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David Andrew Harris, Jr.
'Dave'
Dave Harris of Charlotte died Tuesday, July 13, 2010. He fought his battle with cancer and its complications with the same optimism, courage and determination to win that he used in all areas of his life.
A service to celebrate the life of Dave Harris will be held at the First Baptist Church Charlotte, 301 South Davidson Street, on Friday, July 16 at 11:00 a.m. with Dr. Mark Harris and Reverend Michael Cummings officiating. A reception will be held in the Fellowship Hall immediately following the service. The burial will be private. Dave was born in Trap Hill, N. C. on July 19, 1924. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, teacher, coach, administrator, friend, athlete and mentor. His family was his greatest joy. He took tremendous pride in his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. He also enjoyed keeping up with his former athletes and students. He is survived by his loving wife of 65 years, Mary Arden Harris; his daughter, Arden Browder and husband Ty; his son, Andy Harris and wife Sherry; his grandchildren: Liz Carroll and husband Robby, Leigh Arden Beck and husband Joey, Charlotte Harris, and Christine Harris; his great grandchildren: Burton Carroll and Harris Carroll; his step grandchildren: Chad Browder, Klista Browder and Valerie Wooten; and his step great grandchildren: Zach Wooten, Hunter Wooten and Trey Wooten. In addition to his parents, David and Sallie Harris, he was preceded in death by two sisters, Sarah Bass and Kathleen Harris. For more than 60 years, he was an active member of First Baptist Church Charlotte where he had been an ordained deacon and served on numerous committees. He was a member of the Smith Alexander Men's Sunday School Class where special life-long friendships were formed.He grew up in Statesville and graduated from Statesville High School where he was an all-state and all-conference football player. He attended Wake Forest on a football scholarship and played football under Peahead Walker and basketball under Murray Greason. He played for Wake Forest in the first Gator Bowl. He was named to the All-Southern Conference team, to the first team AP All-America Blocking Team and was an honorable mention AP All-American. Dave graduated from Wake Forest and earned a BS degree. He later received a master's degree from Appalachian State University. He was the third draft choice for the Detroit Lions in 1946 and was a starter for the Charlotte Clippers Professional Football Team for two years. Dave's career of 45 years in education began as a teacher, coach and athletic director at Thomasboro High School and continued at Harding High School for the next 20 years. His Harding coaching years included 35 consecutive football wins and back to back football state championships. Harris coached eight high school All-Americans and 73 of his players received full college football scholarships. For the next 24 years, he worked in athletic administration as the Charlotte- Mecklenburg School System Director of Athletics. During that time, many components of the school system athletic program were nationally recognized. He was instrumental in adding girls sports in the schools, in beginning a sports medicine program in the school system and in expanding athletic facilities. His volunteer service to local, state and national organizations included membership on the Salvation Army Boys and Girls Clubs Council, the Governor's Board of Athletes Against Crime, the North Carolina High School Athletic Association Board of Directors and the National Federation of High School Directors of Athletics Advisory Board. He was a past president of the Optimist Club, the Lions Club, the NC Coaches Association and the NC Athletic Directors Association. He served for 40 years in different capacities for the Shrine Bowl. He was honored by being named the Honorary Chairman of the 50th High School Shrine Bowl All-Star Game. He was a long time member of the North Carolina Association of Educators. He received the American National Red Cross Certificate of Merit in recognition of saving a child's life. In recognition of his community service, Dave received the Optimist Golden Circle Award, the Charlotte Rotary Club Public Service Award and the Charlotte Athletic Club Humanitarian Award. Among his sports honors were head coach in the East-West All-Star Football Game and North Carolina head coach and Athletic Director of the Shrine Bowl. He was twice named North Carolina High School Football Coach of the Year and was also named National High School Athletic Director of the Year, Charlotte-Mecklenburg Sportsman of the Year and North Carolina Athletic Director of the Year. The North Carolina High School Athletic Association named him North Carolina Athletic Director of the Century. He was recognized by NCHSAA as one of the 50 most influential people in making a difference in high school sports in North Carolina during the 20th century and as the People's Choice Award for Athletic Director. He was selected Wake Forest Deacon Club Member of the Year in 1997 and served as Chairman of the Wake Forest Touchdown 2000 campaign that resulted in the construction of Bridger Field House.Dave was inducted into four halls of fame: North Carolina Sports Hall of Fame, Wake Forest Sports Hall of Fame, NC High School Athletic Association Hall of Fame and NC Athletic Directors Association Hall of Fame.After his retirement, Dave enjoyed traveling with Mary Arden, going to the beach and staying at their mountain home in High Meadows. He loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren and enjoyed attending their activities. He looked forward to seeing and hearing from his former players and to eating lunch with his friends in the Five Plus One Lunch Group. He continued his volunteer work with the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Retired School Personnel.Honorary pallbearers will be members of the Smith Alexander Men's Sunday School Class and members of the Five Plus One Lunch Group. It is the wish of the family that former players, cheerleaders, team managers and assistant coaches of Coach Harris sit in a reserved section at the celebration of life service. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to First Baptist Church Charlotte, Phil Hughston Scholarship Fund, 301 South Davidson Street, Charlotte, NC 28231; to North Carolina High School Athletic Association Endowment Foundation, PO Box 3216, Chapel Hill, NC 27515; to Shriner's Hospitals for Children, 950 West Faris Rd., Greenville, South Carolina 29605; or to David A. Harris, Jr. Athletic Endowment Fund, Wake Forest University Athletic Department, 499 Deacon Blvd., Winston-Salem, NC 27105. The family extends grateful appreciation to Dr. Murray Craven, Dr. Vetta Higgs, Dr. Cheryl Russo and Dr. Carl Smart for the special medical care given to Dave during his illness.
Arrangements are in the care of Hankins & Whittington Funeral Service, 1111 East Blvd. Please share condolences online at www.hankinswhittington.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jul. 15, 2010.

