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Steven HOLMES Obituary

HOLMES - Steven J. Of North Collins, NY, Suddenly, September 5, 2015, at the age of 39, beloved husband of Kathie (Hodgson) Holmes; loving father of Rebecca Holmes; son of Lesley and the late Sidney G. Holmes; son-in-law of Robert and Nancy (Schichtel) Hodgson; beloved uncle of Brianna and Trevor Krawczyk; also survived by family and many friends. Friends may call Thursday from 2-4 and 7-9 PM and Friday from 4-7 PM at the WENTLAND FUNERAL HOME, 10634 Main St. (Rte. 62), North Collins, NY. Funeral Services will follow at 7 PM on Friday. Steve was President and Coach of the Hamburg Hockey League.

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Published by Buffalo News from Sep. 8 to Sep. 9, 2015.

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Joanne Teller

September 2, 2022

I still think of Steve. Such a sadness; such a loss. Such a mystery as to why these things have to happen. Love to Kathie and Becky and to Steve's mom....

October 8, 2015

I love you so much Steve, fly high angel.

October 8, 2015

Becky you are such a strong girl and your daddy is so proud. He was a great man who did great things, never forget that.

October 8, 2015

forever a hawk.

Becky Walczyk

September 14, 2015

Kathie, so so sorry about Steve. How tragic. Keeping you and Becky in my prayers for peace and understanding.

Tom, Pat, Tom Jr and Bridget Smith

September 11, 2015

Kathy,

So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Please take comfort in knowing he will always be remembered by the many, many young people who were the recipients of his shared time and talents. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joe and Cathy Pezzino

September 11, 2015

We were so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Please know that you and Rebecca are in our thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless you and help ease your pain during this difficult time.

Michelle Walsh

September 11, 2015

My deepest sympathy to your family. You have all been in my daily prayers.

September 11, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

David Kilijanski

September 11, 2015

Kathie, I am very sorry for your loss. Steve was a great coach, but of course an even better person. He taught us kids a lot.

September 11, 2015

Kathy,
So sorry for your loss.
Karen Perkins

September 11, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 11, 2015

Kathy,
So sorry for your loss.
Kuzdzal Family

September 11, 2015

Kathy,
So very sorry for your loss.
Karen Perkins

Byrns Family

September 11, 2015

One of the greatest gifts anyone can give is their effort to help others be better. For many years Steven J. Holmes gave just that effort to others. To add even more, he gave that effort to young men and women. He took on a task of which there are very little accolades and a great number of detractors. But he did it consistently and with a hardy laugh. It is a shame that there are others that will not see that effort in the future. Yet we need to take solace in the fact that that there are many who have been effected by the great game of hockey because of the effort of Steve Holmes. To Kathy and Becky; Our family's' hope is that as you grieve and heal you take great pride in your husband and father's efforts and what he accomplished while he was here. We will be forever grateful for the opportunity he gave us in Hamburg and the overall friendship he showed us

Nedra Miller

September 11, 2015

Kathie & Becky,
Perinton Youth Hockey sends their condolences on the loss of Steve. He was an incredible man who was always ready to give 110% to whatever he did. He will be missed.

Donna Crosta

September 10, 2015

Kathie and Becky - you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. Steve was a good man who was always there for his family. He was a hard worker and his efforts will surely be missed.

Debbie Gronachan

September 10, 2015

Kathie and Rebecca, my deepest sympathy. Steve was a great man. He will be missed. Take care and God bless.(Ms. G)

September 10, 2015

Kathie, you and Becky are in our hearts and prayers.
All our love, Edward, Sasha, Luke, Will and Alec Yerkovich

September 10, 2015

Kathy
So sorry to hear about Steve. He was a great man and good example to may of the boys at the hockey rink. He truly will e missed.
The Zitnik Faily

September 10, 2015

Kathie and Rebecca, our deepest sympathies to you and your family. May God strengthen you during this time. We're praying for you and your family. - the Wickett family

Kathy Zeniuk

September 9, 2015

Kathy,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kate and Peter

September 9, 2015

I wanted to take a moment and share some thoughts. Steve built me some beautiful fences on my property. My husband and I were always happy to see them rolling in with the trucks, as he was always pleasant and a pleasure to talk to. He was honest and knowledgeable, patient and fair, and I trusted his opinions, and called him a friend. We would go out of our way to check in with him when he was at the fairgrounds, and say hello. He was a good man, and we are deeply saddened to hear of his passing. Saying a prayer tonight for his family, God Bless.

