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Rodger Ogren
February 7, 2025
Whether in Carmel, San Diego, Firebaugh, Miss Landing, Monterey or Del Rey Oaks CT´s shadow will be missed ;(
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2024
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2024
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2024
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2024
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2024
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2024
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2024
My Darling CT- 20 years ago today, our world shattered into a million pieces. You went to sleep on this plane and woke up on the other side, no longer a part of our physical senses. We had to start over and rebuild our lives without you.
In your short 29 years here with us, you made a huge impact on so many lives.
Your nephew Dominic reminds me of you in so many ways. What a blessing!
I find comfort in knowing I still carry your cells in my body and breath the same air you did.
Your father and I are the bridge to every memory we have of you. A bridge that gets stronger as it gets longer with each year that passes without you.
Our love and loving memories expand beyond our profound sense of loss. You live on in your brother, nieces and nephew.
Love,
Mom and Dad
Sara Lawrence
February 8, 2024
What a lovely young man. He was everything I have always wished for my boys. A son is a true treasure, whether here or on another plane.
Rodger Ogren
February 7, 2024
Rodger Ogren
February 7, 2024
Rodger Ogren
February 7, 2024
Baby CT and young TC ;)
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2021
4/28/1975-2/9/2004- Christopher Thomas Brrewster-Cusimano - "C.T."- "Grief is not a date on the calendar. Grief is the calendar". You and I still share the same breath. Your cells are my cell memories. These are the miracle life force of our eternal love. The shadow memories come to light without warning. Some make me smile. Some make tears gather around them. Others make me laugh and those raise these past 17 years without you to a higher ground. Your wisdom, intellect and generous heart are still a fountain of comfort to me. The profound and sacred love of a mother for her child has the miracle of everlasting life. Your memory always a Blessing my Beloved first born son.
Rodger Ogren
February 7, 2021
I just a mountain bike and CT wanted to ride it on the runway when he lived in Carmel Valley; he crashed, tearing the new seat. He was okay and every time I swung my leg over that same seat, I remembered his sweet face.
Rodger Ogren
February 7, 2020
Wouldve been in his mid thirties but Ill always treasure his solo visit to me in Hawaii ;)
Iris Brewster
May 29, 2016
May 29, 2016 My Precious Magicboy#1 - There is not a single moment I don't carry your essence with me. Every time I am with your nieces and nephew, I imagine you with them and how you would be the best 'Uncle' ever! You were so amazing around small children. I also imagine the political conversations we would have in the present election season. I can hear your outrage against the racist and bigoted atmosphere it has become. You would be 41 today. I imagine you with a lovely partner and your own child. You are an integral part of every living breath I take. Your memory a constant blessing. I love you. Mom
May 2, 2014
I can still see those blue eyes :)
Iris Brewster
April 30, 2014
Iris Brewster
April 30, 2014
Hello My Precious CT~ Usually I write you here, on your Yrzeit or Birthday. It has been 10 years since you have left this earthly plane. 10 long years. You remain in my heart and soul. You are in my cell memory. You are in my DNA. Dad and I talk about you, laughing and crying. You would have been 39 on this Birthday. I like to think that you would have invented a computer application. You would be happily married with a child or two and you would be sharing your children with your brother Nick's beautiful family. Dad and I love you with a love that lives a life in your memory. You are and always will be our beloved and precious first born son. Happy Birthday my precious son. Mom
Nicholas Cusimano
April 28, 2014
I've tried to leave messages on here before but to no avail, apparently i'm not "PC" enough for Legacy.com:)...Wow...this one sneaked up on me...and I just found out snuck is not a real word...(Thank you spell check):) It's strange...I can't believe you've been gone for so long...I'm about to have a boy!!!! Gonna name him after you a little bit.(middle name)...The rest is after our grandfathers' crazy brother Dominic...I know, I named a dog that too, but I like it OK!:) I found myself thinking about that party we went to when I was a freshman, and I got mad that you didn't...anyway...you know what I'm saying...but, I got angry yesterday, which I haven't ever done I don't believe has happened since your passing...and I forgot it was you birthday today, until I saw mom's post on facebook, (computer thing, also not a real word according to spell check...) It hit me hard, as it usually does but normally I see it coming and then it hits me, not on the day...I have thought in the pass I could go work on this day, and the day you passed, for ten years, and then always scrambled to get it off because I am still so sad that I don't have you next to me on this journey through life...I love you dude...That is all I have for now..RIP
Iris Brewster
May 13, 2013
Well sweetheart~ I have the last Mother's Day card ad gorgeous antique cup and saucer you gave me. I woke up this Mother's Day after a dream of you and Nana. Both in the same dream. I have not had a dream of you in a long while. You were so happy in it and smiling. You made a witty remark that had both Nana and me laughing. I basked in the dream for awhile. But the sorrow of you being gone so very long now came over me in the latter part of the day. I miss you so my darling boy. I am grateful for your brother Nick and the beautiful family he has. I wrote in Facebook what I was feeling sitting with the loss of you,"Heart Breaking Open: There's a well-known book by Elizabeth Lesser, "Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow" which has been a guiding post through my sorrows and challenges. It's as suitable and a beautiful metaphor for what happens to me when the sorrow of my son's loss or any sorrow visits me without an invitation..