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Jimmy Hooks

July 25, 2010

I remember back in 1950 Coach Harris and his beautiful wife would occasionally drive by in his blue Chevrolet and stop me on my afternoon paper route on Berryhill road to buy a newspaper from me. They always gave me a big smile and that would be the highlight of my day. He was a remarkable man that gave so much to so many from the football field and beyond and his memory will live on in all the lives he touched. My condolences to the family.

July 21, 2010

Though our introduction was just a few short months ago, we all quickly fell in love with this delightful, wonderful man. Reading his life story and knowing Andy and Sherry and their children, we are assured why. Our condolences to you all and especially Mary Arden.

Drs. Murchison, Zekan and staff

Sonja Marion Norman

July 19, 2010

Arden and Family,
I am very sorry to hear this news. You are in my thoughts and prayers. What a wonderful gift you have given your Father in the love and respect you've always shown for him.

Mike Bumgarner

July 19, 2010

I am honored to join the Harding faithful and other friends of the coach in mourning his passing and remembering his gifts to the westside. I cannot think of him without remembering my own father and the many years they shared as coaches at Harding and the summers they spent at Revolution pool running the concession stand. We as young men and women were fortunate to have such men as them and also Mr. James R. Hawkins to guide and support us. My condolences to the family. You were lucky to have him so long.

DOT CROWDER

July 17, 2010

TO THE HARRIS FAMILY MY HEART AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO YOU AT THIS TIME AND FOR THE TIME TO COME. ANDY MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR MOTHER SHERRY AND THE GIRLS.
YOUR FATHER IS HOME WITH HIS FATHER NO MORE PAIN NOTHING BUT JOY AD PEACE LOVE YOU ALL DOT CROWDER

Steve Triplett

July 17, 2010

I remember as a 9 year-old boy, laying in my bed at night, dreaming of the day I would be able to play for the mighty Rams of Harry P. Harding High School and the legendary Coach Dave Harris. He was the Tom Landry of area High School Sports, a legend in his own time. He taught us players more than football. He taught and showed us how to live with character, integrity, honesty, and loyalty. I got to introduce him to my son, when he was 6 years old, and my son now 30 still remembers it. Now, I am the Pastor of Fellowship Baptist Church here in Charlotte and I feel that through the influence of Coach Harris, I came to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. My prayers are with his dear family.

