Brian McElroy Obituary

Hello,
We wanted to let your family and friends know that we are sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Brian McElroy US Air Force Staff Sergeant.

We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Not a day goes by when I don't remember my friend Brian. I was with him in Saudi Arabia in 2000 when he bought the diamond for his wife's ring. There has been a whole in my heart since 2006 when he was taken away from the ones he loved and loved him, which was everyone! I pray someday I'll see that crooked smile on the other side and we will jam to "Fly like a bird" with our own lyrics again! I miss ya bro...

To Brian's Family, We share fond memories of Brian on this Memorial Day. He was a tremendous person, and Defender. Our thoughts and prayers are sent to you this day.

I retired a week ago, since we all landed at AJ on thanks giving, one of our mission that I fixed your truck, road was so rough that parts was just falling off desert road, everything is just shaking, I lost my front spot mirror, I was just looking at pictures from BC3 and AJ. I always remember and always will carry 70th patch wherever I go.

My prayers are with you brother. It's not a day goes by, I do not think about that dreaded night. Rest In Heaven.

I don't know what to say still. I am sorry for the loss of such a great friend. Always in my thoughts and heart.

While searching through the pages on Defender Challenge 2018, I opened the commemorative page. I saw a person I knew. It was McElroy. I served with him during Spring 2001, 320th SFS at Eskan Village, Saudi Arabia. Brian was a blessing to our squadron. We all went through it together and because of him we would occasionally get to laugh or smile. He was a wonderful person and I send my deepest condolences to all his friends and family. He is sorely missed and will never be forgotten.

Brian and I worked at HEB when we were in high school. Though that was many, many years ago, and we didn't stay in touch past working at HEB, I just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to Brian's family. He was a pleasure to work with, and was truly a kindhearted person. May Jesus continue to comfort your entire family. Thank you, Brian, for your sacrifice!

I miss you dad and thank you for all you have done for me...I love you so much and I could never thank you enough for what you did for me

Hey Brian,

Not sure why I happened by today but wanted you to know that I think of you often and that you will never ever be forgotten. I think of your family too especially your young daughter that never got the chance to know what a great man her Father was. I'm su4re she has learned through stories and am certain that she is as proud of you as we all are.

R.I.P

Hey man, just stopping by saying we all miss you and thank you for your service. It was great knowing for the time we had in basic training and in the SF training academy then a little get together in Colorado. I still have our basic training shirt with our name and the rest of the group's name on it. God Bless to your family. Til next time we meet. MV

It was my honor to serve with you Mac. you will never be forgoten

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Brian McElroy:
It has truly been my honor to sign Brian's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Brian will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

Seven years, doesnt seem possible. Praying for you Brian, God bless you and your beautiful family.

Another Memorial Day and another message... you Brian are a true American Hero. RIP ... Never forgotten.

I'm TSgt Luis Ramos from the Puerto Rico Air National, I did not have any idea who was SSgt Mc Elroy, until I received an award with his name on it while attending Regional Training at Ft.Dix, N.J. Is my honor to present my sympathy to the family and friends of a hero. God bless you all....

January 22, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Brian McElroy:
Always remembering Brian. "Some gave all."

Never Forgotten... RIP Brian

To the family and friends of Sgt McElroy, while attending Regional Training in Germany, I was awarded the "SSgt Brian McElroy Award" for "Most Outstanding NCO". This award is in honor of Brian and is a standard at all Regional Training Centers across the Air Force thus allowing his legacy to continue. Sgt Graham, Little Rock AFB, Arkansas.

To all who have given their all..you are heros/brothers/sisters...I salute you, and to those still standing between terrorists and my daughters and granddaughters thankyou...Richard J Stockton 377thSPS Rep.of Viet-Nam 1971-1972, I salute you all

Its 13 years since basic training now. It feels like yesterday making plans to meet up at the Mc Donald's on Peterson AFB after graduation. Brian was a great friend and one of the funniest guys I've ever met. I think about you everyday bro. As memorial day approaches once again I'll say a prayer and tell a friend a story about you. I'm honored to have had you as a friend and will never forget you.