When I posted , " Heart, broken open, once again.", it isn't about having my heart broken in the traditional sense of a shattering destruction. Instead, it is being present with the sorrow so that my heart chakra will expand and not close tight. It is very similar to when an earthquake cleaves a rift in the planet's crust, a heart broken open is my heart-broken -open, allowing for a passage, a relief and a better alignment, rather than a heart-crushing shutting-down and shielding of one's capacity to love. To sit with a broken-open heart is painfully vast, incredibly passionate and leaves one starkly vulnerable . But allowing, my " Heart, broken open, once again.", my heart is able contain and convey more love than before, whereas a heart-break in the traditional sense often results in a withdrawal from love and giving in to fear and bitterness. Thank you for your love and support." My sorrow over the loss of you will never go away but I can have my heart expand and love for the both of us. I love you CT. <3 Mom <3
diane garneau
April 29, 2013
You are always in our thoughts dear CT. Missing you greatly, but always appreciating the messages and ways you show us you are among us. Keep teaching us.............xxxo Tutu
Rodger Ogren
April 29, 2013
It's a weird April again. I'm retired and have lotsa time that we could have wandered the earth together!
Uncle Rodger
CT at one year old
Iris Brewster
April 28, 2013
My Darling CT~ Today would have been your 38th birthday. The more birthdays without you, the more painful is the realization of the fact that, yes, you are GONE forever. I revel in the times we had you. The memories of you and all the things you loved and irritated and vexed you. Your family is gathering around the dinner table, having crab and London Broil. We will be toasting you with wine and rose bubbly that your Aunt Ellie brought us. Your Dad and I carry you in every fiber of our beings and love you with all of our hearts and souls. Happy Birthday our beloved son! Love, Mom and Dad xoxoxoxoxooxox
I love your smile here! We had so much fun herding the ducks for the niight.
Iris Brewster
February 10, 2013
Another year, without you my precious boy. Nine years. You are remembered always and in all ways. You are loved beyond measure. Aunt Ellie came down and spent yesterday, your Yrzeit with me. Your brother and I made a toast to you with your favoeite, Maker's Mark and I walked the beach, which you so loved. "Death is not extinguishing the light; it is putting out the lamp because dawn has come. " ~Rabindranath Tagor~ Your Dad and I embrace the empty space sharing memories and the love we have for you. Mom
Sophia meeting and greeting her baby sister.
Iris Brewster
January 28, 2013
You are an Uncle again sweetheart! Josselyn Miyabe Cusimano was born on Saturday, January 26, 2013 at 5:07 p.m., 8lbs 15. oz. She joins her big sister, Sophia Michele Cusimano. We are so happy for Nick and Alethea. We love you and miss you sweetheart. Particularly in joyous times like this because we know you would have been an awesome uncle! xoxoxox
You and Nick with Missy's puppies. <3
January 1, 2013
CT...My baby....Another Christmas without you. Another New Year without you. Your brother Nick and his family had us over for a great Christmas Day Dinner. Dad and I were remembering some of the funny things you would do and say. You will be having a new niece coming in January. Her name is Josselyn. What a great Uncle you would have been! We love you. Mom
Sophia and Nick trying to wake up Josselyn!
