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Max Bookless Obituary

Max Bookless 1918-2012Tri-town Health Inspector, Berkshire Community College Cafeteria Director, Entrepreneur, Milkman, Athlete, and Veteran PITTSFIELD Max Bookless, 93, of 23 Foote Avenue passed away January 27, 2012 after a full life and short illness. Born in Pittsfield, on December 30, 1918 he was the son of the late Anna (Samuels) and Samuel Bookless Mr. Bookless graduated from Pittsfield High School in 1937, and Bordentown (NJ) Military Academy in 1939. During World War II, Mr Bookless saw combat with the Americal Army Infantry division, Phillipines and served in the army of occupation in Japan. His perspective on war since always started with his compassion for the enlisted men and women. He labored in his father's dairy business, the White Cross Dairy before and after the war. During the 1960's he opened and operated Maria's Grinder Shop at two locations in Pittsfield. It was there the famous 15¢ "sauce grinder" was innovated. A few years later, the administrators from Berkshire Community College recruited Mr. Bookless to run the first concession at the growing Second Street campus in Pittsfield. Mr. Bookless forged many lifelong friendships during those exciting days. This position transitioned to employment as food services manager at the new Berkshire Community College campus on West Street, a position he retired from in 1983 at the age of 65. Max was always quick to feed a student, or for that matter anyone who crossed his path who was short of cash, and led a sympathetic ear and real help to those who seemed confused, lost or lonely. He befriended many. Mr. Bookiess was then hired by the Tri Town Health Dept. (Lenox Lee, and Stockbridge) as a certified health inspector. He was responsible for the idea that food handlers should be certified, and worked until such a requirement-known as ServeSafe training- became law in Massachusetts. He retired from that position at age 80. Mr. Bookless volunteered as a driver for Elder Services until 2012. Throughout his life Max enjoyed athletics. He played baseball and varsity football at PHS and Bordentown, and played semi-pro ball for the Asci Coal Heavers. He coached women's volleyball at the YMCA, and was inducted into the Berkshire County Men's Volleyball Hall of Fame in 1987. He regularly played handball, racquetball, and tennis. Well into his later years "the boys" from the racquetball days met for breakfast every Saturday morning gracing various establishments throughout Berkshire County. Max was never shy to offer "constructive" health regulation tips to owners and waitstaff. Until 2008 he helped organize his annual Pittsfield High class reunions and luncheons, as well as BCC retiree luncheons. Mr. Bookless was a member of Knesset Israel Synagogue, where he regularly attended evening minyan (he was a Minyonaire). He was also a member of the Jewish War Veterans, the Berkshire County Deputy Sheriff Association, and the Retired State County and Municipal employees association. He served as President of the Berkshire County Board of Health Association, and the Massachusetts Milk and Food Association, as well as a member of the Mass. Health Officers Association and the Mass. Environmental Health Association. Max was pre-deceased in 2002 by his beloved wife Shirley Lazerus Bookiess whom he married in 1941. He leaves two daughters Maxine Bookless of Boston, Nan Bookless of Pittsfield; a son Bruce Bookless of Florida; his sister Eleanor (Bookless) Liss and her husband Joseph Liss of Naples, Florida. He is also survived by another sister Evelyn (Bookless) Reder. He was pre-deceased by two brothers Benjamin Bookless and Sanford Bookless, and a sister Muriel (Bookless) Medney. Max leaves a myriad of cousins, nieces and nephews, friends and acquaintencesas well as his treasured extend family Zevi Bar-Zeev and Dina Hochbaum and their families. Max was part of The Greatest Generation, it is difficult to imagine any generation living through the extent of change and advances that this group of people did. He was a colorful character, for which they broke the mold. He leaves a legacy of friendship, humor, acts of kindness and generosity. While many loved him, his daughters will miss him the most. FUNERAL NOTICE: Services will be held Sunday January 29 at 11 a.m. at Knesset Israel Synagogue, 16 Colt Rd. with Rabbi David Weiner, Spiritual Leader, Officiating immediately followed by burial at Knesset Israel Cemetery. A meal of consolation will follow at Knesset Israel Synagogue. The family will receive friends during Shiva at 23 Foote Aveenue on Sunday, January 29 from 7 to 9 p.m., and Monday, January 30, and Tuesday, January 31, from 12 p.m. to 3 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. with evening services at 7:15 p.m. at the home in lieu of Services at Knesset Israel Synagogue. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to the Minyan Fund at Knesset Israel Synagogue, Pittsfield, MA or Elder Services of Berkshire County, or you may also plant a tree in Israel in Max's memory through the Jewish Fedration of the Berkshires. Flynn & Dagnoli-Bencivenga Funeral Home 5 Elm St. Pittsfield MA 01201 is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jan. 28, 2012.

