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John Gay Obituary

John Franklin Gay, Jr. "Frank" CHARLOTTE - John Franklin Gay, Jr., "Frank", 72, passed away Wednesday, January 1, 2014, at Presbyterian Hospital. Frank is survived by his wife Sharon, daughter Wendy Jones (and husband Mike), son John Gay (and wife Aylin), four grandchildren Molly and Jack Jones, and Katie and Alyssa Gay. A service to celebrate Frank's life will be held at Matthews United Methodist Church on Friday, January 03, 2014 at 2:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The American Heart Association and/or Matthews United Methodist Church. On-line condolences may be offered at www.heritagecares.net. Heritage Funeral Home is caring for the Gay family.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jan. 2, 2014.

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John W.. Brown Jr.

January 8, 2014

I miss him already. He was one of a kind. The world is a worse place without him.

American Heart Association

January 3, 2014

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

January 3, 2014

To Sharon and Frank's family - I am so heartbroken to hear of the loss of Frank. He was such a wonderful man and was always smiling every time I saw him. He loved his family and loved his friends very deeply. My mother, Marlene loved his friendship and wisdom her whole life and for that I will always be grateful.

He will be missed but never forgotten.

My family's deepest sympathy to you all.

Love, Laura & Jay Woodard (daughter of Marlene & Dick Ashman)

January 2, 2014

RIP

January 2, 2014

Sharon and family, We are so sorry to hear of Frank's death. It was such a shock. I only know you through your wonderful sister, Sally, but feel your sorrow. I pray that God will heal in His time and know you are all in our prayers and thoughts. Anne Stacy and family. (Tom's sister)

Houston & Aggie Gay

January 2, 2014

Dear Sharon and Family - Houston and I are SO sorry to learn of Frank's death. We shall truly miss seeing him in the Spring. He always added so much fun to our family get-togethers. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. With our Love -

Becky and Walter Smith

January 2, 2014

May his Memory be Eternal

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