Steve Triplett
Class Of '68

Bob Sawyer

July 17, 2010

Susan and I will forever cherish the memory of Dave. His life, career, and personal example set the standard for all of us. Bob amd Sue Sawyer.

Larry Jolly

July 17, 2010

What cherished,wonderful memories of Dave Harris.I thank GOD for his life,his character and his positive influence on everyone he met.GOD be with you all.

Charlie Mccaskill

July 16, 2010

Thank you, Dave, Coach, Counselor...friend to me...for 1963 and the chance for football, even a little smaller than the big boys...but what came later led many men better than me, because you tought me value, and to strive to lead; and lead i did!
your humble player
Charlie Mccaskill HHS '64

Jack Huss

July 16, 2010

A good man whao set a high standard for all in athletics to follow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Garry Lytle

July 16, 2010

Andy, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

DENNIS & ELESA WOODIE

July 16, 2010

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE HARRIS FAMILY

DENNIS &ELESA WOODIE

July 16, 2010

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE HARRIS FAMILY

July 16, 2010

A great friend and a great co-worker. Nelson & Helen Best, P. O. Box 223, Leland, N.C. 28451

July 16, 2010

Mrs Harris and Family,
We will keep you in our prayers in the weeks ahead. Our prayers are for your loss because we know for Mr. Harris, it is gain!

Al and Susan Winget

July 16, 2010

A wonderful man was buried today, I have so many wonderful memories of the football games during my years at Harding High School. but my greatest one of all was when I wanted swimming added to Harding High School and had to address the CMS Board to get this approval, with Coach Harris on the Board and after a lot of talk on my part looking like I would not with this for lack of a place to swim practice and also lack of funds for the swimteam suits,I looked at Dave sitting on the Board and said Coach Harris, I know you too well, if you had a team of football players wanting to play, and you were willing to find the way you would, well I am in that same spot. So I was granted approval to have swimteam at Harding High School with pride.

Coach Harris was a one of a kind person.

Benny Pearce

July 16, 2010

Mary Arden and Family,

I was just notified by my sister who lives in Charlotte that Dave had passed away and my heart and prayers go out to you all. I counted Dave as a true friend. I once wrote something about him to the effect, that "some day there may be an athletic administrator who is equal to the talents and abilities of Dave Harris, but none will ever surpass him." Though those were my thoughts some 20 years ago, I still believe that regarding my friend, Dave Harris, today. Earth's loss is heaven's gain. May he rest in peace and may you have the comfort and joy knowing that he was among the best and brightest this world has ever known.

Benny Pearce

Eddie McArver

July 16, 2010

To the Harris Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time. Coach Harris was always a great inspiration to me during my educational career. Dave was a great teacher, coach, mentor and role model. God Bless!

Frank Watkins

July 15, 2010

Coach Harris was the person that taught me that playing football would help prepare me for life. Because of him I went to college, played football, graduated and became a coach and athletic director. I had dropped out of Harding several times and because of the football coaches at HHS I returned to get my diploma. My successes as a coach and athletic director, principal I would contribute to the coaches of Harding and especially Coach Harris. I looked forward each year in meeting him again at coaches clinics and athletic directors conferences.

July 15, 2010

Mrs. Harris and your family.
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband. He was always known to us as Coach Harris, as we attended Harding High School in the days he was there. George was one of those who received a scholarship thanks to being able to compete on Coach Harris' teams. We both remember him fondly and George with particular respect and gratitude. George and Lynn Leary Hart

Frank Watkins

July 15, 2010

To the family of Coach Harris: He was my coach at Harding High School in late 1950s. He was my hero and I followed his leadership to become a high school coach and athletics director. I looked forward to seeing him many times at State Coaches clinics and Athletic Director's conferences. He taught me to love athletics and to successfully coach young people. He wil be missed by all that played for Him.