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David Leavitt

January 22, 2021

Very nice man with old school toughness full of life and upbeat charisma.

February 7, 2012

Max was a very special man and I always loved his sheepish grin and humor. He will be missed by many. Cheryl Holman Donaldson

Linda (Knox) Coons

February 5, 2012

Nancy
I was sorry to hear of your father's passing. He had a very full and accomplished life. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.

Judy Wolfe

February 3, 2012

Dear Nan, Bruce, and Maxine,
When a single man has left such a mark on his all who knew him and his community as a whole, you know there walked a menshe. A man who was bound by no single generation, and was truly known for his kindness, humor, and wisdom. I am saddened for your loss, and wish you strength during this difficult time. It occurs to us so far from Pittsfield, as we read all of the entries, we know there are literally hundreds of people with whom he came in contact who will not write, but are thinking of you and your blessed father. Max Bookless, now a blessed memory, truly lived a wonderful and important life. His memory now serves to remind us that a single person can, and in this case DID make a difference! This single human being enriched the lives of all who knew him, and although he will be terribly missed and we are all sad at his loss, he will never be forgotten. His untold acts of kindness and compassion serve as example for us all.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,
Judy (Weeks) and Mike Wolfe

Amy and Cecily Levine

January 31, 2012

Dear Nan, Maxine, Bruce, & Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your Father's passing. The obituary is a beautiful tribute to his memory as are the guest book comments. He was quite extraordinary and will surely be missed by many. We extend our deep and sincere sympathy in your sad loss.

Judi Lazerus

January 31, 2012

Max was a favorite uncle who will be dearly missed. He was always cheerful, had a great sense of humor, and was a great guy who always helped those in need.

We have many wonderful memories of him and the times our families spent together. Most of all we'll remember him for making Thanos feel welcome into our family and for how much he helped us when my father was in the hospital, in Boston.

We love you and will miss you, Uncle Max. I hope you're in heaven partying with Shirley, Irving, Rose, Vernon & Betty.

-Judi Lazerus & Thanos Karras

Jim(my) and Jackie Shulman

January 31, 2012

Maxine, Bruce and Nancy,

I just learned of your Dad's passing and send my condolences. He was a great man and enjoyable to talk with. He was helpful the day we met a few years ago with Ralph Goodman to recall the early days in Pittsfield, dairies, people and places. May our thoughts and prayers be with you during this period of healing. Jim(my) and Jackie Shulman

Julie Swanson

January 30, 2012

Dear Nan and Maxine,
Your father was such a special part of my life - I am going to miss him terribly. Since moving in next door to him, he has occupied such a huge part of my heart. He meant the world to me and taught me so much about life and living. I will love him and remember his always. Thank you both for letting me into your family and for giving me the wonderful gift of being able to say one last goodbye - my last visit with "Mr. Bookless" will always be a treasured memory. May he rest in peace.
Lots of Love...

Tim Pipp

January 30, 2012

Having grown up on Foote Ave,my siblings and I have many fond memories of Max and Shirley from both childhood and, more recently,when I moved back to the neighborhood. His wit and wisdom will be missed. The world is poorer for his passing.

Brenda Kiontke Hurlbut

January 30, 2012

Yes, Max was a friend to all; I remember him from BCC, both campuses; thoughts and prayers to Bookless Family.

Amanda Gingras

January 30, 2012

To Max's Family
My mom and I are very sorry to hear about Max's passing. Max was a great guy. He use to play racquetball and have Saturday morning breakfast with my grandfather (Mr. Shaw). My mom and I were saying now Max is in heaven harassing my grandfather and keeping him on his toes. May all of the great memories he's left us with help you get through this difficult time. Kathy and Amanda Gingras

Mitchell & Rose Massaconi

January 30, 2012

Dear Nancy & Family

Max is one of the finest men I have met in my life, such a heart and what a great life... our prayers are with you at this time. Celebrate his remarkable life!! With our Love.

