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Stetson Cowan Obituary

Colonel Stetson R. Cowan, 59, of Mesa, took his last flight Sunday, July 6, 2008. He was born on December 16, 1948 in Eastland, Texas, to William Kenneth Cowan and Eleanor Rowles Cowan. Cowan graduated from Colorado City High School in Colorado City, Texas in 1967. He graduated from the US Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, CO., in 1971. He went on to pilot training at Vance AFB in Enid, Oklahoma, then Randolph AFB, Texas, for pilot instructor training. He flew T-38's and other fixed-wing aircraft until he decided helicopters were more fun. Other assignments included: Hurlburt Field, FL., Howard AFB, Panama, Kirtland AFB, New Mexico. He was then chosen to attend the U.S. Navy's Test Pilot School at Patuxent River, Maryland, then on to Edwards AFB where he flew many experimental aircraft and then taught at the U.S. Air Force Test Pilot School. While there, he received his Master's Degree from Golden Gate University, and became a member of The Society of Experimental Test Pilots. (SETP). In 1989, he became the Commander of the 6514th Test Squadron at Hill AFB, near Ogden, Utah. His last Air Force assignment was Wright-Patterson AFB, in Dayton, Ohio. After 2 years of Ohio weather, he was thrilled to be offered a job at The Boeing Company, Mesa, where he was the happiest as a Test Pilot for the Apache Helicopter. He also worked on the unmanned X-50A Dragonfly, and then as a Systems Safety Engineer. Throughout his fight with cancer, he continued to work at Boeing until the very end. Colonel Cowan was a member of the Order of Daedalians, Flight 82, Mesa. He was happiest around helicopters, airplanes, a golf course, family and all his best buddies. Cowan is survived by his wife of almost 19 years, Major Tess Taft Cowan,(USAF, Ret) and their niece, Theresa Bennett. His sister, Alexis McRoberts, brother-in-law, Roger McRoberts and nephews Dr. Lowell McRoberts and Colin McRoberts. Also, Betty Cowan, sister-in-law, and nephews Will Cowan and Kevin Cowan. He is also survived by many cousins, including brother-like Dr Seth Cowan and Roy Chandler. He is also survived by his father-in-law, Bill Taft, Clinton, CT., sister-in-laws, Valerie Harris, Debbie Seagraves, Diana Taft, nephew, Marty Seagraves, nieces Cathy, Rosie and Angela Edmonds, and all their children. And many other cousins across the country. In addition to his parents, he is predeceased by his brother, Bill Cowan. In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations to Cowan's favorite church, St. Mark's Episcopal Church, Mesa, where he served as the Senior Warden. Bunker's Garden Chapel is handling the cremation. Services will be held this Saturday, July 12 at 10:00 am, at St. Mark's Episcopal Church, 322 N. Horne,(just south of University Drive) Mesa, 85203. Military friends are welcome to wear their uniforms, and others are welcome to wear red or blue for Military Honors. He fought pancreatic/liver/stomach cancer for more than 6 years and never complained. Colonel Cowan died at home, under the care of Hospice of the Valley and his family. Rest eternal grant to him, and let light perpetual shine upon him.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Jul. 9, 2008.

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Roy Davis

July 3, 2021

I lost touch with Stetson shortly after graduation, but always regarded him as one of the kindest and generous people I've ever known. We roomed together for 3 of the last 4 semesters and he always shared his serano peppers, crackers and country music! Stetson you are missed.

Roy Davis

September 27, 2020

I knew Stetson as his roommate for three semesters at the Academy. I didn't find out about his death until after my wife had her
first stroke. I am writing this now after her death 11 years later. If you read this Tess you will already know that he was special. I'm basically writing this out of grief for my wife and to let you know that he meant a lot to many others. I hope that you have found happiness after his death. Roy Davis

Dan Myrick

July 24, 2008

I was honored to be Stet's First Sergeant at Hill AFB for two years. He was a great commanding officer and a true friend. He was always fair, kind, and genuinely concerned for the welfare of his troops and their families. We are free in America because of his service to his counrty. May God Bless him, Tess and his remaining family members.

Dwayne Currie

July 23, 2008

I still remember looking across the football huddle at Stetson and seeing the focus and determination. He never complained and always set the example. He inspired me to try harder. "Fair winds and following seas" old friend.