Iris Brewster
November 22, 2012
"Best of all is it to preserve everything in a pure, still heart, and there be for every impulse a thanksgiving, and for every breath a song." ~Konrad von Gesner ~
Dearest CT~ Happy Thanksgiving sweetheart! We went to Nick and Alethea's house for Thanksgiving. Jeannie Bennet joined us. It was wonderful and Sophia so vibrant and engaging. Next Thanks giving we will have her new sister Josselyn. We miss you. I miss you from the depths of my being. We love you so much and that empty chair at the table remains empty. Muwahhh, Mom and Dad
May 14, 2012
Mother's Day. I have your last card you gave me. I cherish it. Bitter sweet day. I am so grateful for your brother Nick and his Sophia. You were only 3 weeks old when I celebrated my first Mother's Day with you. I love you. Mom
May 1, 2012
Hawks fly here, too
CT, Thinking of you
Uncle Ogre
May 1, 2012
Dear CT,
WE feel your presence,love and laughter at times we don't expect it. OUR love for you is still growing each and every day. Miss Sophis is so like you in many ways. Thank You for all your gifts you spread upon us.....Love, Tutu
Iris Brewster
April 30, 2012
Hello My Darling CT~ You would have been 37 last Saturday! Spent the weekend at the beach with Aunt Ellie. Your beautiful niece, Sophia, played with us. Diane came over to play as well. Friday night Nick, Alethea and Sophia stayed for a dinner Aunt Ellie fixed. We toasted you. On Friday, while Aunt Ellie and I were swimming we saw a hawk circle above us. I miss you so but celebrate your time here with us. Dad and I miss and love you so much. Mom
February 11, 2012
Spent my birthday week in the Monterey sunshine while Puget Sound was white and cold. We could have cruised Carmel beach!
Uncle Rodger
Diane Garneau
February 10, 2012
Feb.10,2012
Oh dear CT. Please keep shining above us all each day. Keep those little moments where you make us laugh. Show us your strength by soaring as the hawk above us when we least expect but need it. We miss you dearly and love you immensely..Diane
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2012
"One can leave peacefully in sleep if all things are balanced and in accordance with the soul's desires....for each life has a capacity and when that capacity is reached then one can leave in peace." Emmanuel ~ ? ? ? ?February 9, 2012
It is eight years since you left this physical plane. How I miss you my sweet boy. I hope you are showing Lisa and Adam the ropes. It is more than missing. Dad and I want our boy back! Period. This is not to be. I love you with a love that shines with the light of eternity. My wise, compassionate, brilliant, generous and loving son. Dad and I send you celestial kisses and a huge celestial hug. Mom
Tina Alden-Yeager
January 18, 2012
Dear Christopher,
Your mother is ever so beautiful; I am pretty sure that part of that beauty is you. I have a son named Christopher. I know you were a fantastic person. Will you give your Mom a kiss tonight? I didn't know where you were & I confused you with Nick. Now amongst angels you are where my Mom, who died three weeks ago is. It must be beautiful
Iris Brewster
December 26, 2011
Dearest CT~ Another Christmas without you! You are missed and I am embracing the memory of the joy you had for Christmas. Your niece Sophia was really into the magic of Christmas this year! She loved her drum set. Your brother Nick and his wife Alethea made it very special this year! I love you so very much. Mom
Iris Brewster
November 25, 2011
Day after Thanksgiving 2011
I am so grateful to the Davids' for setting this up so that it is here beyond my time. There is something so comforting in being able to write to you, here, my darling son. We had a really lovely Thanksgiving at Nick and Alethea's house. Your niece, Sophia is now almost 28 months and adds so much joy to our lives. You would have adored each other. Dad was watching the Lord of the Rings Trilogy tonight and we talked about how you loved the books and must have read them at least 10 times. Dad rememered when you came bck from the first movie, you were really irritated by a woman sitting in front of you who said, "Why does it have to have so much violence?' Obviously, she had not read the books or knew the background as to why Tolkien wrote them. You cared so much about he truth, hated brutality but understood human nature. The pain of not having you here is no longer searing or gut wrenching but has reached an even tone of loss. Always there but I am able to substitute it by living the best life I can for you. An empty chair but a room full of memories. I love you and miss you so much CT. Mom
April 28, 2011
Happy Birthday sweet boy! You would have been 36 today. The day is overcast here but the memories I hold in my heart help to warm the sorrow over not having you here to celebrate. Dad and I were talking about you and remembering somethings that you would say that made us laugh. We miss you so. We love you.
