Marian Seldes

1928 - 2014

Marian Seldes

1928 - 2014

BORN

1928

DIED

2014

Marian Seldes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 7, 2014.
NEW YORK (AP) — Actress Marian Seldes, the Tony Award-winning star of "A Delicate Balance" who was a teacher of Kevin Kline and Robin Williams, a muse to playwright Edward Albee and a Guinness Book of World Records holder for most consecutive performances, died Monday at age 86.

She died peacefully at her home after an extended illness, her brother Timothy Seldes said.

"It is with deep sadness that I share the news that my dear sister Marian Seldes has died," he said in a statement. "She was an extraordinary woman whose great love of the theater, teaching and acting was surpassed only by her deep love for her family."

Marian Seldes made her Broadway debut in 1947 in a production of "Medea," starring the versatile actress Judith Anderson, and later appeared in hits such as "Equus" and "Deathtrap." Her most recent Broadway outing was in Terrence McNally's "Deuce" in 2007, starring opposite Angela Lansbury.

Seldes was nominated for a Tony five times, for her performances in "A Delicate Balance," ''Father's Day," ''Deathtrap," ''Ring Round the Moon" and "Dinner at Eight." She won in 1967 for "A Delicate Balance" and won her second Tony in 2010 for lifetime achievement.

Her collaborations with Albee included "Three Tall Women," which won the 1994 Pulitzer Prize for drama, "The Play About the Baby," ''Tiny Alice" and "Father's Day."

"I think I'm as ambitious as any actress can be, but I don't ask," she told The Washington Times in 1995. "I have a theory that it's better for me if I wait and either the director or playwright chooses. The best opportunities in my career have come that way, and all my opportunities with Edward Albee have come that way."

But she moved easily from role to role, from Chekhov's "Ivanov" to Peter Shaffer's "Equus," from Ira Levin's "Deathtrap" to Tony Kushner's "A Bright Room Called Day" and Tina Howe's "Painting Churches." Her off-Broadway credits also include "The Ginger Man" and "Painting Churches."

Seldes' reliability and professionalism sealed her place in the Guinness World Records for a time after playing every performance during the run of "Deathtrap" from 1978 to 1982 — a total of 1,809 performances. Her record as most durable actress has since been broken by Catherine Russell, who logged over 11,000 performances in the off-Broadway production of "Perfect Crime."

Seldes, the daughter of author and journalist Gilbert Seldes, was twice married, to novelist and playwright Julian Claman, a union that ended in divorce in 1961, and then to playwright Garson Kanin, who died in 1999.

From 1969 to 1992, she served on the faculty of the Juilliard School, teaching the craft of acting to such pupils as Kline, Williams, Patti LuPone, Laura Linney, Mandy Patinkin and Christopher Reeve.

Seldes also acted in films, in "Mona Lisa Smile," ''Home Alone 3" and "Celebrity." On television she appeared in "Nurse Jackie" and played Candice Bergen's aunt in "Murphy Brown" and Mr. Big's mother in "Sex and the City." She also wrote two books: a memoir, "The Bright Lights: A Theater Life," and a novel, "Time Together."

Seldes, a slim and elegant woman who often wore her hair pulled back, studied with Sanford Meisner at the Neighborhood Playhouse and made her professional debut at age 17 in Robinson Jeffers' "Medea," with Anderson.

Her other Broadway credits include "Crime and Punishment," ''The Chalk Garden," ''The Milk Train Doesn't Stop Here Anymore," Oliver Hailey's "Father's Day," for which she won a Drama Desk Award, Arnold Wesker's "The Merchant" and Kanin's "A Gift of Time."

In 1995, she was inducted into the Theatre Hall of Fame, marking 50 years in the profession, but she missed the ceremony because — typically — she was on tour with "Three Tall Women" in Los Angeles.

MARK KENNEDY, AP Drama Writer


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Jennifer

December 17, 2023

Rest in Peace Eternal Heaven..

Jennifer Baribault

December 16, 2023

RIP May your heart fill with happiness now, as you received your angel wings. You will be missed, yet never be forgotten .She appeared in an episode of Murphy Brown as title character’s eccentric Aunt Brooke, 2000 Duets Marian Seledes aka Harriet Gahayan and I have the Movie of Duets.

