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Phillip Benefield Obituary

BENEFIELD Sr., Phillip Phillip Benefield Sr., beloved and loving husband of 52 years, proud father to two sons and friend of nearly anyone he met passed away peacefully the morning of December 15th, at home in Decatur, GA. He was 73 years old. A memorial service celebrating his life is scheduled for 2 p.m. Friday Dec. 18th at Oak Grove United Methodist Church in Decatur, GA. With Dr. Glenn Ethridge officiating. Phil was born in LaGrange, GA to Dorsey and Lorene Benefield and graduated from LaGrange High School. He attended North Georgia College where he was an active member and leader of the military honor society Scabbard and Blade. Upon graduation he was commissioned an Armor officer in the United States Army. He and Beth were stationed at Fort Stewart, GA and he deployed shortly afterward for a year with the 18th Airborne Corps peacekeeping force as a tank platoon leader to Santa Domingo. After serving his obligation he left service and began a career in finance and banking eventually becoming a municipal bond trader which lasted until his retirement as the Director, Municipal Securities Division, Smith Barney. After retirement Phil endeavored to serve others through various philanthropic and service organizations. He served on a number of boards of director narrowing his service to the U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary and the Troup County Dulcimer club. He attended a number of courses in support of the USCG including radio school and a culinary course. He played the guitar for the Troupers where he accompanied them as they played in churches and nursing homes. He was a keen fisherman and boater and enjoyed being on water of any kind. He was a lover of good music, particularly country and classic rock music. He also picked up leatherworking and enjoyed creating belts, key rings, guitar straps and holsters for friends and family. He was a member of Oak Grove United Methodist Church and the Hope Sunday School class which has been together for 35 years and spent considerable time studying and finding answers to questions about faith. Phil is survived by his wife of 52 years Beth Crouch Benefield of Decatur, GA, son Phillip, daughter in law Kim, granddaughters Mary, Rebecca and Katherine of LaGrange GA, son Thomas, daughter in law Anna, and granddaughters Ramona and Corrine also of Decatur, GA. Our family thanks the many doctors, PAs, nurses and caregivers who extended his life and made the last few months much better than they would have been without them. We could not have done it without you. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Oak Grove United Methodist Church or to a charity of your choice.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution from Dec. 17 to Dec. 18, 2015.

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Joyce Slade

December 22, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Phil from the Dallas Street Teenage Club and a leadership camp we both attended as teenagers. I'm glad to know he had a good life and a wonderful family. May you be filled with the peace that passes all understanding, even as you grieve your loss and continue forward. (I entered this stage of my life a little over 11 years ago, when my husband of 40+ years died after being hospitalized several months.) God be with you. Joyce White Slade of Perkinston MS, formerly of LaGrange GA.

Beth McDonald

December 20, 2015

My prayers are with you and family. Phil will always be remembered for such a wonderful friend !

Alison Grace

December 18, 2015

I idolized Phil when I was a little kid and he was often at our house to play music with my brother. He was unfailingly kind to this "kid sister" and I know he continued to be a lovely person for the rest of his life. We are all richer for having known him.

Pat

December 18, 2015

Please accept my condolences.

Betty Wilson

December 18, 2015

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

C. Lee

December 18, 2015

My deepest sympathy for your loss. "He is a God, not of the dead, but of the living for they are all living to him." Lu.20:38

Trudie Barreras

December 18, 2015

Dear Beth,

I don't think I ever really met Phil, but of course I feel deeply for your loss. Blessings and prayers.

Mike Scarbrough

December 18, 2015

I enjoyed working with Phil for many years. He was a true professional and a really nice man. Blessings to the family.

December 18, 2015

May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time

Dave--- Ps 34 :18 Ps 46 :1 Rev 21:4 Isa 26 : 4

December 18, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss. May Almighty God grant you comfort and strength to endure the difficult days ahead.

Lonnie & Linda Yearta

December 17, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

the blamires

December 17, 2015

hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you - he is such a good man

Rich Brewer

December 17, 2015

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Benefield family. My sincere condolences during this time of loss. May God Bless.

Jennifer Davis

December 17, 2015

Beth, Lindsey and I are so sorry to learn of Phil's death. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Jennifer and Lindsey Davis

Rev 21:3&4 G. Johnson

December 17, 2015

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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