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Kelley Ver Velde Obituary
VerVELDE-Kelley Jo, age 16, Omaha. Survived by parents, Dave and Denise; brother, Jesse; sisters, Molly and Kody, all Omaha; grandparents, Walter and Virginia Moy, Omaha, Norman Ver Velde, Shaboygan, WI.
VISITATION Wednesday 2-8pm with family receiving friends 6-8pm at Crosby Burket Chapel, 119th & West Center Rd. Student Wake Service Wednesday 4:30pm, Public Wake Service at 7:30pm both at Crosby Burket Chapel, 119th & West Center Rd. FUNERAL MASS Thursday 11am St. Stephen the Martyr Catholic Church, 16701 S St. Private Interment. In lieu of flowers, Memorials to the Nebraska Humane Society. REICHMUTH FUNERAL HOME
21901 West Maple 289-2222
This obituary was originally published in the Omaha World-Herald.
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Lauren Frink and Jordyn Wollenburg (W)
November 16, 2008
Dear Molly and Ver Velde Family,
We are so deeply sorry for the loss of Kelley Jo. From what we hear she was a great young women with lots of spunk. We will keep your family in our thoughts and our prayers.
We love you Molly.
Love always.
Caryl Wilton
November 7, 2008
I never knew any of you but my grandson went to Beadle with Molly and was deeply saddened by the loss of your daughter/sister Kelley. We have been praying that God will lift and carry you during this difficult time. Remember that this life is like a vapor in eternity and that you can lean to the Lord for strength for the day and a hope for tomorrow. I have heard so many wonderful things about Kelley and she will not be forgotten by the Millard West student body. May God cradle you in His arms- Caryl Wilton- (Jacob Newbold's grandmother)
November 4, 2008
Kelley left a mark on everyone that she came in contact with. I remember that everytime I saw her she was smiling and talking to everyone. She was loved and always be loved. The memories that people have of her will keep her spirit alive. For the Ver Velde family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Kelley was a wonderful girl and will never be forgotten. God bless your family.
Nancy Wiederholt
November 3, 2008
VerVelde Family,
I'll never forget teaching Jesse and Kelley Jo! Kelley Jo was a cute little "Tomboy" in first grade playing soccer at recess with the boys! Kelley Jo's brown bob with bangs bounced with the basketball too! Kelley Jo was an all-star back then! As teachers send on their students to the next grade, the many wonderful memories stay in their hearts. Your family has my deepest sympathy. I am praying for all of you.
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November 3, 2008
We can't believe and understand why Kelley is gone. We all know the VerVelde family well as Molly use to play on Arsenal 93-94. Our thoughts and prayers are with you but know that God is with Kelley and taking good care of her even though we all wish she was here with us! God Bless all of you to have the strength to get through this most difficult time.
Arsenal 93-94 families, Jason Dishman's U-15 girls
Kaitlin Cooper
November 2, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Larry and Mary (Gerend) Boll
November 2, 2008
Dear Dave, Denise and family,
We were so saddened to hear about the untimely passing of your daughter and sister, Kelley Jo. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
With deepest sympathy,
Jill
November 1, 2008
I am saddened to hear of this tragedy. Bless Kelly and her family, I never had the opportunity to meet her, but a few of my friends knew her. May you rest in peace.
Danielle Oswald
October 31, 2008
VerVelde Family,
I had a chance to meet Kelly on a visit she took to Drake. She was a beautiful young woman and I enjoyed getting to meet her. Although she was a very talented soccer player, she was very humble about her abilities. I thought highly of her because this. I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Danielle Oswald
Tim Miller
October 31, 2008
VerVelde's,
No words can express the pain you are going through now. We were deeply saddened when we heard the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Tim, Kelly, Alex & Connor Miller
Stacy Dale Ross & Family
October 31, 2008
VerVelde Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Kelley Jo's passing. We could not make make it to Omaha for the services but my mom, Judy, tells use they were beautiful and heart-warming. We had not seen Kelly in a few years but we always looked forward to the yearly Christmas photo for an update on our young cousins. Please know you are all in our thoughts at this sad time.