Diane Garneau
February 11, 2011
February 11,2011
Dear CT,
We love when you shine upon us at just the right moment. Miss Sophia shows us your love so many times.You would love to play with her. We miss you each and every breath. Love YOU
February 10, 2011
Hey, Buddy!
I'll always remember the kid who visited me in Hawai'i.
Your parents were brave to trust you to a equatorial uncle.
Rodgeroh
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2011
My Darling C.T.- It is now seven years since you have gone and it seems like yesterday. I wake up to your loving memory every day and think of you when the red tail hawk suddenly appears. Your life counted my son and we miss you. We were blessed to have you in our lives. We love you. Mom and Dad
Diane Garneau
December 25, 2010
Dear CT,
Thank You for inspiring us all to do greater in this world. Mom and I delight in talking about you and Miss Sophia has so much of you. She lights us up here on Earth as you do from above. We love you always and wish you were here to hold us. Love, Diane
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas CT! I remember the last time we made christmas cookies. You made one the size of Lake Tahoe and it took forever to bake! You sprinkled it with every color of sugar we had. When you were done, you had a huge grin on your face. I smile thinking about it. You would have so much fun with your niece Sophia. I miss you and love you. MOM
May 12, 2010
Dear CT, Mom and I feel your presence so many times while experiencing nature. We know your guidance is there and so appreciate the little signs. Now those BIG ole signs are sometimes a bit much and we can only say your name and laugh! Your spirit is living on through Miss Sophia and you'd be oh so proud of this amazing baby. Thank You for her. Love you always. Diane garneau
Iris Brewster
May 10, 2010
Happy belated BIrthday CT! You would have been 35 and I often imagine that you would have ben married, with a beautiful child or two and even smarter,kinder and funnier than you were and that would be only because you would have had more time to reveal what already was so present in you. I miss you and love you. Mom
James Getz
February 11, 2010
I cannot believe it has been 6 years already. We really had some good times that I will always cherish. I still look back fondly at the trip we made up here with my grandparents to see the premiere of "Fire Walk With Me."
J.
Diane Garneau
February 10, 2010
Dear Ct, You are thought of even more today. Your spirit and love carries us through many a days. When the red tail hawk soars over Mom and I on a walk or outing, we marvel at all you accomplished in a short time on earth. We love your presence and even laugh when the car doesn't start and we talk to you with: Enough joking CT! We get it. Love you more and more. Love and hugs.
Lisa Groveman
February 10, 2010
I can't believe it was 6 years ago yesterday. That day remains so vivid in my mind. Like always, you still are a constant thought of mine.
Love u.
Matthew Millan
February 9, 2010
Ah man, SuperT. Can't believe it's been so long! Seems like yesterday since I got the news, but you have lived in my thoughts ever since. A part of every film I make goes to you, for you helped shape who I am today.
Ubuntu is a Bantu word which roughly translates, "I am what I am because of you."
Iris Brewster
February 8, 2010
Six years ago on February 9, our life as we knew it ended and a new life had to rise above the loss of your presence CT, our beloved son. Your Dad and I appreciate the red tail hawk when it appears at special times. The pain has lessened but the depth of your absence from our daily living is fathomless. Your brother is a good daddy to your niece Sophia. You would be just crazy about her! One of the most wonderful characteristics you had was your special way with children and how they adored you. You were always so patient and so kind. You are never more than a breath away from me and in my heart always. Love, Mom
Iris Brewster
December 25, 2009
??•*¨*•.¸¸? ¸¸.•*¨*•?? Merry Christmas CT The red tail hawk greeted me this morning first thing.??•*¨*•.¸¸? ¸¸.•*¨*•?? I love you and miss you. This will be the first christmas with your niece Sophia! You are in my heart always. Love, Mom
Lisa Groveman
November 27, 2009
Before you passed, you were such a big part of my life. Although years have gone by, places have changed and many of us our on new paths in life- I have NEVER stopped feeling your presence. It seems you were and always will be..a big part of my life. love u.