Allen Hall

July 15, 2010

I learned of Coach Harris' passing through a phone call from my old classmate, Bill Weddine today. It saddened me, but Bill and I talked about stories that Coach told and about how much we all admired him, even revered him. He deserved it. He was a man we all looked up to, as players and students. He set examples all of his life about the honorable way to live.
He will be missed, but not forgotten.

Kenneth Green

July 15, 2010

To the family of Mr Harris,

I am deeply saddened to hear of Mr. Harris' passing. He was a friend, a very dear friend of my Dad's and a friend of our alma mater, Wake Forest University. He will be missed. May God comfort each of you during this time of sadness.

DOWD PRIMM

July 15, 2010

My sincere condolences,Mary Arden and family-GOD BLESS YOU

Oren Edmonds

July 15, 2010

He seemed to never forget an individual. I watched him play in the Charlotte Clippers and had him at Harding High til 1949. After being out of town for 10 years I met him on the street and he spoke to me as if we had just been together all th time. I did not have the pleasure athletically but know a good man.

July 15, 2010

I remember carrying Coach Harris newspaper when I was just a kid, long before I got know him in High School.
Jim Zeman HHS class of 1960

David Doby

July 15, 2010

Hot August practices, sweat, running, hitting, blood and all the things Coach Harris required from his players. To us he was a giant of a man and our Head Coach! Assistant coaches Crawford, Savage, Boogie Smith, and Coach Bumgarner alongside Coach Harris built men out of boy's. You have always been in our hearts and memories as the years have gone by - we loved you and always will!!!! David Doby Class of 1965

Gerry Hostetler

July 15, 2010

One of his old football players said, "We'd have run through a brick wall if he'd told us to." And they would have. That's the kind of coach and man he was, and will be sorely missed in the lives of those he coached and/or touched. Few can say they had a life well lived and a life lived well, but the Coach can.

July 15, 2010

What a great example Dave was for all the North Carolina Athletic Directors.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Sheila Boles

Joyce Helms

July 15, 2010

Please accept my sincere condolences in the passing of Dave. You were blessed to have so many years with him. May the time you shared with him provide many wonderful memories to come.

Donny Lemmond

July 15, 2010

It has been a great honor to have known and worked with Dave.

Dave and Pat Thomas

July 15, 2010

We are thinking of you and praying for you at this difficult time.

July 15, 2010

My deepest sympathies go out to the Harris Family. Coach Harris not only was a coach, but a teacher and most of all a mentor to many students at Harding and especially me. I will miss him.
Jim Caldwell
HHS 1960

July 15, 2010

Coach Harris took mentoring from playing on grass to living in faith. I grew up seeing him as a present-day David bringing down old Central and winning state championships in football. My brother graduated from Harding in 1953; he died in 2005 still talking about Marion Justice, HR Cunningham, and all. I was a person who arrived at Harding in the early 1960,s. Coach Harris encouraged me to play, but never pushed, pried, or pulled me. I came down with an eye disease that left me terrified, because there was a genuine risk of blindness. During that time of fear, it was Coach Harris who became a
rock solid mentor. His taking the time, dressed in t-shirt and shorts with a whistle draped around his neck, showed me there was more to see in this world than helmets and pads. It was he who opened my spiritual eyes to see a Kingdom in God's Presence and a saving, healing Jesus. He was the real deal, a real man, a real believer. For the next few years he provided guidance without my even knowing he was counseling. He coached me into a life deeper in and further up in a living faith. I thank God for making a good man. Ron Satterfield '65

Bill Weddine

July 15, 2010

I am certainly saddened to learn of Coach Harris' death. I am so glad to have been able to enjoy seeing him and having lunch with him even fairly recently. He meant so much to me, and I feel that a part of me has also died with him.

My sincere condolences to the entire family. He was a giant of a man, and will truly be missed.

James Kirkpatrick

July 15, 2010

Arden, I will be thinking about you and your family during this time and praying that God will bring you that peace that passes all understanding.

Frank Capps

July 15, 2010

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Mac Cumbo

July 15, 2010

Dear Mary Arden and Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences in the passing of Dave. He was truly a special man and wonderful friend. My God give you comfort and peace during your grief. We are praying for you.
Sincerely,
Mac and Judy Cumbo

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