Destiny Irgens
October 31, 2008
Wow i really dont know what to say but wow i know kelley she was in my cooking class she was a amazing funny person i never thought in my wildest dreams that this would happen to her but i will put her in my thought and i will prey for her and her family
john walker
October 31, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. The service was beautiful yesterday and was a great tribute to Kelley Jo. I had a chance to work with Kelley Jo this past summer at the Arsenal team camp and she showed talent, energy and happiness. I will be thinking of your family. John Walker -Head Soccer Coach, University of Nebraska
Sam McAtee
October 30, 2008
I'm so sorry, that's all I can say.
Lori Hulsebus
October 30, 2008
Dear Ver Velde Family,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Hulsebus Family
Dan, Lori, David, Daniel & Amanda
Chris T
October 30, 2008
I know this probably doesn't mean much to the family, but I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Kelly personally but knew of her and am friends with those who knew her well, we are all sad about this tragic loss.
skye L
October 30, 2008
i went to kelleys school and am a frshman with molly and i feel so so so so bad, we miss you and will keep you forever in our hearts. i love you molly.
Arsenal Niko Players & Parents
October 30, 2008
Ver Velde family,
The Arsenal Niko team sends it's deepest sympathies to you. It is obvious from the other postings that Kelley was a wonderful person. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Mariel Kelly
October 30, 2008
Dear Kody & Family,
I am terribly sorry to hear of this tragic loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Zoe Hatfield
October 30, 2008
Kody,
I am deeply saddened to hear about your terrible loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Taylor Milburn
October 30, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the vervelde family. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kaitlyn Banning
October 30, 2008
Dear Ver Velde Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all right now in this extremely difficult time. I moved away from Omaha about 4 years ago, but while i was there i spent a lot of time with Kelley. We were always playing soccer, basketball, swimming or tennis, but always something fun. She was a great and loving person and will be missed so so much by so many people. Stay Strong
The Richards Family
October 30, 2008
We don't know the Ver Velde family personally, but this has touched our family much the same as it has many other families that do not know you personally. Just know that you have prayers for God to be with your family during this rough time.
Amber
October 30, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss, and my prayers go out to both you and Kelley. I didn't know Kelley that well, but she will definately be missed.
Margaret Jurgensen
October 30, 2008
Denise and Dave and Family, my deepest sympathies for this tragedy.
I will pray for Kelly and all of you for strength and wisdom to get thru these trying times. God bless you all.
Patty & John Schneider
October 30, 2008
Ver Velde Family,
We cannot think of a word or words that could comfort your family at this time. Please accept our condolences and prayers to help you get through this. We will always remember Kelley's smile and her love for animals.
God Bless Your Family,
John & Patty Schneider
Kacey Brown
October 30, 2008
I met Kelley in 6th grade in music class. I will always remember how sweet and thoughtful she always was. She is missed by everyone, and we will always keep her in their thoughts and prayers.
Ver Velde family,
I am truly sorry for you loss.
Brad Slominski
October 30, 2008
I am extremely sad to hear of this news. May God bless your family and friends in this most difficult time.
October 30, 2008
There are not enough words to describe how sad we all are for your loss. We will all be here for you during this difficult time as a close nit soccer family that we are! No one understands why these things happen but just know that Kelley Jo is now in heaven with God looking down on us all giving us the strength to go on. May God bless the Ver Velde family to get through this most difficult challenge. Please lean on us if needed as we will be there for you today and forever! You are a beautiful family!!
From all the families from Arsenal U-13 girls Jason McClanathan's team
Jack & Pam Liebl Family
October 30, 2008
Dear David, Denise, and Family -
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Kelley Jo's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. God Bless.
Sheryl Mazur
October 30, 2008
Dear Jesse, Molly and the VerVelde Family,
I was blessed to have Jesse and Molly in my CCD classes and thought the world of them and still do. Our family grieves with you even though we didn't know Kelley Jo. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Sheryl, Ed, Alexa and Austin Mazur
DIANE PORTER
October 29, 2008
DEAR VER VELDE FAMILY
I PLAY TENNIS WITH DENISE, I DID NOT KNOW KELLEY, BUT I REMEMBER HOW PROUDLY DENISE HAS ALWAYS SPOKEN ABOUT HER CHILDREN. MY DAUGHTER, CLAIRE TELLS ME SHE KNOWS MOLLY AND WHAT A SWEET GIRL SHE IS. I AM LOST AS TO WHAT TO SAY, EXCEPT WHAT WE ARE ALL FEELING, HOW PROFOUNDLY SORRY I AM FOR YOU ALL. DENISE , ALL YOUR TENNIS FRIENDS ARE HERE FOR YOU. WE CARE, AND SUPPORT YOU.
