Cindy Lou NEUSCHWANDER

Cindy Lou NEUSCHWANDER obituary, Richmond, Va.

Cindy Lou NEUSCHWANDER

Cindy NEUSCHWANDER Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Dec. 6 to Dec. 8, 2012.
NEUSCHWANDER, Cindy Lou, age 60, of Richmond, died Tuesday, December 4, 2012. She was preceded in death by her father, Al Neuschwander. She is survived by her loving husband, Jay Barrows; and three sons, Casey Barrows and his wife, Angie, Dylan Barrows and Bryce Barrows; two beautiful grandchildren, River and Jazmine; She is also survived by her mother, Gloria and her partner, Jim; brothers, Alan Neuschwander and his wife, Lana, Jon Neuschwander and his partner, Kim; nephew, Derek Neuschwander and his daughter, Ashley. She died of ovarian cancer that was first diagnosed in July 2007. Cindy was from Bedford, Texas. She graduated from University of Texas and received MFA of Photography from Virginia Commonwealth University. Cindy was many things to many people. She was an amazing friend, a "crazy" in love wife, the kind of stepmom every child would want, and grandmother (affectionately called Nana Lou) extraordinaire. She cared deeply, loved deeply and was very passionate about art, travel, books, and life in general, with a smile that could light up a room and a spirit to match. Cindy was an artist. Her drawings and paintings were about mark making, layering, texture and color. The work was always intuitive and absolutely reflected who she truly was. The number of people that Cindy connected with and touched is far reaching. Her life had meaning and therefore inspired others to look for depth in their own lives. This inspiration will continue long after her passing. A Celebration of Life will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: 1708 Gallery (319 W. Broad Street, Richmond, Va. 23220), Art 180 (O E. 4th Street, Studio 1, Richmond, Va. 23224), National Ovarian Cancer Coalition (2501 Oak Lawn Ave., Suite 435. Dallas, Texas 75219) and Hospice of Virginia (1700 Bayberry Ct., Richmond, Va. 23226).


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April 4, 2013

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Mark D'Amato

April 4, 2013

I just heard today about Cindy's passing. I am shocked and saddened. I first met Cindy while doing an internship at the Anderson Gallery. She and I worked on the Anderson's collection, where I found a wonderful etching by Van Gogh. She was a bright ray of sunshine, as one can easily see in her wonderful smile. I will keep her family in my thoughts and prayers.

Ellen Wallenstein

February 1, 2013

so sorry to hear this. cindy was my student and my good friend @ UT in the early 80s,....(we reconnected a few years ago)...she was so happy in her life and her art. my condolences to her loved ones.

January 21, 2013

i learned a couple weeks ago when i emailed her and jay responded. i can't tell you how affected i was with remorse and sadness... what a loss for us and a beautiful new spirit in heaven. Cindy visited my store,CIAO,in Carytown,the minute i met her i felt a connection, her soul and inner beauty just poured out of her...you know when you just love someone the instant you meet them? How could you not with cindy. my heart aches for her husband jay and family...but you will join her again. i think of her everyday now and say a prayer. we were so fortunate to have known her, and i really didn't know her well but she touched my life. i will miss her! cathy redding

Susan Stapleton McLaurin

January 15, 2013

I met Cindy at the Anderson Gallery where I did an internship.
She later became a wonderful friend and changed my life in Virginia. She will be missed.

Leah Stoddard

January 4, 2013

I only learned today of Cindy's passing, and want to reach out to Jay and her family to share with you how she touched my life. I worked with her a few years ago as an artist advisor, and we spent hours together crafting word by word a new artist statement that could best communicate an art that operates outside of language. During that time I got to know her intimately, and was struck by her vision, her engaged questioning of her work and herself, and left our collaboration filled with her spirit of hope, beauty, and soulful insight. I will miss her so much, and know that through her art, and those she touched, she will be with us always.

Suzyn Hutton Kelley

January 2, 2013

I first met Cindy's work, in Austin & wanted to meet her then. Only a few years later did I get the chance in RVA. Kind, fun, and so very genuine, Cindy inspired me in many ways. I will never forget when we worked setting up Lucas Samiras' Mirrored Corridor at the VMFA; one day after lunch we lay down inside of our finished chamber to 'reflect' and ended up giggling in an-all consuming fit of laughter over the infinite reflections of ourselves. She was easy to LOVE. Profound Condolences to Jay, Dylan, Bryce and family.

Rob Moore

December 31, 2012

Cindy and I were classmates and friends in junior high and later. I remember most: her smile & laugh, and how she was always quick with a witty remark.
She and I were debate partners in speech class ... she always took the difficult side of the issue and left me the easy one. When I asked why, she just laughed and said it was more fun to take the part that required more creative answers. And so it was with her life. I will celebrate her memory.