Jerry Spyche

September 9, 2015

I am very sorry for your loss. I am thankful for everything he did for my daughter Maggie. I will keep your family in our prayers.

May the good lord be with you.

Jerry Spyche

September 9, 2015

Kathy and Becky and the family, my prayers are with you all in this hard time. I'll never forget Steve and all laughs we had at the ice rink office! He will never be forgotten at the ice arena. Take care, PJ Biellak and Family

The Pericak family

September 9, 2015

Kathie, I'm so sorry to hear about Steve. I only know your family through the Hawks but I know you're good people. I feel awful for your daughter. You're in our thoughts

Janet Iafallo

September 9, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Steve was a very generous man in giving up so much of his time for hockey. He will be missed.

Joe & Janet Iafallo

Melinda

September 9, 2015

Kathie, So sorry for your loss, we at work are all very sadden by such news, have you and your daughter in special prayers during this very difficult time.

Mark Bevilacqua

September 9, 2015

Kathy/Becky,

Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with the both of you, my boys will always be remember the great times as Hamburg Hawks.....GOD SPEED STEVE!!!! YOU WERE A GREAT HUSBAND AND FATHER!

Mark and Jen Bevilacqua and Boys

September 9, 2015

Kathy, we are so sorry to hear about Steve. Sending all our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Ken and Carolyn Machelski and family

Kelly Coppola

September 9, 2015

Kathy, so very sorry for your loss. Kelly and Mike Coppola

Lisa Tom Tommy Todd Tyler and Trevor

September 9, 2015

Our deepest condolences. He was an amazing man. True Blue Hawk!!!..Always to be remembered by all who knew him. <3

Charlie & Kathy King

September 9, 2015

Kathie, so sorry for your loss. Steve was a good man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Anthony Micucci

September 9, 2015

Kathy,
Our family is truly sorry for your loss and your daughters as well. Steve was a great man and a truly respectful person. A great figure in the hockey world as well. My prayers are with you and please stay strong.

Kent and Sandy Mace

September 9, 2015

Kathy and Family

Words cannot describe what a great man and mentor to so many people in the hockey world . He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Kathy Worth

September 8, 2015

You and your daughter are in my prayers. I can tell that Steven was a wonderful husband, father and friend to all. Please let me help out any way that I can.

Kathy Worth

Kelly Vacco

September 8, 2015

We are so very sorry to hear about Steve's passing. He was such a wonderful man and great mentor to so many kids.....
Your family will be in my prayers.
The Vacco Family.

Jenny Mackey

September 8, 2015

Kathy,
So sorry to hear about Steve. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

KATHLEEN DENZ

September 8, 2015

LESLEY AND FAMILY
PHIL AND I WATCHED STEVEN GROW UP IN TO A NICE YOUNG MAN. HIS SUDDEN DEATH IS SUCH A SHOCK.
WE KNOW HOW HE LOVED CHAUTAUQUA LAKE.
PHIL&KAY

September 8, 2015

Our family's' deepest condolences on your sudden loss. You will all be in our prayers.

September 8, 2015

Dear Kathie and Becky: Words cannot express how sorry we are for your sudden loss. We all feel honored to have known Steve! We will be praying for you, Becky and your families for strength in the hopes that the wonderful memories that you have help carry you through this difficult time.
Love,
The Wahl Family

September 8, 2015

We are so sorry for you loss!

Carl, Wes and Cam

September 8, 2015

So sorry for your loss, the hockey community lost a good guy.
Kim, Cindy, Nicole

Shawn and Maribeth Cerrone

September 8, 2015

Dear Kathie and Becky,
We are still in shock from hearing about Steve, taken so suddenly! We always looked forward to the moments after each day of the fair where we would sit and tell funny stories. Many prayers are being said for you and Becky during this difficult times!

Dick & Lori Lynch

September 8, 2015

Kathy, so sorry for your loss.

Rose Cerabone

September 8, 2015

Dear Kathie,
I was saddened to hear about your husband. This is tragic and my heart is aching for your loss. I hope you can find peace and healing in your heart. Allow yourself to grieve and allow others to help you when they offer. Please let me know if I can do anything for your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Becky.
Peace, Rose

Lea Gaglione

September 8, 2015

Maddie just adored him. I have no words Kathy. I am so so sorry!!!

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