DIANE PORTER
Tyler Chonis
October 29, 2008
Kelly and I aren't as close as we used to be but I do know that she was an incredible person. Her extraordinary personality had always lightened my day and I am sure others as well. I remember her as always being so chill and laid back which made her even more awesome. She will always be remembered and missed by everyone. God Bless
Stephanie Sprinkel
October 29, 2008
Dear Ver Velde family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Even though I didn't know Kelley very personally, I had some classes with her in the past and she was a great person! She was always so bubbly and always knew how to put a smile on people's faces. She will always be remembered and loved. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Karla Devlin and Family
October 29, 2008
To The Ver Velde Family -
I had the wonderful pleasure of having Kelley in my Religious Ed. classes at St. Stephens. She was a wonderful student with a happy face and joyous laugh. Even though we will miss her terribly she is safe and with God. Please accept our sincerest codolences for the loss of this child of God. God Bless Kelley and all of the Ver Velde family,
Mary Phelps
October 29, 2008
Ver Velde Family,
We've heard of your loss and our hearts go out to you. Even though we don't know your family, please know that you are in our prayers daily. Our son, Dylan, didn't know Kelley very well, but he is very saddened by her passing. May God give you strength.
The Phelps Family, Omaha, NE
Cassie Wajda
October 29, 2008
Kelley Jo was an amazing girl. She was always caring, very lovable, and always putting smiles on everyones faces. I remember when I first moved over to West, she was one of the first people to talk to me and make me feel welcome. I'll miss her very very much, and I just wanted to say that the whole VerVelde Family is in my thoughts and prayers in this time of sorrow.
Taylor Daniel
October 29, 2008
Molly and The VerVeldes
I am extreemely sorry for your loss , I have only met Kelley once or twice and the times I have seen her she seemed like a very happy and outgoing girl. She will be very missed and never forgotten. All my Prayers are for your Family .
God Bless
Molly be the strong girl that I know you are
Mary Grewe
October 29, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Let God lead you through this difficult time to help heal your pain.
Ann Wydrzynski
October 29, 2008
I was so saddened to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. My son, Ray, his wife, Judy, and their daughter, Maddie, often spoke about Maddie's Omaha cousins over the years and how much Maddie loved being a part of their big happy family when she and her parents would travel from Indiana to Omaha every summer for a much anticipated visit.
I know Kelley Jo will be sorely missed by so many people but she will be especially missed by her Aunt Judy, Uncle Ray and her cousin, Maddie who all loved her very much.
Collin Craft
October 29, 2008
May the entire Ver Velde family find strength in god in these times. I pray that you find the strength you need and that god guides you now and forever.
Jerrod Roh
October 29, 2008
The University of Minnesota Soccer Family would like to extend our condolences to the Ver Velde family, all of Kelley's friends, the Arsenal SC family, and the Millard West HS community. Kelley attended our camp this past summer, and we are grateful for the opportunity to have known Kelley and her father David - wonderful people. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nikki Wagner
October 29, 2008
Molly and Vervelde Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I was there to help you through this difficult time Molly. Even though I didn't know your sister very well, i'm sure she was a kind, loving person. She will be missed greatly.
Stay strong Molly. I love you.
Kolene Kohll
October 29, 2008
Dear Denise and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless your family.
Lauren Drummond
October 29, 2008
kelley and i weren't really close, but i've known her since 6th grade. i remember when i first moved to omaha in 6th grade, she was one of the first kids to talk to me and try to welcome me there. we also played on the lady bulldogs basketball team in 8th grade and i really felt like i got to know her then. she was a fun, loving, and outgoing person. she really did know how to put a smile on your face.
my thoughts and prayers go out to the Vervelde family. kelley was loved by everyone, and will truely be missed.
October 29, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
The Russell Family
Jon schneider
October 29, 2008
Jesse & Family,
I know this is a very tough time. Jesse and I have had so many great times together including Kelley and our families. I will always remember Kelley's love for animals (rats, dogs and whatever else she could bring home.)
Jesse, I will always be here for you.
Brock Nemecek
October 29, 2008
I just wanted to say im so so sorry for your loss. I know Kody and molley but never got to know kelly. God bless
Dawn (Jensen) Hailey
October 29, 2008
I used to babysit for Jesse, Kelly Jo and Molly when they were young and were attending Montessori. I was vey sad to hear of her passing. I know she will be missed by her loving family as well as by many others who had the opportunity to know her. You are all in our prayers.