As I craft remarks I will deliver this Memorial Day, I am once again drawn to the memory of Brian and Jason...we are not just beneficiaries of their bravery, we are the stewards of their sacrifice...

Defensor Fortis forever

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Brian McElroy:
Please accept my remembrance of Brian on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

A message I received and wanted to share:

"Dear Gold Star Families,

As we commemorate yet another Memorial Day, let us recall the wonderful men & women who have gone before & have fought for our rights & freedoms. Memorial Day is a day for most Americans to BBQ, play, & have a day off from the job. We as Gold Star Families know all too well what this day truly means for us Americans. "Decoration Day"..."Memorial Day"; a day to honor those who have sacrificed & have given their all. "Our Heroes" are remembered every day within the hearts of those close & dear. On Memorial Day, the nation recalls their valor, bravery, & dedication. "Our Heroes" are not forgotten.

Thank you for Aaron, Aaron, Kyle, Jacob, Jonathan, Robbie, Jose, Luke, Marquis, Brian, Scotty, Clint, Roger, Stephen, Nick, Travis, & Paul. Sadly, the list is longer. They are all remembered within my heart & prayers. You are remembered for raising upstanding Patriots...Sons of Liberty.

May God grant you peace within your hearts. May you find comfort in their loving memories. May you always recall them with a smile.

Hugs to you all,".....
** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** **

Thinking of you today Brian, thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. Happy Memorial Day to a true Hero. God Bless, RIP.

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Brian McElroy:
Remembering Brian on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Fallen Security Police/Forces shall always remain in our hearts and prayers. Heros that have paid in full the price for our freedom.

Jerry W Armstrong, MSgt, USAF (Ret)

I haven't signed the guestbook since returning from our deployment in 05-06. Not a day goes by that I don't reflect on the memories of Brian and Jason and the lessons I learned from them both. Every football game I watch, every HUMVEE I see, every time I hear Taps, and even the silly Burger King kid that Brian imitated so well. My life will never be the same and I can only sypathize with the loss Amber and family have suffered. Your memory lives on. Best wishes to all of your family.

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Brian, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Brian,
Thinking and praying for you on the 3rd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.

To the family of Staff Sgt. Brian McElroy:
Brian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Father we entrust our brother Brian to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Brian in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.

Merry Christmas brothers, stopped by to say hello to you both at Arlington, you will never be forgotten. God Bless you both. I take presents up every year to the wounded at Walter Reed to help out our service memebers and then we always pay a visit to you guys, you will be missed. Hoooorahhhhhh!!!!!!!

At 1135 hours on Veteran's Day, flowers were placed at the grave site by two former Security Forces members to honor the memory of our fallen brothers in arms.

My Dearest Brian:

I love and miss you so much. Time and distance will never change that. I will always love and miss you so much, every day, and will until the day that I die. You were not only my "baby" but you are the only one who understood everything. Sometimes, I miss you so much that I can't breath. I love you Bri....always..

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt McElroy!

IT HAS TAKEN ME A LONG TIME TO SAY HELLO BRIAN. AND I AM SORRY FOR THAT. WE HAD SOME OF THE CRAZIEST TIME TOGETHER. AND I WILL MIS YOU EVERYDAY BROTHER.

YOUR BROTHER
WARREN(norm) NORMAN
721ST SFS

Mac,
I just wrote an email to my son-in-law who is in Iraq now. So thought I should catch up with. Paul sure misses you out on the course. He got his first hole in one this year. I'll never forget the jokes you, Kupe, Gore and the gang at the 50th use to play on me. The smoke breaks either. May you rest knowing we still think of you often with tear filled eyes and know one day we will see you again.