December 12, 2012

Jay,and Family, Neuschwander family, I would like to express my sincere condolenses to you for the loss of your loved one. Cindy was a friend forty-five years ago and the words of encouragement she expressed to me then still ring in my ears. She was an amazing person. I'll miss her. Sincerely, Stan Langston

Amie Oliver

December 11, 2012

I met Cindy through a mutual friend around the time Martha started her gallery on Cary Street in 93 or 94. Her grace and passion for life in all of its dimensions inspired me... Our hearts are full for Jay and her family as the world is a little less bright now..

Annie chalkley

December 10, 2012

A woman whose thoughts could never be matched either on canvas or in spirit. She's a gem of a memory...thank you, Cindy, for your power and care.

Mike Purvis

December 10, 2012

Very saddened to hear of Cindy's passing. I met her at VCU while in the School of Arts. My heart goes out to her family and friends.

sheila & Kevin connelly-Daley

December 9, 2012

We are very sorry to hear of Cindy's passing. She was really a lovely person, and it was always a pleasure to see her. We have one of her original painted wooden bowls from 1992, signed. It has always been on our kitchen island as long as I can remember. Now when I see it daily it will remind me of a well loved artist, wife, friend. Condolences to her loving husband and family... RIP sweet lady.

kendra wadsworth

December 8, 2012

Cindy Lou had such a MAGNETIC personality. Though I didn't know her all that well, I remember her at 1708 functions as a beautiful, sincere, and inspiring woman who always lit up a room. Her spirit was comforting and amazing - and always will be. I will miss her.

Regula Franz

December 8, 2012

I am deeply saddened by Cindy's passing. We met in grad school at VCU School of the Arts in 1986. When she graduated, I was the lucky one to get her darkroom at our run-down photo center on Harrison. She became a mentor and shining example. I will never forget her.

Candace Darling

December 7, 2012

My heart is sad for such a great loss. I have not seen Cindy since LD Bell days but have thought about her often. She was fun, exciting, talented, and always so full of life. Good by sweet girt, Cande Darling (Upton)

December 7, 2012

Cindy was my first wife, she loved life, she enjoyed it to fullist, she was always in for anything, this is a shock, a loss that shouldn't of happened. Gloria, my heart is with you, my prayers are with you. God bless.
All my love
Robert

December 7, 2012

My heartfelt condolences to Jay , the rest of Cyndy's family, and all those who were fortunate enough to have known and loved her.
Peace
SteveFishman

Robert and Donna Gillingham

December 7, 2012

Cindy was a part of our lives when she was young. We have many happy memories with Cindy. Our Prayers go out to the family

December 7, 2012

Cindy was a part of our lives when she was young. We have many happy memories with Cindy. Our prayers go out to the family, Bob and Donna Gillingham

Ann Romer

December 7, 2012

I hadn't seen her since her Fulton Hill Studio years, but I followed her online and on her site. I own two of her lacquered pieces, and always wanted some of her magical paintings. I'll remember her smile, her brilliant talent, and her courage.

December 7, 2012

Richmond has lost a wonderful person, artist and community volunteer. She was fortunate to have the love of a wonderful husband, family and art community. We have all lost a remarkable, giving, creative person. Jay, I am so sorry for your loss. Susanne A

Kathleen Markowitz

December 7, 2012

Jay, I am greatly saddened for this deep loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Claudia McCabe

December 7, 2012

She touched the hearts of everyone she met. Such a joy to be around. She could make me laugh like no other..

December 7, 2012

Jay, my heart goes out to you.
Suzan Garabedian

Martha Mabey

December 7, 2012

I first met Cindy when she was single and living above the American Opinion Bookstore in the museum district. I invited her to join my gallery where she displayed painted bowls and painted furniture. She had one of the few authentic artist's souls of anyone I've ever met. She loved you, Jay, so much.

December 6, 2012

Jay, World class smile. My thoughts are with you and my prayers are for everyone whose lives were touched by her. Piet

December 6, 2012

Richard and I are so very sorry for your loss. We will always treasure our memory of her beautiful smile, and her beautiful art. Maggi Beckstoffer

December 6, 2012

Sorry for your loss. I know she was loved by many, Casey, Angie and River. Spoke highly of her. Mack and Sue Mayfield (Rivers grandparents).

December 6, 2012

Jay and family: Cindy was loved by all who knew her. Her smile always, as you wrote, lit-up the room. We'll treasure even more the work we own by her -- it will remind us of her radiance. You and your family are in our thoughts.

Peter and Lisa Habenicht

December 6, 2012

Jay and family: Cindy was loved by all who knew her. Her smile always, as you wrote, lit up the room. We'll treasure even more the brilliant work we own by her -- it will remind us of her warm radiance. You and yours are in our thoughts.

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