Stephanie Hansen
October 29, 2008
Kelley Jo was an amazing girl. She was always caring, very lovable, and always putting smiles on everyones faces. I will miss kell at every football game her always trying to get a glow stick then putting them on her head. I just remember friday at the game when she was right next to nat and tylene yelled in nats ears, and kell was like seriously that was not called for at all. you just had to be there. she will be missed very much so. I love kell jo very much. I cant wait till the next day that i see you.
October 29, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Take comfort in the love you shared with Kelley.
Ann Marasco, Angela, Abby and Kameron Diaz
Nancy Vojtech
October 29, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Ver Velde, Molly, Kody and Jesse:
Please know that my heart goes out to each of you at this time with the loss of Kelley. She was a delightful girl to know and a joy to teach in p.e. class during her time at Rohwer. My daughter enjoyed being on Ladycats with her also during those middle school years. I have good memories of Kelley with her wonderful smile and especially our shared interest of dogs and the NE humane society which we talked about many times. She had such a kind heart for all animals it was so wonderful. God Bless each of you during this difficult time.
Troy, Dona, Andrew, and Riley James
October 29, 2008
Words are not enough to express feelings at this moment. Your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
October 29, 2008
Ver Velde family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of great loss.
The Korth family
Millard Parent
October 29, 2008
Ver Velde Family,
Please take comfort in knowing that hundreds and hundreds of people are praying for you during this difficult time. Your new Angel has left you with many fond memories, and I pray that someday soon you can comfortably embrace them. God loves you all, and will not abandon you.
Melanie Olson
October 29, 2008
Kelley was a special child with a beautiful personality. I taught her in 7th grade and remember her naming the class hamster and taking care of him daily. My deepest sympathies to her family.
Fr. Jim Tiegs
October 29, 2008
All of us on the staff of St. Stephen the Martyr Parish send our love and care and prayers to you at this very sad time. Please be assured of our continuing care, and know that we will be here for you in the days ahead. May God hold each of you, including Kelley, in His heart!
Tiffany Nemecek
October 29, 2008
My son is in 7th grade with Kody and knows Molly through his friend. We didn't know Kelley, but can see she touched a lot of peoples lives. We want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss and may God Bless you in this difficult time.
The Nemecek's (Brian, Tiffany, Brock, Payton and McKenna)
Angie and Kirk Peterson
October 29, 2008
VerVelde Family-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. Words cannot express the deep sadness that we feel for your family. Kelley was a beautiful person and will be deeply missed.
October 29, 2008
Our hearts go to the family and student body at Millard West, her team mates at Millard West and Arsenal. Kelly will be missed by all including several of the girls on our team that knew her and played club in Omaha with Arsenal. We pray for your peace.- Lincoln Southwest Soccer Girls
Kelly McCaw
October 29, 2008
Dave, Denise, Jesse, Molly & Kody
We are so sorry for your loss. Kelley was a great girl and always put a smile on our faces. Although we haven't seen you in a while we will always remember the good times on and off the soccer field. I will never forget the special hello I shared with her, she would always greet me with Hi Kelly Jo with a "Y" and I would respond back Hi Kelley Jo with an "EY".
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You!!
The McCaw Family
Jenn Skibinski (Crites)
October 29, 2008
I was blessed to have the opportunity to be Kelley’s fourth grade teacher at Rohwer. Her smile and spirit were contagious.
Kelley will forever remain in our hearts and memories. I will continue to pray for your family in the days ahead.
With heartfelt condolences.
Abby Jorgensen
October 29, 2008
Ver Velde Family,
Kelley and I were close friends in 6th and 7th grade, unfortunetly the years since we have not been as close. What I do know about kelley is she was a gift from God and touched many lives without even knowing it. She is now safe and happy at the side of the Lord and will be with each of you during the rest of your days on earth. I will never forget her amazing smile and personality. My prayers are with all of you. I am so very sorry for your lose. God Bless
kathleen forsgren
October 29, 2008
My family was so sorry to hear of your loss. My daughters are members of the same QT class at Millard West. The entire group of students will miss Kelley and will stand by Molly for the coming years. Denise, I met you at many of Dr. K's Parent Coffees over the last few years. As a mom, I know that you are heartbroken. May your family, your friends, your Millard West Community and your faith carrry you through this most terrible time.