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt McElroy and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Brian,

I have been meaning to write again for some time. I had the pleasure and priviledge of being at Arlington and visiting you in early April. I know that you saw me from above. I felt your presense as I visited you. I was also fortunate enough to have seen Amber on Super Bowl Sunday, and I felt you there too. As I am sure you already know, she is such a strong woman and she looks and seems to be doing great. I miss you brother and you are always in my heart and prayers

your Friend,

Cody

Colorado Springs, CO.

As an Airman currently serving in Baghdad, all of our losses sadden me, but none so much as fellow Air Force members. You are a true hero, thank you for your sacrifice.

Mrs. McElroy,
I just want you and your family to know that I a thinking of you all and know that 'if you cast your cares upon Jesus" that He will comfort you in your times of despair. I was Brian's Command Sergeant Major on the Army Side and will always remember them as well as you and your family. May God Bless and Keep you all.

I am Deeply Saddened to learn of the loss of Staff Sgt. Brian McElroy, one year ago today.
The price this Fine Young Hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Brian rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Peace of the Lord be with the McElroy family.
There will never be enough ways to humbly thank these heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.

"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~

May the Peace of God and your memories of Brian, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days.
You are in my thoughts and prayers and I am deeply sorry for your loss.

I was Brian's first Flight Chief and have just found out about this tragic loss. Brian was one of the best troops I ever had the pleasure of being associated with and will miss him. My sympathy to his family, the world became less the day Brian left it.

McElroy Family,

Our deepest sympathy on your loss. Know that Brian will be in our families prayers. May the Lord also bring you peace in your hour of need. God Bless You.

WE WILL NEVER FORGET

V/r

MSgt Antonio M. Rita, ADAF
421st GCRS CADRE Alumni

I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. My husband is currently serving his second tour in Iraq and I could not imagine my life without him. May god bless your family. My condolensces are with you. I recently seperated from the air force, and know that it is truly a family. I pray for all currently serving, and thank those who have served or may have lost their lives for our country. May god bless!
Jennifer Christman
Ellsworth AFB
South Dakota

hay im sarry 4 ur lost i kno u dont kno me but just passing by 2 tell u that i hope u get better

Dear Aymber,
It has been a joy getting to know you, although I wish it was under other circumstances. May God hold you this Christmas season! Much love to you,
Mary-Anne Rubado
Proud Wife of 2LT Charles Rubado
KIA 29 August 2005

To the McElroy family: Brian's (Jason's) headstone has been placed. I took some pictures today. Each time I am at ANC I always visit/honor Brian and Jason. Today I lit some incense and sat there and told each how much I honor them for their service. From the most inner part of my heart I am so sorry Brian was taken from you. Brian you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.

I too have previously signed this guest book but As I sit here tonight I can't help but think about Brian. Brian comes up in alot of my conversations at work. What a great friend he was to me and alot of my friends. I wish he was still here. Brian and I would always go at each other about the Braves and the Mets and All I could think about this year is that I know Brian had something to do with the Mets finally winning the division over my Braves. I also know He had something to do with me finally winning a Base Softball Championship. I have tried not to show my emotions but as I got to see Aymber, Cally, Ian, Vicky and Simon 2 weeks ago. I couldn't help but get emotional. I know Brian is smiling down on us as He is watching Aymber be as strong as any person I have ever seen. Cally looks just like Brian and it breaks my Heart when I think about Cally being away from Her Daddy. Ian, Simon, and Vicky are the greatest people I have ever met. They have done alot in Brian's memory. They have traveled all over and you can tell they are exhausted but every time you talk to them they have a smile on their face. I am so privileged to have Brian, Aymber, Cally, Ian, Vicky, and Simon has a part of My wife and our children's lives. Aymber gives me so much strength and to hear her the other night on ABC it just broke my heart. I too have visited Arlington a few times to visit and pay my respects to Brian and Jason. Aymber it was great to see you and your family and spend a little bit of time with you guys. I will see you guys soon. Brian, I miss you very much my brother and I think about you every day. You would be proud of your wife, daughter and your in-laws. Losing you will take a long time to heal but I know you always look down and take care of everyone because that is the kind of person you are. My wife, Payton and I love you and miss you.

