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Lightner family.

Marilyn Holmes

December 2, 2012

I am sorry to hear of Lyle's passing. You are in my prayers & I have thought of you all often through the years-Maggie Stover Holmes

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