Kathleen Forsgren
Becky Tracy
October 29, 2008
Dear VerVelde Family
My son and daughter knew Kelley, and they are so grieved. They have told me what a beautiful and nice girl Kelley was and how loved she was by her friends at Millard West. Our family is praying for you without ceasing.
Digger Hawkins
October 29, 2008
To the Ver Velde family
I am sorry to hear about Kelley. She was a great kid and a great soccer player. She has touched the lives of me, other coaches, her teammates, her friends and of course her family.
It was an honor to coach Kelley she will certainly be missed.
My deepest sympathizes. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Digger
Laura Schenkelberg
October 29, 2008
VerVelde Family,
I'm deeply sorry about your lose. I have known Kelley since I was 10 becuase of soccer and I'm truly sadden about this. All of my prayers are with you and hope that you all stay strong no matter what God gives you in the future.
October 29, 2008
As the mother of one of Kelley's good friends, the feeling of grief is at times unbearable. My heart is broken for all of you,her beloved family, my prayers of comfort and strength for your family are continuous. We have been through many emotions in the last couple of days and when the girls share stories of Kelly, there is laughter through the tears, she has brought so much joy to her friends lives, they will miss her terribly. She made a difference in their young lives and they will never forget the wonderful friend that she was to them. The times she spent at our house and in my car will always make me laugh, she had a sense of humor like no other.
My deepest, deepest sympathy to you, may you feel God's presence every day as he will be there by your side.
Rest in Peace Kelley Jo, you were so loved and will be missed very much.
Kim McCoy
John Walsh
October 29, 2008
VerVelde family,
Our deepest sympathy on your loss. May the days ahead be filled with the great memories you have. The Millard North Girls Soccer Team sends their best.
Mike, LeAnn, Amanda, Mallory Woodring
October 29, 2008
Dave, Denise and Family
I feel I have lost one of my daughters. My daughters have lost a sister. Kelly you were part of my family for years. You helped my daughters become kind and carring. Your personality was so unique and special, the world has lost a gentle sole. Kelly you will be missed by your adopted family more than you will know. You will always have a place in my heart as my adopted daughter. I love and miss you. You will remain in my heart forever. Dear lord you have a special angel to help with your plan in Kelly, but you have always known this God!!! My prayers are with the VerVelde family.
October 29, 2008
Kody,
We all love you like a sister! We are so sorry to hear about your loss. We will be there for you during this time of sorrow. We love you!!
Arsenal U-13 Girls
Nancy Kruse
October 29, 2008
Dave, Denise, Jesse, Molly, and Kody,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you remember Kelley as such a special daughter, sister, friend, teammate, classmate, and person. We pray for blessings for your family.
The Kruse Family
Tim, Nancy, Tyler, Jake, and Megan
millard west students
October 29, 2008
vervelde family
so sorry for your loss kelly was an awsome person that really lit up the room and she will be missed by everyone at millard west and she is in all of our thoughts and prayers
a parent
October 29, 2008
I have a daughter the same age as your Kelley and as a parent, you worry about your children every minute of every day. You want to always protect them but you also want to let them make their own choices. It is unimaginable what a family goes through at a time like this....it is a tragedy to loose someone so young who obviously has impacted so many people in such a positive way. God will bless you and your family....Kelley is your angel now and forever.
Pat Hill Family
October 29, 2008
Our thoughts, prayers and heart go our to your wonderful family! God bless you all.
Debbie & Denise Robert W. Baird & Co.
October 29, 2008
Dave & family-
we are so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Helen Ann Van Riper
October 29, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with all of the Ver Velde family at this difficult time and in the days ahead. I taught Jesse in fifth grade and had the opportunity to know Kelley as well. She was a fun loving individual who offered so much to others.
Arsenal Veleno U16 Boys
October 29, 2008
VerVelde Family -
Kelly was our Sister in spirit - in competition - in life. We will all miss her on and off the pitch.
Eric Grandgenett
October 29, 2008
Words can't express how saddened I am about the loss of Kelley. She was a special person and I feel blessed to have taught her for three years. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire VerVelde family, especially Jesse, Molly, and Kody. May God bless all of you.
