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Mary Theresa Duda Berry

Mary Berry Obituary

WATERVILLE -- Mary Theresa Duda Berry, 97, passed away peacefully in her sleep early Wednesday morning, March 4, 2009, at the MaineGeneral Medical Center, Thayer Unit in Waterville. Her last illness was mercifully brief, lasting only a few days and all of the days before that were spent happily among friends and family. At the time she was a resident of Sunset Home in Waterville.

Mrs. Berry, the widow of Richard Berry, was born Mary Duda in Fulton, N.Y., on Dec. 6, 1911. She was the daughter of Victoria and John Duda who had immigrated to the United States from Krakow, Poland. Consequently, she had the opportunity to experience different cultures and ways of living. She had five brothers and sisters, all now deceased.

After meeting and marrying her husband, they and their only daughter, Dianne, moved to Fairfield, where Mary spent the rest of life happily surrounded by many, many friends who adored her and her sparkling personality. Mary often reached out to help others. She particularly enjoyed preparing little baskets for Christmas gifts that she would give to all of her friends. And if she had any extra food she would be certain to share it with neighbors. She always had a ready smile and a happy expression and, perhaps, a joke or two. In fact, she was featured in a profile in Down East magazine and served as a character in at least one novel.

After working in the old Emery Brown's as a seamstress, she started her own alteration business. At one time she had hundreds of devoted clients, all of whom appreciated her expertise with the needle. She also enjoyed designing and sewing doll dresses for her dear great-granddaughters.

However, some of her happiest memories, which she loved to recount, were the summer visits of her two beloved grandchildren, Mitchell and Anne Catharine. For many a summer the two would spend months in Fairfield, enjoying home cooking, going to camp and generally playing in the great open spaces.

She is survived by her daughter, Dianne; her grandson, Mitchell; her granddaughter, Anne Catherine and her husband, Anthony; and five wonderful great-grandchildren, Richard, Emma, Alice, Leo, and Kieran, all of whom have always adored her. She is also survived by hundreds of friends, too numerous to name but always remembered by the family. Thank you.

Visiting and remembering hours will be 4-7 p.m. Sunday, March 8, at Lawry Brothers Funeral Home, 107 Main St., Fairfield. A Mass of Christian burial will take place at 11 a.m. Monday, March 9, at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church on High Street in Fairfield. It will be followed by a small meal. While some flowers will be welcome please make contributions to the American Heart Association, 20 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701, in Mary's name.

Condolences may be expressed at www.lawrybroth ers.com

Arrangements are by Lawry Brothers Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 107 Main St., Fairfield; (800) 660-2111.

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Published by Morning Sentinel on Mar. 5, 2009.

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Andrei Strukov

February 27, 2021

Mary was the "soul of the neighborhood". All the neighbors in the street would keep a spare key to their house with Mary - just in case: if your kid looses their key at school and nobody is home to open the door, or if you are going on vacation and there would be an urgent need for someone to enter your house. Mary was unequivocally trusted and loved by all of us. Her sense of humor was sparkling and amazing, her love of life and people around her was contagious. We still miss Mary - and remember her with joy and smile.

Martha and Mark (Field) McCarty

March 14, 2009

Living next door to Dick and Mary Berry was like having my grandparents next door. I remember leaving May baskets, playing hide and seek in their yard, Mary helping me make my wedding gown and being part of my girls life. Maine will not be the same without her. Love and fanstatic memories of a one of a kind woman to her family: Diane, Mitch and Annie and theirs.

Debra Spark

March 6, 2009

My husband, Garry, and I were tenants of Mary's in 1996 and then her neighbors for two years. She was a dear, dear friend to us, and we always enjoyed visiting her in her kitchen and exchanging small gifts. We'll miss her wonderful spirit and pixie-ish sense of humor. She's certainly someone to emulate. A very special person.

Monica Wood

March 6, 2009

It is hard to imagine a world without Mary in it. 97 years was not enough to contain her huge and vibrant spirit, which is why her memory will live so long in those of us who adored her so.

Raffael, Lori, Anselm, Adelia, Sophia, Emily Scheck

March 5, 2009

We enjoyed Mary as a spirited and friendly neighbor. She used to call us asking the children to come over and get some treats. The children had a particular affection for her. We will all miss her. Our sincere condolences to her family.

Shelley Joseph

March 5, 2009

To Mary's Family,
Mrs. Berry was a great lady. As a child I spent many hours with her neighbors the Fields. She was forever sending treats over to us. Mrs. Berry also created many outfits for me and my 3 sisters. I remember her taking our measurements over and over as the years went by. She inspired me to learn to sew. She will be missed. My condolences.

Andrei, Natasha, Anya Strukov

March 5, 2009

We always adored Mary's energy, wit, optimism and a wonderful sense of humor. She has turned from a great neighbor to a close friend over the years. We will always cherish bright memories about Mary.

Our sincere condolences to Dianne and family.

Sincerely,

Edna & Stephen Hale

March 5, 2009

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Linda Johnson

March 5, 2009

We are sorry to hear of Mary's passing. I was just thinking of her recently, remembering how she was always there with her trusty needle and thread to get us out of whatever fashion dilemma we were in. She was really good at what she did and always did it with a smile. We are thankful to have known her.
Sincerely,
Linda & Dennis Johnson

PAT TULLEY- NADEAU

March 5, 2009

MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO THE BERRY FAMILY. DIANNE YOU HAVE BEEN IN MY THOUGHTS FOR MANY YEARS. AGAIN MY CONDOLENCES.

Ronald Brousseau

March 5, 2009

Dear Mary & Family, Our heart & prayers goes out to you for your great loss.
I often stopped & chatted with your mom throughout the years when she was outside working, or seeing her in town.
I'll always value our school day fellowship. In Christ,Ron Brousseau

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