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Frank Barchi Obituary

Frank William Barchi

AGE: 83 • Manchester

Frank William Barchi, 83 years of age, of Leisure Village West in Manchester, passed away peacefully on the evening of Wednesday, Feb. 15, 2012, at Van Dyke Hospice Care Center. He was born in North Bergen, New Jersey on March 15, 1928. He graduated from William Dickinson High School of Jersey City and was in the Army during the Korean War from October 1950 through February 1957 serving part of the time in Germany. Frank retired as a supervisor from Western Electric and AT&T after 40 years of service. His life-long passions along with his family and loved ones included jazz, with Frank Sinatra being one of his favorites. Frank was a lifelong avid New York Giants and Yankees fan. He was also an avid bowler and served as the president of the Leisure Village West Bowling League Number One for several years.

Frank is survived by his beloved companion of over 20 years, Jean Hunter. He also leaves behind his loving children, Barbara Barchi of Toms River, Patricia Villone and husband Vincent of Brick, Michael Barchi of Bradley Beach, and Frank Barchi Jr. and wife Serena and Frank's grandchildren, Scott and Taylor of St. John, Ind. In addition, he leaves his loving brother, Richard Barchi of Whiting. Additionally, he is survived by his adoring step-daughters, Susan Willis and husband George of Haddonfield, Deborah O'Neill-Saluk and husband James of Stratford, Conn., and Pamela Frantzen and husband Edward of Stratford, Conn. As well, he is survived by his step-granddaughter, Shannon Magee and husband Daniel and Frank's great-step-grandchildren, Sean and Bryce of Cherry Hill. Also left behind are dear friends of Frank and Jean, Fred and Shirley Stone of Toms River, and the Rockmore - Bates clan of Warner's Lake, N.Y.

In honor of Frank's wishes, he will be cremated and no memorial services will be held. His family thanks the Van Dyke Hospice Center and requests donations be made to them in Frank's name: Community Medical Center, Van Dyke Hospice, 99 Highway 37 West, Toms River NJ 08755, or go to http://www.barnabashealth.org for donation information.

We say good bye to our beloved with lyrics from a Frank Sinatra tune called Without a Song: "I'll never know, what makes the rain to fall; I'll never know, what makes the grass so tall; I only know, there ain't no love at all without a song".

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press on Feb. 18, 2012.

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March 10, 2012

Missing you

Kim Hintze Fletcher

February 22, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers being sent your way. I have fond memories of hanging out with the Barchi family when I was a young girl....I still remember jumping on the pogo stick and company picnics where our families would get together!!

Kim (Hintze) Fletcher

February 21, 2012

Aunt Jean, we ae so sorry for your loss. We so enjoyed meeting Frank at the O'Neill reunion with Uncle Harry.

With Depest Sympathy,

Jeff & Gail O'Neill
Atlanta, GA

February 21, 2012

Dear Pam, I am so sorry for your loss. Love Joelle

February 19, 2012

My sympathy goes out to Richie, Jean and the entire Barchi family.My frienship with Frank goes back to 1935 when our families lived in the same two family house in North Bergen.He has been a dear friend for all these years. We shared our love of music over these many years.He was a wonderful guy whom I will dearly miss.
Donald Peragallo, Valley Forge, PA

Roberta Stivale

February 18, 2012

Richard, you and your family will be remembered in my prayers. So sorry for the loss of your brother. I know you must have so many wonderful memories, enjoy them and remember all the happiness.
Love to all

jane pedler and mark peterson

February 18, 2012

Richard, Mark and I did not know your brother Frank, but if he was as fine a man as you are...which we are sure he was...then he was a fine man indeed. Our hearts and thoughts are with you, and with the rest of Frank's family and loved ones. We will pray for the repose of Frank's soul.

Margie Bedell

February 18, 2012

To Patti and Vinnie and Frank, and your family, I just wanted to let you know how sorry i was to hear about your Dad. Know that i am thinking of you . Love ya

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