-The Grandgenett Family
LeAnn Woodring
October 29, 2008
Kelley spent a lot of time at our house when her and Amanda were in elementary school, I became to love Kelley as one of my own kids during that time and have continued although not spending as much time with her over the past couple years. Kelley could always make me laugh no matter what kind of mood I was in or what kind of mischief her and Amanda were doing. I will greatly miss Kelley. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.
Jean Kirkpatrick
October 29, 2008
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that God blesses you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 29, 2008
Vervelde Family,
We are sorry for your loss, may knowing others care help you through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Arsenal U13 95/96 Red
Jim Tomczak and Family
October 29, 2008
Dear Ver Velde Family,
May the fond memories of your daughter last forever. Our prayers are with your family.
chris nellis
October 29, 2008
i have gone to school with Kelley since 6th grade. we werent really friends. i havent talked to her since 8th grade. my thoughts and prayers will always be with Kelley and her family.
Roberta Heiden
October 29, 2008
Dave, Denise, Jesse, Molly and Kody,
Words cannot express what I want to say. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Although we know Jesse better than Kelley, we did get to spend some time with her, and she had the most amazing smile. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Love,
Roberta and Rich Heiden
Lacey Kros (McGranaghan)
October 29, 2008
Denise, Dave, and Family:
I am so sad to hear of your loss. I am saying many prayers for all of you. May God hear our prayers and provide you with great comfort during this horrific ordeal. God Bless all of you and the late Kelley Jo.
Bryan, Peggy & Ben Brown
October 29, 2008
Our hearts go out to all of you. May God's promise of heaven bring you peace.
Gladys Demson
October 29, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Sarah Andersen
October 29, 2008
We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. We will remember her smiling presence at the many Cardinal basketball games. Our deepest sympathy --
Curt & Sarah Andersen
October 28, 2008
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. May the scriptures give you hope and comfort - 1st John 4:8 "...God is love." Embrace the love of family, friends and neighbors during this challenging time. Cherish your memories forever in your heart. You are in my prayers.
Michaela Ponec
October 28, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers through this hard time. God Bless
Kara Brommer
October 28, 2008
Kelley was an all around amazing person. she was sweet, caring, funny, and lovable. I remember when we had lunch together she could always find a way to cheer someone up. Kelley always knew how to light up a room and make the best of every situation. We all love and miss Kelley very much. Your family is in my prayers. May all your memories bring comfort to your family.
Travis Huetter
October 28, 2008
I have known Kelley since first grade and always enjoyed seeing her at school. Everyone will miss seeing her smiling face daily. Kelley was always very athletic and I remember playing many different sports with her at recess and joking with her in class. My prayers go out to all of her friends and family.
The Lutmer Family
October 28, 2008
Kelley will be deeply missed by many. Her personality and ability to make everyone and anyone laugh with be missed and never forgotten.
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers Always and Forever.
Lynda Gelecki
October 28, 2008
VerVelde Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to your family during this difficult time. Kelley touched our lives and will be greatly missed.
The Gelecki Family
Justin Higgins
October 28, 2008
VerVelde Family
I've known kelley since 6th grade and she was a great person. I am honored to have been able to be a friend of hers . Stay strong through all of this and know that you have all of your friends to lean on. All of my love and prayers go out to your family. She will always be loved never forgotten.
God Bless
Jeff and Judy Dittmar
October 28, 2008
Words cannot express the depth of our sorrow. Kelley will be greatly missed as part of our soccer family. The team has grown up together, and Kelley will never be forgotten. My best memory of good times was our trip to Wisconsin for regionals. We all had so much fun! We will cherish the times we had with all of you and will do our best to support you as time goes on.
Gil Allgood
October 28, 2008
i
knew kelley for quite some time she was always a pleasure to be around,
and always made me laugh. my prayers go out to kelley and her family.
rip kelley...your in all our prayers
October 28, 2008
I may not have known her well but i knew 1 of her family members and i know the loss is a great one. She will be missed so terribly much. Millard west will always miss her and her family and friends will too. I wish she wouldnt have had to go like that but we all know she is in a better place and she is happy. & to her family and close friends i am so sorry for your loss and everyone is in my prayers.
R.I.P. Kelley jo Vervelde You will be missed.
Sarah
October 28, 2008
I would like to send my condolences to the family. I'm am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful person. My heart goes out to you in this time of pain and suffering. Kelley will never be forgotten. With sympathy...
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