To the McElroy family. I previously signed Brian's guest book. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there two or three times a week. Each time I am at ANC I always stop by and visit/honor Brian. From the most inner part of my heart I am so sorry Brian was taken from you. Brian you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.

My previous entry was a bit rushed, and interrupted by confused thought at the rush of sudden emotions, so after deep thought, I had to post some additional thoughts. When I arrived for training in October 05, I was placed in Bravo Flight, while McElroy and Norton were already in Alpha. Because of the training format, our Flights were made to be highly competitive as a method to make all of us push ourselves to be the best. The training style worked, and the rivalry continued even in country (who took the most missions, who pushed farther, faster longer…) We didn’t co-mingle much and many of us only had cursory words for each other when we stopped at the bases. There was always friendly banter on the radio when our convoys passed on the Iraqi roads. It was great to here the call-signs of teammates, regardless of the flight. Many times I would here the one sided conversations of our guys (and girls) as they interacted with air support and always hoped for their safe return. I felt their frustration when they were in difficult situations, and dreaded hearing that they were in danger. We were all 70th.

On my fourth mission, my crew and I headed North with a large group of vehicles and made it to about one third of the way to our destination. A vehicle breakdown brought to light problems that required new vehicles to be brought to us. My team was stuck at Scania for 3 days until a convoy commanded by TSgt Norton arrived with the trucks we needed. There was still the better part of a day before my convoy could head out, so I went to get some chow. There were few seats, and fewer friendly faces (Air Force are still an outcast group in a room full of Army). I saw Norton and McElroy at a table and decided to join them. It was the first time we had exchanged words other than the cursory greeting or exchange of info. We began the banter and tossed back and forth advice and intel on the roads, as well as well wishes. Jason did the bulk of the talking, and Brian sat by somewhat quiet. He did throw in his thoughts, and the three of us were in great spirits (especially considering the surroundings.) That night when we left, Brian and Jason were nearby as we both awaited our turn to depart. When we left we exchanged our parting “Good Luck”s , and “Keep your head down!”. I felt that I had made to very good friends, and could not wait for a chance to talk to them again… it never happened.

A few days later, while setting at a base near Faluja, my Army attachment informed me that we had just lost two Air Force personnel (they got a message form members of their unit attached to Brian and Jason’s convoy, and had helped with the medevac). I had them find out if the people had been 70th or 424th. Word came back that it was 70th, but they could not give names. I contacted my HQ to find out if they had heard, and they hadn’t found out yet. It was three day before we got the names. Three days of wondering who… When I got the news, I was crushed…I hated that I had not known them better, and now I would never have the chance.

I still see them everyday sitting at that table at Scania smiling…I barely knew them yet miss them with all my heart.

Thank you, Shamrock and K9…

As a member of Brian and Jason’s detachment, I was hit hard by their death. I saw them both just days before, as they were bring additional vehicles to me at Camp Scania so that I could continue my mission. I think about them every day, and wish I knew them better. God Bless Them.

Mrs. McElroy,
I saw tonight on ABC that you dedicated your run in the Marine Corp Marathon today to your husband, to telling everyone how incredible he was and how incredible all his fellow soldiers are. You accomplished that. I hope you take pride and some measure of comfort in this, and thank you for sharing his memory. How lucky you are to have known him.
Don

Mrs. McElroy, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and know that God will be with you and your family. Congratulations on your run. I saw you on 60 Minutes tonight. I'm sure Brian was with you all the way.

Mrs. McElroy, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and know that God will be with you and your family.

May the God of Grace and Comfort continue to strengthen the hearts of the McElroy family and the Scorpions who served with him.
Chappy

My condolences to the McElroy family, we share your great loss. Our prayers are with you. Staff Sgt. McElroy thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice.

