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Aileen Tobin Obituary

MILFORD - Dr. Aileen W. Tobin passed away peacefully at home in Baltimore on Mon., Aug. 26, 2013. Her husband, Tom was at her side. Aileen was born July 9, 1949 in Milford, Del. Aileen had a great ride. She was married to her best friend Tom for 42 years. She loved life, enjoyed travel, the art of Henri Matisse and spending time with her family her mother; and mother-in-law; her sister, Darlene; her nephews, Tony, Rob, Andy and Alex; her niece, Mei; her great nephew, Jake; her great niece, Rachel; and especially her great niece, Julie. Aileen had a passion for reading and learning. People remember her as a little girl who always had a book in her hand. This summer she traveled to Nice and Provence in the South of France. She loved the beach - from Rehoboth Beach to Kaanapali Beach in Maui, Aruba, Fort Lauderdale and many others. Aileen grew up in Ellendale and Milton. She attended elementary school in Ellendale and moved to Milton when she was in 7th grade. Aileen graduated from Milton High School in 1967 and was the Valedictorian of her class. Aileen had three degrees from the University of Delaware - a B.A., cum laud in English and American Studies (1971), an M. Ed in Reading Education (1975) and a Ph. D in Learning, Curriculum and Instruction (1981). Aileen was the Director of the Delaware Tutoring Center from 1971 to 1974. In addition to supervising the staff, she was proud of the fact that she taught so many people to read, including one man in his 50's that had never learned to read. From 1978 to 1982 Aileen was an Adjunct Assistant Professor and Instructor for the University of Delaware, College of Education and taught several undergraduate and graduate reading courses. Aileen was a Graduate Teaching Assistant in the College of Education, University of Delaware. She supervised advanced diagnostic and clinical practicums that were part of the M.Ed in reading curriculum.Aileen was a staff associate for Research for Better Schools, Philadelphia, Pa.; a research associate for the University of Delaware Center for Educational Leadership and a consultant for New Castle County Vocational Technical School District, Wilmington, Del. Public Schools and Capital School District in Dover, Del. Aileen was a Right to Read consultant for the Dorchester County School District, Dorchester County, Maryland. Aileen was a DuPont Fellow in the College of Education, University of Delaware and a Doctoral Intern at the State of Delaware Department of Public Instruction. Aileen authored chapters in three books on reading and reading research. Aileen was a semi-finalist for the Outstanding Dissertation Award by the American Educational Research Association. Aileen received the International Reading Association's Milton D. Jacobson Readability Research Award. Aileen had numerous articles published in professional journals. She made presentations at many technical and professional education and reading conferences.Aileen was a member of Kappa Delta Pi Honorary Society, American Educational Research Association, American Evaluation Association, International Reading Association, National Reading Conference, the U.S. Army Ordnance Corps Association, College Reading Association, Diamond State Reading Association and the National Council of Teachers of English.Aileen began her service at the U.S. Army Ordnance Center and School, Aberdeen Proving Grounds, MD in 1982. In April 1993, Aileen became the first woman to lead a major directorate at the Ordnance Center and School when she was promoted to Director of Quality Assurance. One of Aileen's more significant accomplishments was the Multicapable Maintainer initiative. This initiative entailed collapsing the skills, knowledge and abilities associated with hull and turret maintenance tasks associated with the M2 Bradley Fighting Vehicle and the M1 Abrams Main Battle Tank, into a systems maintainer for each platform. This initiative originally began in 1992 and became a reality as a direct result of Aileen's detailed management of the program. As the program manager, Aileen personally managed and coordinated all of the aspects associated with making systems maintainers a reality. As a direct result of her work on this program, the Army now maintains high readiness rates for the Abrams and Bradley platforms. Aileen retired in 2010, after 28 years of service with the U.S. Army Ordnance and School at Aberdeen Proving Grounds. At that time, she was the Deputy to the Commander, U.S. Army Ordnance Mechanical Maintenance School and the 61st Ordnance Brigade. Through her attention to detail and keen oversight, she led the brigade's effort to achieve the Training and Doctrine Command's (TRADOC) first ever "Institute of Excellence" rating during the 2009 TRADOC Accreditation inspection. Aileen was inducted into the U.S. Army Ordnance Corps Hall of Fame in 2012. Aileen was a graduate of Army Staff Management College. Aileen received the Ordnance Corps Association Order of Samuel Sharpe in 1994. Aileen received the Federal Executive Board Silver Award for Excellence in 1992.Aileen received numerous performance awards including a Department of the Army Superior Civilian Service Award in 1995 and 1998 and a Department of the Army Commander's Award for Civilian Service in 1994.Aileen set up and directed the U.S Army Ordnance Center Emergency Operations Center, which would serve as the nerve center for the U.S Army Ordnance Corps following the events of Sept. 11, 2001. The Ordnance Center was responsible for 113,000 personnel engaged in performing mechanical and electronic maintenance, ammunition and munitions management and explosive ordnance disposal throughout the world. The Center managed secret and top secret communications and was manned 24/7.Aileen was cited in Who's Who in the World, Who's Who in America and Who's Who of American Women. Aileen was proud to be an organ donor and would encourage others to "Donate Life". Aileen was preceded in death by her father, Wilson Webster Webb in 1951; her grandmother, Sally C. Webb in 1983; her sister, Geraldine Webb Palladino in 1993; her mother, Dorothy Benson Rust in 2003; Dorothy's husband, Carl Rust in 2000; her brother-in-law Eddie Scotton in 2001; her mother-in-law Zelda "Peg" Tobin in2009; and two baby brothers in 1946 and 1947. In addition to her husband, Aileen is survived by her sister, Darlene Rust of Milton, Del.; four nephews, Tony Palladino, Rob Palladino, Andy Scotton, Alex Scotton; her niece, Mei Tobin; her great nephew, Jake Palladino; and two great nieces, Rachel Palladino and Julie Geraldine Palladino. Celebration of Aileen's Life will be held on Sat., Sept. 21, 2013 at Short Funeral Services, 416 Federal St., Milton, DE. Visitation begins at noon, the celebration starts at 2 p.m. An Ordnance Corps Association Scholarship has been established in Aileen's name. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Aileen may be sent to: Dr. Aileen W. Tobin Ordnance Corps Association Scholarship, U.S. Army Ordnance Corps Association, P.O. BOX 377 Aberdeen Proving Grounds, MD 21005.

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Published by Delaware State News on Sep. 18, 2013.

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September 20, 2013

Dear Tom,

I am so sorry that you have lost your life partner and so prematurely. I was impressed with her obituary listing all her accomplishments and know you must be so proud of her. I was not aware of all she had done. I wish you peace, healing, and the support of friends and family.

Sincerely,
Sturges Dodge

September 19, 2013

Dear Tom and family our deepest sympathy to all of you, Aileen was such a wonderful person.We really enjoyed living next to you so many years ago here in Plum Run.May God provide you with comfort during your time of sadness and grief. Bryon,Mary,Lauren and Amanda McGowan.

Mary Ann McElfresh

September 19, 2013

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Aileen was truly one of a kind; she made everyone feel special and appreciated. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Kimberly Bonville

September 16, 2013

May God Bless you and your family during this time I worked for Dr. Tobin while she was assigned to the Ordnance Center and Schools. It was a real shock to me she will be missed.

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