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William Holt Terry July 25, 1932 - March 27, 2015 DAVIDSON - William Holt Terry was born on July 25, 1932, in Erwin, North Carolina; he died at his apartment at the Pines at Davidson on March 27, 2015. His father, William Samuel Terry, Jr., died before Will was born, and his mother, Laura Elizabeth Holt Terry, a beloved public school teacher in Durham, reared her son with courage and devotion and faith. Surrounded by loving aunts, uncles, and cousins - one of whom remembers him today as the cutest little rascal she has ever known - Will spent his boyhood on a farm in Durham County off Guess Road. After Will graduated from Durham High School in 1950, his mother's first dream for him came true when he matriculated at Davidson College, the place which, from his first day on campus to the end of his life, was his heart's home. As a Davidson student, Will was a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon social fraternity, the Eumenean Literary Society of which he was President, and Tau Kappa Alpha, national honorary forensic society. Other student activities - including membership on the honorary fraternity council and the editorial staff of the college annual - resulted in his being elected to Omicron Delta Kappa and "Who's Who in American Colleges and Universities" during his senior year. But more important than his extracurricular activities was the fact that at Davidson, Will acquired lifelong friends, developed intellectual curiosity, honed his keen sense of humor, and found his childhood faith deepening. It was after he joined the Davidson College Presbyterian Church that Will heard and answered the call to become a minister. After he received his B. S. degree from Davidson College in 1954, Will began graduate studies at Union Theological Seminary in Richmond, Virginia. During seminary, he spent an intern year as General Secretary of the Davidson College YMCA. The Davidson "Y" was the center of campus activities and religious life on campus, and the young Y secretary discovered his extraordinary gift for working with college students, guiding them, encouraging them, enjoying their antics, and helping them grow toward manhood. Will returned to Union, completed his B. D. degree in 1958, and then accepted a call to Acme Presbyterian Church in Riegelwood, NC, where he served as minister for four years. He often commented on how happy those days were, how much he learned from the members of his first church, and how many close friends he made there. But when President D. Grier Martin offered Will the chance to "come home again" to Davidson as College Chaplain, he leapt at the chance and was chaplain for four years. After serving as Senior Minister of the Davidson College Presbyterian Church from 1966 until 1971, Will was once again lured back to his alma mater by the college president, Dr. Samuel R. Spencer, to become Dean of Students and later Vice President for Student Affairs and Dean of Students. During Will's years as chaplain and minister of D.C.P.C., his home had been the refuge for hundreds of students who dropped by for counseling in the study or for breakfast in the dining room or for his approval of their dates on dance weekends. Why, Dr. Spencer asked Will, shouldn't he assume the role he was born to? So he did, and as their dean, he served students as mentor, counselor, advisor, occasionally disciplinarian, and friend until his retirement in 1994. A favorite quip was that he worked in the administrations of five Davidson College presidents, and they all survived. Dean Terry returned to Union Theological Seminary during several summers and for short leaves to pursue the D. Min. degree, which he received in 1985. Throughout his career, he also served the Presbyterian Church on many committees, for instance as Chairman of the Executive Committee, Campus Christian Life, Synod of North Carolina, and as Chairman of the Commission on the Minister and his Work, Concord Presbytery. Following retirement, Dr. Terry served several Presbyterian churches in North Carolina as Interim Minister, among them Sedgefield Presbyterian Church in Greensboro, First Presbyterian Church in Lincolnton, First Presbyterian Church in Lenoir, First Presbyterian Church in Concord, Covenant Presbyterian Church in Charlotte, as well as First (Scots) Presbyterian Church in Charleston, SC. On two occasions, Will was the Theologian in Residence - at White Memorial Presbyterian Church in Raleigh and at Covenant Presbyterian Church in Charlotte. Will's civic contributions included many years on the board of Planned Parenthood of Charlotte and life-long participation in the Democratic Party. At his retirement, Will was honored by Davidson College when he received the Distinguished Alumnus Award in 1994 and had a leadership scholarship created and named in his honor - The William Holt Terry Scholarship. Will called the scholarship his most significant legacy. All who know him recognize that what he meant by legacy was not the named scholarship itself but the students who won the scholarship and, as a result, were able to come to Davidson and receive a strong liberal arts education rooted in the Reformed Tradition. And what a legacy worthy of his name it is: eighty Terry scholars and fellows who have been mentored by "D.T.," welcomed to his house for home cooked meals, and inspired by him. The legacy continues with the countless young folks who will be "Terrys" in the future and who will go on to emulate Will's life of service and leadership. Predeceased by his parents and several uncles, aunts, and cousins on whom he doted, Will Terry leaves behind current and former students, former parishioners, respectful colleagues, devoted Holt and Terry cousins, loving caregivers, and literally hundreds of close friends, all grateful for his love and life. We will miss his Egg Nog parties, conversations around the dinner table, tales regaled on the porch, couples counseling before weddings, baptisms of children, Davidson reunion gatherings on the deck, Thelemite Christmas parties around the fire, tomatoes and corn from his gardens, discussions in his study after Davidson Trustee meetings, loud cheers at Wildcat games, a little gin or bourbon after a particularly challenging day at the office, Thanksgiving dinners, the Sunday School lessons and inspiring sermons, his visits to our homes, his masterful and comforting prayers at funerals, his incisive wit, sharp mind, the tears and the laughter. Simply, we will miss Will. On May 2, 2015, at 1:00 p. m, we will celebrate Will's life and his faith during the Witness to the Resurrection service at Davidson College Presbyterian Church. A reception will follow in the Lilly Family Gallery at the college. Will would appreciate that memorials be made to the William Holt Terry Scholarship at Davidson College, Box 7173, Davidson, NC 28035.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Mar. 28 to Mar. 29, 2015.

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Tait (Davidson) Flint

May 18, 2015

I was very honored to have Will serve as my Godfather. When I was little, I called him "God", which of course he didn't correct. I remember games of tag with him as a child and later, he married my husband and me. I will never forget this amazing man and special servant of God. We love and miss you "God"!

Paul

April 3, 2015

Gone but will not be forgotten, may God bless and comfort the family by means of prayers and the loving support of family and friends

Harold Davis

March 30, 2015

Will was my first Cousin.We played together when we were very young. He was a very positive and special person. Davidson was his family and his home.

March 30, 2015

Will was the son of my 5th grade teacher Laura Holt Terry. She spoke of Will often and I'm sure she was very proud of him. His wonderful traits came from his dear mother who made everyone feel special.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Ann Eubanks

Joe Leman

March 29, 2015

But for his compassionate and loving direction, who knows what path I would have taken. I feel that the world's median for all that is good has been lowered. The blessings he gave to all, and the memories we hold dear are unwaveringly eternal. Our deep grief will lessen in time as we all remember him fondly. The Lord has a welcomed him graciously into the palace. Goodbye my dear friend.

Joe Peel

March 29, 2015

Will was a positive influence on many Davidson students lives .
I'll always remember him.

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