Rest easy, sleep well.
Others have taken up where you fell, the line has held
Peace, peace, and farewell..."

Jack Colnot and Family
(Sgt. Kyle A. Colnot, KIA 22 April 2006, Iraq)
email [email protected]
San Antonio, Texas

My heart goes out to Brian's family -- I did not know Brian McElroy, but I read a lot about him when he died in January of this year near Taji.... I served in Vietnam with the Air Force Security Police and his death shall not be forgotten by me and many other former Air Force personnel who never had the pleasure to meet him. As time goes on, may the pleasant memories of his life warm the lives of his loved ones.

Well as I look back and begin to reflect on the past year I think about you. What a great friend you were and your memory will live with me forever. Veterens day is coming up and you will be there with me as I look back on the last year. I pray for your family everyday that they will continue to stay strong. You touched my life and as I type this I can't help but get emotional.......

Brian, well its a little over a year now that we departed for the unkown of the mission that lay ahead. I knew very little about you before we left but by the time we had finished BC3 and hit boots on the ground in AJ, I was confident you were of solid character and would do what it took to get the mission done. Not a day goes by that I do think of you and Jason several times over. I will never forget our last encounter just a day before you were leaving for your fateful mission. You were ecstatic about the opportunity to finally drive for Jason. That is how I will always remember you and it always puts me at ease to know you two were together on that fateful night. You left all of us Scorpions with a little part of you and your humor was greatly missed and often discussed with fondness.

I had the privilege to work and get to know Brian at Schriever AFB when I was there from 2000 - 2004. I think I speak for the majority, if not everyone who has signed this book and those who have not yet signed; that even after 8 months the thoughts and prayers and still there. My heartfelt condolences to all the family and friends! Trust me, you are not forgotten Brian!

I noticed not many Scorpions (70th MTD, unit Brian and Jason served with in Iraq) have signed the guest book. I was Brian's Chief Enlisted Manager and I'm proud to have served and worked along the side of him. I do have to share one quick story. A few convoys prior to the tragic accident I had the privilege to ride in the convoy with Brian. We were in Kuwait and he and I were trying to tie down an M-1 Abrams tank. I looked over at him and asked him, how many times do you think a Chief and Cop have tied down an M-1 tank to a forty footer? He looked at me with his big grin and said, probably never :) Brian and Jason are truly American Heroes in my mind. Not a day goes by I don't think of them. They truly were great Men, great Fathers, great Husbands and great Friends. God Bless, and if any of you need anything, don't hesitate.

Brian, not a whole lot of posting for you lately. But the fellas up here just finished the softball season and you and Jason were with us every game. Some were better than others, but for the most part we had fun just like you would of hope we had. Miss Ya

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR THE LITTLE ONE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI



MARINE MOM

Brian,

What can I say to you that I know you already new. You weren't just my brother-in-law you were a little brother to me. I remember when I first met you. You were 17. Wow! I will never forget when you lived with James and I. I am so glad we had that time with you. You were an awesome brother and uncle. I see so much of you in Kaley. I know you will live on through her. I can't begin to thank you for all the times you checked on me when James was deployed. You had the biggest heart and you loved with your whole heart. I have so many wonderful memories that I will share with Kaley. Remember when we tipped the canoe. I miss your laugh your joking around with James. I know he will never be the same none of us will. Melissa is right you have left an emty whole in our hearts, but when I am sad I will remember all the great times we shared. You made the ultimate sacrafice for our country. It isn't fair that you had to go so soon. Just do me a favor and pick us out a nice room up high in the clouds so we can joke and laugh again. I promise to check on Aymber and Kaley because I know you would do the same. I love you always. God rest your beautiful soul.

Stephanie

Melissa and Family,

I want you to know that you are all in my prayers.

