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Tom Harken Obituary

Tom Harken, business man and nationally-known literacy activist, succumbed to an illness in a Houston hospital on July 10. He was 76. A Michigan native, Tom and his beloved wife, whom he fondly called Miss Melba, moved to Beaumont, Texas, in 1962. Making their home and raising their family here, they also enjoyed a summer place on Lake Sam Rayburn in Jasper County for many years before moving to Tyler. An entrepreneur of the highest order and in the strictest sense of the word, with little formal education, Tom established and successfully ran three major businesses along with various subsidiary companies, spanning a half-century. The cause of literacy was his passion, and even while working as a full-time CEO, Tom traveled all over the country, preaching the importance of education in hundreds of speeches. His powerful motivational talks delivered nationwide inspired many either to seek help in learning, or to volunteer and assist those desiring to do so. Thomas Lee Tom Harken was born in Mount Pleasant, Michigan, on February 10, 1937. Son of Fred and Kathryn Harken, he grew up in Lakeview, Michigan, where his father owned a small grocery store. Dropping out of school at an early age due to illness, Tom worked in a grocery store as produce manager before entering the U.S. Air Force with the help of a friend who completed necessary forms for him. Patriotic to a fault, Tom served his country and at the same time sold shoes to augment his 1950s military pay. After his term of service was completed, and after his marriage in 1958, Tom arrived in Beaumont as a door-to-door vacuum cleaner salesman, succeeding with the help of Miss Melba, who eventually taught him to read. Excelling through determination and persistence, often knocking on a hundred doors a day to make just one sale, Tom would memorize names and other information, and that evening Melba would complete necessary forms for him. Despite his illiteracy, Tom was named to the Kirby Hall of Fame in the 1960s. It was during these years that he formed lasting friendships with such mentors as the late philanthropist Ben Rogers, businessman W. L. Pate, attorney Benny Hughes and others. Eventually, Tom utilized his inborn sales abilities to become a five-state wholesale distributor of recreational vehicles, founding his own trucking company for that purpose. At the same time, he owned six RV retail companies and found time to become a partner in an auto dealership and owner of a motorcycle dealership. In 1973, just before the historic gasoline crunch, Tom displayed another flash of ingenuity by selling his RV and trucking businesses and becoming an importer of Canadian bicycles. Then, in 1979, he opened his first Mexican restaurant, Casa Ole', at Interstate 10 and Calder Avenue in Beaumont. Eventually, this was expanded into 17 restaurants throughout Southeast Texas and Southwest Louisiana. More important to Tom than business success was his love of family. Having been introduced by mutual friends, Tom and Melba became a team long known as the perfect match. No one was happier than Tom once she taught him to read. For years, he had faked it, mouthing words to songs in church and pretending to have misplaced his glasses when time came in the Men's Bible Class to read Scriptures. His saddest moments were when he was unable to read bedtime stories to his young sons. But Tom was happiest in later years when he could read to his grandchildren. This aura of happiness spilled over into Tom's warm, down to earth television commercials, through which thousands of children came to know him as Poppee. During his lifetime, Tom delighted in a variety of major accomplishments, but he was proudest of the fact he knew each and every one of his 800-plus employees by name and could ask about their children and how their lives were going. They were all part of his extended family. Generous to a fault, Tom always took the opportunity to help anyone in need, whether stranger or acquaintance. A man with friends in high places, he never lost the common touch. Tom's autobiography, The Millionaire's Secret, was published by Thomas Nelson, and his Success Secrets of Power Thinkers has seen several printings. The former tells his life story, and the latter exemplifies his appreciation for those who have overcome adversity to succeed. Recipient of many honors, Tom was proudest when schoolchildren yelled, Poppee! wherever he appeared. But no record would be complete without mention of his lifetime achievements. His 55th year marked a significant milestone in Tom's career. In 1992, he was honored by the Horatio Alger Association of Distinguished Americans by being presented with the Horatio Alger Award during ceremonies in Washington, D.C. Given to 10 or more individuals each year, the award represents achievement in the face of all odds. Calling himself just a guy who sells tacos for a living in Beaumont, Texas, Tom stood proudly to accept the award along with former Secretary of State Henry Kissinger, Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas, poet Maya Angelou and others. Hundreds of speeches followed, along with dozens of national television appearances. These were accompanied by a handful of honorary doctorates, but Tom was most proud when he received a high school diploma from his hometown in Michigan. Many awards followed, and Tom served on several national boards. Being featured on the cover of Parade Magazine was one of his ultimate moments. Eventually, Tom sold his businesses and retired in order to promote literacy and pursue philanthropic endeavors. Preceded in death by his parents and sister Kathy Pierce, Tom Harken is survived by his wife, Melba Curtis Harken; sons Tommy and Mark Harken; daughter-in-law Debra Harken; and grandchildren Trace Harken, McKenzie Harken, Terran Harken and Marleigh Harken; a brother, Ron Harken; and a multitude of friends. A gathering of family and friends is scheduled from 5:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. today at Claybar Kelley Watkins Funeral Home, 1155 N. 11th Street, in Beaumont, claybarfuneralhome.com. At 7 p.m., attendees will pause to honor Tom during a special time of remembrance. Funeral service will be at 2 p.m. Friday, July 19, at Wesley United Methodist Church on Major Drive in Beaumont, and internment at Forest Lawn Cemetery, with a reception to follow at the Beaumont Country Club on Pine Street in Beaumont. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be sent to: Tom and Melba Harken Presidential Scholarship Lamar University Foundation, P.O. Box 11500, Beaumont, TX 77710; Horatio Alger Association Endowment Fund, 99 Canal Center Plaza, Suite 320, Alexandria, VA 22314; Barbara Bush Foundation for Family Literacy, 516 North Adams Street, Tallahassee, FL 32301.