Helen Frost

July 20, 2008

Dear Tess and Teresa--My heartfelt sympathty is with you at this time. I inquired from Father Jeremy and he informed me of Stetson's death. I was very sorry to hear of your loss and my prayers are with you all at this time. He is at least over his suffering and pain.

Robert Taft

July 20, 2008

Dear Theresa, My mother informed me of Stetson's passing. Please accept my heart felt condolences and
prayers during this difficult period.

Jim Greider, Lt Col, USAF (Retired)

July 14, 2008

Stets was a great aviator and friend. We were stationed together at Hurlburt Field from 1975-1979, where we flew helicopters in the 20th SOS; and were two members of a golfing foursome that played every weekend for nearly four years. God Bless Stets and his family.

Joan and Tom LaRose

July 12, 2008

We were fortunate and honored to know Steston. He was a wonderful role model by continually demonstrating his devotion to family, friends, God, and Country. He will be missed!

Tess and Theresa, we pray that your faith brings you comfort and peace at this difficult and emotional time.

John Kennedy

July 12, 2008

I remember Stetson's easy manner and good humor as classmates during during that sometimes stressful year of pilot training at Vance AFB. I can't say it any better than Stetson did in our class yearbook: "...when you meet good friends it is possible to have to have a good time-even in Oklahoma!" He made it a good time. Godspeed, Stet.

Gary Butson

July 11, 2008

Stetson's smile always brightened the day for all of his classmates in CS-06. I remember asking about his name. He told me his Daddy chose it by throwing a bunch of names into a hat and pulling out the tag instead. I've told my non-USAFA friends that story many times and it always makes me grin. The memory of my friend will always be in my heart.

Gary Parker

July 11, 2008

Stetson and I grew up as best friends in C-City. This loss touches me incredibly deeply. He and his entire family were a very important part of my formative years. Stetson was such a good soul and kind to all. My deepest condolences to his family and friends. Most of us will not be so lucky as to have another like him in our lives. Godspeed to your place in heaven Stets. Be watching for me, if I make it, I will still need a best friend. Thank you for bieng a part of my life.

Joan Warnick

July 11, 2008

July 11, 2008
Dear Tess and Theresa:

I was deeply saddened to hear about Stetson's death. From what I have heard, he was a strong and stable influence in the life of St. Mark's parish. I am certain he will be sorely missed. Please accept my sincere sympathy and know that many friends are praying for healing for you and your family. May Stetson rest in peace. He has won the battle and is in God's kingdom!!

John Ragan

July 10, 2008

Godspeed, Stet... Prayers for your family.

Your old Academy Roomie,

John Ragan

Cynthia Marshall (Birdwell)

July 10, 2008

Your tribute to Stetson sounded so much like the Stetson I remember from days of yore when we were both high school students at Colorado City High. He was also a delightful, quiet soul at All Saints Episcopal Church where my dad was priest from '65-'68.
There is a hole in my heart knowing that Stetson is gone from family & friends (some long-lost); however, I trust that he lived his life as God intended us to do. May he rest in peace.

rebecca lundquist

July 10, 2008

may you rest in piece stetson. Your memory will forever be with us. Until we are all brought together again.
love odette,michelle,rebecca,derek

Dee Zobro

July 9, 2008

Rest in peace, Stetson. My prayers are with you and your family. The Attic's Silent Auction to benefit Breast Cancer will never be the same. Your shoes are too big to fill. Godspeed . . .

Father Jeremy Warnick

July 9, 2008

The Parish Family of St. Mark's Episcopal Church in Mesa grieves with Tess, Theresa, and the Cowan Family as we entrust to Jesus our dear brother Stetson. Stetson was a faithful, patient, and wise leader and he loved St. Mark's as he served in so many capacities. Our community will never be the same without him. We also join with the United States Air Force and Boeing Aviation in appreciating the leadership gifts Stetson shared with us. May his example inspire us in our own leadership and ministry roles. Well done good and faithful servant! May Stetson rest in peace in the loving presence of Jesus Our Savior.

Adrian and Kathy Sanchez

July 9, 2008

Our condolences and prayers to you and your family during this time of sorrow.

Kerry McColey

July 9, 2008

Tess & Theresa,
May God be with you at your time of need. It was a pleasure to have met Stetson at church. God Bless you both
Dot Lawrence and Kerry McColey

From the Staff of Bunker Family Funeral Homes

July 8, 2008

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

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