Jayden

October 10, 2017

Coping with the death of our loved ones is not an easy task. No doubt the interchange of love between you and your loved one has resulted in beautiful memories that can be reflected upon daily. May you draw comfort by reflecting on those memories. And know that God is near all those broken at heart. Isaiah 57:15

November 11, 2014

Such a talented woman. My condolences to the To the Seldes family, you have my deepest sympathy. She is resting peacefully. Eccl. 9:5

October 18, 2014

To the Seldes family, you have my deepest sympathy. May good memories provide solace for you and your family during this challenging time and may God provide you with the assurance that you will see your loved one again. (John 17:3)

October 16, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss and pray that as you face the difficult times ahead, you will rely on our heavenly father for strength and comfort. Trust in God at all times, pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us...Psalms 62:8

PE

October 16, 2014

A special life has passed from sight... Embrace the memories of Ms. Marian Seldes that will comfort you. May the God of comfort be with you during this difficult time in your lives? It is refreshing to know that God's word speaks of a time when all sorrows will be gone and that mankind will live in beautiful surroundings having nothing to fear no pain or sorrow Isaiah 65:17, 21-24.

Dorene Dennison

October 13, 2014

My sincere condolences to the family and friends all over the world. A beautiful soul whom is now a beautiful angel.

October 11, 2014

Marian was a unique and wonder person, in addition to being a great actress. We spent several visits with her and Garson in Martha's Vineyard and those memories are dear to me. Randall Hyde

October 11, 2014

I pray that you can hope in God and know that he cares for you and is not the the cause of death but life. (James 1:13; John 17:3)

Melina Brown

October 9, 2014

Marian was dear to me and my Grandfather, Himan Brown. She was tremendously supportive of us both when he was ill and during his decline and of me after he passed. I will always remember her kindness and how much Hi adored and loved her. She was one of a kind; a huge talent with a heart just as big. Godspeed, Marian.

John Reid

October 9, 2014

My condolences to Ms. Seldes' friends and family. I enjoyed her performances. I just learned that her godmother was Esther Murphy Strachey Arthur (1897-1962), the second wife of Gavin Arthur, per Esther's bio "All We Know: Three Lives" by Lisa Coffman. I'm currently writing Gavin's bio.

October 9, 2014

I am sorry for your loss. Tony was truly talented and will be missed. Please take comfort in knowing that God Cares personally for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 1 Peter 5 : 7.

Laurie Kanin

October 8, 2014

Marian was my husband's Josh Kanin Aunt. We are so sorry for your loss. We had plan on coming to New York next January when he had his vacation. If any family wishes to contact us please email me at
[email protected].
Our prayers are with you.

October 8, 2014

May the precious memories of your loved one be a comfort for you now in this time of sadness. PSALM 46:1

Nancy Cromwell

October 8, 2014

I am sorry for your loss. I so enjoyed watching Ms. Seldes perform on various shows. She will indeed be greatly missed. May the God of peace be with you (Romans 15:33). Please take care.

October 8, 2014

May Mrs.Seldes fond memories stay close to your hearts.Psalms116:5.

October 8, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

October 7, 2014

I offer my sincerest condolences to the family. "... may the God who supplies endurance and comfort" be with you, and help you to endure this troubling time. (Romans 15:5)

James Willner

October 7, 2014

May the eternal light shine upon her.....

October 7, 2014

To the Seldes family sorry for your lost , may you find comfort from Gods word that says God is there when ones are going threw trails

October 7, 2014

Sympathy and regret to the family,let your prayers be known to God and He will give you the strength to get through..isa.51:12.….

D. Rivers

October 7, 2014

This is so sad! I can't wait for the time we no longer have to say goodbye to our loved ones.

Patti R

October 7, 2014

Dear Seldes family,
I had the pleasure of meeting Marian many times over the years in NYC. Her gentle kind nature made an impact on me. Not to mention her talent ! I am saddened to learn of her passing. I will always remember Marian's smile. My thoughts and prayers go out to Marian's family, friends and fans.

October 7, 2014

My condolences to the family during this time of grief. John 5:28

October 7, 2014

Another light has gone out

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