November 26, 2009
I miss ya man, Millian and I talk about you whenever we get together.
Cheers Mate,
Bryan
Matthew Millan
November 26, 2009
Super-T! You are the best friend that anybody could possibly have. 14 years ago we were jumped on Waverly Bridge in Edinburgh, and I can't think of any other friend who I would rather have at my side. Someone who always had my back, no matter what the situation.
Iris Brewster
November 26, 2009
Happy Thanksgiving CT! We went to the Lodge at Pebble Beach. Jeannie, her son Brian and his family. Nick, his beautiful wife Alethea and their little girl Sophia. Dad and I missed you being there but I felt you around me. You will always be a part of our lives. You will always be a part of my being. I want to hug you. You would hug me and I felt so safe. I will hug you in my dreams tonight. You would be uber crazy about your niece! I love you my precious son. And like your brother Niko wrote so eloquently ,"Would love to share the rest of my life with you." Mom
November 26, 2009
I don't know what to write without being sensored. I want to say that I love and miss you. Thanksgiving tomorrow and we're reliving Stillwater. Wish you were here, my daughter is beautiful. Would love to share the rest of my life with you. Ashes...Niko
Lisa Groveman
November 12, 2009
Just thinking about you. Love u. Lisa
Iris Brewster
November 8, 2009
Hi Sweetheart- Love that there still many who knew you that miss you. Your life counted in such a profound way for all of us. Your niece Sophia is a beauty and so special. She looks a lot like you when you were a baby. Thinking of you with a full heart and a smile on my face. The sorrow is always its twin. Love, Mom
Barry Pitcher
November 6, 2009
Dear Cusi - All the guys still miss you greatly. The void you left will never be filled.
Iris Brewster
August 11, 2009
My Sweet CT- You became an uncle to Sophia Michele on August 7, 2009. Your brother Nick and his wife Alethea brought her to their home on Sunday. You are living on in her and that makes my heart feel good. I love you and miss you. Watch over her sweetheart. Watch over them all. Mom
Lisa Groveman
April 29, 2009
Celebrated your birthday yesterday. You will always stay alive in my heart CT. Love you. Lisa
Iris Brewster
April 28, 2009
April 28, 1975 was one of those best day ever along with your brothers birthday. Today you would have been 34 years old. God, I miss you sweetheart. You are in our thoughts and hearts every moment of every day. I love you. Mom
Iris Brewster
February 10, 2009
Hey there CT....It has been five years. You are always in Dad's and my heart. I received a FB message from a guy you met in Scotland telling me you were a great bloke.
I love and miss you but most of all I am grateful for the time I did have with you, no matter how short it was. I love you. Mom
DIANE GARNEAU
February 10, 2009
Dear CT, I know you are watching and guiding your loved ones. The moments a feather appears, a hawk flies over or a wispy ocean breeze touches our face, we know it is you. We keep on loving you each and every day. Your gentle smile and touch is always present. love, Diane Garneau
Lisa Groveman
February 9, 2009
Thinking about you today. Thank you for all of the laughter and smiles you gave me.
Lisa Groveman
July 28, 2008
Thinking about you Bone.....
Iris Brewster
May 11, 2008
Today is Mother's Day. I miss you my sweet boy. I feel blessed that you surround Nick, his wife Alethea, Dad and Me with your strong and loving presence. I saw the red tailed hawk today. Thank you.
I love you.
Mom
Iris Brewster
April 28, 2008
Today is your 33rd birthday. I am holding you in my heart and soul with all the love and joy I can surround you with. You are my first born son and I am forever grateful to have had the privilege to know you for a short 29 years.
Happy Birthday sweetheart.
