Carolyn Kizer

1925 - 2014

Carolyn Kizer

1925 - 2014

BORN

1925

DIED

2014

Carolyn Kizer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 14, 2014.
SONOMA, Calif. (AP) — Carolyn Kizer, a feminist Pulitzer Prize-winning poet who spoke her political mind even at age 7, has died in Sonoma from the effects of dementia, her literary executor said. She was 89.

Kizer, who won her Pulitzer in 1985 for a collection of work called "Yin" after the female principle in Chinese cosmology, died Thursday at a nursing home, executor David Rigsbee told the Los Angeles Times (http://lat.ms/1r3M1TX).

Born in Spokane, Washington, Kizer was 7 and attending a dinner party held by her parents when asked about political parties. She told guests "Oh, we veer with the wind."

In an essay later, she said her father was angry: "I have suppressed what he said, but I know that I withered like a violet in an ice storm."

One of Kizer's best known works was "Pro Femina," an ardent call for feminist progress. In one of the four poems making up the collection she wrote: "I will speak about women of letters, for I'm in the racket."

When she wrote "Pro Femina," she wrote about the 1920s, when female poets were mocked as the "Oh-God-the-Pain Girls." She believed men encouraged that depiction. "Poetry wasn't a craft but a sickly effluvium," she wrote, "the air thick with incense, musk and emotional blackmail."

Kizer had a poem published in The New Yorker when she was 17, but never placed another and it wasn't until she was 29, divorced and a mother of three that she started studying poetry seriously.

"It was like a cork coming out of a champagne bottle, it was such a joy," she told the Los Angeles Times in 2001.

She was a translator, adept in Chinese, Urdu and other languages. And she liked rewriting as much as she liked writing, often taking years to polish a single poem.

Her wit came through in nearly all her work. For example:

"Did you ever see someone coldcock a blind nun? "Well, I did. Two helpful idiots "Steered her across the tarmac to her plane "And led her smack into the wing. "She deplaned with two black eyes and a crooked wimple, "Bruised proof that the distinction is not simple "Between ineptitude and evil."

She married Seattle attorney Stimson Bullitt in 1946 and they had three children before divorcing in 1954. She would marry architect John Woodbridge in 1975. He died in June.

In 1955 and 1956, she studied poetry at the University of Washington, and taught at the University of North Carolina and other schools.

In the late '60s, she was director of literary programs for the National Endowment for the Arts. She was a chancellor of the American Academy of Poets until 1998, when she resigned to protest the board's lack of diversity at the time.




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BARBARA Baldwin

October 20, 2014

Carolyn was my friend and mentor, and a blessing to all who knew and loved her in the literary world, particularly:We will see her, again,
Blessings!

blessings, Barbara B.

M Scott

October 19, 2014

May God grant Carolyn Kizer family and friends comfort during this time of sorrow. Psalm 116:15

J. Lewis

October 17, 2014

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear loved one. May the account at John 11:21-26, 43, 44 bring you comfort and hope of seeing Carolyn again.

October 17, 2014

She was a brilliant beautiful young woman who
lit up my college existance with interesting.challenges to my thinking on several levels.May she rest in peace.

October 16, 2014

May God take notice of your recent loss and give you peace."He is opening His hand and satisfying the desire of every living thing."palm.145:16....north carolina

Linda

October 15, 2014

Please accept my condolences for your loss. One can never be prepared for the empty void that's left when a loved one dies. Our Creator promises to give you the strength to live each day without. He says "I have heard your prayers, I have seen your tears" . I will heal you. 2 Kings 20:5.

October 15, 2014

With every mement of mourning may a happy thought or memory steal in to ease the pain

October 15, 2014

My condolences to you and your family for your los, please find comfort in God's promise for the future found in Daniel 2:44 .

Chuck Radda

October 15, 2014

If Ms. Kizer had written "The Great Blue Heron" and nothing else, I would still consider it a privilege even to have known her name. My condolences to the family of this wonderful poet.

October 15, 2014

So sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort be with your family and friends. Isaiah 61 : 2

October 15, 2014

To the family, my condolences

Harry Simpson

October 15, 2014

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

B Lucas

October 15, 2014

To write, to turn a praise, to be able to open the mind in a way that no one else can, what a treat. Many plans go unfulfilled, but they come back to us, done in our memories of our loved ones. May pleasant thoughts be what family and friends have when the think of Carolyn. My most sincere condolence.

Lindsey

October 15, 2014

May the peace of God that excels all thought be with the family at this time of great sorrow.

October 15, 2014

I read of the passing of your Loved One and I wanted to express my sympathy to you and your family.
Although we do not know each other, I remember when I lost someone dear to me, I received codolences from those I didn't know and it was very comforting to me. Therefore, I decided to do the same in hopes that it may add to the comfort you receive from family and friends.
Sincerely,
Dami'elle Cornish

VH

October 15, 2014

Trust in God with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. To Mrs Kizer family you have my deepest sympathy for your loss. Rely upon the comfort that only our Creator can give.

October 15, 2014

Eccl. 7:1 A good name is better than good oil, and the day of death is better than the day of birth.

October 15, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

October 14, 2014

My condolences to the family. May you find comfort in knowing God will care for you during your time of loss.

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