My Dearest Little Brother,

You have been gone for 2 months now.There is not a day that goes by without me thinking of you. Every mission i go on, i take your picture with me. You are my protector and guardian. One day i will see you again little bro.



SGT FRANCO, US ARMY

CAMP DUKE, IRAQ

Brian, my world collapsed the night I received the devastating news you were gone. My brother whom I love dearly is gone, this just doesn't seem real to me. I feel as if I am in a bad dream and can't wake up. My heart has an empty and lonely feeling now. How can this be? Why were you taking away from us all at such a young age? It was not suppose to be this way. I know you sacrificed everything you held dear for your country and for liberty, but it was such a big and selflessness price to pay. My brother, my hero!



Who is going to give me those big bear hugs, you know the ones when you squeezed with all you might. Who is going to say, "Hey, big sis, love ya"...no one. Those are now forever etched in my heart. Brian, my warm memories of you will be with me all the days of my life, and I will cherish every one of them. No one can ever take them from me because they live within me. I hope you can feel all the love that I have for you. Brian, I have decided with all of the love and compassion that you have given me, is to live life the best way I can, because someday I will join you and I want you to be proud of me. So, if I do good things with my life, if I laugh or if I smile, don't ever think that I have forgotten or have stopped missing you. There won't be a day that goes by that a smile or a tear won't come across my face just thinking of all the times we shared together. Thank You Brian for loving me for me!!! I love and miss you terribly!





Love Always Your Big Sis,

~Melissa~

I worked with Mac while stationed at Schriever. He struct me as a professional with great integrity but more so I was impressed with him as a good human being. He will be missed.

Dear Sharon, Jim, Melissa and James - Bruce, Nita, Matt and I were saddened to hear of your loss. We are so sorry you had to give Brian up so soon. Although we didn't know him as an adult, it sounds like he was a wonderful person who was loved by a lot of people. We will be thinking of you, and will keep you in our prayers. With love from - the Cates

Dear Mrs McElroy,

I was there that night on that convoy. I was the vehicle behind Brian and Jason. I am also Security Forces at Elmendorf. I was deployed last year in Korea with Brian as well. Me being an Oklahoma fan and him being a Texas fan Brian always gave me lots of grief, but I enjoyed every moment of it. Brian is one of the most awesome guys Id ever met. Mrs McElroy, when it happened and we sat there, all afraid for our lives and terrified if Brian and Jason were going to make it...I thought of you. I thought of you and your daughter. Amber I say this with all my heart that Brian was and still is the heart and soul of our team. He made us "click". Mrs McElroy, just know that Brian was a true friend and loved by everyone he came in contact with. He is and will always be dearly missed. Im an Oklahoma guy but if I can say one thing to him I would say "Hook em"...I know that would bring a giant smile to his face. If you and your daughter ever need anything from the Hollingsworth family, please do not hesitate to ask. Thank you, SSgt DaRon Hollingsworth

Dear Amber,

We are praying for this time to be one of great memories and God's healing touch. We are very sorry for your loss.

I am good friends with your sister-in-law Stephanie's twin - Suzanne and other sister Natalee. My husband was in the military 15 year's ago and our boys (14 & 11) are always concerned when a US military man has lost his life.

We will continue to pray for you and your daughter and happiness to enter and surround your life.

We thank and praise Brian!

The Chatmans

It was my HONOR and PRIVILEGE to be a part of Honoring a HERO.

RIP, Brian. My sincerest condolences to Aymber and children.