Love,
Mom
Iris Brewster
February 9, 2008
It is four years ago today that you left this world. I miss you more and more as each year passes. I love you with every fibre of my being. Mom
Iris Brewster
November 23, 2007
We had a fourth Thanksgiving without you at our table. Your brother Nick and his fiancee Alethea invited us to their house for Thanksgiving. It was a wonderful time and your brother Nick stood up and made a toast and included a toast to you. A new tradition has begun and it is fitting. The empty chair here at home where you spent so much time will always have a poignancy.
I am grateful that I had you my precious first born son and that I had the privilege to know you however brief it was.
I love you.
Mom
James Getz
April 28, 2007
Mr. T,
Happy birthday. I cannot believe it's already been 3 years. Laura and I will definitely be having a toast for you tonight.
James.
Iris Brewster
April 27, 2007
Tomorrow is your 32nd birthday. We feel your absence so deeply around your birthday. I remember the wonderful grin you would get and your deep laugh that could be heard a mile away. I remember your beautiful blue eyes with the long eyelashes. Most of all I remember your kind heart and generous spirit. I love you my precious son.
Mom
Justin Saunders
February 19, 2007
T-Bone, It sure is hard to believe that it's been three years. We all miss you dearly. Brought a picture of you to NYC to put on our mantle so I'm reminded of the great friend you've always been. Miss your big raspy laugh and welcoming smile. I'll always consider you one of the best friends I ever had...
Iris and Tom
February 9, 2007
Three years ago today. Hard to believe. Bigger than life. You are missed but the gifts you have left are priceless and remain with us till we meet again. Love, Mom and Dad
Aunt Ellie
February 4, 2007
Mr favorite CT story was from the days in Madera...certainly not the best of times for Iris and I'm not sure CT was enjoying it much either. Iris had him all dressed up like Little Lord Fauntleroy and CT was having "none of it." Needless to say, in his own clever way he managed to win. I think he was 2 or 3 at the time. Now he's up there with the eagles and the red tailed hawks. You fly CT, you fly high and fly free.
Nick Cusimano
February 4, 2007
We made it to the Superbowl, brotha. Put in a good word for us as we are a 7 point dog. Defense wins chanpionships, and we got a mean D. I know your with us.
Niko
DA BEARS!!!
Rodger Ogren
February 3, 2007
CT spent a week with me in Hawaii when he was only 9 years old; I'll always remember him running on the beach in Waikiki.
Best fishes to you, Uncle Ogre
Iris Brewster
February 2, 2007
C.T. I just finished this magical book, 'The Death and Life of Charlie St. Cloud' by Ben Sherwood. It's about two brothers, death and a promise they made. I was struck by this quote,"Whom the gods love die young". Its from an Italian saying. You are a light so bright, a warmth so healing, a memory so vibrant; I can understand the gods taking you so soon.
I love you. Mom
Todd, aka Trog, Williams
February 2, 2007
You are sorely missed, buddy.
Iris Brewster
November 10, 2006
Hi Gentle Giant- I am sitting in what was once your room and now is part of my art studio.
You told me to focus on my art. I am. I miss you so CT. There is not a day, I don't feel your presence and your loving spirit.
I love You.
Mom
Dan Campbell
July 30, 2006
I never meet C.T. but I wish I had. I had seen him on a game site called Fumbbl and he always seem kind and helpfull. I have read all the messages about him on that site and this one. I can see know what a profound effect he had on every person's life that he interacted with. I know not what it feels like to loose a son but being a father myself I know it is not something I would want to experience. The best thing any of us can do is to honor the man he was, remember the good times we shared with him and hope that during our lives we can achieve a small measure of what this great man represented to people.
May you watch over us all C.T.
Michael Miller
January 3, 2006
T- bone...It was over 8 years ago that you got me my first e-mail adress and got me in the web...I love to be reminded of you every day I check me e-mail or play a video game( most of the ones I have are the copys you gave me).Every time I gain a level or get the high points in a game I feel I am still behind you bro:)Merry x- mas and happy new year
Brian Smaakjaer
December 31, 2005
Almost 2 years have passed... I've wanted to sign this for a long time, but I had a hard time finding the words.
I am not sure why my mind decided to think of cusi (as you know, he was called that in out online BloodBowl community), but even after two years my eyes get wet when thinking about him, but I think there is simply things time don't completely heal. We just have to live with it and remember how he was.