Leslie malsbury zuckerman family

January 29, 2012

I remeber talking with him as if it was yesterday. Nan and family i am so sorry to hear if this news. It was an honor hearing the stories of him growing up with all my cousins. Much love, and will talk with you soon i hope.

January 29, 2012

Dear Nan, Maxine, Bruce and family - John and I are so sad to hear of Max's passing. Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Sending you love and hugs.
Deb Francome and John Zarvis

James Pasquini

January 29, 2012

Dear Maxine,Nan and Bruce,
My heartfelt condolences to all of you. Max was a friend to everyone. He always had a way to make you smile and laugh. His friendship to me was beyond words. We will all miss him and never forget him.
Jim Pasquini

January 29, 2012

Dear Bookless Family:
As a married connection, I feel honored and blessed to have met and enjoyed spending time with your side of Barbara's family. Max was a wonderful person - always cheerful, always playful, and always kind to me and my family. I am envious of his full and happy life, and the long list of people whose lives he touched in such a positive and meaningful way.
Though saddened by his passing, I am thankful that such a wonderful person did not suffer a long and painful decline. He leaves me with beautiful memories, the last being just a few weeks ago as star of the not quite viral U-tube hit "The Booklesses at Swedish Christmas" in Wading River NY.

Please accept my sincere condolences and heartfelt apology for not being able to attend Max's funeral. My heart is heavy in not being there in person to share your sadness and offer consolation.

David

January 29, 2012

Dear Maxine and Nan,
I am sorry to hear of your dad's passing. So many Bookless stories to remember while growing up. Thinking of you.
Hugs to you, Louise Waxstein Lubin

January 28, 2012

We were neighbors of Max's on Foote Avenue from 2001-2010. He was always there with a friendly wave and neighborly greeting. He got a kick out of our young children and was so kind to them. One particular day our daughter and another neighbor were having a "show" in our front yard. They went around the neighborhood inviting folks to the show. Max couldn't make it but he gave them a bag of potato chips for refreshments. What a sweet gesture! We thought very highly of him. Our deepest sympathies to his family. May a lifetime of wonderful memories keep him close in your heart.

~Andrea & Larry Wiepert

January 28, 2012

Way back when I was a senior in high school, Max helped me with a big problem. He was always so kind and understanding and he gave me some of the best advice I ever received. My "big problem"is now 42 years old. Thank you again Max. To all of his family I extend my deepest condolences.

January 28, 2012

My condolences to the Bookless family. Max was full of energy, charisma, and kindness. David Leavitt

Shari Pierce

January 28, 2012

I loved Max dearly and I always let him know that he was my favorite cousin. We spoke on his 93rd birthday, just last month, and I let him know again. What wonderful memories I have of visiting Max at BCC and attending his and Shirley's 50th anniversary party. My heartfelt condolences to Nan and Maxine, Evie & Eleanor. Max will be missed but his love and humor will live on in the memories of so many.
Love,
Shari (Kline) Pierce

January 28, 2012

What an amazing man and legacy.
I feel so fortunate to know he was a part of our lives.
We Love You, Max.
Rest in Peace.

Carolyn (Cookie) Levinson

January 28, 2012

Dear Bruce and family,
I was sorry to hear of your father's passing after such a long, full and vital life. You were fortunate to have had him in your lives for so long. My condolences to you.

January 28, 2012

To Eleanor and Evelyn sorry to hear about your loss I still remember your brother from our troop 13 days.
Bill Brier(Gert's Ex)

Nancy Meissner

January 28, 2012

To the family of Max Bookless, Pleace accept my sincere condolences of the loss of your loved one Max Bookless. Nancy Meissner ( Chapman)

Bruce Bookless

January 28, 2012

Condolences to my aunt, my fathers sister, Eleanor Liss, of Naples Fl. Max did not invent sliced bread.