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Published by The Beaumont Enterprise from Jul. 14 to Jul. 18, 2013.

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Travis O Summerlin

July 8, 2020

We still miss Tom. He was such a kind, friendly person. Tom did so much good in this world that nobody ever knew about. RIP my friend. Travis & Martha Summerlin

Travis & Martha Summerlin

July 9, 2019

Tom, you are still missed terribly. Travis and I have some fond memories with you and Ms Melba. We have tried to contact Ms Melba to check on her but have been unable to do so. You will never be forgotten an admired dear friend.

Holly Harken

August 8, 2013

Aunt Melba and cousins Tommy & Mark,
I wish to extend my sympathy to you during this time of grieving. Sincerely, Holly

sandra barber

July 30, 2013

my family and I lived across the street from mr harken and his family for many years in the 70's and early 80's. our condolences to the harken family.

Bob Wynne

July 19, 2013

I worked with Tom in the RV business mid
'70's (I was the Sales Manager for Merry Miler Camper Vans) and always enjoyed the magic of his energies and effervescent smile. Where ever he went,he was the star. I was proud to see him on Rev. Schuller's Crystal Cathedral TV program, and again on cover of a Parade Magazine. I wanted to
accept his offer to help start his Mexican food place in Beaumont...but I knew I would kill myself trying to keep up with his 18 hour days and 7 day weeks. I admired him much, and will miss him dearly.

Marcia Horn Noyes

July 18, 2013

I learned a great deal about business from Tom Harken. A keen, astute man who could brighten a room with his million dollar smile.

Pat Simons Varley

July 18, 2013

I met Mr. Tom at Casa Ole' I went to school with both Tommy and Mark. Mr. Tom was such a kind soul and his work ethic was very important to him obviously. He left a legacy in the community because of his constant devotion to community spirit. Our prayers to the Harken family, may God wrap all of them in arms and give them peace and comfort.

Lucia Smith

July 18, 2013

The world is a better place for having Tom's sense of fun and laughter. His determination to follow his dreams no matter how much work was required was inspiring. His dreams were shared by his devoted wife Melba and his lovely family. I'm so grateful to have been a part of their bright light for many years. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

LISA FOSTER

July 18, 2013

I met Mr Harken when he opened his first Casa Ole restaurant. He was very nice, but got things done. I went to school with his both of his son's.I think the world of this whole family. Praying for all of you during this difficult time.

Neal McCoy

July 18, 2013

Thoughts and prayers are with your families

Glenn & Beth McClammy

July 18, 2013

First time I met Tom was at Casa Ole on I-10 he and Victor asked what they could do to make our meal better from then on we were always friends never forgetting a face always a smile and extending a handshake R.I.P. my friend never to be forgotten.

July 16, 2013

Tom was blessed with the ability to make people laugh and smile just by entering a room. No one was ever a stranger to him. The peace of the Lord surround you all with his love. Kate Pytel, Houston, Tx.

July 16, 2013

My deepest condolences to Melba, sons and family. Tom gave me my first job in Beaumont, and I will always be thankful for it.
Sincerely, Claudia Herrera

Clara Repetto

July 15, 2013

My prayers are with you family Miss Melba

July 15, 2013

I first heard Tom give a speech at med center hosp in tyler. it made tears come to your eyes when you were not laughing and I read his book as did most of the people in my family. I was surprised when I went on a motorcycle trip with him to Alabama. He could drive his three wheeler just as fast as anybody on two wheels. He never met a stranger on the whole trip and usually knew the life history of every waitress and cook shortly after he met them. I truly regret not being able to spend more time with this great human being. Have a good ride Tom doc fletcher

Dr. Robert D. Woodward , Jr.

July 15, 2013

I met Tom on motorcycle trip along with my son. Tom never met a stranger. His life story is an inspiration to all who are willing to put forth the necessary effort to succeed . Our prayers are with Miss Melba and Tom, Jr.

Dan Haile

July 15, 2013

I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Harken one time on a motorcycle trip. He left a lasting great impression. He will be missed. Wishing you all of the Harken family peace and love.

Dianna Wellman

July 15, 2013

Rest in peace Mr Harken. We will miss his smiling face. He was a kind and generous person and he will be greatly missed.
Miss Melba and family, we will be praying for you all.
(Your friends at the Sam Rayburn Clinic)

July 15, 2013

So sorry to hear about the loss of a great human being. The Harken family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kouider Mokhtari, UT-Tyler

Michelene Murphy

July 15, 2013

So sorry to hear this. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to Miss Melba and the rest of his family. May he rest in peace.

Victor & Nancy Hardy

July 14, 2013

Former neighbors to Tom and Melba in Beaumont. A good friend and he will be missed.

July 14, 2013

Travis and Martha Summerlin are thinking of the Harken Family at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Glenn Godkin

July 14, 2013

The best neighbor, friend and role model a person could ever hope for.

RON WALKER

July 14, 2013

WHAT A GREAT MAN AND FAMILY. HE SHALL BE MISSED. MAY GOD BLESS THE HARKEN FAMILY IN THIS HOUR OF SORROW AND LOSS.

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