He had one of the rare personalities that you simply couldn't help loving. He simply had room for everyone in his heart, and I guess that's why we remember him and still mourn the loss. It takes a very special person to make real friends online, but cusi was one of them.
There are probably not enough words to describe everthing about him, and I will not even try. We all knew him in different ways, but we all agree that he was a better man than most of us.
May you rest in peace my friend. You will never be forgotten.
Regards,
Calador of Fumbbl
-- Nunc ille est magicus --
Tom Miracle
May 12, 2005
This morning, a little voice inside of me prompted me to enter the names of some old college friends I've been out of touch with for years in a Google search, on the off chance that it might turn up a clue as to their current whereabouts. Needless to say, discovering the news of C.T.'s death this way is the strangest turn of events I could possibly imagine. I scarcely know where to begin, after all this time, but it is heartening to learn that C.T. grew up to be the wise and gentle man that his friends and family describe. That's the young man I remember.
My deepest condolences to Tom, Dusty, and Nick. My thoughts are with you.
Mom
April 12, 2005
My beloved Son- You have given me so many gifts and I am so grateful for your constancy and strong spiritual presence in my life.
We will never be the same without your physical presence but know this darling you and I are an eternal shooting star that will keep that shining stream in the sky as a reminder of what you meant to all of us who loved you.
I cannot believe it is a year. It seems like only yesterday.
I love you.
Mom
Rodger Ogren
March 14, 2005
CT and family lived with me in a chicken coop overlooking Elkhorn Slough one summer. CT and I rode the rope swing many times while Dusty wrung her hands. His eyes were open the whole time, just like in his life. I'll never forget the empty chair up front at his memorial; it was meant for me but should have been full of the bone.
Marsha Kelly
March 13, 2005
CT: We continue to feel the laughter and love you send to your family.
Love, Marsha
Luisa Cusimano
March 9, 2005
Well Tommy, Dusty and Nick it's been exactly a year and a month since CT has left us, and I know you all are still feeling the pain. A lot has been going on, but the strong love the 3 of you have will keep you guys going. The pain will alway be there, but it does get easier. At least that's what I here. I would not know personally what is like to loose a son. Easy for others to say isnt it.
There is not a day that you are not thought of CT. Your cousins,your Uncle Denis, and I think of you often, and I know nowing you was a joy to all of us. Casey, and Michael will always have the memories of you in thier hearts for the rest of thier lifes. Very often we talk about you CT. You were the Gentle Giant to them. They were so proud of having you as a cousin, and I know they wished that you were still around.
Please keep a watch over your mother, father and brother and try and keep them safe and brave. I know that you may not be here on earth, but I know that you are watching all of us. We love you and miss you. Your Aunt Luisa
Eleanor Hubbbard
November 23, 2004
I remember one Thanksgiving in the late 1980's. Of course, we were all decked out in our finest, but somehow the memory of CeeTee's presence from that day is stronger than the rest.
He was at that stage between little boy and young man. One could see the glimmer of the man he would become in that subtle twinkle of his eye; in the way he wore his grown man's suit; in the way he began to tower over all of us with his bigger than life energy and spirit.
This is a week of reflection.
A week when we give thanks.
Perhaps he has drawn us to the gentle waters
of the reflecting pond
To see deeper into the recesses
Deeper into the cellular circles
Deeper into the healing soul
CeeTee we will miss you always.
All My Love, Aunt Ellie
Christof Häberle
November 22, 2004
I don't know if anyone is still reading this. I hadn't left an entry here so far, but I should have.
Lately a lot of people approach me and tell me about their problems, about their feelings - and that they appreciate what I do, who I am. In that way I know I do manage to honour Cusi's life and what he stood for. I never managed to say so to him myself. I do now.
Thank you, Cusi, for being that candle to warm my fingers on.
Marsha Kelly
April 18, 2004
Dear Iris (goddess),Tom, Nick:
May the love and prayers of family and friends keep you safe and sheltered.
Always in my prayers. Love, Marsha
Phillip Richards
March 12, 2004
I'm generally a person of very few words, but i'll say what i can.
I never acctually met him in person, but from what i knew of him he was a good person with an innocent heart. I'm glad it was in his sleep he deserves that right.