Sally LeBarnes

January 28, 2012

I was an employee of Max's at BCC, What a nice and full of life man He was, with such an "entertaining" sense of humor. Someone I will always remember with fondness.
Sally LeBarnes

John Friend

January 28, 2012

I knew Max all too briefly and all too many years ago as a student at BCC but he left a lasting impression and I have never forgotten him. He showed me many kindnesses, not the least of which was simply being my friend. Remember him well for we'll not soon see the likes of him again.

Cynthia Wassell

January 28, 2012

Bunny, Nan, Bruce,
I also have good, and funny, memories of your father. The inevitable is still so sad.

Stan Damato

January 28, 2012

I used to work for Max when I went to college at BCC on West St.He was the best person ever. You couldn't find a better person on this earth. Max was always great to every body. He knew about his sports,too. Please give all the best to his family. Stan Damato

January 28, 2012

so sorry for your loss, Max will be missed, he was a great guy and I liked him a lot . condolences Kathy Avery

carol strother

January 28, 2012

I am so sorry to read of Max's passing.
The world will surely be a lesser place without him in it.
He was truly one in a million.

Wayne Meunier

January 28, 2012

Dear Family of Max Bookless,
Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss. Mr. Bookless was a genuinely good man. I was one of those students he fed at BCC. He would come around in the early evenings while I was doing janitorial tasks there on my work-study program, almost always with a snack for me. I especially remember the Hostess Lemon bars and a 1/2 pint of milk!! He and my Dad shared an expression I believe in to this day: “All work is honorable”, but Max always followed it by profoundly saying that should I study hard enough, my work choices would be better! Rest peacefully Mr. Bookless. I am in Fort Myers right now and regret being unable to attend his services.

January 28, 2012

I remember fondly being on double session @ PHS w/no lunches we all went to Max's and had 15 cent sauce grinders, he was jovial, and warm my condolences to the Bookless family for you loss of this remarkable man.Jude Smith, Williamstown

David Chapman

January 28, 2012

Hearing of Max's passing unleashed a flood of memories. His kind and gentle spirit and his passion for a life lived to the fullest have touched so many. My condolences to his family and friends.

Greg Meunier

January 28, 2012

The World is a much better place because of Max and many a person young & old benefited from his kindness,generosity & humor.If the world was filled with more Maxes we wouldn't have wars; he loved freely and was loved back........He's one of the GOOD GUYS, God will be happy to have him by his side.
I just know he was in Heaven an hour before the devil knew he was dead.

Lynn Katz Danzig

January 28, 2012

Dear Max's Family,

May you find peace and comfort in knowing that his loss is felt by all who knew and loved him. Cherish all your memories .

I remember when he was preparing food at B.C.C. to keep us nourished so we could study.

Take care of each other and be well.

Kermit Goodman

January 28, 2012

Dear Nancy and Maxine and family. Max was blessed with a great long life. He used it well and wisely. We will miss him everyday. His friendship was a gift. There is no way to properly express the love and respect we had for your dad. I always told him just how much we appreciated how well he treated my father. I was so glad to take him for dinner on his 93rd Birthday and hope he enjoyed it. On behalf of my entire family, my dad, myself, my sons Adam and Mark, we share in your joy and your loss and will always remember this giant of a true decent human being. Kermit

January 28, 2012

There were not many days as a kid growing up near the second st maria's grinder shop that "we" didn't stop in to have one of max's "world famous" sause grinders for 15cents and play the same songs in the juke box. max was one of a kind, always a smile on his face and full of life. so glad i got to meet him back then!!!!!!!!!

Anne&Bob Pinsonneault

January 28, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Rebecca Caine

January 28, 2012

I will remember him for his passion for life and for his family. My condolences on your loss.

Susan Cohen

January 28, 2012

Uncle Maxie -- I will always remember your infectious laughter and kindness to all and the way you yelled "Suzie" whenever I walked through the door. You will be sorely missed by all.
Love, Susan

January 28, 2012

Having known Max and his family as a young boy in the old West End neighborhood, I was saddened to learn of his death while vacationing in Florida. He was one of a kind, and they certainly broke the mold with his passing. He had a great sense of humor and was a very kind and gentle man with a host of friends. He will certainly be missed.. Jim Mazzeo

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