Brian and I had alot of good memories together. I became good friends with him a short while after He arrived at Elmendorf. We worked together, we played softball together, we laughed together, we did alot of things. On 22 January my life came to an abrupt hault, I lost a coworker, a golfing partner, a fellow softball player and most of all a very good friend. Brian is not only a hero, he is my Role Model. He lived a wonderful life. He has left behind a great Family. He was a family man first. We had alot of long talks over the summer and He thought there was nothing like His wife Amber and His daughter. He though the world of them. He put his family and friends before himself. Over the summer when my wife was deployed for quite a few months and It was just me and my 7 month old son, Brian helped me out alot. He helped take care of my son at the softball games and He would often offer to pick up my son from daycare. I have alot of very fond memories of Brian that I could write 100 pages about. Amber I know we will continue to be friends but if you ever need amything no matter where I am at, I will do it for you. My wife and I think the world of you and Kyleigh. Brian, one day you and I will meet again and we will talk about the good ol days and play softball together one more time. Folks if you look up the definition of Role Model in the dictionary it should have a picture of Brian McElroy. I miss you and I will always love you like a brother.

I do not personally know SSgt McElroy, but I am also a member of Security Forces (currently deployed to Afghanistan). You gave the ultimate sacrifice while DEFENDING the legacy of the Blue Beret and badge. As you pass through the Main Gate of Heaven, look down upon those of us that are still in harms way, continuing the mission you intended to finish. You are now our "Guardian Angel" HUAH! May peace come to your family in their time of bereavement.



Sincerely,



TSgt Charlie Jefferson

755 ESFS/Deployed

30 SFS/Vandenberg AFB, CA

My heart goes out to his family and friends. Sgt McElroy is a Hero, thank you for serving your country.

My heartfelt sympathy to the McElroy family in the loss of Brian. I did not know Brian, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

I had the privilege to work with Brian for 4 years at Schriever AFB. Besides working together we golfed many times and he was my designated smoking buddy. I will miss him greatly. To Ambyer and Kaley, I am very sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.

I did not know SSgt McElroy or his family. However, he will always be in the brotherhood of Security Policeman. I am certain the brotherhood will miss him and send their condolences to his family. May God bless them and keep them in their time of sorrow.

We all appreciate the Airmen who gave it all for the rest of us. Condolences to the family and fellow SFS members.

I had the privilege of working with Brian at Schriever AFB, CO. He was an outstanding Security Forces NCO. His dedication, service before self, and dedication were some qualities he had; always there when you needed him the most. My sincere condolences to his family. God bless!

I had the pleasure of serving with SSgt McElroy in South Korea two consecutive times, once in Kwang Ju AB for nearly 5 months of deployment and 1 month at Osan AB for commando warrior. In Kwang Ju he was my flight chief, roomate and one of the best role models i have ever known. I learned a great deal from this man and enjoyed a lot of great times with him. We went to commando warrior toghether right after getting back from deployment and there he was our squad leader, i wouldn't of asked more of him there he made the training so much more bearable for us through the moral he brings. This was very hard for us to bear, loosing someone so close to us: a great mentor, leader and a dear friend. You will be missed, and never forgotten.

As a Navy veteran and an American, I am eternally grateful to Stg. Brian McElroy for his service to our country.

Jim and Sharon, and all of their family, gave mightily to keep our country strong and free. Brian left us all a legacy of liberty that we must preserve, for him and for all the fallen heroes. Godspeed, Brian.



Rich Burns

Captain, US Navy (Ret)

I didn't know Brian; but I work with his dad. I am sorry to hear of Brian's passing. When I think about the tremendous sacrifice that he has made to keep our country and world safe, I am saddened that I did not get a chance to meet this brave and honorable man. On behalf of my family, Brian, thank you.

To Brian's family and friends --

I wish you peace.

I never met SSgt McElroy, but from what I've read he sounds like a great sergeant. Our prayers, (my wife, child, and mine) are with you. Never forget.

I had the honor of serving with Brian at Elmendorf, TDY to Kwang Ju, and in Iraq. He was a great guy who always worked hard yet made everyone laugh at the times we needed it most. The void left by Brian will never be replaced. My sincere condolances to his family. I just wanted to share with you that our convoy team has painted a Shamrock for Brian and a K9 print for Jason on the sides of our vehicles to remember them both on each mission. I know they will be looking out for us. God bless!