Cusi i'll miss you dude.
Maybe i'll meet ya in person in another life.
Nick Cusimano
February 27, 2004
I guess, as all things, this book has run its course. I want to thank everyone that supported my family and I when bone,(for those who knew him well) passed. He was the first one to help someone in need, even if it could hurt him. I loved my brother with all that is me, and if anyone deserved to go, it wasn't him. Although he and I did not get along for most of our childhood, I cherish the last three years, because I am able to write that bone and I realized the bond that we have, the bond of brotherhood, and that bond is unbreakable. So, bonified, where ever you are, I say this to you, and anyone who is truly hurt by this sudden tragedy, I wish that you were here. But, I am sure that you in a good place, because you were a good person, through and through. You amaze me with all that you did, that you were too modest to mention, that was uncovered after you left. You touched many, and if you are looking over, I hope that your satisfied, because you were truly loved, and truly will be missed. I want everyone to know that bone is in a better place, because he would not of left us all this pain if it wasn't worth it. I will miss the fact that I will never share another experience with you, but I will see you soon, because I aspire to be as good of a person you are, and will find the divine level that your life rose you to. Rest In Peace, my brother
P.S. I will take care of all of them so no worries, and get your feel so you can show me around.
Eric Brown
February 24, 2004
Dear Iris and Tom:
The kind words from your many friends and family members assures me that you are in supportive, loving hands.
XOX,
Eric
Rodger Ogren
February 22, 2004
I am CT's godfather and was with hime since day one. I climbed the outside of the hospital wall up a couple floors to see him; only family was allowed in through the lobby, hence the spiderman approach. CT came into this world with a lofty outlook on life and still does. It was my pleasure to fly him to Hawaii at age nine. It was his first trip away from mom; easy for CT, hard for Dusty.
Miss you, Unle Ogre
Craig & Annie Holdren
February 20, 2004
Dear Tom & Iris. The pause I'm confronted with, trying to find words that'll make sense of this tragedy, just gets longer, still void of reason.
In retrospect, thinking of the beautiful service last weekend, there's one modest element about C.T. that was barely touched upon. Perhaps it's because we knew him somewhat superficially; relatively briefly and only as neighbors, but even now I smile remembering his superior manifestation of style. His dash.
Surprising to find in a large man, apparently neither interested in nor encumbered by flashy clothes, expensive grooming, or glib conversation. But he had it. Surprisingly enough, charisma can be expressed in how a man hammers around in an elderly exhausted gold Cadillac, cigarette and ironic grin spilling out of the open window; wit and charm rendered plain and readable by an irreverent greeting on a summer evening.
God bless you and your family.
Mary Casas
February 20, 2004
Dearest Dusty,
My heart is breaking as I think of what you and your family are experiencing at this time, the loss of your precious CT.
I know how much your boys mean to you. I had the privilege of holding them in my arms a great deal when they were little children, and their beautiful energy is embedded in my heart and my lap (where they sat) forever.
And you, I remember so clearly the wonderful Mom that you are.
Even though I have not seen you or Nick or CT for many years, I do think of you all and thank you for the beautiful gift that you gave me by allowing me to care for your boys way back then.
I can see their precious faces, hear their laughter and see their strong and wonderful bodies as they run & play & sing & dance, while sharing their loving spirits with everyone – so long ago.
Please do call when you are rested and able. I would like to share with you all that I have, a gift of massage. My heart is so full of wanting in some way to comfort you.
Mary
Jeff Hansman
February 19, 2004
I had the distinct honor of being a room parent (along with Reid Woodward) during C.T.'s 3rd grade year at All Saints Day School. While I saw little of C.T. in recent years, I remember him as a fun loving, gentle kid with a grin all his own. His tragic passing has no doubt caused all of us to reflect on how precious our time here is, especially with our children. My heartfelt condolences go to Tom, Iris and Nick.
Anne Rowan
February 19, 2004
Dear Iris, Tom and Family, Please accept my most sincere condolences on the passing of C.T. I was blessed to have met him in your home and spoke with him on occasion on the telephone. May his memory be a blessing to you and make you smile the many days of your lives for having had him. My heartfelt blessings and prayers go to you all.
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